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How can a married man be so careless and reckless to infect his wife. He deserved the public show of shame. You are cheating and at the same time exposing your family to deadly disease that it is so irresponsible. Shameless fool

Nothing good comes out of adultery,see embarrassment this man brought to his family. His kids might even be bullied in school cos of this video. For the woman to release the video I guess she is done with the shameless man

That Toyin and Aramide wanted a share of that millions that is what I observed. Give money commot eye at least the girl has cancer to the best of our knowledge.

German scientists found that most men/women who died while having sex were cheating and meeting outside of their family home.

The people criticizing the woman didn't read the story, the woman is just angry that he can't take care of his responsibility regarding his family. For the people saying that it will make him still cheat on her, the wife already knows that he is living with his mistress,is not about cheating but for the stupid irresponsible man to take care of the kids that didn't ask him to bring them into this world.

The OP sound learned enough and it never occurred to you to take a pill to prevent unwanted pregnancy. Why do you have to wait to do pregnancy test when you would have taken a pill to prevent it. I find it so hard to believe this story.

Adultery is ugly and God doesn't like ugly, nothing good comes out of adultery. These stories are supposed to be a lesson for adulterers to change their ways but they will still turn deaf ear.

I don't agree,cheating and physical abuse takes it any day. Nothing can destroy a marriage like cheating and physical abuse.

I was hoping to read something heinous your father did to you.Young man I know someday you will look back and say daddy thank you.You better respect your father for your days to be long. Children of nowadays,nothing I no go hear.

Be Faithful

‘She is your companion and your wife by covenant.’
Malachi 2:14 NKJV

As the culture around us becomes more permissive, the idea of faithfulness in marriage is being challenged. The entertainment industry promotes the idea that infidelity is a marvellous game for two. But they don’t tell you the downside. When it has run its course, it brings pain and disillusionment. And not only for the two people involved, but for those who love them, depend on them, and look to them for an example. It’s time for some straight talk about the covenant of marriage. After the thrill of the chase and the cooling of passion, you get back to cooking, cleaning, and earning a living. Yes, the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, but it still has to be mowed. When you’re dating you get to see the best aspects of someone, but when you marry them you get to live with their flaws, frailties, and irritants, much like those in the former husband or wife. And guess what? Married life begins to feel confining. Then what does the individual do when he or she is beginning to feel trapped? Hopscotch from one life to another in a vain search for something indescribable - something they never seem to find. What’s the answer? Instead of looking for the right person, seek to grow and mature and become the right person. Often the qualities you’re looking for in someone new lie undiscovered and unappreciated under the surface in the person you’re married to. These qualities are like seeds: if you water them, nurture and protect them, they will grow into something beautiful you can enjoy.

Bible in a Year: 2 Chron 32-33; Rom 1

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phreakabit:
Eya, you seem a bit pained. . .
Did i hurt your ego? Feel a little violated don't you? . . . .
Oh shut up!
Your argument and punctuation skills paints you in really bad light.
You come across as one with the intellectual capacity of a zygote.
I'd suggest getting proper education, before attempting a war of words with me.
You are punching way above your weight class and abilities here kiddo.
Tread with caution.

Fool that cant even stay with the topic and you are insulting urself. Are you a pathetic cheater? You are the one pained, that is why you have to quote.Quit quoting me, you disgusting philanderer.

phreakabit:
Your are a PERFECT embodiment of the term dem3nted ape.
I dare say you epitomize it!
My goodness!

BRO TELL YOUR BROTHER OH!
AIDS IS REAL AF!
A CHEATING WIFE WON"T HESITATE TO POISON HER HUSBAND.

You are a gorilla, yes a cheating wife will poison the husband but a cheating husband will not poison the wife. Yes she should talk to woman cos everybody deserve a second chance. Scumbag

numericalguy:
Its not anybody's fault you chose to marry a pathetic partner. Just because you failed in your matrimonial duties should not be a reason you would poison the minds of other women in happy homes.

I can't swear for any man cos I have seen adultery destroy my neighbours beautiful home. Pathetic and serial cheater like you,that won't be satisfied with what you got. You didn't read the thread but was quick to attack someone saying the truth. Yes pathetic cheater that's what I call cheaters. Please go and read the thread that made someone open this thread before you open your stinking mouth.

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quote author=Kaponanty post=47076616]
Thanks for your candid response but in all sincerity i don't want my brother to be part of this because he is a highly disciplinarian person therefore I don't want to involve him because I love this my sister in-law apart from being flirt.
At the same time, I don't want her to poison me because I don't trust anyone especially when it comes to marriage issue so am not so sure what would be her reaction if she discover that am aware that she is cheating.
You guys should come to my aid
Or maybe I should turn a blind eyes to it and pretend that am not aware?

[/quote]If you truly love her talk to her before your bros finds out.Nothing good comes out of adultery,someday the truth will come to light and the marriage might not be salvaged.Talk to her in a manner that will make you not look or sound like a saint. If you think she can poison you then she might as well poison your brother.If you keep quiet then really how do you look her in the eye knowing she is cheating on your brother. It is your decision if turning a blind eye is what will make you sleep easy.

Exactly just do you. There is always an excuse for cheating but the real truth is that the cheater is a dog and lacks self control. Even if you give it to him real good, turn to a slave,have all the plastic surgery with the best surgeon,he will still cheat.Just stay fit cos it is healthy and not for a pathetic cheater.

I don't think it is a good idea to tell your brother, your brother might even be cheating on her cos you can't trust men these days especially the ones that stays away from home. Sit her down and tell her that you know what she is up to. From her response you will decide if you will tell your brother.

The marriage broke down cos the woman wanted a child. The man would have taken the drugs and also pray that God heals him through the drug. A woman doesn't have much time like men,maybe her biological clock is about ticking.

Nothing good comes out of adultery. If someone didn't cheat,we won't hear stories that touch.

Odiegwu, the topic would have been "how to be a slave in marriage"

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quote author=Arsenate post=46258698]so because divorce is common and popular in the USA it's a good thing and we should embrace it in Nigeria, right?
Yeah everything the US does is right according to you Western zombie.

[/quote]Zombie,divorce is there for a reason,is because of people like you that people are murdered because they want to stay married. If the society doesn't judge then people will do what is best for them and be at peace with their decision. So if Toke decide to divorce the husband after the whole scandal you don't feel she deserve that peace of mind. Why will she feel ashamed if the society is not judging, it is that her adulterous husband that should be ashamed. Yes everything in US is good if that is how you want to drive your point African mumu

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You ppl that always refer to US for everything. Dyu see how little the regard they have for marriage is? Now men are sleeping with men and same for women. Women are divorcing women. Men are becoming women. Small time, they will marry and divorce animals.

Sorry for you who always think everything about the US is good. Jonzing.

[/quote]Yes divorce is there for a reason and I will divorce any man that put my life in danger by having unprotected sex. Yes I will refer to US and any other country that embrace divorce without the society judging and making the person feel like is her fault not to keep the marriage together whereas the so called husband is busy messing the marriage up. You have to be sorry for yourself that wants someone to be in a marriage that brings nothing but misery.

There is nothing to be ashamed of,after all it is not her fault. She can still find true love,obviously the man she married was not meant for him. If Nigerian society is like US alot of people will come out from their miserable marriages. Our society believe a marriage must work by fire by force even when both parties are unhappy. She should keep her head up cos a man that betrayed his marriage,slept with a girl unprotected and got her pregnant is not worth it.Tomorrow he will infect you with deadly disease. She can move on cos there is no child that tied them together.One day she will look back and wonder what she even saw in the guy in the first place.

The only telemundo soap that made real sense, you can feel the suspense and emotions is behind close doors and forbidden passion. I don't mind giving it 100%. I record most of the time and watch at my spare time but these two soaps, I can't sleep until I watch the current episode. I can give others average. Except for Aurora, Face of destiny,fearless heart,queen of hearts,someone is watching,these soaps is a waste of precious time,I only watch them with fast forward button. Infact Aurora was the worst can't even watch with FF button.

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Oga which one u dey? U said she should stay in her marriage unless the husband doesn't want her which I responded to. Now you are talking about her leaving without hearing from d husband. Do those two sentences mean d same thing? Odiegwu!! Go n ask divorcees wetin dey happen for court these days...unless the woman no know book before dem go do Nollywood movie style for her.

[/quote]Yes I said she should not leave her marriage based on that message on Facebook. When someone wants what you got,they will go to great length to take that away. The man is giving you money so why are you sending message to the wife .
I don talk my own. If she likes let her not hear the husband version before walking away thereby giving the girl the satisfaction she so crave for. You think is easy to walk away from a marriage?Ask Hillary Clinton why she didn't walk out of her marriage after her husband scandal affair with Monica Lewinsky. I am not supporting infidelity,you have no idea how it disgust me but this one is obvious someone is out to kick someone out from her home. Lest I forget, I am Madam not Oga

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Ok why should she wait to know if the husband doesn't want her before going?Then leaving everything she built...is she the only one building? The husband that played away match did not build too? Yet he is willing to go. If it's property, a good lawyer will get her half of everything the man owns. So let's leave all these stories...The only reason the woman should stay is if she wants to. That's all.

[/quote]Your asking why should she wait so you want her to pack and go without hearing from the husband just because someone sent her message on Facebook. Odiegwu in this Nigeria you will get half of the man's property,my dear this not US.Besides when I mean built I wasn't referencing to building.I already stated that it is her decision to stay or leave. If she likes let her not analyse the situation critically and leave her marriage is her choice. The girl in question was using someone picture that goes to show you she is out to get the wife out the way. I am not in the situation but I have stated what I will do, if it is me.

Desist from adultery, cos God doesn't like ugly all these are signs that you should stick to your wife. It is a lesson for those that have ears and concience. Stop bringing shame and disrespect to your family, all in the name that cheating is in men's DNA.How will the children feel knowing that their dad was killed because of s*x,which is so avoidable. You can be saying you can't meet same fate,but hey who knows how yours will end up.As for the adulterer in your next life,cherish your wife.

The prostitute have told the whole world what your p*** looks like and also insulted your wife.The girl was on mission to destroy the man's home by searching for the wife on Facebook. What kind of embarrassment is this? A shameless married dog bringing shame to his family because of s*x.

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I wonder when people will realise that wives/women are human beings with the same feelings and thoughts as a man. Just because society favours one over the other does not change their human make up. Let the side chic have the husband and wish them well. Then go with God to find a more responsible and respectful husband. Nothing is impossible. There is so much more to life than one man/woman. People need to start learning how to walk away and give yourself another chance at happiness...sad...

[/quote]I said she should not leave except the husband doesnt want her.The man might be having the affair with the intention of not leaving the wife but the girl wants more than just an affair. It depends on the wife if she wants to give the husband a second chance depending on what the husbands says and act. I believe in happiness which is the most important thing. But for a girl to be bold enough to send such a message to a wife she really wants the position or the husband is in support of her actions but if it is former then the woman have to decide whether to leave everything she worked and built,for a common prostitute.This is a lesson for men that pay girls for sex without knowing that these people are not your typical or average girls,they can ruin you if they put their mind to it.

The wife should not leave her marriage except her husband doesnt want her again. The girl in question wants the man to leave the wife for her.She wants the woman to leave so that she can enter or the stupid man is looking for a way out of the marriage,so he used the girl to put the news out to the wife so that the woman will be so embarrassed and humiliated and leave the marriage. The prostitute don't just want the man's money,she wants the wife position.

Sit him down and ask him camly about what you saw. Never you try to keep quiet and ignore it,don't listen to people that said you should ignore. If your husband was entertaining such chat then in no time he will certainly meet up with those girls if he has not done so already. You have to tell him but don't scream and shout down on him when doing so.

The red flags was there but you choose not to do what is right for you.I blame you cos why will you not finish your studies because you are getting married.When I was a student I know a lot of married women with kids. Why did you marry a man that doesn't want your progress.You didn't want to marry a rich man yet you married someone that doesn't want you to build wealth. With the things you have said,why will stay in such a miserable situation.Why will you live with a man that beats you at every chance he gets. You better tell your people what's up and leave that marriage before we start hearing stories that touch.

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I see that u are without sin. Perhaps that's why u can cast a stone. Adulterer or fornicator all carry d same penalty before God. Imagine if all adulterers and fornicators have to die now, I bet u would suffer d same faith.
God said .. Its not his wish that any sinner shud die, but that all shud come to repentance and be saved. Wish d dead well and stop attaching ur opinion or concept of right and wrongs to matters like this.
My opinion...

[/quote]The wages of sin is death. I am sure the wife must have told him to stop his act but no,he continued. I am not sorry for him cos he got what he deserved. My opinion too