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yinkalink:
Lol
Una don chase her awae now. Meanwhile conos u‘r now OYO, wish u success inn your endeavours,v done my part.

No I didnt run away. I also didn't take you guys serious. U joke section peeps have a good way of amusing people . Dyt said she is in d joke section too.


Hope u r fine sha. I think the joke is now stale jor so ask Jaybee to close these thread. I can ask him myself sha.

Bye dear

I don't know Y u are advocating for the babe. Even in his tone, you should sense the disgust and disrespect. I suggest he breaks up with her asap.

@kpolli

I know u do baby

Please let him leave her or else the babe wld suffer.

He wld always want young blood. She is 28, let her use maximum of 2 years to get a good hubby abeg.

If he sticks with babe and smallie claims to be pregnant, another psychological trauma for fat babe.

Since she is fine according to op, after weight loss she wld gradually pick up

@sexykillz
Ive not been avoiding u. Ur statement just spoilt everything.

Check this link below, so u are not as observant n intelligent as I thought

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-714139.192.html#msg8739107

Ucheosefoh:
I have a chick to toast this afternoon I will use this 190 new method on her lol

Its ur type that copies and paste the exact points from someones exam ans sheet.

Why not wait for a lot of ladies to comment so u create ur method from that.

190 is not in a babe's mind. He is writing based on assumptions & experience.

Some babes know all the tricks and wld even play u proper.

Sample the opinion of the sex you are targeting, that's the best way to play your game. Also study the babe u want to toast as well, once u identify her weakness, then u wld get her all over u. Don't just jump dey toast babe, confuse her and when u hit, u are taking her off guards.

Otondo!!!

@kpolli

Thot u were a supporter of women. Please Let him leave her. He will never be contented and the babe wld leave in fear forever. Let him go to smallie. Do u think its easy to loose weight in 1 week, he might get impatient and from the look of things time is not on his side.

Op should leave her alone, trust me she would loose that weight in a month.

@mazamaze

I don't wish karma gets to him O. It won't. Karma only got to the babe, why wld the babe stay with a man for 9 years without anything to show for it. Secondly why did she add weight before the marriage, u must always be marketable so dt u can replace easily. Sometimes karma deals with the stupid ones. Some pple are smart enuf to weave it.

@op

That explains your absence. You have gone to where u wont be dethroned. hmmmm

women lie, men lie

some lies are meant to protect your partner

But if its a lie that involves him acquiring stuffs or owning luxuries, this one I cant stand. Boasting & bragging irritates me.

@ showstopper

Ok that's fair enough.

@ mazamaza

Funny enough nothing might happen to the op. The ways of men are not the ways of God. Maybe they were not meant for each other but they held on to each other. You can not cheat or re-write destiny. She would meet her own man.

If he stays with her, she would wish they never got married cos he would frustrate her.  No man would just wake up and say he doesn't want a girl again after 9years if he had not thought everything through. They have played the parts they had to play in each others life. There is nothing anyone can do about it. Life is hard but hey, we are still in it!

@op
How old is the lady u r leaving? How old is the smallie? Please what does the lady u r leaving do for a living?

@showstopa

Didn't the babe consider the age difference and all. Its either she waits for him to catch up or she leaves him and start scouting for another. Well as you said, its op's choice.

I know its important

I know it was ordained by God

I know its in the bible

I know its the in-thing now

I know its a respectable thing to do

But is it worth dying for, killing for, waiting 9 years for, asking questions about it at 32 & abandoning your masters ambitions to pursue it? Why do people go into it for the wrong reasons?

I implore all the counselors, judges, feminist, realist, defenders etc to shed more light on the institute of marriage. When is it wrong? when is it right? The pressures involved it? The matured age to get into it? And the best way to go about it. How can people get it, is it sold?

What are the causes of failed marriages? Love or Money, which is a major determinant in marriage? Are people compelled to go into it or they desire it?

@udohkpa

At least you were able to tell us your mistake. You were looking for man of God.

That is the problem with women. I don't know who brain washed you people that SU like brothers are the best.

Instead of u to have gone for who loves you and who is straight forward, you will be looking for deception & lies

Well I pray you meet the right man sha.

Also as a calabar chick, I advice you to go for prayers. R u sure u r not a mermaid or queen of the coast. My cuzin is one and they have refused to let her go. Cos eastern babes r always involved in water sturvs with d long hair, light complexion et all.

M M M:
gst 101 

Dude so u went to covenant uni. no wonder wey u dey always talk out of context. na d babes dere sabi

edited for privacy sake. im sure you would understand

@op

Just viewed ur profile and found this:

"Come lets drink garri together. If na only me u know say i no go care".

Guys should stop giving girls too much attention which makes their head swell so much and compels them to be insulting at times.

So true

But the hidden truth is, when the attention of guys towards the girls decreases, there will be a subsequent increase in attention and curiosity of girls towards guys. Newton said to every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction. It doesn't apply to physics alone, romance is also included. GIRLS BELIEVE THE ARE NOT CHEAP.

So true

LET US SHOW THEM THAT GUYS ARE NOT CHEAP TOO.

So false. Nothing happens to a man that is cheap. U can get expensive anytime any day till you are 400yrs old. Its a man's world.

When a girl has stayed for 1 year and no guy has come around, she will have a rethink.

So false or Maybe. It depends on the girl. Some women still have toasters till they die. Its all about the stuff u r made of and packaging. I would never get too desperate to go for just anything, will rather wait for more than a year. But I will re-think if you posses all the xteristics I want in a man

LesbianBoy:
Cuddleyourself bro y r u taking it personal, to d extent u went and start asking ya mum,cousin,etc has it occured to u dat the poster cud be lying, lol

I am female oh. I have said this like 50millions times on Nland. Im not bro, dude, guy or man. Geez!

I just dey pity the babe na. haba

Is the op not Clifford Orji?

Highbros:
I'm not stingy.i use to give her 20k monthly to take care of herself not that she doesn't demand after that.i exercise regularly and ll be very happy to see my girl join me,but due to laziness she always refuses to join me (you know fat ppl na).the worst thing is that whenever i mention exercise,she gets embarassed,no matter how romantic i put it cos she knows my feellings.because of her even bought a book on weight loss but she doesn't go close to it. She is a girl,she is suppose to know how to take care of herself cos she knows me more than i think she does.

Ok leave her now. Its not that hard, is it? U sound all confident. Tell her tomorrow that u r done, u have a smallie who exercises and she is too fat. Its simple. No fuzz

My mom said the babe must be a liability or a clinging babe without self worth

Because if she could hold her own then this won't be happening.

Women need to be all career and resourceful so that u don't get kicked around like a piece of garbage. What was she up to for 9 years?

Men this story pained me oh. I had to tell all the women in my house. Na wa oh.

I can imagine her reaction and all. 9 freaking murder F years. How old was I nine years ago sef? What? What class was I in? What have I achieved in that 9 years?

Ok I will keep my cool. Its all new to me, sorry everyone, 9 years. Abasi akan!

@op

You are a very selfish man. How did she stay with you for 9 years without marriage. Love without language.

Didn't you know when you were releasing semen into her or giving her pills to take, that it can cause her to blow up.

Her being big is not enough excuse to dump her. Its even better to threaten her and you would be amazed how she would hit the gym so as not to loose you.

Beside you sef you are a stingy man. So all those adverts for weight loss all over the place .i.e. edmark, body magic etc. You can't purchase one for her or even accompany her to the gym. Why did you wait till the weight got to this point?

Didn't you tell her from the beginning of the relationship your likes and dislikes. It means you both didn't know each other from the scratch. That is why its best to be compatible with who ever you are dating. You have found one smallie that is bursting your head, you are looking for faults in your babe.

Well its better you let her go now because you will always look for excuses to get rid of her. Let her find love else where but mind you the law of Karma would definitely get you. Not 1, Not 2, Not 3, Not 4, Not 5, Not 6, Not 8 years. Bros, you are callous abeg.

lolz enjoy then

@op

Im not fighting u. I just use dt kind of tone all the time. Please guard ur heart and do things right.

pendo89:
upendo93?
never heard of her!
cuddle

U r occupying her. Give me back my Upendo at once

cuddle dt. ur former specialty

I cant believe Dyt was dating this Gb102. Ewwwww.

James, u have this one under ur sacks men. The guy aint worth it

Time is money. Money is a necessary evil.

The time you use to bother about rubbish, people use that time to make money. Go figure

If your partner is acting up, why not channel your energy to your own development. Except of course your father is Dangote, Babagida or Abacha. If not, ask those ones they would tell you the mountains they crossed to get to where they are. There is time for everything.

How come people don't know how to let go. If you can't say it, write it. If you are stressing yourself on your well being, that's worth it but on other peoples headache, you are likely to die wretched.

190:

Count 3 women here that are decent

BABE, rokiatu and chi baby all ate my money

becos i nor talk  

Thats not true. That Rokiatu is a disciplinarian. Chi-baby has expensive shoes on in her profile pix. Babe! is simply just d babe so its a fat lie.

They are all decent but I won't want to consume all the space with my post. Examples are:  Upendo93, Mamagee, Iyatrustee, Dyt & Goldie

I need to know where all u nairaland men keep these girls from

Y'all sure know how to keep dem

Upon all the single decent attractive sexy self sufficient babes here on NL & naija at large. What are u doing with money hungry vampires.

The painful thing is even the way these babes request for the money.

@op

I think u need to check urself out. There are men that get laid on a daily basis if they just need sex. Its likely u are either ugly,u have no class, no game, no swag and no experience or self worth to even be dating dt kind of chick.