PaperLace:


oh...hush it and don't play that gender card with me.
I asked you a simple question Mr Logic, ain't they better than people brought up by abusive parents?
Yes or No?
What of men brought up by single mothers?
Women brought up by single dads?
The ones brought up by two abusive parents?

I think you're the one that lacks logical reasoning, you expect everyone to come in and agree with you?
So much for a logical man.

Maybe the single mothers should have thrown away the child. Do you guys even remember Nigeria's population before churning out these preposterous and facile assertions? ?

What is even your definition of single mum?
A widow?
Divorcee?
Never been married mother?

lol...don't get emotional...I was not trying to make comparisons...with abusive parents et al...I can see you are trying to empathise with single mums...just see the topic the way it is don't try to modify...

Creamish:


Single fathers are there. What is your opinion on them or are u simply biased towards women alone?

Far from it!...far from it young lady!...the percentage is quite small and negligible....a single man of 70yrs is still pressurised to get married let alone a young able bodied man...so let's us not argue futility

ItsQuinn:
What about ladies raised by a single father

you hardly see a single father...

Acidosis:
This thread is going to make my day



**just sitting and watching**

lalasticlala...oya come come carry this thing go FP...

niggi4life:
When you have 10 Exes who were raised by single parent and only one is married, How many percent is that?

10 exes lol...you funny die...

goingape1:
if you find out that there are raise by single parent pls abort that mission.

those women are wayward and would put that same cursed on you.


she will later leave and repeat the same process again.

hmmmmmmmmm.....may be true

PaperLace:
rubbish.
Ain't they better than people raised by two abusive parents?

It's actually a good quality to be able to carry on without most men of this generation.

The problem I often have with people (ladies especially) is they don't know how to argue logically...can't you see you are already changing the subject...learn to stay within context...

mecussey:
True to an extent, however some of the girls are super willing to prove to there mum that she does not have enough reason to leave there father hence, will manage there marriage by all means

that's true but as human when things are tough you need someone to encourage you but when your mentor took the easy way out...it may take more than ordinary for you to remain steadfast

niggi4life:
90% of my Ex GF and female friends who were raised by sinlge parent are not yet married and some are over 30

Arthurwinner come see another revelation...well it is not 100% certain...but the odd is high

Arthurwinner:
impaired perception

your opinion though...but what an elder statesman see while seating...even if you stand at the peak of everest you may not see...

I am not saying ladies raised by single parents are all bad, you may get lucky finding some exceptional ladies raised by single mums. Evidently you seldom find single men raising a child but it's quite prevalent with the opposite sex.

A relation of mine was dating this lady and when the time came for the union to be made official, his parents advised him to discontinue becos after they had made enquiries and investigation they discovered the lady's mother left her husband many years ago over some frivolous reasons. Then I asked my uncle why did he side with family and not allow his son take the bold step then he said:

1. Women raised by single parent (mother) are usually strong willed hence may end up like their mother.

2. A lady who has seen no need for a father will be swift to end a union because she will have the courage to train her children alone afterall she was raised by a mum.

3. How will she get marital advice from her mum when things are tough and you know ladies often run to their mum when they need advice (remember the mother took the easy way out)

4. Sooner or later my son may become a bachelor again...the odd is high and is glaring..

5. A lady who have spent 21 years of her life without a father cannot be psychologically stable even if she appears to be.

6. Ladies raised by single parents did not experience the beautiful and ugly part of the union called marriage from her parents hence they don't have their parents as their role model.

7. Amin (as he fondly calls me) when the baton gets to you, look at the mother of your fiancèe closely because with time she will display those traits you observed in the mother......

Then I asked him what if the lady's father is dead and the mum decided to train her alone?...my uncle said we may also enquire about the untimely death of the father but "Amin that is a topic for another day"......

Ishilove:
I don't quite understand why the op is being attacked. I have read his narration and I perfectly get his point. We're living in very perverse times and pedophilia is at an all time rise. No day passes without us being inundated with sickening stories of molestation, so what op is preaching is in order not to be accused of unclean actions, be mindful how you play with little children. What you think is innocent play may be misconstrued because of the era we live in.

I really don't understand why folks left the message and attacked the messenger. Jeez

Our minds have been polluted by the kind of society we live in, to the extent that we have become paranoid. The reactions I'm seeing here clearly underlines the theme of the thread. One wrong move and you're labeled a pedo, so be very careful how you play with kids, especially females. Kids too should be taught boundaries and made to recognise inappropriate attentions

Oh my God!..This is intelligence at its peak...you have just saved me the stress of blasting those senseless monickers up there kanwuliaextra et al...simple understanding...At least you gave me hope that there are intelligent ladies who can read, think and understand before they type not those mofos ....kudos

CecyAdrian:


Abeg, Abeg, Abeg!!! Why are you people like this, we are talking about competence and you are bringing tribe. How all you lot always manage to bring in tribalism into serious issues amaze me.

Now to the issue, Looking back at her past records, she can never and will never even be considered for such position! The post of a World bank President is not by academic qualifications or by how many seminars or meetings you attend with world leaders.

And never you compare Adesina to Okonjo, it's insulting pls.

Crass ignorance! I don't why very few ladies are sensible...you said "looking at her past records"....clown she has worked with the world Bank and rose to the rank of MD...the article even narrates that the staff gave her their support based on her competence......or are you looking at the record as finance minister?....with this level of daftness I wonder how foolish some ppl would have been without Internet or SM...smh

hippyseason:


Haha..nah by force? I am female. I guess you are male?

yep yep yep....

Ojikutumemu:
Ill watch out for your coffin with a dirty looking Biafra flag draped over it

lol and it will be just a matter of time before you join me...it's not like it's one big deal you gonna die sooner or later....but it will be my greatest joy If I am wrapped with a scruffy biafran.....i can't imagine anything else...

Ojikutumemu:
Lolz BIAFRAUDSSSS sit at home a day won't do anything why dont you stage a protest like you do before and let the soldiers and police use for target practice, get Arms and all and fight the government ,when south Sudan wanted to leave they took up Arms and they got it .

We have taken arms before we have protested...we will continue to fight, to protest, to sit at home until freedom comes!!!...I will rather die on the battle field than get roasted by the cows of usman Dan fodio....on Biafra I stand....spits on ur grave

Brooklynsouth:
you just can't hide the yoruba in you

the guy is frustrated don't waste your precious time quoting the mugu...The word "Biafra" sends fear to their balls...

hippyseason:


Well, let's agree to disagree then. Because it may go either way. We can be sure though, that DB will definitely choose the option that is most viable for them, not us.

No...don't agree to disagree, agree because you are convinced...are you male or female?

mysticgal:

What's an mm brain?
Besides, desperation do not just happen to a particular gender but to all genders and this conclusion is irrespective of the fact the Ops article was genuine or not. Mmmmm
Have a nice day

Now you are changing the subject...your previous post was a deduction that was based on the article. How do you conclude desperation exist in both gender since you had already discredited the article by saying your conclusion is irrespective of the article (same article that was your Base in the previous post). Let me assume you had an inkling that desperation exist in both gender are you implying that this article is a confirmation? Yes! Let me answer that for you...it still goes back to what I was trying to point out earlier "hasty conclusion...

"A mm brain" simply means 1 millimetre brain"...sorry I made that statement, it was uncalled for...

hippyseason:


Yes, but you forget that new staff cost more because they have to be trained. And training costs money. There are so many other cost implications of hiring new staff over promoting existing lower level staff.I'm not saying we should be pessimistic, but we gotta look at the facts logically. I'm all about hope, sure, but I'm all about logic too.

naaah they already have a structure for training...moreover the cost of training will only have a short term effect can you compare it to increasing staff salary (with other benefits attached) which will have a long term effect? Hmmm? Do the math, now tell me what you think

hippyseason:


Well, if they opt to employ lower level staff, other than new (which they most likely would do since that would mean more cost savings), it's still bad news for us anyways..

what if they intend to pay the new staff lower than the low level staff? Or don't you know once they promote the low level tradition demands some increase in pay should follow....anyway hope, pray, fast...

abimbawealth:
Hmmmm

your dp made my evening...omg I hope I did not crack my ribs..

TV01:
Mobilise people and resources. Be at places where you will likely meet people. Be bold - ready to approach in all and any circumstances.

If you are serious,youy will make time, or use what little you have smartly and purposefully. It willbe an issue even after you marry. Wise up.


I would have though that was de rigueur for any serious and mature person?

You have presented no real problem, obstacle or reason to be desperate.


TV

I love this guy he thinks just like me...I have also read some of ur posts...you always think before you type....emmmmm...mama biola bring one OriJin for my niggur

mysticgal:
This post coming from a guy proves that desperation to get married is experienced by male and female....
Op I wish you all the best in your search for the person.
Good luck

After reading just this article that I am not quite sure is genuine you have reached a conclusion...Jeez...God abeq no give lady with just a mm brain...

misspicy:
He has always wanted to die.....

if it had been a lady I presume your would be different...

Ahmedhussain3463:
biafra cn never materialise mark my words.even God dnt wnt it,remember three millions of our country men,woman and children lives were lost.dis is a suprem sacrifice to get biafra bt wht happen,no victor no vanguish and biafra lost forever|i learnt kanu is sick,hw his e doing nw bro?

Another 3 millioon is ready to pay yet another sacrifice. Is it not better to die on the battle field than be burnt by the sons of usman danfodio? For the records there were casualties on both sides during the war...................I pledge to Biafra....

Ahmedhussain3463:
wht is dis guy talking?

Apparently He is speaking the truth.

Abagworo:
This woman is so unenlightened and arrogant. She's lucky Nigeria isn't China where she is bound to face execution. She seems to be banking on militants to protect her instead of using her wisdom to free herself diplomatically with her influence as 1st lady. We all know that ordinarily she would never have been mentioned in the case but she came out to claim money other people are charged for.

CLOWN....in China do they accuse people and execute them? Don't they get convicted first? You guys are just too dumb. I mean unbelievably dumb. How can you freeze an account without proper investigation or court injunction....and you are here talking about execution...I wonder what the future holds for Nigeria if the supposed exposed citizens (future leaders) reason like dumb ass ....pathetic

hippyseason:


Lol. It didn't easy o..well, now that we have entered recession, we can all settle down now. Cause any call from DB will be later rather than sooner.

naah from experience during recession there is always sack to cut cost hence the vacant spaces will be occupied by new or lower level staff who will be paid less compared to those previously occupying those positions

finally1:
ugly couples ugly cake.. see dere heads like GP Tank

E PAIN AM....