₦airaland Forum

Angelanest:
A young girl who was crushed few hours ago by a speeding Lexus jeep driver at Uratta by Mann Street in Owerri, Imo state capital while assisting her mother in her petty trade (frying of Yam, fish and Akara ). The helpless body of the poor girl has been rushed to Federal Medical Center, Owerri. According to reports, the car which caused the accident - was driven from a car wash by a young man who was meant to wash it.

UPDATE; The little girl who was hit by the car has been confirmed dead following the horrific accident. May her soul rest in peace.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/08/young-girl-helping-mum-fry-akara-hit-lexus-jeep-owerri-photos.html

ELKHALIFAISIS:
Can these ladies truly say that these male friends did not desire their bodies right from the beginning? It is understood that friendship between man and woman presupposes the secret act of sex. They desired “love” from the men, hence they visited them.
Men are often blamed for rape because people believe women rather than men. The orgy of sex affects both sexes but men naturally would be the first to demand it from women and try to lure them into it. The ladies these days flaunt their bodies intentionally to arouse the men, they provocatively swing their bodies and visit men in their homes or secluded areas, dressed seductively just to arouse them sexually, only to irritatingly say no when men approach them. I see it as punishment for men. I disagree with the notion that “rape can only be stopped by men”. Men are not the cause but women who use “mouse to set trap for the cat” knowing that the cat will enter the snare. Women rape the men (as the case may be) subtly and then turn around to cry foul.... so stop shouting ok

SmartchoicesNG:
#damagedgoods

cococandy:
Why don't we get all the insults out of the way and see if somehow something sensible can come out of you.

1) I'm olosho. Agreed
2) I'm bitter. Agreed very much
3) I need to find a man so my bitterness will turn to sweetness . Oh wait I have one already. I guess he's not a real man then because what real man would be okay with a woman has a voice and cares about female oppression. Sigh.
4) I'm ugly and men don't want me that's why I hate men.
5) there's really nothing else left to insult me with.

Now that I've made your job easier. What sensible thing do you have to say? Oh I forgot you didn't want to 'descend' to my level of discourse. you prefer the high road of calling me a slut as a debate response. Dimwits like you come a dime a dozen and I've been doing this for a while now so I already know that take away those preprogrammed responses listed above, you have nothing meaningful to say. It's like a minion lord some where made your little minds and put nothing else but those in it. You're naked in a debate without the ability to call the woman a slut.


You should go to hell where you belong

Carry your frustrations and bitterness back to the man who made your life miserable.

I was told you've been MAD for more than a while .....but just take your Meds and get some sleep.
It does not take a minute for even a new person, to recognise you are derainged and need psychiatric intervention.

cococandy:
You're the one with lack of self control and somehow it's the women's fault?
Are you a brainless goat?

I don't think anyone is stopping you from teaching young men what needs to be taught. But are you? No you're not. You're looking for where young girls are getting help to derail it.

Devil's first son

Obalende:
hmm

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Imagine a world where every man can control his sexual urges and dictate when and where he actually wants sex.

We will be able to tackle this rape issue very specifically because it would only turn to those men who rape minors or as a result of robbery. There wouldn't be any case of boyfriend rapes girlfriend or something like that.

And most importantly the power to manipulate men will be lost. They gonna be bitter mehn [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Errr...she's actually married bro.[/color]

Obalende:
She has good points though... there is toxic masculinity stemming from the male ego... this ego sprung up when you started insulting her instead of addressing her points.

I think feminism will do a good job of curbing toxic masculinity....

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]I don't condone sexual violence. As much as I like sex I won't bother any woman who is not willing to go down with me that moment.

We will have problems if you try to use sex as a tool to manipulate me. But I will never force a girl into sex. Never!

And this goes beyond respect for women or whatever. As a man you need to control yourself too, when you show that you can't do without sex you turn into an emotional slave and fall for the whims and caprices of a woman.

If a man respects himself and practices self control, he won't have to "rape" a woman and he will get respect from that woman too. He's gonna win both ways. Self control and respect will benefit you first before it benefits your partner or any female you are in connection with.

I wish every man can learn this.[/color]

Obalende:
girls are taught in secondary school patriarchy theory.... how they were oppressed by men.... indoctrination continues in university... by the time girls are done with the school system they r man haters though they don't know they think they learned the truth...

Why not just let us all agree that rape is wrong and offenders should be punished, irrespective of which gender the Victim and the perpetrator is?

The new one is that of a "Wife" charging her husband for rape, when they have s*x, as married couple, inside their family home, on their family bed!

The idea is to make the husband to always beg for sex in his marriage, thus giving the wife an undue advantage over him. If he does not,
then she can put him in jail using such Rape accusations.

Obalende:
This gender stuff wasn't even a real issue before. Women were property? God made it so open ur Bible. Thou shall not covet thy neighbors wife....

Societies hv defended Queens.

This is just Satan's gender Warfare. Divide and conquer.

Obalende:
They trying to replicate exactly wat they've done in North America. ... making most girls hostile to guys and teaching dem all sorts like safe space, wat and wat is comfortable and comfortable, consent legalese, older guys are freaks and pedophiles etc.

Yao Biatch niggaz listen..... commercial sex dolls are now available.

Woman no b God. God and God only shall I worship not woman.

JeffreyJamez:
Men are raping Children, agreed. And you know this because of the media. Now ask yourself why has there never been a news of young male boys being raped by their maids, neighbors and aunties?.... because non of you would believe the boy child...or would try to cover it up. ..90% of Sexually active boys today are victims of child abuse...but nobody is talking about that and the perptrators are shining teeth Everywhere...it's always about the female child....Even if a group of guys gather to help, it is you same women that will use your devious and evil means to bring it down....

twinskenny:
what do u think happened here??

tosyne2much:
Who should men also consult when they are being faced with the same sexual abuse?

pocohantas:
Are NL guys naturally dumb or what?

I read that post three times and all I saw was victims and minors. No where did I see female victims, young girls or little girls.

These women took it upon themselves to handle such issues and una still complain. Okay, if you men feel they are not doing enough, start your own! Haba!

This Ediat is definitely a WORM.

A man-hating, frustrated Worm


Just see as dem don dey gather themselves come.

pocohantas:
Ahbeg swerve. Written all over it indeed.
People see what they want to see, makes it easier for them to be stupid without any worry.

JeffreyJamez:
Yeaaah, it's always about the female victims. The male Victims can go to hell and burn.

Ermacc:
where is the energy to read this long epistle about the brave Lt. col. Oscar Ibibibio? Why couldn't Abati make it short and funny like FFK.

linusbnn:
There is no monopoly in violence. When army starts killing them anyhow,u think pple will continue to look like slowpoke?. Guy,just pray that this situation is calm through dialogue because wen it gets hot,u might run away from your house.

maclatunji:
You are still missing the point, you don't get political appointments by blackmail. The president that spoke on Monday is not joking, anybody that wants to test the will of Nigeria will regret before long.

DreManuel:
What is beauty without brain?

Even Catalonia whose Capital is Barcelona wants to leave Spain. Self-determination is valid. Nigeria is a signatory to International law and Referendum is allowed. Let's even have this referendum and see what Nigerians think and not what few politicians that are not up to 5% of the Nigerian population think.

Nigeria will never be civilized if we can't get things like Refrendum done. UK via referendum is opting out of EU even when many of its political class differ. But the people decided and their will was honoured. No one said the union of EU or even UK that lumped us together for their economic gains was non-negotiable. I'm not surprised, majority of Blacks can't think independently and that's why we will forever be doing the biddings of Oyinbos.

The fact is Nigeria is never United and with the way things are, we may never be.

I'm Yoruba and I see how many people hate Igbos. If you hate them that much, and claim they are disgracing your country, shouldn't common sense tell you that you should allow them go?

doctokwus:
I am not a fan of Nnamdi Kanu.Infact I once called him a scammer and still believe that if Biafra is actualized,Nnamdi Kanu's plan would be for him to be emperor for life,with dictatorial tendencies.
However,its only a fool that won't realise that by omission or commission,Nnamdi Kanu has become a formidable force with an ardent followership,thus confronting him or any wing affiliated to IPOB would only make him more popular and may eventually turn him to a cult figure.
Kanu's ego needs to be massaged and a deliberate and proactive step taken to reintegrate the Ibos in the mainstream of governance.The position of SGF now vacant and other strategic ones that will soon become vacant is a golden opportunity and a window of opportunity for any sensible goverment to gradually and deliberately make the Ibos start feeling a sense of belonging.
IPOB and Kanu can at this late hour only be defeated by ideology and deliberate inclusiveness,not any archaic throwback to military confrontation of any arm of IPOB.
These senators are not foolish.Perhaps a few of the intellectual and deep thinking ones are seeing the trajectory Kanu is charting and have eaten the humble pie to acknowledge him as a formidable force to be reckoned with,distasteful as it sounds.

gsogbu:
This is very sad to hear. Earlier it was snake smugglers now it is a ritualist. I totally condemn the negligence on the part of the police, and will willingly volunteer to stage a protest in Port Harcourt until the police provides this criminal.
Lalasticlala Mynd44 please help move this to front page

xpool:
Who be lion?
If na so lion dey be you think say we go dey fear lion?

ruggedised:
we all know the gworo chewing old man is a living dead
what do you expect from a dullard