cute-ass:

@zandra1
Girl, i'm so happy for you, big congrats from a fellow HIJC graduate. I could personally say i relate to your note of never thinking you'd be getting married at this young age, but you have to agree with me when i say that the presence of the right one in your life, eliminates and erases all possible doubts you ever had or haboured. You start seeing great reasons to why you should do what you're doing. Your mails suddenly stopped coming, guess now i know what or should i say who you were devoting your time to. In more ways than one, our guys are alike, so you'd have to bear with whatever might seem to be a repitition of what you've written. Its not duplication, just a coincidence I wish you the best of marriage life can offer and more

@almondjoy
Thanks for your advice and support to young couples, its quite encouraging. I have come to terms with and realised the fact that whatever things you want to try out with "boyfriend[b]sssssss[/b]" in the name of "dating and having fun", you can achieve with "him/her" . . . so long its the right person, you'll never get bored

@topic
We just got engaged, i and my hubby and he's just the best, second to none. Couldn't have asked God for more, and now that he's shown me how it should be done, i couldn't settle for less He lives in England, and i live all up in Norway. We grab every slightest opportunity to travel to each other, and the thought of us being together soonest, living and sharing life forever makes it easier to wait, most esp. he's more than worth every single second of it.

The question would have been so much easier if the topic was "what don't you fancy about your hubby" Cos then the answer would have been "nothing".
I could never write down all, but hey, i can list up a few.

When God created him, he made him good looking, but his dimples tickle my fancy so much. I can confess the pic. of him in my bedroom is a side-view Cos those dimples just keep me glowing.lol. The way he shaves his beard and side hairs would  trip you too. I just happily smile at the way he walks all macho-man when he's dressed in jeans, but get thrilled by the way all that changes to elegance and sophistication when he's dressed in suit and boy'o'boy does he look good on suit.

But then beauty is not all about what meets the eye, what lies in the inside counts as much and let's just say he's got what it takes and more to make me TRIP bigtime.

To everyone who knows him, he is the most caring, generous, friendly, jovial, God-fearing, respectful, loving, responsible, guy you can think of. Now let's zoom to what particularly makes my heart melt just thinking about him . . . shall we?

I trip at the way he reminds me we've not prayed before a meal, when we wake in the morning, or before we go to sleep.

I trip at the way he always wakes me up with a peck, and as i turn around (if i lay with my back to him and his arm across me) or lift up my head (if i lay with my head on his chest), get a big kiss planted on my lips, i can't help but smile.

I trip at the way he carries my handbag wherever we are or go, not minding whatever's going on in the minds of his peers.

I trip at the way he sits me down and takes off my shoes when we return home.  The way after we've walked out and on our way home, i start complaining of hurting feet from heels, he'd squat and have me climb his back and he'll carry me home (i love the smiling faces we get on his street). The tripping continues as he massages my hurting toes immediately we get home, or before we go to bed, and yes he places tiny pecks on them while at it )you'd never know what love could do to hurting body parts after you've let your partner touch them )

I trip at the way he flaunts me to friends, family and even strangers, especially when they go "his girlfriend", trust him to stand them corrected "its fiancee, excuse you", the way he kisses and pecks me constantly doesnt help my "tripping" process. He holds me hands every minute of the day while we're out . . he just makes me feel so safe in his arms

I trip at the way he always reminds me that he loves me, even though i already know. Even across a crowd, he'd mime it.

I trip at the way even after we've said our goodnights before he leaves for his night shifts, he'll call at aproximately my bedtime to say goodnight again and remind me that he loves me more than i'll ever know

I trip at the way he makes plans for our future and kids. The way he defends me when i'm loosing in a game with his siblings. The way he's stolen right into my parents' and entire family's hearts.

I trip at the way he always assists me in the kitchen, but i trip more at the way he'd plead i leave what i'm doing for some seconds Cos his system doesn't feel like he's kissed me enough for the day, and he can't hold out any longer. Believe it or not, in the middle of meal preparation, we'd kiss for minutes on end like there was no tomorrow. I know we could leave it for later but its the spontaneous action in it that's got me tripping BTW did i remember to mention he's a fantastic kisser

I trip at the way he shed tears whenver he feels like he's hurt me, how sorry he shows he is . . what i find most tripping is actually not the apology but the fact that i never have to tell him where he went wrong. He has a mind of figuring it out all on his own, all he needs is  a couple of minutes to recall previous incidents . The way he starts calling all the pet names in he world when he realises i'm mad, or the way when i want to drop the phone on him Cos i'm upset, he goes "honey, its your baby talking" . . gosh, that has a special way of melting my heart.

I trip at the way after a whole arguement where i'm pleading he let me pay for something, he now says "ok", and before i know it, the money is replaced in my purse, and when i go "honey, but you said i could pay" he replies "yea, but you payed, didnt you?" lol, he's funny! He doesn't mind being there with me while i shop all day, he loves watching me try out stuff.
The way he covers me with his jacket when i'm lightly dressed and it starts getting chilly, how he has to escort me to the bath every morning and evening when i'm going to shower, give me a kiss at the door, turn back and leave  . . if he doesn't feed me, then we've not started eating and we have to eat from same plate (he's romantic to a fault, i know)

I trip at the way we understand each other, trust and respect and honour and believe each other beyond every reasonable doubt. He doesn't have to convince me on anything, the first time he says it, i believe him with all I have. The level of sincerity and honesty flowing between us, i can't help but trip for. How he tells me i'm so pretty all the time, and each time i can see he's saying it Cos he means it

I trip at the way when we're out walking in the evening and we notice a sign of bad weather coming, we just look at each other and start running all the way home . . i trip at the way we're growing together, beging childish, responsible, a couple, in love, matured,  . . together. I love the way he brings out the whole me in me. With him, all i bring out is all I am, no reservations . . Cos he's me, and i'm him

I just trip at the way he completes me in every meaning of the word . .

. . and i could go on all night!                        PHEWW!!

@almondjoy
Thanks for your advice and support to young couples, its quite encouraging. I have come to terms with and realised the fact that whatever things you want to try out with "boyfriend[b]sssssss[/b]" in the name of "dating and having fun", you can achieve with "him/her" . . . so long its the right person, you'll never get bored

cute-ass:

@zandra1
Girl, i'm so happy for you, big congrats from a fellow HIJC graduate. I could personally say i relate to your note of never thinking you'd be getting married at this young age, but you have to agree with me when i say that the presence of the right one in your life, eliminates and erases all possible doubts you ever had or haboured. You start seeing great reasons to why you should do what you're doing. Your mails suddenly stopped coming, guess now i know what or should i say who you were devoting your time to. In more ways than one, our guys are alike, so you'd have to bear with whatever might seem to be a repitition of what you've written. Its not duplication, just a coincidence I wish you the best of marriage life can offer and more

@almondjoy
Thanks for your advice and support to young couples, its quite encouraging. I have come to terms with and realised the fact that whatever things you want to try out with "boyfriend[b]sssssss[/b]" in the name of "dating and having fun", you can achieve with "him/her" . . . so long its the right person, you'll never get bored

@topic
We just got engaged, i and my hubby and he's just the best, second to none. Couldn't have asked God for more, and now that he's shown me how it should be done, i couldn't settle for less He lives in England, and i live all up in Norway. We grab every slightest opportunity to travel to each other, and the thought of us being together soonest, living and sharing life forever makes it easier to wait, most esp. he's more than worth every single second of it.

The question would have been so much easier if the topic was "what don't you fancy about your hubby" Cos then the answer would have been "nothing".
I could never write down all, but hey, i can list up a few.

When God created him, he made him good looking, but his dimples tickle my fancy so much. I can confess the pic. of him in my bedroom is a side-view Cos those dimples just keep me glowing.lol. The way he shaves his beard and side hairs would  trip you too. I just happily smile at the way he walks all macho-man when he's dressed in jeans, but get thrilled by the way all that changes to elegance and sophistication when he's dressed in suit and boy'o'boy does he look good on suit.

But then beauty is not all about what meets the eye, what lies in the inside counts as much and let's just say he's got what it takes and more to make me TRIP bigtime.

To everyone who knows him, he is the most caring, generous, friendly, jovial, God-fearing, respectful, loving, responsible, guy you can think of. Now let's zoom to what particularly makes my heart melt just thinking about him . . . shall we?

I trip at the way he reminds me we've not prayed before a meal, when we wake in the morning, or before we go to sleep.

I trip at the way he always wakes me up with a peck, and as i turn around (if i lay with my back to him and his arm across me) or lift up my head (if i lay with my head on his chest), get a big kiss planted on my lips, i can't help but smile.

I trip at the way he carries my handbag wherever we are or go, not minding whatever's going on in the minds of his peers.

I trip at the way he sits me down and takes off my shoes when we return home.  The way after we've walked out and on our way home, i start complaining of hurting feet from heels, he'd squat and have me climb his back and he'll carry me home (i love the smiling faces we get on his street). The tripping continues as he massages my hurting toes immediately we get home, or before we go to bed, and yes he places tiny pecks on them while at it )you'd never know what love could do to hurting body parts after you've let your partner touch them )

I trip at the way he flaunts me to friends, family and even strangers, especially when they go "his girlfriend", trust him to stand them corrected "its fiancee, excuse you", the way he kisses and pecks me constantly doesnt help my "tripping" process. He holds me hands every minute of the day while we're out . . he just makes me feel so safe in his arms

I trip at the way he always reminds me that he loves me, even though i already know. Even across a crowd, he'd mime it.

I trip at the way even after we've said our goodnights before he leaves for his night shifts, he'll call at aproximately my bedtime to say goodnight again and remind me that he loves me more than i'll ever know

I trip at the way he makes plans for our future and kids. The way he defends me when i'm loosing in a game with his siblings. The way he's stolen right into my parents' and entire family's hearts.

I trip at the way he always assists me in the kitchen, but i trip more at the way he'd plead i leave what i'm doing for some seconds Cos his system doesn't feel like he's kissed me enough for the day, and he can't hold out any longer. Believe it or not, in the middle of meal preparation, we'd kiss for minutes on end like there was no tomorrow. I know we could leave it for later but its the spontaneous action in it that's got me tripping BTW did i remember to mention he's a fantastic kisser

I trip at the way he shed tears whenver he feels like he's hurt me, how sorry he shows he is . . what i find most tripping is actually not the apology but the fact that i never have to tell him where he went wrong. He has a mind of figuring it out all on his own, all he needs is  a couple of minutes to recall previous incidents . The way he starts calling all the pet names in he world when he realises i'm mad, or the way when i want to drop the phone on him Cos i'm upset, he goes "honey, its your baby talking" . . gosh, that has a special way of melting my heart.

I trip at the way after a whole arguement where i'm pleading he let me pay for something, he now says "ok", and before i know it, the money is replaced in my purse, and when i go "honey, but you said i could pay" he replies "yea, but you payed, didnt you?" lol, he's funny! He doesn't mind being there with me while i shop all day, he loves watching me try out stuff.
The way he covers me with his jacket when i'm lightly dressed and it starts getting chilly, how he has to escort me to the bath every morning and evening when i'm going to shower, give me a kiss at the door, turn back and leave  . . if he doesn't feed me, then we've not started eating and we have to eat from same plate (he's romantic to a fault, i know)

I trip at the way we understand each other, trust and respect and honour and believe each other beyond every reasonable doubt. He doesn't have to convince me on anything, the first time he says it, i believe him with all I have. The level of sincerity and honesty flowing between us, i can't help but trip for. How he tells me i'm so pretty all the time, and each time i can see he's saying it Cos he means it

I trip at the way when we're out walking in the evening and we notice a sign of bad weather coming, we just look at each other and start running all the way home . . i trip at the way we're growing together, beging childish, responsible, a couple, in love, matured,  . . together. I love the way he brings out the whole me in me. With him, all i bring out is all I am, no reservations . . Cos he's me, and i'm him

I just trip at the way he completes me in every meaning of the word . .

. . and i could go on all night!                        PHEWW!!

I know sooner or later you will show up on this thread .

Reading this has both brough tears and laughter, but no one will understand why expect us, Sweetie you are one lucky girl, in fact we are bought lucky .

Have told you countless times "that every disappiontment is a blessing" but this is your own blessing,and am so happy for you. God has given you the most respected, loving, friendly, down to earth man, i can go on on but how will rather save them until your wedding day.

Yea getting married at a young age is scary but it's all worth it especially when marrying the right person, which he sure is LOL I still remember the whole Engagement thing it feel just like yesterday, don't worry sha we got each other back, and am sure God will lead us all through the right path.

And let not talk about kissses, E and I still laugh about the Voicemail, lol i thought we were bad but you guys are worst.

Anyway before I go sha just want to say I love you guys

almondjoy:

This is wonderful!

Any more serious-minded couples in the house?  Good to know that there is blissful matrimony happening in Nairaland.  Praise the Lord, praise the lord!!!!

Congratulations cute-ass!

Boyfriendsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss?  On Narialand or in reality? Never mix the 2 up ok? Even when single, there are boyfriends you just have for good time purposes. . .not for sex.  Not to talk of when you are married.  Like life begins and ends with sexing every Ade, Bashiru, Chike, Dakoru and Ekpeyong! You think say I no get work because I enjoy maself on Nairaland, I have nothing else to do than to go around acquiring some ragamuffins around town as "collectors items" in the name of boyfriendssssssssssssss to shag or dance hip hop hoooray with?  To feel like 18 again or what? Don't under-estimate me ma dear!  Objects in your rear view mirrow may be closer than they appear! Especially on Nairaland.

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Words of wisdom from an almost newly wed.  Come back and talk to me about this boredom of a thingy in like 2 years from when you say I do.

he he he he he he.  

Words of caution ma dear. . .the most successful marriages are those based on realistic expectations from each other.  Not fairy tales. I love your positive way of thinking though. . . please keep it up. It will help on the long run not the short one!

Once again, congratulations and thanks for keeping it real!

tRoOE:

I know sooner or later you will show up on this thread .

Reading this has both brough tears and laughter, but no one will understand why expect us, Sweetie you are one lucky girl, in fact we are bought lucky .

Have told you countless times "that every disappiontment is a blessing" but this is your own blessing,and am so happy for you. God has given you the most respected, loving, friendly, down to earth man, i can go on on but how will rather save them until your wedding day.

Yea getting married at a young age is scary but it's all worth it especially when marrying the right person, which he sure is LOL I still remember the whole Engagement thing it feel just like yesterday, don't worry sha we got each other back, and am sure God will lead us all through the right path.

And let not talk about kissses, E and I still laugh about the Voicemail, lol i thought we were bad but you guys are worst.

Anyway before I go sha just want to say I love you guys

EFOSA VAL:

chai. this is all crap



i think this thread should b closed

adeboo:

Oga o Cuteass - where is that your man from?
Is he Nigeria? Cuase all this is kind of alot o.
Its all good sha when u have someone like that u truly love.

what trips you in a guy is his ability of being a "ladies man"

AHhahaha

Lmfao chai you are mean oh

EFOSA VAL:

chai. this is all crap



i think this thread should b closed

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tRoOE:

His Guidance over me

How he makes sure my breakfast is ready before 7.15am which is always fried yam, stew and chicken drum

The way he spend on me, even though I got my own money

Always himself regardless how anyone feels.

Will go any length to please me, even though am a pain in the ass at time

nwando:

enjoy it now ma dear !
Reality will soon set in and you'll be making 5 babyformulas,junior's breakfast,his food,his mother's,yours and the dog's.
Enjoy the "honeymoon".

Am sure he won't change the way he treats me like his baby
Haba 5 babies hehehe no oh just 2 and am sure his going to help, he enjoys taking care of children,while Mother - in law will be far away . I don't have problem cooking for him, he promised to help me out sometimes in the kitchen