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WELLINGTON202:
I THINK HE DID THAT BECAUSE THE SAID LADY MAY NOT WANT IT THE WAY YOU ARE SAYING

Men who would do that for sex can't afford such wedding - tops they'd do is introduction.
Men who can afford such wedding wouldn't do that for sex plus plenty girls after them

jaszplus12:
I have seen this happen. Somebody close to me tried to woo the lady and after much rejection proposed marriage she agreed, they had the trado, she took in he gave her pills unknown to her which made her lose the baby and then he told her why he married her, then took off!
Guess what?? He had a wife and two kids then o!
He narrated the story to me HIMSELF!!
I quietly subtly put a gap between us since then ....

He Lied to you.
Made-up story just like this one

maasoap:
Life savings, lol! People who are struggling to get money can't play this kind of expensive game.

And men who have that kind of money won't have the time and too many girls after them

dkidd:
I personally know a girl that was a victim to such back then in 2011 in Ibabdan. This Yoruba guy just did introduction only and she relax the gates open wide for him to slam. After intro otilor... The girl no normal for sometime. Not everything is for cruise bro

Introduction NOT marriage ("with live band and buffet kitchen"!}
The marriage thing is what marks it a fake story.
That and "abroad guy"!

T9ksy:
Igbo. Zik was born by Igbo parents before the Amalgamation so he was Igbo.

Zik became the president of ISU- Igbo state union- a purely tribal organisation, in 1948. At the one year anniversary of ISU in 1949, Zik made a speech prophesying how ONLY his Igbo people can save Africa from the chains of bondage.

Note, he did not say "Nigerians" rather Igbo "cause deep down inspite of all the platitudes about his language skills, he is still an Igbo man from Onitsha.

I don't know what he said. Politicians can say anything to please whoever they're speaking to at the time. You go by what they DO.
After his studies in US Zik never neared nor touted Igbo land except when speaking to them, after THEY chose him

Nairalander248:
Lol. U never see people. No be everyone get your kind of temperament ooh

Know fake story when u see it.
A sought-after guy with money is a celebrity to such a girl. And on the extremely unlikely event she's unavailable, so many others to take her place!

maasoap:
I was used to saying this and I will say it again: IT DEPENDS ON WHO QUIT FISRT.
If you disvirgined a lady and she dumped you later and quit the relationship, my brother you lost.
If a man spent 50 million naira on a stubborn lady to buy her love successfully and the man later quit the relationship, the lady is the one who lost in the relationship. For the quitter, it is just a sex but for the betrayed partner, it is everything, their life

Wrong. If you spent your life savings to marry some girl then shortly quit the marriage, you LOST!

Also we're talking sex not love

Truvelisback:
Yes. No sane man will go to such length because of 3mins sex on Pussy.

Not to mention a sought-after guy with time constraints

Nairalander248:
How much is this put together? Calculate how much is 8k pounds in Nigeria if it doesn't get those things done

Time. The type of guy never has time plus is sought after

pimplucious:
It’s a long crazy story I still don’t have the presence of mind to pen it.

But you're 46 and DIVORCED.
Not same as we're discussing here

Longpriq:
this applies only to a glutton not a hungry man

Glutton how? You can eat so much meat and soup, you only need minimal fufu

jude79:
City boy; accepted.

More detribalized; His appointments didn't show that, he doesn't even believe in one nigeria, just that he's more deceptive and crooked in his dealings.

Plus a moslem; off point.

It's a comparison. More detribalized THAN Awo.
You can't grow up Lagos and be a rabid tribalist!

All North is Moslem. It's a HUGE political advantage for a person from South

CJStarz:
No mind the op
Him tu de lie

He's not lying. It's 200 here in Ajao, Ikeja, but smaller.
400 in restaurants

nifemi25:
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Thanks for the correction

You thanked him twice. Delete one and come thank me for correction

Longpriq:
thats ok your are just being logical. all i'm saying is one can never be enough no matter the logic you use in consuming the fufu

It depends on the quantity and quality of soup. There could be so much soup and meat fufu is irrelevant.
Logic!

T9ksy:
Of course, Zik wasn't after the oil money from the minority tribe in Eastern region rather he was more concerned about the fulanis leaving the union.
Oh well, I guess zik- the beautiful bride from the east- got what he wanted and the rest of us are now in a one chance bus to nowhere.

Don't blame him too much. He grew up in the North and spoke Hausa better than Igbo, lived in the West and spoke Yoruba fluently. Igbos claimed him but he was Nigerian in his mind. So what would he be if there was no Nigeria

laplace19:
I've seen it happen in Onitsha. Though the guy only took some fake elders to go pay the girl's bride price. They came back together and after sleeping with the girl, he told her straight up that he is not marrying her. He own did it because she was forming hard to get for him(the guy na rich business guy)

superCleanworks:
Keep playing.

I have seen this happen like twice in my life.

the first one was not marriage. The guy took

steeltrust:
it might be true

This has happened to my sister years back but it was only introductions

After the intro
Slept with my sister and broke up the following week

Don’t play with some men
Dem be cras

Mosdiii:
It's not fake. I have actually done something similar to a lady before when I was in my 20s. After getting her in to a relationship with me after all the hard to get she played. I later after 2 months lost interest totally

pweeryambre:
I know a banker friend of mine that did it, he even went as far as printing wedding cards and pre wedding photos. I still have their pre wedding photos. he called it off right before they started sharing the cards after insisting he wants her to get pregnant before they wed.

bestman09:
May be real.
I witnessed one. After lots of fruitless efforts to sleep with the lady, the guy kind of RENTED fake family and friends to go with him to the girl's family with drinks showing his seriousness to marry the lady, and after all said and done, he dumped her after getting what he wanted. He spent money then for the rubbish

One thing all your stories have in common - no actual mariage.
The marriage thing is what marks it a fake story.
That and "abroad guy"

"There was this abroad guy that came back, did introduction and traditional marriage (with live band, buffet kitchen, canopy and all that) just to chop my hard-to-get cousin."

Cmanforall:
No...
I meant it may not be a fake story that his cousin was dumped

But the actual reason maybe was not revealed. Meaning the guy might have dumped her because of what happened after the traditional marriage. So he didn't do the traditional marriage just to sleep with her.

Bolded is what story is all about and why it made FP. If that's false then story is false

Cmanforall:
It may not be fake, but the real reason for dumping her cousin was not revealed

Meaning it's fake
Contradicting yourself

Beautifulday:
How much are we talking about? Do you know how much in money and time people spend on foreign olosho?

And do you know we're in Naija?
People who have such money are sought after - and usually don't have time

pimplucious:
Nah not at all I’m financially okay I must say. I actually got married Nov 2022 and splitted March 2023. Not sure marriage is for me.

What happened? Gist us

FireUpNow:
He only wanted sex with her and was ready to pay the price of which he paid and got.

Paying way too much for anything like sex makes you a FOOL

Mike123oye:
Him na sharp guy...🥰

Sharp guys don't spend tremendous amounts of time and money on sex

T9ksy:
@ bolded, above...........sure, like Dr Nnamdi azikwe became a ceremonial president to a nobody with Grade II teaching Cert.

Exactly. Except that Azikiwe wasn't looking at oil money. He did it so the North won't have excuse to run away

T9ksy:
Awo never wanted the war, it was forced on him by the two protagonists and as such he chose which side is more in the interest of his people.

Nonsense. Awo was simply a corrupt opportunist like most Nigerians. He couldn't resist stupendous oil money that was starting to pour in. He became finance minister to a nobody and of course mysteriously became stupendously wealthy (we can guess how). But unlike Tinubu he couldn't use it to buy presidency!

vibratingpenis:
What are you even saying, didn't you see where they wrote that she almost went mad?

Keep consoling yourself on her behalf.

We Move.

Mad my ass. Mad 4 what? Story is FAKE!!
You can never embarrass a girl by spending lots of money to marry her

Kaptainkoko:
Story

Guys travel inter country risking their lives just for knack.

With marriage and live band, bah?

Emeskhalifa:
You have no idea the humiliation attached to it.

Which humiliation?? After a man spends energy, time, and money, and the marriage fails quickly and childless it is the man that has lost and humiliated

riczy:
Baba read again what u typed pls if its ok for public space

Why? Don't girls thoroughly enjoy sex or is it that they don't have sex 4 free?

helinues:
Why is your own headline different from the link you posted?

What was his headline b4 it hit FP?