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I must continue avoiding false prophets even when I marry.....

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Akpu is loved...I guess that's AKPU

We have some Christian women who are in Abusive Marriages. Some are frustrated already, and some churches may not be providing absolute support for them.

What is the way out to an Abusive marriage.

(1) Prayers: Praying is essential when in an Abusive marriage. Reporting to God in prayers about the situation is a sign of reverence and humility to God.

(2) Seek Counsel: It is good to seek Godly counsel. The bible says "In the multitude of counselors there is safety".. Seek Counsel from matured Christians on what steps to take, how to react, how to pray about it, how to behave in the situation etc.

(3) Temporally Separate: If your life is threatened in an Abusive marriage, temporarily separate. Temporal seperation may take a long time or a short time. You temporarily seperate till your spouse changes or till God confirms to you they are truly changed.

Be watchful and prayerful before you enter into any marriage...Be sure before you enter.

God hates divorce.

I have not eaten AKPU for over 8 months, but if I see neat AKPU in a clean restaurant, I will eat.

There is a place in Abuja were you find better AKPU. The smell is low and it is properly packaged. It is one of the best places to buy AKPU.

Now, have you noticed that many restaurants who sell swallow use to have reasonable amount of people who demand for AKPU...Despite the fact AKPU smells, many people still prefer it more than many swallow..

I will love Pounded yam with hot Egusi soup loaded with good meat too...

Planning is a good idea for a successful future. It is good to plan ahead while you are still a student or a fresh graduate..

I will give you vital tips to follow that will aid you in getting a good job after graduation.

(1) Look at the prospect of the course you are studying or have studied.. Check if employment is high or low for the course you studied or currently studying... If it is low, immediately enroll for a professional course that is highly stable, marketable and can pay bills. Example if someone is studying Biochemistry, the prospect of a good job is not high as a Biochemist in Nigeria. I will advise you to add something like ICAN, ACCA, other quality I.T certifications and training, MBA etc as soon as possible... You need to be fit to pay bills...

(2) Begin to define thoroughly a career path that you must follow to be rich. Don't be inconsistent, don't go by the wind...Don't choose ICAN today, the ICT tommorow, then Something else tomorrow..Be sure, stable and follow just a career path you have defined.

(3) Know alot of job sites, and define what kind of jobs you will be applying for. Some people do not have a good career, so this might make them pick any job they see..

(4) Begin to pray and fast early... If you are still in school or a corper.. It is time to diligently pray to God almighty and fast for your future job. This will help open doors for you when the time is ripe.

Happy weekend

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How you feel when people are eating so hard in an Occasion and food didn't reach you..

I went to an occasion when I was young and food no reach me...The thing pain me eeeh!! It pained me for a long time...

You might have gone to an occasion where they probably said "relax they are bringing the food", only to leave drinking only pure water or whatever..

Share ya experience..

Please contribute your points...

Biafra!! Biafra!!!

The foundational secrets or truths or revelation or dreams or insight about Biafra belongs to DIM ODUMEGWU OJUKWU and possibly his associates... The same person said, do not fight again... You cannot say or talk what he really saw in the deepest of secrets to say "no need for war"... The real ideology about BIAFRA are in the deep testaments or insights of DIM ODUMEGWU OJUKWU.... No matter how you pioneer the ideology of BIAFRA, you must go back to enquire from those who really had the drawing board of BIAFRA, and also know the latest language needed for BIAFRA, and the true handover or next-level ideology of warload DIM ODUMEGWU OJUKWU...

It is not all about agitating or getting angry or using war....You may have the right to do so, but until you go back to the Original drawing board and the last verdict of DIM ODUMEGWU OJUKWU, you may miss it for so long..

What is the cure for the EAST?

Let all agitators gather and angrily build the EAST like Johannesburg or Dubai... Many Igbo people have money.

Imagine if Nnamdi Kanu and all IPOB members get angry and begin to build the East by force... Imagine if they make the East look like Johannesburg or Dubai.. Imagine if they protect the East and start running a very "dangerous" development programme. I tell you, even those in Europe may return back to the East to live. Just begin massive estate development all around, massive road construction, massive arrangement of the East.. Do it even without the government, and you will be the most valued people in Igbo land, and history will never forget you.

One of the things that made God concerned on Earth was when man was building the tower of Babel......If the East is like Johannesburg or Dubai, the "intimidation" will be more than GUNS.

Let there be peace agreement, let reconciliation be done, and let Nnamdi Kanu be released.

Makaveli217:
Back then in school, my coursemate narrated how she went to buy bole(roasted plantain), the woman preparing it was carrying a baby who had running nose, she used the same hand she used in serving people to wipe her baby's nose, clean the hand on her wrapper (without washing it), use the same hand pick up plantain to dish for her.
She left that place and never ate out again.

Hygeine level of some people is low...

Mercychen:
A food vendor that used to bring food for us in a company I was working in those days suddenly started having this funny body odour and I began to perceive the smell in her food whenever I'm eating it. Plus, there was a day I saw a curly hair inside the soup. Ewwww.. that was the last I ate her food.

You should start eating biscuit and drinks..

cutecommend:
Yes I have had such. It was in a program. Then when I used to attend Mountain of Fire programmes very well and probably church services (though I wasn't a member). One day, their G.O was on prayer session in a Wednesday program called manna water service, while we were watching on tv screens in a branch...Power of Jesus touched one part of my body that was seiged. I felt it life and direct and the place instantly became calm... I tell you truth...I received deliverance instantly that day.

Kindly share yours.

Share yours...

Yes I have had such. It was in a program. Then when I used to attend Mountain of Fire programmes very well and probably church services (though I wasn't a member). One day, their G.O was on prayer session in a Wednesday program called manna water service, while we were watching on tv screens in a branch...Power of Jesus touched one part of my body that was seiged. I felt it life and direct and the place instantly became calm... I tell you truth...I received deliverance instantly that day.

Kindly share yours.

It might lead a wife to adultery...

Didn't you see the signs before you entered?

I used to buy pancake then in secondary school.....One day, the woman selling the pancake packed her sweat and poured on the pancake....I guess that was the last time I ever ate that.

I used to eat in a restaurant years ago, one day, I saw a guy pounding swallow. He packed his sweat and poured on it after he was done pounding...What kind of wickedness or dirtiness is that. How can you pack your sweat and pour on swallow...

Yours might be something else....Kindly tell us what irritated you to stop eating in a place or buying from mobile food vendors

Different people have one or two fears they consider when thinking of marriage. It may be.

(1) Lack of finance.
(2) Fear of Infidelity.
(3) Fear of wedding Process.
(4) DNA fears.
(5) Fear of marrying the wrong person..

Etc..

What are your fears?

I have attended four different churches as full time member.....

If your current church is good, and your pastor preaches sound doctrine, and the pastor is not diabolic or evil... Please remain there....

Please which of these politicians can save Nigeria? Give tangible facts, proofs and reasons why they can.

(1) Tinubu
(2) Osibanjo.
(3) Good luck Jonathan
(4) Atiku.
(5) Tambuwal
(6)Bukola Saraki.
(7) Peter Obi.

Kindly add yours if you have, and give valid reasons why they can.

Have you ever lost someone that truly loved you because of pride? It may be pride of "instant breakup", it may be pride of ghosting, it may be pride of not apologizing, it may be pride of feeling too superior.....And now, you may be regretting so much how you wasted such golden opportunity that have not come bye again....

Pride is not good in relationships. It can make you lose someone and later regret it. You may say you don't give a damn, but in few years time, you may notice that your an opportunity in the dam...

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Have you noticed those you know who had bad past? Look at them today, how many of them have changed? When you hear people say "it was my past I have changed" , did many of them really change?

Many people hardly change, and the past is sometimes strong that it may leave us with habits that are hard to break...

If the past was really gone, why do people still go back to sleep with their ex?

The only way to trust someone who had a bad past is when you have seen for months a clear change of faithfulness, love and truth ...A point where the person is transparent and does not hide things ..

Wilson212:
a lot of political immature people on nairaland .The greatest winner of Saturday convention is tinubu .he successfully placed his men in many important position .The problem in APC is almost 70 percent want tinubu presidency only few called cabal doesn't want it but how are they going to stop him ,the first attempt to stop him failed on Saturday infact the only reason Abdullahi won is because of concensus if not tinubu group would have won every single sit on Saturday

Please look at the men/group I listed again..

deltaprincess:
You apparently don't know anything in Politics. APC will need the Southwest to win next presidential election. Tinubu is the Leader of the Southwest and wherever he points the Southwest follows.

APC needs Tinubu to win.

Relax, if these men listed strongly say NO TO TINUBU, forget whatever South-West wanna do..It will be difficult for Tinubu.

Tinubu is one of the strong persons with presidential ambition, but we have some men who can stop his goal from fulfilment, no matter the tactics he uses, except God is really for him.

(1) Buhari: If Buhari does not want Tinubu as president, he should just forget the presidency. It will be very difficult for Tinubu, but if Buhari is on Tinubu's side, then Tinubu has chances.

(2) Babangida: If Babangida speaks to the northern elders and powerful northerners not to allow Tinubu in, Tinubu will find it hard to be a president.

(3) Obasanjo: If Obasanjo is against Tinubu, that may hamper his plan.

(4) Goodluck Jonathan: If Goodluck decides to contest, he has potency to beat Tinubu. Jonathan has advantages. (1) He has only one term to fulfill, which may be a good thing for the north (2) He has been friendly to Buhari.

(5) Mamman Daura: This is Buhari's relative. If this man is strongly against Tinubu, it may be a very tough one for Tinubu.

(6) Cabals: The northern Cabals. If these people are totally against Tinubu, Tinubu may never win presidency.

There is this truth I want to bring out to you. Have you noticed that some or many Christians do not call the name of Jesus in Secular gatherings? Is it intentional or an Oversight...Even if they are blessings someone in a Secular gathering, they can call God, but won't call the name of Jesus..

Are many Christians shy to call the name of Jesus in secular environments? It is not hard to call the name of Jesus in the church, but are Christians shy in calling the name of Jesus in secular gatherings such as get-together, public seminars etc...

Lastly, are Christians ashamed to carry physical bible to church?

Marriage is good sha..

Assuming, if After buying Asoebi, Buying 30 crates of drinks, 200 tubers of yam, 4 goats, 6 bags of rice, 80 pieces of tin tomatoes, 8 gallons of palm oil, 5 gallons of groundnut oil, 50 pieces of stock fish and dried fish, AND THEN FEW DAYS TO WEDDING, YOUR NON-VIRGIN OR VIRGIN WIFE-TO-BE SLEEPS WITH HER EX WHO PAID NOTHING...That will not be good...

Women be good...It is good to be good.

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