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It doesn't make sense 2 me eida.

Bbsharon:
what is yours?

Ok, my aspiration in life is to make heaven.

In Beyonce's voice, "My aspiratn in live is to be happy"#prettyhurts

Kimoni:
I laugh in Swahili

True true, you be new bride. Shior

You are about to start your married life in a family house with a brother-in-law and his wife as well as your sick father-in-law and the only thing that bothers you is the maid because she doesn't greet you

Hehehehehe sorry o, madam the madam

Do you have a job? Pls get busy with work such that you won't even have the time to notice who is greeting you or who is not. If you were living alone, who would have taken your clothes off the line?

My dear, get your priorities right. The maid is not yours, face your husband and stop behaving like madam in a house that's not yours.

***modified - I went back to read your post, I honestly think you have bigger issues. You are not even married to him yet and you authoritatively want the maid gone cuz she calls you by name I just hope you don't scatter that family before you finally get married to him sorry for my harsh words oo but you have personal issues you need to resolve asap

Spot on!

Charles545:
....to start with,the phrase "that you" is not a judgment,it is rather referred to as 'charges'.
the meaning is thus: giving notice to an accused person about the allegation he is called upon to answer

Thanks 4 educating me! Its a charge, noted.

I dont like reading this judgments @times, what is the meaning of "that you". Everytime "that you".

Keneking:
Agreed the principle is okay. However, the books would not be fine if they go ahead to apply the fine (committed in year 2012) in year 2015. Adjustments would be made and yes, i agree it would affect earnings. However, it would be fair for the health of the company if the amortization period (five years) is taken 2012 - 2016 vs. 2015 - 2019 or ten-year plan to cushion the impact.

I get u, but dat will be total accounting engineering. If dey back date dat, then what happens 2 d cash flow statement, are dey going 2 back date dat also?

Keneking:
Exactly, for the sake of accounting, the reversal in the books is imperative, otherwise the recovery time would take more than five years (N200bn per annum or 2015 - 2019). Unfortunately, this hit would have been avoided if it had complied with the directive in 2012 (period of notice)

I don't think dat will be right, dey ought 2 recognise it as a liablity 4rm last month wen d fine was imposed. Doing a prior year adjustment will be a mis-representantn of d acct. When d fine is paid, it shud den be amortized over a period of say 5yrs, 2 cushion d effect on d profitablity. But dey might have cashflow issues i.e negative net cashinflow/outflow, cos dat can't be amortized.

Op, dats very sound. MTN shud even employ u, but a quick questn, are u saying MTN shud do a prior year adjustment 4rm 2012 cos of dis fine?

Wow! I enjoyed d last five episodes of queen of hearts! But dere were great lessons 4rm d telenovela;
1. Never trust nyone
2. When one is in danger rada dan go phyisical, try 2 work on deir psyche(learnt dat 4rm victor)
3. Never allow hatred&revenge 2 be-cloud ur sense of reasoning.

Lastly, I'll miss d sound track. It had d best sound track. Also I'll miss Connie, she always made me laff

Congrats Mrs Aisha Alhassan!
Female President next!

Op, 2 say d truth, u'll be heartbroken. I was once in ur shoes&I was d fool doing all those things u mentned above. If I were u, I'll stop calling him & see if he calls u @ d same rate. Babe open ur eyes, stop "following ur heart", d heart doesn't think, use ur head.

goldfishsk:
I had given my wife all the liberty to use facebook, whatsapp and other internet applications.

Pls can u xplain d above? So are u saying u can stop her 4rm using dem? Is it a Master-Slave relationship?
As far as I know she has every right 2 use dem with or without ur permission.

Also seems u're not comfortable with d guy, just come out straight 2 her, she shud understd.

Bbsharon:
Thanks...
we learn everyday.

Yes dear. In short d best thing I did den was not getting pregnant, cos dat wud have ruined my whole life. I'm always grateful 2 God 4 giving me wisdom in dat area.

OP, I see y d guy is stalking on u, u're very smart. I wish I were like u wen I was 19, I wudnt have had d kind of relatnship I had den. Pls keep up dis attitude, it will go a long way 4 u in future, besides I don't expect ur type 2 make mistakes in choosing a partner.

When I was in a relatnship den, I was d fool & kept "following my heart" like dey say, but now my story is different. I'm a different person now, with a very strong personality&its working 4 me. Let's just say I learnt d hard way.

Op, u're on track!

OP, so sorry abt ur friend's predicament. I also have a challenge of talking fast, so ppl hardly hear what I say especially when angry.

I learnt sumthing dat anger is a choice&dat no one can make u angry. So wen issues arise, I just keep quiet&dat makes me calm. Even if I'm forced 2 talk, I'm able 2 talk calmly cos I chose not 2 be angry.

I noticed over time dat when I get angry, I suffer more even if I end up hurting d person so much especially with my bad mouth, but d memories&d anger spoils my day&makes me un-easy 4 dat whole day. Dats y I adopted dis strategy&its being working.

Also prayers are helpful, look @ mosses he was a stammerer&dat didn't stop him 4rm achieving God's purpose 4 him. Sucide just makes him more of a weak person&sumone dat can't face challenges. Its not d solutn, derefore not an optn.

It is well.

OP, I 'm sorry but this is rada disappointing. Hw can u go thru all these with a woman&now be contemplating weda or not 2 marry her? Y didn't u leave her 4 sumone in her "level" as u put it, who will accept her d way she is.

Op, I'm almost forced 2 say y did u get married, u're just 24 what's d rush 4 crying out loud. Nywys, I think what u can do is 2 defer ur admission, dis will give u time 2 get settled.

I'm sorry @Op, but u sound very foolish. U 're in ur late twenties&u still reason like dis, it is well.

Wow! I've seen several paintings of my Bishop, but dis is d best so far.
Dis isn't just a painting, but stories in pictures, helps 2 bring good memories & 2 appreciate life better.
I'm sure dis will probably be d most meaningful of all he has received. I don't think money is enof 2 appreciate what this guy has done.
May God bless u & may Heaven on Earth be ur experience. May ur life be as colurful & beatuiful as dat lovely painting.

morbeta:
If he is bold enough to say that in front of national and international viwers, then it might be true. If anyone says it lies, just come up with evidence.

U're 2 much jare! I just love Amechi!

So will u because of car accidents on daily basis not drive ur car?

Op, take heart dear. It is well.

Dats hw we roll. D best thing dat eva happened 2 me#missindependent

Dats hw we roll. D best thing dat eva happened 2 me #missindependent

ajensly1987:
"I love her with all my life and she loves me with all her Future"

sorry Op o! Dat part cracked me up!

No 1

OP, pls don't marry dis guy. Dis is not d only decision u'll make 2geda, if he's reasoning like dis den u're strictly on ur own. 4 instance wen u start having kids, he'll say he wants a particular skool, even if he can't afford it, he'll start borrowing up & down den ur family will den be beggers. Pls&pls, have a rethink.

I always said it, right 4rm wen Siasia was given d opportunity 2 coach, dese players are not disciplined. Little by little, every coach will notice dis.

Children are no longer safe with deir parents again. What is happening? Are we cursed or something? Dis is babaric!

This thread won't be complete without my own birthday wish.
First, I want 2 say a big Happy Birthday 2 d Man after my heart. I must confess, ur life has been an inspiratn 2 me&I won't be where I am 2day but 4 ur obedience. I love u so much, wishing u many more yrs in good health&more grace.

My Telenovela fans, hw una dey? Happy hols o! Feel d passion!