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No sex before marriage is a good idea for partners waiting to get married. It is good to avoid pre-marital sex before marriage. But the issue here is that "no sex before marriage might have several meanings"

(1) It could possibly mean: "No sex with you before marriage, but I can satisfy myself with someone else before I marry you"..

(2) It could possibly mean: "I have had lots of sex before I met you, I just want to use this to pretend that I am good for marriage"

(3) It could possibly mean: "I am determined not to have sex with you or any other person until I marry you".

(4) It could possibly mean: "I want to pretend like I don't want sex, but I will have pre-marital sex with you later"

This is a bright and beautiful year, and it is a year of another opportunity. I need to improve my Bible-reading life. I don't read bible often, and sometimes when I read, it's not deep. I need to work on that.

I also need to improve other failing parts.

We have various terror or militia groups or vigilante groups to emerge from Nigeria, but these are the deadliest/dreaded.

(1) Boko Haram.

(2) Bakassi Boys of 1998 to 2002.

(3) Niger-delta militants.

(4) Bandits

(5) OPC

(6) Maitasini

Whenever you lose celebration and receive mockery or shaming, then it is likely you have lost glory.

Women in general have been wired for years as responsible creatures and awesome diamonds for decency. They were beautiful beings whom you could pay heavy prices to get because of the worth they had. Such prices then were: enduring long hard-to-get to win them, paying worthy love prices to get them, securing the home and building the family because of their awesome impact, fighting to get them because of the great value they had.

Today, many or some women have submitted themselves to sex, sexual indiscipline, playing around, following bad guys, cheating etc... Women are a good prize men have to work and win, they are a beautiful prize men have to diligently get, they are to enjoy the sweat and energy of men in general..The issue here is that if the prize does not look like a prize, the fighter for the prize will not value the prize. So women are the prize, and must add or sustain there value.

For women to restore their glory, they should stop sleeping around, acting cheap, losing virtue, increasing body counts, jumping from men to men, looking for just money without value..

Women are beautiful creatures, they are the best, they are beautiful...

The future is bright for women.

God bless all Virgin and Non-Virgin girls.

Have a nice time..

"If you don't want to settle for a guy that is still building his life, do not blame guys who do not want to settle with Non-Virgins.

You cannot be shaming guys who are still building their lives, and then expect others not to look for virgins too..

Keep looking for rich guys, and let them keep looking for virgins..Get your rich guy and let them get their virgins.

All the guys that slept with a Non-Virgins before she married possible paid nothing as bride price, yet your parents may bring heavy bride price on a responsible man that did not mess you up..."

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If God gives you a beautiful, faithful, Godly and educated girl today that is a virgin, how soon will you marry her?

Is it tomorrow?

women

For a lady, if you feel you cannot cope with a broke guy or a guy who has little finance, do not marry him. If you see no future in him, do not marry him if you are not okay with that...

For guys, after you have struggled and you are now very rich, use your wealth to look for a decent virgin. Don't struggle in vain, don't settle for less after struggling. Use your wealth to get the best girl who is beautiful and a virgin.

The best advise is for everyone to marry whom them cherish, whether the wealth has not really come yet or has come, or the lady is a virgin or not a virgin.

Looking for a decent girl today is not as so easy. We have decent and God-fearing ladies, and we have many ladies who have sex. Before you meet your wife, she might have had several sexual partners, probably met bad guys, probably done lots of bad stuff.... You will just have to close your eyes, ignore the past and move to marry her like that...

Many people pay tithes but do not see any tangible proof or profits from their tithe. Some may feel that tithing does not work. But let show you how to be blessed after paying tithes.

These are the ways of getting blessed after paying tithes.

(1) Be Sure of Where You Pay Tithes: You need to be sure or certain about the spiritual state of the place you pay tithe. You cannot pay tithe in the church of a false prophet or an evil church and expect blessings. You need to pay tithes in a good church.

(2) Seeing Tithes as a Sacrifice: Until you place value on the tithe you are paying, you may not draw from it's benefits. If you attach much value or see tithes as an important sacrifice or commitment to God, you will see results.

(3) Declaring in Faith Based on Your Tithe: If you keep on declaring to God consistently, reminding Him consistently, claiming His promises, and telling God you are faithful a tither, He will visit you with blessings.

(4) Paying Tithes With Cheerfulness: When you keep paying tithes with Cheerfulness in a good church, you will see results. If you keep insulting the church or monitoring your tithes to know what they are doing with the money, you may not be blessed. You pay your tithe to a genuine church and let them decide the project or thing they will use it for.

(5) Paying Tithes From Clean Source: You cannot bring tithes from prostitution, yahoo, gambling, office misappropriation/stealing etc, and expect God to bless it. He won't bless it. Your tithes must come from clean source.

What funny food do you suggest someone to eat this Christmas..

(1) Agboo and egg roll.
(2) Agidi and pizza.
(3) Red oil and cornflakes
(4) Beans and Cashew.
(5) Iceblock and raw egg.
(6) Fufu and Lipton tea.
(7)Bread and toothpaste.
( Chilled coke and onions.
(9)Ewedu and sharwarma.
(10) Kpomo and chin-chin

You can add yours..

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There are reasons why Christians Fall into sexual temptations. They may do their best, but still find themselves committing same sexual sins... These are the reasons.

(1) The pleasure of sexual temptations: Many christians enjoy sexual pleasures. They fantasize it, and enjoy the contents of it. Once you enjoy sexual temptations, you are likely to fall into it often.

(2) They don't want to give up sexual pleasures completely. Some christians change from their evil ways, but still leave some soft spots. Example could be: stopping fornication, but still leaving the phone number of one of your craziest sex partner, and still chatting such a person up ones in a while.

(3) Not Thirsting After Righteousness. There is no christian that cannot be holy in this world, but God knows that many don't really want to be holy. If you determine so so much to be holy for at least three months, God will see that you are truly interested in holiness, and release the grace to make holiness easy.

(4) Not having a confidant: Many christians do not have who to meet or call when they are sexually tempted. Such a person might guide them or pray for them.

(5) Watching erotic movies or songs: These creates a mindset that makes someone always prone to desiring immorality, which can lead to the actual immorality.

After the tears, hope she doesn't call in one Bobo after he has gone...

I might not be 100% right, but most people in Nigeria marry from their ethnic group; even pastor's, imams, christians, Muslims...There is no condition given by God that says you must marry from your ethnic group, but people are wired to marry from their ethnic group....

If you want to marry from your ethnic group, fine, if you want to marry from another ethnic group, fine; but make sure you sustain your marriage...

I will advise you never to idolize your ethnic group or any particular ethic group when it comes to marriage...The fact that you may like your ethnic group does not mean it must be a do or die affair. You might marry a wicked person from your ethnic group if you are not careful...Open your heart to God, and He will give you His choice that is good for you.

Teemabrand96:
Investing in Ponzi scheme

Be careful of Ponzi scheme..

germaphobe:
allowing myself to drown in bet9ja virtual

Hope you have stopped it..

germaphobe:
allowing myself to drown in bet9ja virtual

Hope you have stopped it.

germaphobe:
allowing myself to drown in bet9ja virtual

Sorry

Hello guys, I will mention two mistakes that cost me alot in life, though I finally overcame them by God's grace....

One of the mistakes was visiting a fake church whose pastor looked "anointed" and profitable. That stuff ruined my life so much, but I recovered again and am wise..

Another mistake was my continued dating of a girl my spirit rejected.. This caused me terrible emotional stuff, but I am pretty fine now by God's grace.

Instead of you submitting your CV physically, why not send it as a letter to the company...Attach a cover letter with the CV, direct the letter to a known department....

Adedapo57:
Op why are you trying to wreck “peaceful homes” pls don’t do such. The best thing is to stop such affairs and move on and asks for Gods forgiveness period

Have a great day..

As a married man or woman, if you have committed adultery with a man or a woman, you need to confess it to your partner...If as a married woman, you slept with another person other than your husband or you are a married man that slept with another person other than your wife, you need to go and confess it to your partner...

If you slept with your ex or someone few days to your wedding day, you need to go and confess it to your spouse...

Confess as God leads you, don't confess without wisdom....But confess!!

Some things look odd, but can take someone to hell...

(1) Tribal or racial hatred: Things like "I hate Fulani people, I hate igbo people, I hate Yoruba people, I hate so so people" will surely take you to hell...You can dislike certain acts or behaviors of a tribe, but it is ungodly to hate people of a tribe.

(2) Enjoying other people's evil act: Do you know you can enjoy someone's lie, someone's fornication, someone's deception, someone's wicked act etc.. Though you didn't commit it, but the fact you enjoyed or found pleasure in what the person did will take you to hell ..

(3) Insincerity: Things like you telling someone to fill your name in a list of those present for a meeting, when you are absent will take you to hell....Things like putting early time in office register when actually you came late will take you to hell....

(4) Worldly music: Worldly can be enticing and sweet to the ear, but know this that if you are enjoying worldly music when Jesus comes, you are going no where with Jesus

(5) Not Confessing: If you steal from someone, and you tell God to forgive you, He will forgive you. But if God ministers to you to go and return what you stole back to the owner and you refuse, you won't make heaven...Same: If you slept with your EX few days before wedding day, or you committed adultery, and God ministers to you to confess it to your partner. If you disobey, you will not make heaven..

(6) Being ashamed to walk with your Bible on the road can lead you to hell....

7th Ballon for "apostle" Messi.

I am not super convinced that mercy deserved the balloon door, but I am sure that Lewandoski is not the favourite... These are my proofs.

(1) Lewandoski was the favourite in 2020, not 2021.

(2) No ballon door was given in 2020.

(3) Lewandoski did not play up to the ballon door level in 2021.

(4) If they had considered 2020 performance and 2021, the Lewandoski is the best.

(5) COVID affected 2020 football..

(6) What you should be saying is "they should have considered 2020 performance".

Some people are scared of doing HIV test, some may just claim by faith that they are HIV negative. The truth is that one day, you will do HIV test. There will be a prompting to do HIV test. It could be during antenatal, during pre-marriage process, during medical check-up, etc. The truth is that HIV negative and HIV positive people are all beautiful people. What those who are HIV positive need to do is to eat good food and take their drugs.

In the past, I have known people who died of HIV, but today, you hardly see people dying of HIV because of awareness and access to medical care.

One problem with today is that many people have sex without condom. The rate at which people have sex without condom, may be at its highest peak. Some or most married women commit adultery without condom. Guys and girls have sex without condom. And I can tell you, we have people who do not know they have the virus. They have not gone for test, so that they can be put under proper care and good counselling that will keep them healthy and happy.

Advise: Please abstain from all pre-marital and extra-marital affair.

Go to a medical center or laboratory and do your HIV test. HIV is easier to manage if detected early.

Be patient, wait and get married on time.

Nigeria

Messi is better...