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Lamide

An ex that ditched me? Hmmm! Attending his wedding will depend on a number of things:

1. Time interval between when we parted and the wedding - time they say, heal wounds. I do not really see me attending my ex's wedding 2 wks after he ditched me. The healing process varies from individual to individual so what could take you 2wks to get over,could take another one month.

2 How the relationship was called off and the circumstances surrounding same.

3 The extent of our relationship! If the guy had proposed and wedding plans were already in place, friends and family had been informed and all hands were on deck for the wedding and suddenly....... what on earth are my doing there? Not attending doesn't mean i do not wish him well! The best i can do is call him up and wish him a blissful marriage.

Having said all, i do not pray to be the reference point in this kind of scenario but if my ex ditched me, I just must forgive him, yes its hard but its possible. Everyone must covet the spirit of forgiveness as there may be times when ur loved ones would hurt you (either deliberately or otherwise). Then, i'd move on in life! Nothing should prevent you from moving on in life after a major dissapointment or disaster!

Which brings me back to our popular topic in the forum: "Keep Yourself chaste" You can imagine how much more painful it would be if the guy had slept with me a million and one times? I would certainly feel used wouldn't i?

Ha! Omase o! The guy needs deliverance for real. Tayotina/Mosiate, una still wan try? You no go flee?

mosiate:
dablessed don't fear me oh,I don't have any aritole yet, I'm just thinking of having one,maybe mamba uncle will do.

Why an Aristole? And why Mamba's uncle? Doesn't it matter to u that even Mamba himself said his uncle needs deliverance? U no fear?

mosiate:
I can only date a man who is 20yrs older than me if only he's going to be my aristole or sugar daddy for the main time,but I can never marry him oooooo

Mosiate, i fear u o! Be careful with your Aristo s o!

c0dec:
always let a woman, know you are the catch. let her know you're doing her a favor by talking to her.

Codec, this is just BULL. What kind of favor? Ehn? Nothing resents a woman more than this ok? U will never ever woo a woman!

Calling for help! Let's organise a deliverance service for Mamba's uncle o! Right here in the forum!

I always say a prayer: Lord, make me a successful woman but make my husband much more successful and I think every woman should cultivate the habit of doing same.

The man should be the head in all respect. When the reverse is the case, there is a problem. Men don't function properly when the woman is the breadwinner- there is something called the ego of a man! It contributes to the total make up of a man and if is shattered in any way, there is bound to be trouble.

holly

ugochukwu

Thanks ojere dominobaby, dont mind the old papa, telling me "it aint matter" . He's just an agbaya ojere. But i want to believe he's not the only man on this planet that has ever approached a girl, young enough to be his grand daughter. NairandHIS where una dey? Esoro now, ( make una talk) will u toast a lady u're 20yrs older than or will u support one? Talk o! Talk!

A man is never ever complete without the woman by his side {not behind o} abi na lie i talk? Be honest.

supolu

Hi folks, i was just wondering - would u go our with someone about 20yrs older? If yes, how do u intend to manage the relationship? If u're in an existing relationship and ur spouse is at least 10 yrs older, pls lets have ur contribution.

I went for a walk about half an hour ago and was approached by an old man- as in old enough to be my dad. Here goes our 2-minute conversation:

Old man: 'hello'

dablessed: Hi

Old man: Nigerian?

DB: yep

OM: Ok, r u ok?

DB: {walking away} yep thanks

OM: Pls wait, i just like u and would want u to be my friend.

DB: {Laughing} but u're old enough to be my dad

OM: It doesnt really matter, i promise to take care of you, at least better than all those youngsters.

DB: {laughing} Oh! it does matter to me SIR! Bye

OM: Byeee!

chawkee:
Ok, Dablessed you are forgiven. How is Jan? Stay blessed.

Charl.

Its terribly hot Charl - another opportunity for "them" to move around in their bikinis.

Ciao

Toluwanimi ( I am the Lord's)

Pet names are really good. I'll let u know what his pet name is when he shows up ok? Trust me, i will.

Ciao

Pinky:
[quote author=Rald2 link=topic=434.msg5130#msg5130 date=1118659056]Do you mean to say names like sweetheart, sugarpie, Honey and all that are no longer it? Are we talking about names for our pets I.e dogs, cats, monkeys or for a loved one?


I CALL MINE Ore! My spouse, my friend , my all

why act like you dont know what we are talking about here!! I was expecting you to say you call him DOG or RAT........ am taking based on what you said o!!... I dint know you were going to say na ore you  dey call your own.HUHUHUH![/quote]Pinky,

I'm full of laughter here o! you are just a case.

zuberu

valerie

Semilore

dablessed:
[quote author=chawkee link=topic=419.msg6005#msg6005 date=1118922551]Dablessed, correct for acknowledging it's a good idea. The correction to your typo gra gra error has been noted. Now, those wey  think say no be good idea, make una let the remaining forumnists (abeg pardon my grammar) hear why. Abi, Seun no be so?

Meanwhile, Dablessed, na outside naija you dey?

Charl. 

Charl,

What has location got to do with typo gragra? Ehn? Answer me?


Forgive me Charl! I'm in London at the moment.[/quote]

chawkee:
Dablessed, correct for acknowledging it's a good idea. The correction to your typo gra gra error has been noted. Now, those wey  think say no be good idea, make una let the remaining forumnists (abeg pardon my grammar) hear why. Abi, Seun no be so?

Meanwhile, Dablessed, na outside naija you dey?

Charl. 

Charl,

What has location got to do with typo gragra? Ehn? Answer me?

Kemmy,

Why did u reverse from "o" to 'H' - pls, i want to keep moving forward in life o!

And Babadudu just followed suit - Na wen o!

Gboluwaga

Fopefoluwa

Damilare

Dablessed simply means "the blessed" as the big book says: blessed is she who believes for........