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Omo Eko:
what making your cry

how can you be telling your daughter to go to bed?? as if you don't want my company no more

chiogo:
ok, @ cute-ass. I tried but omo eko said it's a big-ass no. What else to do, u and her own d thread. I give up. I don't feel like goin' to profiles of people i don't know and copyin' and pastin' their pics.It's all good!

i unsderstand dear, let it go but please still contribute orally, if not written. love ya

chiogo:
yeah, we're cool but i felt insulted the way u prolonged the "no". that's my friend right there.

don't be dear! she meant no harm to you, ok? i'm sure she just didn't want the pic.

@ poster (the friend of the second sutor)

well i guess you now have a lot to tell your friend, some advice are more realistic than others but at the end of the day everybody tends to do that which they feel seems more right.

like spoilt said, she likes your friend, but who doesn't like most people,

tell your friend to be sure before making a life-time decision, Cos from where i'm standing right now it seems its not only the lady that has some thinking to do.

Love is something that should be mutual. When not, might be critical and tell your friend to believe me out of experience that he wouldn't want to go into a relationship where he loves the girl, and the girl is still confused whether she loves him or not
i believe things happen for a reason . .was he in her life because they were meant to be?? or because he was supposed to be the one to make her realize what she got in the UK guy?? timw will answer that for them

a forced love is not ideal because i believe love should come naturally, i still don't understand why the pastor would push both into a relationship without a foundation

but please do tell the girl that . even though she might now end up marrying this your friend just because she wants to prove her parents wrong, its not an excuse enough to enter a marriage with ooh, Cos at the long run her parents will be living their lives while she might be at the other corner saying had i known" (afterall all parents want the best for their children, they can be wrong but sometimes, as sad as it might sound they're right too)

and marrying the guy just because in time of confussion she "promised" is not a reason enough either, Cos she might later end up causing pains for both herself and your friend

for all we care, neither of both guys might even be her "supposed husband", all the same they should both be 100% sure of what they're going into ooh i know why i'm saying this ooh, the rate of divorce is increasing by the week and it pains my soul to se it happen

though things that are meant are meant to always end up being, atimes we don't give it time to happen
i've seen 1001 people on this forum saying they now realize they chose their spouses out of confussion, or because they thought they'll later develope love or because they thought things will later be ths and that

i won't want them to go down the same drain, so all parties should be careful

but @chiogo

that still doesn't mean you can't come up with people of your choice ooh

Omo Eko:
cute-ass go to bed plz so i can have my thread to myself

dblock:
your mad at me too Omo Eko
I've got so many enemies

it seems you're begging for people to be mad at you, you funny sha

dblock:
Hey cute-ass u still mad at me?

darling was i ever mad at you??

please remind me ooh, so that if i was i can continue right this minute lol

studdys:
keep saying those prayers while i go to bed thanks alot

you've been saying you want to go to bed for the past 1hr, is your bed in your computer or there's a bed on computer for sale that you're day-dreaming lying on ?? lol

i and omo eko will think about it

right omo eko dear??

jbuoy:
@Studdys, alright that wuld be fine, so can i say hav a lovely rest,

studdys:
Dont worry i would let you know all you want to know when i send you a mail aiight?

seems like the princess (moi) has to appoint a pator for a wedding ceremony ooh
so atlast something real good _{like a wedding} came out from my reign, praises ooh lol

[quote author=anyi_alora link=topic=46494.msg1040050#msg1040050 date=1176602500]cute ass you have said it all,you spoke my mind.[/quote]

good night[b] studdys[/b] and jbuoy, talk to you tomorrow at your working posts lol

BTW studdys. don't worry, i'll find you something else of your choice



_{and this stupid computer just went off now again *sighs*}

[quote author=area_boy1 link=topic=47385.msg1039946#msg1039946 date=1176599365]cute-ass and spoilt,i think i agrre with u girls .i was just trying to defend the men folk,we african men need to be more romantic,especially nigerian men.but u can really blame us,sometimes the situation in this country can even change the way u think and behave sometimes.the frustrations u go through everyday,u just find out your orientation has been changed into something else.so,on behalf of nigerian men,we promise to be more romantic towards u girls and apologies to our past misdeeds.[/b]as for u daviddylan,u be gay?lol how u go talk say u wan propose to me,any way sha i no go mind your sister ,that's if she fine oo.cute-ass&spoilt,it's been nice talking to u girls.it just a pity u girls are not in this country,i would have visited u to show how romantic a nigerian man can be.chaaal!![/quote]i just had to read this post over and over again, wipe my eyes and read again to make sure i wasn't seeing double.
Now you're talking and i might want to tell you that when you finally get that "someone", despite the frustration, treat her well, Cos you expect her to do the same despite all obstacles (igbos have an adage [b]"if the right hand washes the left hand, the left hand washes the right" ). Don't worry, we all hope for a better tomorrow , it shall be well

and it was fun talking to you too (convincing you and not confusing you that nigerian/african men should be nothing less than caring and loving and romantic _{(at least a bit)} don't be a stranger

BTW the apology and promise are appreciated too

@ spoilt
some down, some to go. But we'll get there kudos!

_{*dancing on her computer*} the princess is here to stay

well please "mum queen omo-eko" let studdy be, so she'll be walking our watch dogs at night, please, please


@ jbuoy

you're hereby appointed as a body guard

_{@omo eko
its not sloww ooh. it keeps oning and offing, stupid thing}

spoilt:
but who does the girl love? all our speculations are a waste of typing. who is she tending towards? in a woman's heart she knows who she wants even though she may be bullied into picking someone else!

thats very true, but sometimes you're pushed and blindfolded to the point of picking the wrong person, and regretting later when its too late

or dear, don't you know infatuation too can disguise itself to be love??

i'm not saying the UK guy is the right one, no Cos i know old relationships can be hard to break out from because its been so long, and you don't want to dissappoint the person in qusetion

but this naija guy might still not be the one, the girl was pused into a relationship with him, and though some might ask "is she a baby?" well in matters of the heart, we can all be babies

i think tehy should both give her some breathing space to think on her own, without interference. That's the only time the answer might come

and i'm happy the poster confirmed the girl's parents are well to do for those that think its always about the money

Omo Eko:
@cute-ass

Well am not fighting to be a princess because am already the Queen which is more higher than yours.

And i see this thread is dead since we haven't be making comments

ok you're the late queen and i'm the reigning princess, matter closed . guess that makes you my mum, no probs

and yes, since we went on vaccation its been dead here, guess they've been missing us like hell.
But not to worry sha, we've come back to stay and rule, right??

_{and this computer at work is pissing me off}

studdys:
I see this kingdom is about to be divided

no ooh, for where!!

this kingdom was handed over to me by the late priness of the thread, her name is eerr eem, its been so long that i can't even remember her name lol

but its mine, so what title on this palace would you like to hold dear?

@ omo eko

you know the election is over

i was appointed the princess and you my first runner-up (assistant), now salute the princess b4 i get mad
but i love you too

@ jbuoy

what a dreamer you are
i said i've been on vaccation from my throne thread for 2weeks, and you think i'll leave

please ooh, i have a lot of work to do, like finding all my palace workers
tafari and lalboi, where are you??

@ studdy
well you can be the assistant of the assistant of the princess (moi)
and thanks for taking care of this place for me, from thieves like jbuoy

no i didnt call your name, just talking to the person right above me

well with people like you, no girl would want to propose, because you're so rooted in living in the ways of our fore-fathers

well if you say you're a fine boy? who am i to wake you up from your dream lol _{just kidding ooh}. But of what use is your finess to me, if i don't feel appreciated and being treated like a lady by you.

and lastly, its the guy that is doing the marrying so you should propose (unless the girl can't wait, and want to do it), who does it is not our business nor problem (whatever floats one's boat, diffent strokes for different folks )

what we're saying is that you have to ask, whether the girl or the boy is the one doing the act.

asking is what we define as "proposal", ad when you're at it, find a romantic (and simple way if you like) to do it.

NOW WHAT IS SO DIFFICULT IN THAT??

WELL AFTER 2 WEEKS, THE PRINCESS (moi) OF THIS THREAD IS BACK


NOW LET ME HEAR SOME "WELCOME SHOUTS" lol


and anybody that'll not hail the princess should varnish

davidylan:
Na lie you talk there o. Plenty of Nigerian men have it in their character to be romantic and to propose to a lady. That our fathers did not teach us so much in the romance department does not mean we must not learn elsewhere.
The most important thing is to know what makes your woman happy and DO IT! If she likes romance, go and learn. If she's the type who does not care then you can let it slip but it wont hurt to make her blush once in a while.

My only point of disagreement with our women with their heads in the clouds is this; proposal does not need to follow the stereotype of giving the ring on bended knees. Be creative but make sure you do smth she will remember with a smile for years to come. At least give her a story to make her friends a little jealous ke!

@ first paragraph: eheee! now you're talking. I was almost beginning to think i'll remain single since our men neither propose nor want to be romantic. or some people were beginning to make it seem that way for a moment

You just saved my day, now i know i can go on with my earlier plan of settling with no other person than the best _{i mean best in my own dictionary ooh, anybody that misunderstands that should ask ooh}

@ second paragraph: i don't think any of us was saying it had to be done on a bended knee, afterall not all white men bend their knee to propose, just be imaginative and creative, blow her mind away in your own little but unique way.
chikena!!! everybody is happy

[quote author=area_boy1 link=topic=47385.msg1039810#msg1039810 date=1176595298]cut-ass,by that i mean telling her to marry u no asking her to.weak men beg women to marry them.just go straight to her and ask her when u are going to see her parents.she will love u forever.all those kneeling down to tell a woman to marry u is just an attribute of a wussy who either is not ready to be a man or just pretending,especially an african man.[/quote]i get what you're trying to say, but when you say "telling", what if the girl doesn't want to marry you?? i hope she's allowed to refuse your "telling" or is it a must that she'll say yes because you're a "strong man"??

i no longer call that proposal but intimidation and bullying

omofancy:
Hi cute-ass caught u on (who's on) just needed to say wazup to u nd thanks for welcoming to moi to da site.

LOL you did? well lots of people keep catching me there lately lol

and it was my pleasure welcoming you, always exciting with newbies

wazup?? well i'm fine, "i dey kampe" some will say, just chilling

and you dearie, how are you?? and how is life nairaland treating you?? hope you're enjoying yourself??

please area_boy1 do you mind explaining what in your own terms, you mean by going straight to the point??

4 Play:
The more I see pics on this thread,the more I appreciate how handsome I am

so why don't you do us the honour of sharing your supposedly "art of work" self with us

till then i'll stick to omo eko's description of you _{one fat, short one with pot belly} lol

IBDat:
Are u male?

spoilt:
i meant the first 2 pics look copied and pasted. the rest look real. omo-eko you don't have to blow a gasket!

i guessed that's what you were thinking, but no i don't think so

youngies have put some other photo on his profile earlier i know that because we both contribute to an i gbo-proverb thread like that

and the photos happen to be of the same person, i don't actually think its someone else but if it is well . .

but i guess that means that "if" those two really are themselves, then they have your vote?? or . . 

BTW do you have anybody in mind?? all contibutions are appreciated

@ omo eko

ok then and thanks for the welcome, the stupid idiotic messenger here will not sign me in ooh i think its sick in the head

i hope it gets started soonest lol

@ busygirl

thanks for the pics., your endeavours are appreaciated

omogenaija:
IBdat should contest

his pic, is already one, we just have to get seun to help edit the poll, my darling omo eko is already getting it covered

spoilt:
these guys are copying and pasting random pics from the internet and you girls can't tell? puh-lease!

well i don't like jumping into conclussions so i'll ask nicely, were you referring to the owners of the pics, or the people that set up the thread??

@ omo eko
partner i think you should get hold of the first guy busygirl posted and make it smaller, so the thread doesn't get bogous and untidy

BTW i'm there, where i told you i was going