₦airaland Forum

Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

Like I said earlier, your first mistake is thinking that men and women are the same.
Be a woman and quit trying to act like a man. If you fụck around, you're a slụt and no man's gonna keep you. But if you insist, Go get a cat and marry your job.

I'm done even answering this one

This is too dangerous

Kobojunkie:
Then why are you here, wickedly mind you,suggesting this woman ignore the sexts and pretend it is all a prank?

God said something about doing to others as we would they do to us... but here you conveniently belittle another's pain only to then reveal that you wouldn't have as much patience in the same situation as she seems to.

Exactly!

The problem in this country and others like us is that even maritally, there are laws that men can break at will while the wife must understand and be patient but she can't even think of adultery not to talk of doing same. Till he brings her diseases and heartaches that will make her have stroke/ heart attack.

And they're the first to blame Buhari for his nepotism.. we're not yet ready or serious as a people to remove double standards in all areas, then this imbalance will clear off and we'll have a healthy nation once more

lagosrd:
I quite agree with you but she needs to settle her head down first. Her problem is not perculiar to her. Looking at her husband's phone will only make her see what she is not suppose to see. What you don't see doesn't irritate you.

While working on his other weaknesses by any methods she plans to use, she should also bear it in mind that marriage is not for revenge purposes. We live Ina society where what men does can be categorized while what women does can be stereotyped and could be turned into a stigma. Thanks patience and wisdom is required.

Like she should be patient while he infects her with any disease he cares to contract with his philandering? Women don suffer abeg!

Will you ever advice any man whose wife cheats to take it easy and be patient? The black man treats a woman so poorly it beats my imagination why they're that way

Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

I always pity women girls like you. You think you have it all figured out but you don't know shịt.

Men and women don't show love the same way. You end it with a man who loves you because he slept with a girl he doesnt give a shịt about, only to end up with another man who's gonna do the same. Try that your advice at home and find your ass on the streets where you belong in less than 2secs.

What's good for the goose is also good for the gander... How do you justify a man leaving the woman he 'loves' to sleep with any random lady he doesn't even care about I am right in saying men are that way, they just sleep around for what exactly

Yet with your childish mind, you would send a wife who only paid you back to the streets.... For your your mind oh... That's if you married a jobless poor lady that your type love to marry so you can treat them like poo and turn them to glorified house slaves

Cheerycherry:
Good evening family landers, I created this account because of this and I need advice from people that have been married for a while.

I've been married for almost 3 years now and we were in a relationship for more than 6 years before then.

Since I married my husband, I've noticed that he's an emotional cheat so to speak. One time I stumbled upon a chat with a girl saying things like if I catch you I will wound you with d ick.

When I bring it up he will tell me he was joking and even swear with his life that he will never cheat on me he's just joking.

Earlier this year, I stumbled upon his chat with a girl who I happened to know as well, a very young girl sending his shirtless pics and asking her if she knows how to ride d ick well if she can kiss and suck his whatever well.

Asides this, he sent her money up to 13,000 in the space of a week while he kept telling me he had no money and I was managing my personal money to run stuff.

He apologised and said its because I don't kiss him when we have s ex and he didn't even intend meeting the girl that it was him catching cruise.

This week again I stumbled upon his chat with another girl, he has known this girl for a while tho and I've met her too. He sent her a message saying Je ki n do e kara e bale in yoruba which means let me f uck you let your body calm down. I've been mad since I saw this one cos he apologised and afterwards said he was just joking.

I'm tired of the disrespect the whole nonsense brings to me and I'm considering leaving. I have a well paying job, I take care of my personal expenses and send money to my parents and siblings myself and we have a child together.

It's not s ex cos we have sex not less than 2-3 times a week; very satisfying s ex.

I need inputs from married people please.
We have an ongoing building project together which we are both sponsoring 50:50. I'm not an uptight person at all, I talk, I make jokes, I'm not boring!

A cheat will always cheat..... Most men are thIs way.... They love to talk dirty... I'm sure you self will have one or two former classmates or ex s on your contact who would be doing so to you.... Go ahead and talk dirty with the two and make sure he sees it.,. ... He'll know what it feels like too

tommy589:
You have time for these people o.As if Awolowo was the only one released from calabar prison. It was just 2 days after Gowon became head of state he released him. Awolowo sent letter to Ironsi to take a second look at his imprisonment but no response.
Before the Igbo lost power,Why did Ojukwu as the premier, not release Awolowo and his partners when lronsi was the head state

It is either they don't have any idea of history or their parents told them white lies to make sure their offsprings hate Yorubas. Yet Many of them carry out their businesses peacefully and build anywhere in SE without fear or favor. The Head of State then, wasn't blamed but Awolowo who is not the leader of any security or the nation!

Jealousy will finish many At least Ojukwus their champion fled with his family and didn't wait to partake of the hardship he brought on his people

Amb1045:
During the Nigeria-Biafra civil war, many Igbo people fled other parts of the country for the East because they were being killed and massacred wantonly and the government was doing nothing about it.

Many abandoned their homes, properties and businesses for safety. Of them, was a young Igbo architect who had a young Yoruba banker as a neighbour in Apapa, Lagos. He also abandoned his home and with his family fled for the East.

However, the young Yoruba banker, while the war lasted, rented out his neighbour's house and kept every kobo for him while he was in the East. After the war, the Igbo architect returned to Lagos and the Yoruba banker handed over the entire proceeds of the rent and also the house to the Igbo architect.

Some few years later, the Igbo architect became the Vice President of Nigeria and the Yoruba banker established a commercial bank, the first by a private citizen in the country's history.

However, he could not get a license to begin banking operations. Many people were against him because it was unheard of at the time.

At this time, the banker remembered his neighbour who was now the Vice President and tracked him to the Christ Church Cathedral, Marina, Lagos on a particular Sunday. He had tried to get appointment to see him in his office but without success.

He and his wife then decided to go lay ambush for him in Church but the security men did not allow them. They then decided to sit by the pew close to the aisle to beat the security in the hope that the Vice President would see them while he walked to the front row. Yet, he still didn't see them.

After the church program they positioned that he will see them on his way out. However, the people following him out and security blocked his view. That was when the banker's wife decided to take a risk and like the woman with the issue of blood, she pulled the Vice President's cloth to get his attention who then turned and saw his old friend.

The young banker then narrated his plight and told the Vice President how he had tried to see him and what he needed to see him for. He told him about his application for a bank licence.

“Don’t worry yourself. Just come tomorrow at the Federal Executive Council meeting which I would preside because President Shehu Shagari would not be there,'' the Vice President assured him.

By 3.00pm the next day, the Finance Minister called the banker on phone that his licence was ready. The rest they say is history.

That young banker was Otunba Michael Olasubomi Balogun while the architect in this narrative was one of Africa’s Elder statesmen and former Vice President of the Republic of Nigeria, late Dr. Alex Ekwueme. The bank is what is now First City Monument Bank.

- One good turn truly deserves another.

- It is good to love our neighbours as ourselves, and importantly - Honesty pays.

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This should serve as a lesson to the very few naive Nairaland Igbo warriors who hate Yorubas and always spew hatred that Yoruba people usually play fair game and love their neighbors whether they are Igbo, Hausa or any other tribe....

I come in peace

Northernblood5:

But, when it's time to donate to developing countries, You see Africans receiving huge amount from EU, Ungrateful people. Time has come for the world to end the war in Europe and avert WW3 through economic isolation of Russia, Africans are now bringing out useless sense they couldn't use to develop.

African idiots hating US is just doing so out of Jealousy. US is more organized and ahead of most Black African countries and nothing Pigs can do about it unless the start voting like people that really wants to develop

Whatever EU or US gives Africa is a very small fraction of the wealth they have taken looted and are still taking out of the African countries

Good news

Good luck to him elsewhere

wolesmile:
These bandits are becoming more and more daring. If something decisive is not done soon, they'll start entering military bases to kidnap high ranking officers. Perhaps then, our government will start taking the issue of security serious.

It has happened before, when they attacked a barrack, kidnapped a Colonel and demanded ransom! Shame on government led by a rtd General....

In short, most high ranking police officers and top ranking soldiers don't merit such, if not for the evil skewed system designed to favour them!

Skyfornia:
Na waoo...Annie and her family always putting tuface on the spotlight. 2Baba is too gentle for this type of family, he deserve a wife like Simi and not some crazzy addicts.

See as Annie brother dey disgrace himself... are you not a man?? Must Annie help you?? Too much entitlement in his speech..definitely affected by drugs...Say No to drugs!

He's even her elder brother.... Benefits boy! He get liver to born 3 pikins he cannot care for

Orisirisi

dawnomike:
Djibril Cisse's ex-wife? Nah! The lady just have a thing for black and famous.

.....And gullible suckers

kcowen:
Many things are wrong in this administration and RCCG won’t be left out either. I remember how Baba made us think Buhari was the man Nigeria had waited for cause Osibanjo. Even teens Easter camp out that year, our theme was centered about Osibanjo & the miracle of him being VP.

Actually you're riy... It's a miracle that a Pentecostal church pastor is the VP.., it will be great to have the miracle of such a competent SAM and Pastor as a president... We have had mallams, so why not?

buckeyemedia:
What is the difference between APC & pdp, I bet you can’t answer?

So tell us Mr oversabi

gaftsoil:
That means he love d woman. Lol. If nt em 4 de squanda d money so dat d woman won't get much after divorce

Someone that's 16 years older than him? Love for wia? That kinda lady who was married to Cisse but after she finished that one dumped him and now married to Kante... She's totally in control of the guys resources...

His eye never clear, she'll teach him correct sense

chatinent:
I just pity Buhari when he steps down as president. Nigeria will be too hot for him.

I see him escaping to the UK.

He must go back to his beloved Katsina and enjoy the piss in his hometown .

If Londoners did not make their own city a delight to come to, will he be running to and fro abroad?

All Buharis supporters will get served one way or another to pay for their sins

gaftsoil:
I am a chelsea fan but this kante is damn stingy even to himself. To buy better car na problem, to buy better clothes and shoes na problem. To even eat better food or even try to look fresh na big problem. To even snap picture with his wife na issue, em no wan pay for photographs. I am sure he drinks satchet water. Who is he saving for, or does he play virtual?

Hes saving for the upkeep of his wife and the alimony/ divorce when she finally leaves him for the latest star football millionaire

ArchiLimited:
I actually went online myself to search and there was NO single photo online of kante and his wife together. Not even 1. And this is a millionaire, a world cup winner and one of the most popular people in the world. If everybody treated social media privacy the way kante does, things would be better.

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If she is a Nigerian lady, she would be termed a gold digger.... But this woman has made a golden plan of marrying celebrity African football millionaires who she will dump immediately he stops being a star and sue him for the better part of his money/ wealth...

White women must teach stupid black men sense by all means... Their mumu never do .

A whole 16 years his senior...haba!

Flexherbal:
This is sad

It was said he died of heart attack and slumped.... What is this that he died in the stampede again?

A living testimony to a great lady's work

EdwardRandy:
And for your foolish reasons SS and SW have become one? Abeg get out.

You should stop throwing tantrums like a kid. O never claimed SW and SS we're one... You were the one who foolishly said SS should not forget what SW did to Jonathan and in case you were still a baby when Jonathan was handpicked by OBJ, so now you know...

I pray ASUU and co resume work so that these young uns will go back to class

qekng40:
Nigeria

Something must have triggered this

Sad really



Many are going through stuffs silently

Cryomancer:
Same way God told Osinbajo to become vice president and Remi Tinubu to become a senator.... Look where that has gotten us today as a country.

RCCG and it's pastoral ordination process really needs to be checked because these guys after ordination keeps bringing the name of God to disrepute by saying things that we know God would never say to their type of person.

If Osinbajo and Remi Tinubu after their open and bold telling of lies in public can still remain a pastor in RCCG then it shows that the ordination is not of God.

Been a member of RCCG for more than 12yrs but my distaste for the church in the last 2yrs is on the high side and I'm still seeking out a good church free of scandal to start attending.

God selected Saul to be King..... Same as David, Jehu and others, yet all their kingdoms still experienced troubles, famines, wars etc..... God isn't the problem............

, it's the human factor!!!!

Remi Tinubu and Osinbajo are only 2 people in the midst of thousands of politicians... At least you can't pin any of the problem in Nigeria directly on them. We actually need more God fearing men and women in our government

MrBrownJay1:
demented holy fools!

Don't think think you're too harsh?

What's his offense that you called him demented

CaptainAyub:
God bless SW and SS?
SS already know how well u ppl treated her son when he was president
Where are your ojota dancers?

Jonathan was handpicked from SS after Obasanjo removed Alameisigha and he became governor.. OBJ handpicked Jonathan ahead of many ready and willing ex. Governors as running mate to Yaradua

The SW was the major factor he became the president when the secrecy surrounded Yarduas passing,.. Many lawyers in SW and other sectors.

The only reason a SS son became VP and President was because OBJ from SW made it happen!

Tochj:
Have you heard UGM attacking workers at 2nd Niger Bridge?
Or any people oriented program.
They are only attacking security officers

Don't make excuses for UGM! Some of those security officers are even easterners... And also, to secure workers and expatriates and materials being used for construction, security personnels needs to be there with them....

The reason I don't understand Easterners and Northern people is that even when projects are being done in their location, they'll kill and destroy without thinking.

Sunday igboho never killed police/ soldiers in their agitation nor ever called for murdering anyone or destruction of infrastructure...

jababillions:
Lol

Everybody go collect for naija last last.

I thought Pantami (the Fake Professor) said with NIN all Bandits and terrorists will be apprehended, weytin come happen?

Make una continue to dey pursue pressers with EFCC up and down while bandits and terrorists roam free.

Maybe I go drop my lappy and become bandit since it is not considered as a crime by the vegetable in Aso rock.

Even Pantamis son was kidnapped! And the liar couldn't trace the abductors and bring them to justice! A P C is a government of liars based on lies, hatred and packaged failures. So it will not prosper

Northernblood5:
My anger is that, WICKEDNESS prevented Buhari from making such project in SE just as FOOLISHNESS prevented GEJ from making projects in SE.

Buhari foolishly took loan to built train station for people that doesn't value it. Just imagine such train station was built in Aba connecting it to Akwa-Cross. Wickedness is the reason why we are yet to progress. Now, All Nigerians are going to pay the loan used to build these train station. Waste of hard resources because of hatred towards people that actually needs it

You know that such construction won't be allowed by IPOB... A region that forces its own residents to sit at home on Mondays, will it allow railroads there? Even the bridge being built is being hampered by them