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fawaz050:
There was nothing polite about him.

Actually he was quite polite calmly walking to the alter, instead of cussing and shouting

yewit37486:
America has a gun problem, it's nothing specific to Blacks, that's my point.

Black gun homicides rate is more than ten times that of whites. Fact

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tommy589:
No better promo for a church than this

Right! If it were here in Naija they'd play it that the pastor can miraculously stop guns. (Then there's those who'd say he's into juju - odeshi!)

Rapmoney:
What is with blacks and gun violence in the US?

Skydivine:
You are wrong. Check all the mass shooters, no black.
Stop bad mouthing your own

yewit37486:
Blacks?

He's right
See it in black and white below

Pussyisgud:
She is threading a path of destruction, you better kill that devil inside of her or it will destroy her.
Check all feminist their life don spoil none of them are married, the married ones are divorced and they weep in silence regretting the stupid actions of their youthful days.

Nonsense. Chimamanda Adichie, foremost Nigerian feminist, is not only a celebrated author, she's happily married to a medical doctor with children

drnoel:
Yep, now you get the point. That is the irony of it all.

Isn't the whole sex thing truly, truly ironical??

drnoel:
Not necessarily. Guys get mind. Know someone that did something close

Close. NOT full-fledged wedding with live band and "abroad guy"!

Also you can be sure it is fake because 99.99% of such stories on Nairalander are fake or embelished - to make FP. Almost nobody doing such tells the absolute truth.

On NL if a story seems possibly fake or embelished you can be 100% sure it is

Kaptainkoko:
You can't imagine what men go through to knack

Talking from experience

maasoap:
Far fetched. She too should go to the laboratory to do maternal DNA test now

Maternal DNA. Now you talking. Instead of saying you know 4 sure

maasoap:
The one thing that makes you funny is how you are speaking for everyone, home and abroad. Don't you think something is wrong with your argument? Even despite this very one we just read here!

You the one ought know something wrong when so many people can tell right away the story is fake and you can't - because "there are people being chased by money" and Nigerian girls all over the place rejecting them!

YelloweWest:
That's impossible to prove. He would simply say the marriage has broken down irretrievably and the court cannt give an order for maintenance or compensation because the marriage was not contacted via tge matrimonial causes act. The only remedy available to her would be what ever the native law and custom under which the marriage was contracted. That's how it works.

The provisions of the matrimonial causes act are not available to you except you are subject to it by marriage.
This is why not serious parent or church would give you their daughter without a statutory marriage.

Nonsense. Broken down irretrievably in 2 days, after he already bragged to witnesses it was all for sex. Plus, obtaining a traditional divorce is not as uncomplicated and pain-free as u think

dominique:
So we're now recycling old videos, fake stories to continue to push this fear women narrative. Let's keep fearing women while men keep dying like chickens in the hands of their fellow men.

I thought you're the mod. Says so right here👇

maasoap:
Imagine! Still denying what is obvious.

No necessarily. Suppose child is not hers? Switched at birth?

Omuuvwie:
Please how much is DNA test?

Below, Google is your buddy

YelloweWest:
Eyaaa not every woman is your mother. You are clearly the son of a whôre.

MrLibrarian? Never knew!

Zealag:
Believe it or not,guys will go any extent to fxck a lady that plays hard to get. My own experience.
My secretary met a guy online last year,he stays in (Mainz) Germany,they got along and continued chatting and VC daily to the extent that she fell so deep inluv with the guy that she even VC him when she’s in the bathroom,dressing up and told this mystery guy everything about her life and her family jus in the name of been open to the lohl.
Funny enough this guy also spent on her in the early stages,sent her euros oftentimes.
Dude told her his coming back around February to see his family members back in Lagos,she immediately shifted her leave of 2weeks to February just to meet her online husband which definitely happened.They had good time,enjoyed each other and dude left her traveled back to Mainz and immediately break up with her,blocked her on all social media till today.

Believable story.
Different from saying he did full trad wedding with live band!

maasoap:
They can have the time because some people no dey chase money, na money dey chase them



You don't know what ego and bruised ego means, do you? Laughing

My friend this is so only in your head. In real-life Nigeria such rich men do not exist, whom money would chase into full marriage just for sex. And if they did exist girls who would reject them into it do not exist.
Also an abroad guy has very limited time when in Nigeria - too much to do b4 having to go back. No time 4 nonsense

MamaletASO:
Engagement is the Traditional Wedding.. maybe English dey confuse you..

Process of wedding:

*Introduction
*Engagement (traditional wedding where dowry is been paid)
*Then, you can proceed to Church wedding, if you are Christian, that's all.

You got Court to collect certificate, for your wedding to have legal backing...dazzol

Pure nonsense.
Engagement is engagement - you have agreed to marry and your families have agreed - you can easily withdraw.
Trad wedding - you are fully married and you have to go through difficult processes to end the marriage

YelloweWest:
It doesn't pls! In circumstances like this if the matter is brought to court the court would refer the woman back to her native law for redress since it is under native law the marriage was contracted.

She can't get alimony or even a settlement. Under native law she gets nothing!

Not true. He'd be treated just like any 419 criminal who used false pretences to obtain

Fiscus105:
So, the abroad guy that stayed in abroad also knew that ur cousin was forming hard to get? I guess the abroad guy is jobless in the abroad he based.


Many of you mistaken deceiving woman to sex, or Marriage that's not last to forming hard.

Marriages can be failed because of many reasons which is different from, because she is forming hard.

The process of Marriage is too tedious for rational human beings to involve himself for sole purpose of sleeping with that girl.

Na wa

YelloweWest:
This is why you must do court marriage as a lady!

Your traditional marriage offers you zero protection from monstrous men.

If she was married in court, (marriage registry) she could find for divorce and get full compensation!

You are wrong. This is a common misconception. Traditional marriage with photos and witnesses has same legal weight as registry marriage IN NIGERIA. Outside Nigeria or foreign embassy is a different matter

MamaletASO:


Hmm..bros no be fake oo...

I know a stoopid guy that have done it to six -girls..

He did engagement just to fvck the ladies..and the guy didn't marry anyone of them...

He travelled to just Libya in Africa the guy was deported...

It's been long I hear from the guy...I bliev the guy fit dey suffer...those ladies he offended by putting them to shame will affect him...

It's real.

Just to fvck pvzzy you guys do some crazy things alot

Did you read the thread at all? Everybody is talking engagement or introduction.
Here's OP's own:

"There was this abroad guy that came back, did introduction and traditional marriage (with live band, buffet kitchen, canopy and all that) just to chop my hard-to-get cousin."

Beautifulday:
And you feel a guy must accept any girl that comes his way? If you have money, you will start selecting girls. Money brings out fetish in men

You don't understand. Not only are there no such rich men, there are no such girls in Nigeria

Beautifulday:
You mean dirty women? Money make you seek different class.

In Naija if you have money and what money can buy, girls will be there whether u like it or not - all kinds. That's how things work here.
Desperate, broke guys are the ones who'd do carry-wine introduction for sex!

Beautifulday:
Everyone who has such money has excess time because nah illegal money. There are too many money miss road for this country.

No time in the sense that they have too many Naija women after them. Too many to deal with to start doing fake marriage 4 one.

dkidd:
U don't have to rule it out completely some guys can go to any length for pussy just to bring it down.

Not in Nigeria when it comes to money, with the type of girls I see around here

jaszplus12:
Well, he told me the truth about the fake wedding he had with a lady just to lay her!
Isn't that the reason for this thread??

He lied to you, simple. He lied to you the wedding was just to sex her

jaszplus12:
Guy, I saw with my own eyes the photos of the traditional wedding.... With my own eyes...
Anyway, no need trying to convince you.

Then he lied to you he wasn't serious about the wedding. Tops even a crazy man would go is introduction, a totally crazy man may go as far as bride price! Plus, see above

adolphus08:
That money is chicken change by the time he converts dollars to Naira. Do you believe how much Nigeria men spend on women. At a point it becomes about getting even or getting revenge, not just sex .
He even smacked her around a bit to prove his point.

Nigerian girls will fight over any man to whom such is chicken change as in below, plus single too!

MrBrownJay1:
another yeye fool got played...

More like another fool played himself. Only that story is fake