whiteroses:

if you weren't invited to the wedding

Me and this person have never been really close, so not getting an invite to her wedding really didn't matter to me. However, we talked everyday about general stuff and we used to gist about her wedding and window shop online so i was expecting an invite. later on this girl invited me to her baby shower and in in lies the list of baby shower gifts to tick. Ladies and gentlemen it is safe to say, I'll be relaxing at home on that day abi what do you think

If you were close buddies, I would've said she probably thought you were so close to her you didn't require a formal invitaion, like me, I didn't send out invitation cards to my close friends and they never sent out invitation cards to me! We plan and plan and just attend However, it could've been an oversight and probably still upset that you didn't attend her wedding. So ,just attend the baby shower and be cool.

Blendy77:

Men will not kill us in this country!!!! Just 8 months old marriage, what is he looking for outside? Is your friend pregnant? This news will definitely tear her apart but pls dont be responsible for breaking up her marriage. Its better she doesnt know especially thru u cos u will be the bad friend if she eventually settles with her husband. Maybe u should just pray for God to intervene in this matter. Its even possible the other lady doesnt know he is married. God will deliver us all from evil men!

Yes, she is pregnant and the other lady is aware of his marital status.

ifyalways:

@OP,[b]how did u know for sure that they are sleeping with each other?[/b]Wild guesses or u caught them red handed?

Ha ba! All her friends are aware. My cousin told me and the lady herself confirmed it.
To answer the second part of your post, I'm concerned because I REALLY DO CARE about my friend. She was my chief bride's maid, she's my son's best buddy and she has always been there for me!
It was such a painful discovery last week, and the worst part is that even after my cousin told her friend her guy is my friend's husband, she said she's aware but she's in love and she's sorry if she's hurting her!
Well, I finally told my husband and he advised me to keep mute, but promised to maybe talk to the guy. So, as much as I hate the situation, I have to fold my arms and see what happens.
I'm really glad I didn't overreact earlier and I feel better now. It's just sad because my friend loves this guy so much 

kokoye:

Just figure out a way to let her find out . .

Yea, but how?

IyaBasira:

Yes you definitely should.

If you truly care about her well being as a friend you should tell her. If not, she will find out that you knew about it and said nothing and from then on, you can kiss your friendship goodbye because she will never trust you again.

She's my very very good friend and I truly care about her and I do not want her to find out I knew all along and I've been carrying on like nothing happened.

I'm thinking of talking to the other woman next time I see her,hopefully it'll be worth it.

I'm kind of confused, though I have an idea of what to do here but i just hope it's the right thing. About a week ago, I discovered that a friend of my cousin's is dating my friend's husband. This lady told my cousin she's preggy and that she's not having an abortion. I'm tempted to tell my friend, maybe codedly or place an annonymous, what do you think? Their wedding is just about 8 months old!

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Facebook fanatic

Why is this in the politics section? Should be in romance

I bless the name of the Lord specially for keeping my son safe and healthy. Thank you Lord for your protection over my family, thank you for your protection and provision. I can't thank Him enough, I just can't!

E ku alaja odun o

Only 160? I don't live in Lagos but I think it's good riddance to bad rubbish. The northerners are doing worse to yorubas and igbos in the north by killing them in the name of religion. . .  at least Fashola didn't kill or maim them, they were simply sent back home where they belong!

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blank:

@ Cyclone, everywhere I av looked dey av just d toddler car seats but wat I want is d one 4 babies. Thanks all but would still like more responses (even if dey are 'infants' 4 sale).

The one I got is for 0-6 months! Just go to a very good kiddies' world, and please try n avoid used car seats for safety reasons.

You can get this to buy everywhere as far as they sell baby stuff. I bought one recently for 8k in IB

surveycash:

Yes. He can use it to buy 6 laptops from China including the landing fee and sell each for N45 - N55K. All he needs is dorm account to wire his payments and reliable sellers.

Well, if he gets a reliable person willing to buy in China and send to naija for him. But then, i still don't see how about 32k will be the overall cost of one laptop from China considering he's buying just 6!

surveycash:

You can start importation business, importing electronics from China.

with 190k?

@poster, you can buy fairly used clothes in bags and sell in retail

Gbawe:

(2) he tried but failed because he simply cannot bully his way forcefully or effectively  enough to triumph over political foes as OBJ , for example, used to do.

More like it

mystikal:

I;m not sure Oyinlola will be too aggrieved

After 2 terms and a reserved seat at the senate come 2011? no way!
Thank God sha, better late than never, plus better than having Omisore rigged in next year.

Ni bo ni o n gbe?

ayodele123:

Do cleaning business. Very easy to set up.
Get a biz name registered and get business cards also print handbills. These cost less than N20k.
Get brooms,detergents,buckets,etc. Budget N5k for this.
Look for a housing estate and go from door to door to introduce yourself and the business.
When you get a client,charge N3k - N5k per premises,cleaning twice weekly.
Try to get at least 30-50 clients in an estate and environ
Then place a banner in an open place requesting for cleaners to apply and u will get more than enough
For 50 clients,employ 8 cleaners ie assign a cleaner to 6 clients and prepare a roaster or schedule for the work.
Pay the cleaners N7500 each which is the minimum wage and to ensure commitment and loyalty,raise it to N9k.
If you have 40 clients paying you N5k each which is very possible and depending on the location of the estate,u can earn up to N200k monthly.
Pay the cleaners N60k-N80k and the balance is yours.Your duty is to supervise them to make sure the job is done.
Those graduates roaming the streets looking for office or white collar jobs are not wise.

Awesome. . . best idea so far

Wow. . . I guess someone actually "shi.t for body"

coded777:

. . . but is it possible to get a lady/woman pregnant within 48 hours? If yes, hoW? Is there a magic to make it happen or would excessive se x

. . . mind u Man is very fertile and sexualy active-
You're welcome, pls.

shakers:

pls tell me when is a womans ovulating or fertile period, is it b4 or just after her monthly flow? thanks

Yes, a man can get a woman pregnant in just two days. As a matter of fact,  getting preggy happens just within 48hours when a woman is  ovulating. Ovulating period is said to be 14 days after menstrual flow starts, but it varies as some women ovulate even 8 days after. So, if the man is "fertile" and they are lucky to have sex when she's ovulating, then pregnancy most likely will occur. If the two days doesn't fall within time, even if they have sex for 48 hours, they stand a near zero chance of getting preggy. I'll suggest they do it well from day 12-16 if they have the luxury of time.

ishit4body:

because you have seen that word used on NL, you now use it freely, what is the meaning of dumb?

You dont even know it, you mother foker. She is waiting, laps open.

Better people tried, all they got was silence, so, I am not gonna raise your ego by trading words with you.

When your momma opens are legs for you, make sure you spit on your d.cki head before inserting it. That spit means a lot. Anything you say further is surely to your mother at home.

Gross. Just wondering why you guys can't trade insults without dragging mommas and dads into it!

Old school

bo mi lowo omo daa daa

Talking about heigth, how old are you? If you're past a certain age, forget getting taller. As per getting fat, be very careful o, packing fat is not very healthy neither is being skinny. You can talk to dieticians and other people who can help with food type and supplements. Best of luck.

@spiked, stop being jealous of girlsoswit na
@girlsoswit, don't mind spiked, she wants in, but she should know the production crew can't be expanded to take an extra hand .

@topic(let's assume it's true)
Tell the girl to tell the guy to tell the child to go to her real dad ASAP

Kokorunma,
Ilewe wo lo lo gan ti won o ko e pe koo ma polowo website e ni wrong thread?

_{iwo lo da game wa ru},sogbo, iwo lo da ru joo

seduce ma foot

rokiatu:

@Cy perth why are you monitoring me like
my mom anyway?

don't mind me, i spend a lot of time in australia maself and i know it's really late now

_{By the way, you should set your watch o, it's 1hour late cos it's 12:22 in perth now and by your watch(judging from the first time you told moi), it's just 11:22pm}

rokiatu:

nope it 10.50 here. where did you get does info from?

what part of australia do you live in?
3:10am in sydney
2:10 in brisbane
3:10 in melbourne

kun eran yen da daa
@mykali, u dey try sha

love 'em fruits