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Congratulations...

Happy birthday Sir! Congratulations...

My mama Jam jam, so sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace.
But on another note, you look good. Your stature is simply perfect. Please maintain this shape. Looking too skinny doesn't fit you.

Rest in peace Sir. I was born there.

Congratulations, may God see them through.

Please can we stop this taliban nonsense already. Everyday we must post about them and this makes them important. Any taliban thread should stop coming to the front page.

Congratulations Sir! A man diligent in his business will stand before kings and not mean men. Well deserved. More power to your elbow.

This man is now synonymous with suspension. Na wa o...

Amen

This brought so much joy to my heart.

All these for vaccination. What a waste. Vaccines we couldn't produce.

I pray this news is true. I love them, especially Kanye.

Beautiful

Nice.... But the child doesn't even know the value.

Happy birthday sir! Athletes always look good even at old age.

If God confirms that both of you can get married despite the genotype challenge, you will not give have any children with sickle cell. Remember, God makes rich and adds no sorrow to it.

She herself is less privileged, she needs the money. She should do a fixed deposit for like 6 months. By then we hope the husband would have calm down.

"I am reaching out to you in this regard". Correct that.

Chidinma.... see what your greed has caused you. Your father sent you to school to study, you went about following married men. The irony of all these is that we never heard that her father couldn't sponsor her. So her reasons are unacceptable.
May God have mercy on you.

It is well my sister. I just recently realised that the challenge most entrepreneurs have isn't power, access to funds etc. But their major challenge is People. No one to trust.
Please don't give up, be consistent.

Do your research in agriculture.

anthonyuncle:
you guys made the mistake of pushing him into marriage.

use some money to rent another apartment for his wife & kids.

also,see how you can set up a business for his wife so that she will be able to take care of the children.

call a family meeting, let the family lands and properties(in the village) be shared amicably & do legal documents for your own properties.
then, collect that car from your brother & give it to someone else to be remitting cash to you.

your brother have decided to be a waste, accept this and ensure that no one goes down the drain with him.

if he relocates to the village without the properties being shared, he will be selling the family lands every month so that he can get beneath the wrapper of that woman selling kai kai

OP, this is the advice you need.

bukatyne:
Unfortunately, your BIL is not pro-marriage and it takes two to build a healthy home.

The emphasis on healthy.

I actually do not think cheating is a big deal for you.

I don't know the solution to your sister's issue: I don't if she is whining just because or if she is currently so disgusted with her husband that the only thing that would give her sanity is ending the marriage. So it is actually not on your place to want the marriage to continue; it is left for her & her husband to decide.

That said, if she wants to leave the marriage, then she has to be very realistic about it. She is currently not earning and has to be able to support herself and children before she thinks of walking away. I would have thought that the moment her husband had a baby mama, she would realize that phase one of the marriage is over and all previous agreements no longer stand and re-negotiate the terms of the marriage.

It is not too late so she should look for a way to earn and be able to support herself before talking about leaving.

When she can stand on her feet financially, your opinion would no longer matter in her affairs with good reason.

Dear OP,this is the advice you should give her. When they say women should work, they think it is just a joke. If she leaves, she will be like a prodigal wife, later coming for crumbs.
She should just make sure she uses a condom if she has to sleep with him.

Read the story and was moved to tears. May she continue to find help.

Only thinkers will rule the world. I wish Nigeria has the enabling environment that will allow us think in this manner. We still worry about providing our basic necessities.
It is well....

Congratulations to the intending couple. God bless the union

Spot on.. Very helpful.

Our star girl...

Finally... Let's observe the trend.

God is a God of order. Before he created man, he created food first. How will you be thinking of marriage when you can barely take care of yourself. That is suicide in the making.
I like my church for that, they confirm your source of income and other necessary information before they can approve a wedding ceremony.

Congratulations to them.

Congratulations ma'am! More power to your elbow