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Why is it that men are perceived to be impotent when they decide to wait?

Hi,

I was in the middle of a hot argument today. The topic centered around " 1 out of every 100 men would wait " I gave a scenario of a friend of mine, whose husband disvirgined on their wedding night, after a six-yr courtship.

A party to the argument was so sure my friend must have told a lie. Said he: " Go back to ur friend and tell her to be honest, her husband must be impotent, it is not possible to find such a man, it at all he'd be 1 out of 100 men"

I am convinced my friend's husband waited for 6 years, I am also aware he is not impotent as they're going to have a baby next month.

Now bail me out guys, is it true u cant wait for 6 years? Why are men perceived impotent when they decide to wait, especially that long? 1 out of 100 is 1% - thats not good enough. It could be better!

The waiting game is certainly not old fashioned. I av friends that are waiting, some already married, as virgins. So it is not old fashioned. The bible is not old fashioned is it?

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Tayotina,

your friend certainly needs to be a member of this forum, please invite her in. Its obvious that she is losing her mind over a man. Please invite her in abeg! I'm sure the guy will dump her anytime soon. Please lets help our fellow sister, bring her in so she can receive her counsel in person. How many messages will you deliver to her? Abeg call her ASAP.

You certainly do not need a still small voice neither do you need to wait until a prophecy comes from a Man of God.

The Bible says: By their fruits we shall know them. What is the fruit of your relationship? Are you happy with her? Are you proud of her? Does she have the fear of God? (And I hope you do yourself)? Are you comfortable with her in public I.e in the midst of friends and family? Have you dealt with the issue of premarital sex and do you share the same opinion?

Then what are you waiting for? But make sure you have the resources to take care of a woman. You dont have to be a millionaire though. All the best.