₦airaland Forum

sweetcheecks: What is sad but reallity is that a significant number of men in the continent or world even think exactly like this.

@snthesis, you are a reflection of a painful truth!

slimyem: When i'm sleeping or very busy ...yes!

DailyNews: Everyone is here now counseling the op and blaming her believing all is well with their own marriage, relationship or date, nope! see, nemesis is real, karma is real, nature pays back every evil deed we do. most ladies now married were once jumping around town with aristo married me just to make money, wear flashy clothes, own flashy phones, go flashy places and wht have u. when they were students, they hardly stayed in their hostel, they were busy answering HOT CHICK, jumping from one city and top-rank hotel to another and enjoying the fun of spinsterhood, now they are married they now want men to be decent just because they are now married. you cannot eat you cake and have it, u can never win every battle of life; you win some and loose some, thats life. track back on your life when single, did you engage in indecency of such degree or any? this may be a pay back. for some good ladies who lived a good life and still get cheated by their hubby, you also need to look inwardly into your past life or that of your hubby before marriage. those men you as a single lady (not just the op, but to all ladies encountering similar thing), were they not somebody's husband? some girls will claim they never knew he was married, how would you not know when u have decided that the only men u want to go out with are men over 39, 40, etc just because of your selfish desire for money & material things, so u now want to believe that all men of that age bracket are single waiting for cindy like you, daydreamers, wake up! In summary, if you are a lady here reading this and shouting and thinking your own marriage or relationship is the best, then you are fooling yourself because you are just lucky that u haven't caught yours, pray u don't cos virtually 95% of financially able married men in Nigeria of today cheat on their wives, you know why? because the Nigerian girls from inception have taught Nigerian men to believe that money is equal to their love, no matter who you are. they have taught men to believe that so long as they have money, they can sleep with any girl of their choice in Nigeria with ease and thats what men grow up to believe even when they get married, they still want to exercise that freedom. Until Nigerian girls start to show less interest in men's money and material things and start to let men believe again that money cannot win them all girls they desire, this will become the order of the day, and more homes will be built on infidelity. So the re-orientation should start from the single ladies, change your ways now, don't think u can sleep around with men for money, job, favour, etc and then smartly walk your way into marriage and still enjoy a smooth home, never, expect a natural pay back, whether u turn to a sister-mother-mary born again plus or not, u must pay small...so start now to correct your mistakes so u don't end up in a deadly marriage, and deciding to stay single for life isn't the answer cos u will realize the demerits later in life. so ladies live a good life when u are single, stop being too desperate about money and fun, stop allowing peer-pressure to lure you into indecent lifestyle. stop following what friends are doing and be yourself cos when the nemesis comes, your friends may be no more!

Johndoe100: @OP
Why would you believe that most or even a large number of posters on a family board are either unmarried or newly weds?

JallowBah: https://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m904iuzZLA1reohf3o1_500.jpg

Ah, my sweet hubby.

hornipipe: am always prepared sweery