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xynerise:
I have heard some women say " I am still in this marriage because of the children" when they complain about how terrible their husbands are.

Domestic violence is now common in many marriages and I am not specific to any sex as both are victims of it. Apart from domestic violence, there are other reasons one may become fed up in a marriage..

Inasmuch as some religious folks will speak against separation in marriage, there is still a point one can draw the line to let go.

My question now is, would you rather remain in a psychologically uncomfortable marriage because of your children or let go irrespective of how it affects the children?

First of all you have lived a greater part of your life, your kids haven't.
Second you made the wrong choice of man or woman as the case may be, so why should the poor kids suffer for your error of judgement

For me if the abuse could lead to the death of someone, then and only then would sepration be a better option than staying together. My thoughts...

jospepper:
Baba no send o

Na so them no go send when him turn reach...

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Make Obasanjo rest for this matter na

No matter what the dead should be treated with a little bit of respect and nervousness

E fit be say the man been dey owe am money o...

Duru009:
The crowd is massive !!!

My brother the truth is bitter, but one has to say it...

007inc:
They arrest Naira Marley and Funke Akindele cos of Social distancing flaws, yet the govt don’t practice it.
Nigeria nah real zoo.

If you must be in a crowd, wear a face mask!!!

IamWonderful:
"Just 100 people"

How you dey count your own, use shame talk true small...

tegrianonigltd:
I asked a question, you dey edo ?? Very simple question, that’s not an assumption bro, NEVER YOU UNDERESTIMATE OR WRITE OFF A MAN.

Life no balance, e fit fall press anybody

How you want make I take answer the simple question again

I don tell you all my details...

nairavsdollars:
Coronavirus can never come near OBJ. He has a tortoise shell around his waist

Sister, how you take know

Kiddo01:
FTC
.so baba finally accepted to be tested

When him don see the way the virus dey fall prominent people him get to...

I thought he said there was no COVID-19 in Nigeria

idibadadanme:
Most of her friends are either divorced, husband stays abroad and she’s living with another girl and yet to visit me is a huge task but she want me to marry her.

Help me please....I never intend to be this confused in my life

This one better pass her and other men o...
The only risk with this is that if you marry her you stand the risk of losing her to the feminist...

Frankly shut the place down, after all we have been importing refined products...this is about One billion USD that we are talking about...

When they turn to robbery now we will start shouting. Which alternative has been provided for them

tegrianonigltd:
You Dey Edo? Never you write any man off. I will repeat, life is full of surprises

It is funny, how come you all assume that you are the only ones in Edo, every other person online is from some where else

I stay off Uselu Lagos road in Benin. I am from ESAN NORTH EAST LGA. Any other questions?

They say by their fruits you shall know them, a mongo will not automatically change to and apple...

They also say

Tell me who are your friends and l will tell you who your are...

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Nice one
Oba of Benin no matter what does not involve in politics...he doesn't take side
He is more concerned about the security and progress of Edo state right from onset

So even if buhari should endorse.....that is not to say he is going to interfere....
.we are in Benin city...and i can bet my balls obaseki is coasting to victory

You just might lose your balls for nothing!!!
Note that it shall be required of you when Obaseki has lost...

tegrianonigltd:
Never write anyone off. Life is full of surprises. In my 30 plus years on earth, i have known life is full of surprises, anything can happen.

I am way older, in life there is a thin line between bravery and stupidity. Why it is always the coward that points the house of a brave man to his kids. See that house over there once lived a very brave man in this kingdom but he died a brave man.

The difference between men is knowing when to act and when not to ...

A living dog is better than a dead lion - Ecclesiastes 9:4 KJV

Bola146:
Marriage is sweet when you get married to your best friend.

Until your best friend tells you that there is no more spark, you 2 are now like brother and sister...

Antoeni:
OBASEKI IS FINISHED
Obaseki's Wife Body is only with Obaseki But Her Soul is with Ize-Iyamu.
pity Obasek, Thats the Price for Treachery & Disloyalty

I tell you. NEVER bite the hand that fed you, if not na hunger you dey call to make you his abode...

The Lion of Obima on ground!!!

Xda59:
Iyamu was never a competition but obaseki relied on oshiomole and federal might to defeat him. By the way ize iyamu is busy campaigning from door to door while your naive obaseki is wasting the little time he has got left fighting an imaginary war with oshiomole.

I agree 100%

tegrianonigltd:
That’s why I said he have a chance, never in life write anyone off, it’s a bad habit, anybody fit make am, anybody fit blow, when it’s for you, nothing can stop it. BELIEVE, it’s 50 50 for both of them

Obaseki has lost this one unfortunately...

tegrianonigltd:
If they can get 253 in GovernorShip, that’s 60k difference, imagine the small 20 to 30 percent Apc following Obaseki, added to the 253 and the whole thuggish both Apc and pdp will use, he stand a big chance, big big chance, reason am. The legislative are not the masses. The senators were not with Wike, so your masses, the guy stand a chance, there was never a big difference in the Apc and pdp in edo.

Did you read at all what was sent? What of the 20 to 30 percent following your analogy of Ize Iyamu a people that defected from PDP to APC with him
How many senators do you have in a state? Wike was only re-elected because there was no APC candidate. Na wah o, where you dey get your news from sef

Esseite:
You are seeing video recorded bribery alongside EFCC candidates and you call it alleged..

In the video it is alleged until a court affirms it. Criminal justice system is innocent until proven guilty not the other way around. I didn't hear any comments on Atiku

Esseite:
We have told Buhari countlessly, stop raising the hands of proven thieves.. its emboldens future thieves alongside destroys the presidential image....

Alleged and confirmed are 2 different things
Same way Obasanjo allerged that Atiku is a...

IamHeWrites:
https://igberetvnews.com/1360728/photo-female-spiritualists-laying-curse-obasekis-enemies-edo-assembly/

What of those Obaseki is oppressing
These are just attention seekers, fly una like rocket. Obaseki will do time in jail following your action you may even join him if you are so pained...

tegrianonigltd:
Apc have never won edo state presidential elections, to show you pdp is no work over, Obaseki with his 30 percent from Apc with pdp, and their strategy of presidential elections, plus the ruggedness of wike, udom and co that matches Oshiomole, I think the house of assembly member have no say. People who couldn’t win their polling units in presidential election last year. Lol, think out of the box, not just because the legislative, the masses should chose who they want not the legislative

How do you do your calculations, so Ize Iyamu does not have a percentage followership from PDP
How many legislators are left with Obaseki
For the masses you can only speak of you, because you are not the masses, sorry to burst your bubble!!!
Edo State Results 2016:
Presidential: APC-257k while PDP-265k
Governorship:APC-319k while PDP-253k
Can you remind me again is Buhari contesting in Edo in September 2020
Dream on bro!!!

chatinent:
Anyone cheating does so because they want to, no excuses.

I completely agree.
An excuse is just someone or something to put the blame on other than yourself. Makes you feel that you are not that evil...

Which market be this Bros
Na so market women dey

Amotolongbo:
https://www.channelstv.com/2020/08/07/we-will-resist-every-attempt-to-unlawfully-remove-obaseki-wike/amp/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter&__twitter_impression=true

It will be done lawfully, don't worry!!!

tegrianonigltd:
Ambode wasn’t even chosen to represent senate lol, they chose someone else. Ize Iyamu may not win, this match be like Barca vs Real Madrid, who turn up that match day the most Dey win the match. No reason am.. if pdp can always win presidency, then Obaseki have a go, his deputy na fire agbero, wike know the agbero game like Oshiomhole, udom sabi the agbero waka self, etc, so na fire for fire. Madrid vs Barca


El Classico, never write anyone off. Who turn up dey win

You mean Atiku kind of server winning...

tegrianonigltd:
He never lose na, he is still on ground, pdp won presidential election there always so there is still ground win for him, at least 30 percent of apc is with him, with the pdp on ground before, it’s a big try for him, how you see am, thug for thug, weapon for weapon, fight for fight, all I see in edo election, Oshiomole know They are ready for a fight, that’s why he put the house of assembly antics. When you understand politics, edo na one rugged place. Who stand fit naim Dey win. Obaseki and co is giving them a tough fight

That would end Obaseki in jail...
Ambode will go to Senate...
Ize Iyamu will be governor...
Edo people go dey most happy and some sad...
2021 will roll in...

nokatakata:
Too bad.. you can see the fear, uncertainty, jittery in his eyes, and composition. See him giving speech like a primary school student being bullied

This is what you get when you are greedy and decide to go against people who helped you get to where you are.

Obaseki may end up in the hospital even before the election with the way he is going. This man won't be able to eat or sleep properly. He will be hearing voices in his head and his BP will be so high. See how he allowed wike ,pdp and ipob deceive him into sleepless nights.
Talking rubbish about saving democracy when you are removing the roof of the assembly claiming renovation and pouring sand at the entrance all because of paranoia of being impeached. Politics nor be shereshere ooo. See as him face don swell up like ileya ram.

This guy you go kee person o...

favor914:
Stupid Governor, you have a judgment from The Federal High Court Port Harcourt, doesn’t Benin have its own Federal High Court?

My brother ask me o. Gov. Wike just bought Range Rovers for the judges in Rivers State...for future judgements