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Romance › Re: Who Was The First Guy/chic You Had A Crush On? by Cuddlemii: 7:02am On Jul 20, 2011

toba:
wheres cuddlemii? I think i have crushes on her
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Romance › Re: Define Love In A Sentence. by Cuddlemii: 6:39am On Jul 20, 2011

andy1:
cuddlemii,

yes dts me wink

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 6:19am On Jul 20, 2011

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=715327.msg8749859#msg8749859 date=1311118158]^^^Thats a very sad one, I saw the thread you opened. I really wonder what made her do that, a very good looking gal. The kinda news we get these days are scary. But why are you guilty? Was she your friend, I mean you didnt give her attention while she was alive? I dont understand sweetie[/quote]I don't know her oh. I just went to bed early & tired. Sorry, gud morning.

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=715327.msg8749878#msg8749878 date=1311118440]@cuddleme and high chief, so what happened to depression?
[/quote]Babes is he your man too? Are we occupying the same shoes? Cos its obvious I joined on here after u. grin

Anyways gud mornin to u.

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=715327.msg8749917#msg8749917 date=1311118917]^^^Pls if you want to address us together next time use ChiefCuddlesmii. Depression is for the other thread and my baby is down, the news of that gal hit her bad[/quote]Lolz at her gal. hmm at baby

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 11:36pm On Jul 19, 2011

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=715327.msg8749589#msg8749589 date=1311114769]^^^My love, you cant believe that I slept off after that Egusi soup and pounded yam, am just waking up. Yes, I did, hope you like the flowers. I will catch a grenade for you sweetie, you are the best[/quote]I feel guilty. Some unilag babe killed herself cos her guy left her.

Crime › Re: Motun: Unilag Grad Committed Suicide-17th Of July After Her Boyfriend Jilted Her by Cuddlemii(op): 11:28pm On Jul 19, 2011

^^Dude aren't U taking this thing to another level. Kool down abeg, dont make me laugh at serz matter abeg

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 11:26pm On Jul 19, 2011

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=715327.msg8749517#msg8749517 date=1311113905]We are good with the bolded. Your love is killing me oh[/quote]Just with Egusi soup and pounded yam. You must have really enjoyed the meal. Were you the one that sent those flowers earlier today?

Crime › Re: Motun: Unilag Grad Committed Suicide-17th Of July After Her Boyfriend Jilted Her by Cuddlemii(op): 11:05pm On Jul 19, 2011

^^ I am just hearing it now. I bet I'm stale. The babe is not bad so why the suicide?

Crime › Re: Motun: Unilag Grad Committed Suicide-17th Of July After Her Boyfriend Jilted Her by Cuddlemii(op): 10:49pm On Jul 19, 2011

A friend of hers had this to say:

Quote from: Indigogirl on July 19, 2011, 12:35:23 PM

First of all, I actually know the deceased and she did not end her life because of a man as is being reported. she suffered from acute depression and a break up with her Bf amongst other things added to her depression. she had a lot going for her and was always a bubbly extroverted girl, full of life. she went to jand last year for her masters and started feeling very low and depressed alot but no one thot it to be anything serious. she later deferred and moved back to naija. on her return she cut off from her friends, deleted almost all her bb contacts and would not return anyone's calls, she hardly left her house and just felt detached and abandoned. she craved attention but no one had her time really. most of her best friends are scattered round the globe and the few here had issues of their own. she lived with her sister and soon later started giving her attitude which caused a rift between them. she didnt want people knowing she was back in the country and kept to herself. Nobody thot anything of it.

On saturday she said she was going to a friend's house and instead locked herself in her room and hung herself. her body was only discovered yesterday Monday. Funny how people center on one aspect of your life and focus on it. while the break up obviously added to her depression, it was not the sole cause of her suicide. she had family problems, had an operation to remove a cyst and was just generally disturbed by a lot of things. she was to start a new job with MTN yesterday monday and her father had recently bought her a new car.

http://www.naijapals.com/modules/naijapals/romance/rip-unilag-graduate-motunrayo-commits-suicide-after-her-boyfriend-jilter-her/msg2278784/?PHPSESSID=cuf7v80l1u02ptrn2ced01vsu6

Crime › Motun: Unilag Grad Committed Suicide-17th Of July After Her Boyfriend Jilted Her by Cuddlemii(op): 10:45pm On Jul 19, 2011

The mass communications graduate from university of Lagos (UNILAG) by name Motunrayo was found hanging by herself today morning, supposedly because her boyfriend called off their wedding and walked out of her life.

She just got a job with MTN and is undergoing her training in Lagos.

Here are some links to the story and her pics

http://talkofnaija.com/News/newsdetailsone.aspx?NewsId=9D7EC173-B04C-4555-9DCA-8719B4BF4443

http://teminikan..com/2011/07/unilag-graduate-motunrayo-commits.html

http://www.naijapals.com/modules/naijapals/romance/rip-unilag-graduate-motunrayo-commits-suicide-after-her-boyfriend-jilter-her/msg2276515/?PHPSESSID=s4l4mvsi8tg1jjep56fqdr3it6

Romance › Re: Define Love In A Sentence. by Cuddlemii: 9:36pm On Jul 19, 2011

pendo89:
love is death

see how the above poster is getting consumed by its flames.

Where have u been dear. I'm in a good mood now cool

Romance › Re: Define Love In A Sentence. by Cuddlemii: 8:38pm On Jul 19, 2011

Love can hit you off guard and you start acting strange. My love mode is back again, I am weak to my feet.

Love exist and consumes you like flames, you just don't feel the pain because of what is in front of you

Pain for him is worth a million smiles. I'm loosing it

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Unpleasant Goodbye To My Nairaland Love by Cuddlemii(op): 8:18pm On Jul 19, 2011

I am happy I am happy I am happy

Poem coming soon to describe my heart

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Am Missing You by Cuddlemii(op): 8:03pm On Jul 19, 2011

This is my corner. Share it with me here. No one comes here.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Am Missing You by Cuddlemii(op): 7:48pm On Jul 19, 2011

toba:
wheres the author of this thread? i like to meet her

https://i1233.photobucket.com/albums/ff390/ShaneDawg021/oprahhands.pngis t his how she looks

Toba, its like you won some money cos you have been all jolly jolly today.

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 6:58pm On Jul 19, 2011

toba:
https://i1233.photobucket.com/albums/ff390/ShaneDawg021/cloonyretard.png https://bestsmileys.com/aliens/9.gif https://bestsmileys.com/aliens/8.gif[img]http://bestsmileys.com/aliens/3.gif https://i1233.photobucket.com/albums/ff390/ShaneDawg021/keenanmustache.png https://i1233.photobucket.com/albums/ff390/ShaneDawg021/keenanmustache.png https://i1233.photobucket.com/albums/ff390/ShaneDawg021/samcassellhappy.png

Are these people also on 2go? if yes im not registering on 2go again

Whariz it?

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 6:57pm On Jul 19, 2011

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=715327.msg8747961#msg8747961 date=1311096175]errrrrm errrrm errrrmm I have called the dealer and he will soon arrive with your toy.

Dont give her such website again pls, else you want my wahala

Good you got irritated and pls dont visit there again. You know you are too beautiful so you have to be close to me all the time[/quote]Wait High Chief and Cuddlemii is not rhyming or sounding well. Need to get us a romantic name. Ok I got one. We will be Candyboy & Cuddlemii or ChiefCuddlesmii.

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 5:39pm On Jul 19, 2011

@ mumu

Hiss I got irritated jor. I am not registering.

Its still Fb, Nland, twit & cuddles (None has been able to oppress these social networking sites)

Family › Re: Urgent Advice Needed For My Marriage by Cuddlemii: 5:29pm On Jul 19, 2011

Hmmm.

Ok I will try to drop my bashing ways and speak logically.

First of all, dating and courtship is about getting to know each others strengths, weaknesses and deciding if both of you can tolerate it or you both have to take a walk. You will always know a clean and hard working man without staying with him. When ever you visit his place, he will like to wash his clothes himself as he fears that if someone else does it for him, it wont be clean. He is the type that pick grains of rice on the floor. He is also the one that would brush his carpet, clean and iron clothes etc. So if your hubby is not helping out with the house chores, you knew he was like that when you guyz were dating. If you are clean & hardworking, its stays with you. That's why you see people of 60 or 70 still entering the kitchen and doing things for themselves.

The mistake people make is thinking that you can change your partner after marriage or marriage would make them more matured or more responsible. This is not solely true. The safest thing is to marry your friend that both you understand yourselves and are willing to compromise even if you both would live in a 1 room apartment as long as you both have peace, can compromise and have a happy home.

I don't think there is much you can do except you want to start nagging just after 1 year. You have to find a way to relieve yourself of stress. If its cooking on a weekly basis rather than cooking on a daily basis, put the food in plastics and store in the freezer to warm everyday. If its cleaning the house and maintaining it for days since there is no toddler in your house. Just beg him not to scatter the house and show him where to keep things. If its for you to be a housewife and have a flexible business then do that.

Not all men are sensitive or exposed to stuffs like these. He is probably a traditionalist or a cultural man. This is even a minor issue compared to what others are going through. You should even thank God that he is not a drunk. So hang in there.

All these things should have been addressed before the I dos. This is medicine after death. I, for one like intelligent men that can cook, look after themselves and are very realistic. I don't want a perfect man or SU but a man who is liberal, understanding and simple.

Just take it cool remember you are the woman of the house.

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Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 4:50pm On Jul 19, 2011

whobemumu:
ok cuddlemi

this your handle fit make person wan 2 go

tried the site after see ing it on naira land

seems to be the casual sex craigslist of nigeria

hope say ppl never start to lost and carry crabs and other delicacies from there

Please send me the link so I can investigate

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 4:30pm On Jul 19, 2011

whobemumu:
[size=18pt]THREAD OFFICIALLY DERAILED [/size]

Says who. Its still about loving to go. Luv 2go can mean anything.

Romance › Re: Office/working Class Ladies by Cuddlemii: 1:37pm On Jul 19, 2011

@islam rules

When I saw Abdulmutallab's lips and cute eyes, I was like nah, this guy looks to good to die just because of his islamic beliefs.

Whenever I see Okada riders that are willing to die rather than take the regular safety precautions, I would be like nah Muslims are smart people maybe the Okada riders are just not exposed.

You are a disgrace to men and your religion. I didn't even get the subject matter behind your post. You are talking about working class ladies, but the main character in your story is an industrial attachment student. Why would you use an hungry IT student who obviously is collecting stipends to judge every working class lady. You even went as far as saying that their pregnancies are for their bosses (how is that your flimsy business and what does that have to do with your urge to Be Intimate with an hungry IT staff). Anyways you have called yourself a psycho so that explains a lot.

I see you grew up reading & writing arabic all your life at Ile Kewu (arabic name for arabic school) that is why translation is hard for you. Unfortunately, this section is for people who relate in English. I suggest you enroll in an adult education that has men as its tutors to avoid a scandal of you sleeping-with your female tutors and expecting the babies to belong to the principal of the school.

I will only pick out one good thing from your post, you called me a human rights activist. Thanks dear. I will ignore the LovePeddler part cos in your language, it might mean I'm cute wink

.I blame it on the Language barrier in the economy.

FYI Stop using words like Comprehension skills, mental viability, jobless, poo diggers. If only you knew the meaning of these words, you would know that you are a defaulter of all of them. Grab a dictionary, a pencil, an eraser and blade, you have a lot to learn, I didn't say a crayon oh!

Unfortunately I don't have time to trade insults with you cos I don't have a money-bag boss to father a child for me so unlike your sex-trade baby breeding office, the women here have to work to earn money.

Romance › Re: Will She Kill Me If I Dont Marry Her? 9yrs No Be Beans O! by Cuddlemii: 10:01am On Jul 19, 2011

Highbros:
Do you Smoke!?

I should ask you that question. You must have been so stoned that's why you could not notice that your babe was blowing up. You waited till she became an elephant before crying for help when you must have been sober. You were so high that you didn't know when 9 years passed too. You better sniff enough before you do the break up or u would be broken when she sits on you.

I'm sure she is on crack too for her to stick with a junkie for 9 years only to become a fat version of alice in wonderland.

Have u left her yet or u are still looking for your dealer?

Romance › Re: Office/working Class Ladies by Cuddlemii: 9:21am On Jul 19, 2011

islamrules:
Do these naija ladies think we men are fools? There is this girl (between age 25 and 30) in my office that has started growing sudden interest in me. This is obvious from how she interact with me, her comments, constantly looking for a chat with me, inviting me for dinner and launch, love text messages and some other signs. I later gave in hoping to chop and clean my mouth but recently, she told one of her friends that she wants me for a serious relationship.

She came in through IT and she has being going out with her superiors, MD, GM, supervisors and married men. Rumour has it that one GM has the largest share in the car she is using. Truly, she is beautiful, outspoken and confident.
She is so popular among married men in our company. That is how most of these office/working class ladies do in Lagos. She is so proud. She date strictly married men. Single and young guys cant even look at her.

But, suddenly, I think she is realizing she is not getting any younger and I dont know why the hellll she think I am her rescue ground.
First, I detest these office girls, they always dress in a provocative manner to the office, they do anything for money, favoritism, promotion, influence on the management and a lots more.

I even have this belief that if you marry them, they are going to be giving u their boss pregnancy.

Why am I posting this here? I need advice ? I am seeing my self as a phsycoooo bcuz of my hatred for these girls. Is it normal to go into relationship with them ? Is their way of life a norm in our society or I am just a jerkkk who hate other people. Is my decision about her write ?
I need candid advice, I dont mind your use of abusive words, just make sure you post something reasonable.

islamrules:
I wanted to eat her punnnie, but she has another hidden agenda.
Thanks for ya comment sha

These above statements triggered the lack of comprehension skills on my part. Why waste these precious thread trying to explain what you needed one line in saying. How does office/working class ladies relate to the rubbish you wrote. Grow some balls and man up, babes are not attracted to wimps like you.

Please read these two posts of yours comprehensively and be your own critic.

My opinion is this, you need a manual on how to handle women. Google is comprehensive enough to teach you.

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 9:02am On Jul 19, 2011

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=715327.msg8743489#msg8743489 date=1311039630]^^^^This is why I will keep loving you, I will love you forever + 1day. You really know how to feed me. You are the best cos other gals, after eating their ~~rubbish~~ food trust me you not gonna make it fast enough to the toilet[/quote]Thanx dear

. I'm glad that my services are appreciated wink

. Its time to pay up. Where is my Bentley? kiss

Romance › Re: Marriages More Satisfying When Wives Are Thinner by Cuddlemii: 7:58am On Jul 19, 2011

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=715802.msg8743301#msg8743301 date=1311035764][quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=715802.msg8743315#msg8743315 date=1311036274]ouch. we skinny girls are fine with our weight too. abi wetin come concern ezekiel now. dry bone ko. wet fat ni
everybody should be proud of what they have.

jada pinkett smith ain't bad either. neither is our classy oluchi onwuegba.[/quote]Do u know the meaning of dry bones. I am not talking about slim people. Jada pinkett is even too ripped and fit to be bony. Oluchi is tall and not bones. Obviously slim is healthy and sexy too. I'm only answering the op for his ignorance about size in marriage or romance.[/quote]

Romance › Re: Marriages More Satisfying When Wives Are Thinner by Cuddlemii: 1:29am On Jul 19, 2011

This your methodology or whatever is hypocritical.

Sounds like u r justifying your involvement with a dry bone.

Yes its not good to be fat because of health reasons and the ageing factor but I prefer meat on those bones. Good bosoms, arse, hips and curves that would distinguish a babe from a guy & make dem skinny jeans fit perfectly.

Why do guys go crazy about Beyonce, J-lo, Eva Mendez, Kim Kard etc they are curvaceous and sexy. There is always something to play with. Being in between is ok. But dry bone is so boring. I can't even feel comfortable as a bone.

I don't even think men like feeling iron and metal when they are romancing their babes. I think you are just frustrated.

Romance › Re: Dumped By My Girlfriend For Another Guy If It Were You What Would You Do? by Cuddlemii: 1:06am On Jul 19, 2011

Its becoming obvious that dumping can swing for the girl or the guy. If it doesnt work, its not meant to be and the right person would come for the guy/girl.

Romance › Re: Serious Advice Pleeease by Cuddlemii: 1:03am On Jul 19, 2011

Y'all sure know how to pick them. Makes me wonder what y'all are really made of.

Some people get dumped, some get burnt. Diff folks for diff pple.

My advice is this never go into a relationship or stay in a relationship for the wrong reasons and let ur partner know on time dt ur future plans does not include him or her.

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 12:53am On Jul 19, 2011

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=715327.msg8743204#msg8743204 date=1311032998]^^^"ONLY" is higher than No 1, so now run to the house and make me good egusi soup, before I unveil your ~~Bentley~~ gift to you[/quote]Do u want pounded yam or what? Do you want Goat meat, stock fish, dry fish, snail and cow leg in it? Ok let me give you fish pepper soup for starters while I finish cooking

Romance › Re: I Just Luv 2go by Cuddlemii: 12:37am On Jul 19, 2011

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=715327.msg8743170#msg8743170 date=1311031883]I was away for just a short period of time and here you are flirting with the guys. Who are all these ~~small~~ boys calling you sweet names?[/quote]You know in Nigeria, a Chief is more respected. Whats higher than No 1?

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