₦airaland Forum

livebyday:
I never said things are fine now ,I said we are a work in progress. To test down is very easy but to rebuild is a tiresome task.

Our nation needs an overhaul yes. But let us not allow evil people make us become hateful.

We will be alright eventually. We will keep hanging leaders till we get the right one who will fix things and hold these past leaders accountable.

But for now we must ensure our nation survives each day till we get there

Toks2008:
Sometimes separation is healthy and sometimes you need to divorce to understand how stupid both of you have been.

There is a spirit behind marriage so much that once you marry and divorce, it will be very hard(Not impossible) to move on specially when there are kids involved.

Guys who come into the woman's life will think they are doing her a favour and even the lady will be comparing and contrasting and at the end frustrate the man out of her life just to start with another man.

I have come to a conclusion that one of the reasons couple divorce is because of the thrill they get from the idea od being with someone else cos in most cases, they usually find out that there is nothing out there and whilst some are humble enough to retrace their steps, some will continue to jump from one partner to another until it becomes too late and are forced to settle with someone who is far worse than the person they left but this time, they will be forced to tolerate by force.

May GOD help us all.

Chinny024:
You know why?...that's because Catholic doesn't support outright divorce....They will grant you up to 10yrs separation in other to see whether you two can grow in love and with the help of Jesus, Mary and Joseph- intersession of holy family.

File for divorce with all this modern churches, na the pastor or second in commande would pour more fire in the burning flame... Once you are not a faithful thither,consider your family gone!!!!

Am happy for you two dear!!!

johnkey:
she'd still cheat

another Son of Adam has gone back to his Vomit.
I hate "Dogs".

techmo:
What's with your obsession with Nigerian Men?!

If you don't like them go for Men from other countries rather than all this post creating division between good people ( Men and Women)


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arsenal33:
just like al Qaeda abi?

Dand12:
Naia

tradepunter:
You are correct but it's the reason why you have counterinsurgency warfare...

It deals with winning the narrative in the hearts and minds of the population.

An efficient counter insurgency war would involve gaining territories and fortifying it. That way your narrative would sell, giving no room for the terrorist to provide an alternative.

That way chances of working as an informant for terrorist is reduced.

What this war should tell Nigerians is that Boko Haram, ISWAP in a way know that the checks and balances within the military is not efficient. Thus the reason why they can easily recapture territories even after loosing them.

They know lack of Budget is existing because it would cost a lot to setup a fortified base with all the necessary infrastructure that connects it to other operational stations.

They also know it will a waste of money to setup infrastructure in the middle of no where that is desert designated areas.

When the population see this back and forth tug of war, they rather settle for the terrorist group because it's their sons and daughters living amongst them.

While the soldiers would always have a set time.

YoungLionken:
There are a lot of moles in the Nigerian government, feeding these terrorists with more than enough information...

Ammishaddai:
Hahaha... E-hugs?

Juliearth:
You are totally right. However, I did not call his mother a fool, I cannot possibly do that. I only inferred that he is capable of doing that, since he can come on this platform and call another woman a fool. This is an online platform and people have the right to air their views even if they don't sit right. There are a thousand and one insults that I can condone and have condoned on this platform, but being called a fool is a deal breaker and I can go ballistic on that count.

maasoap:
As long as she's not staying, there is no need to inform you and there is no need to be hostile, complain or raise dust. I wouldn't.



Totally unnecessary comment. Your MIL deserves whatever the gift you give her.

Ammishaddai:
There's limit to everything, and that includes values. When your traditional values become a burden to another person's home, it infringes on their right to be happy. And to me, that is wrong

Juliearth:
It takes a bigger fool to know a fool. Since you are used to calling your mother a fool, I am not surprised that you are calling me one.

forestwilda:
You are a mean fellow u think we are in a western environment ur mother in law, supposed to be ur best friend.
Pride goes before a fall.The very day u will offend her u will be de most shameful person on earth. Its easier to offend ur own mother and apologise dan ur mother inlaw.

donbachi:
If ur mother inlaw na president wife or the 1st lady of her state..u for dey celebrate her.and be jumping like akpamu because she visit u.

Aforxzy:
Just endure this moment but let the daughter know you are displeased and won't appreciate any unwanted/uninvited visitor in future into your home.

It is not advisable to keep visiting young couples and your mother in-law should know this.

Maybe it's time to set some rules about People visiting your home. But your rules should be fair to both families, friends and relatives.

densiks:
If I were in your shoes,this is totally a non issue.

If she was a rich mother -in law, will you seek for advise because she visited your place unannounced? besides wisdom and dialogue can easily alter her visit routine if you don’t want to see her at your place.

Goldenklassy:
I wonder what this generation is turning into....u mean u cant tolerate the visit of a woman that nurture that girl till she became a full grown woman and a wife.,that means her siblings cant even plan for stay in your house....thats too harsh man.pls readjust that attitude of yours, a visit wont make u less of a married man.

joyousever:
Op, sorry to say, you obviously sound like a stingy and extremely private person. In a nutshell, you should only have these concerns on the condition that she has come to stay and not a casual visit like this. Or do you think you have to be bucksing?? her up each time she stops by?

Midas01:
As much as it is the man's house, it's also this wife's house and her mother can visit her anytime she wants. If you Nigerian men don't understand this concept maybe you should start marrying yourselves.

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

Whether you marry her today or in five years time, there will still be the same age difference of two years between the two of you or are you going to still be 28yrs in five years time, Confused Heeediout!
I feel like slapping your head off yoru shoulder right now.
Please free the lady, you will make a terrible husband and father of children.

oyeb15:
This is against d rules of engagement. Airstrikes are used where there can be no civilian casualties or infrastructure destruction.

Infact, it's d last hope if ground troops are overwhelmed . When you order airstrikes on your soil within your boarders , it means are no more in control.

It's d last call to a situation but in Nigeria, our theatre commanders are high on weeds.

Those terrorists will be undergoing flight training right now, and once they overpower those NAF airfield, then our government will know what's up.

Guide777:
You are right. If they had used the same vigour and agility to airbombard killer herdsmen, there would not be unknown gunmen to contend with.

Idiko1:
Keep you putrid loudmouth shut. The largest number of cheap ashawo in western region of Nigeria are Yoruba. I use to vacation in Ogbomoso and Osogbo from Lagos for a very good reason.

luluman:
Shut your mouth. If air strike will do the work so be it.

oilPUSSY:
To abuse of human right is why Buhari aspired to become a president.. Remove fish from the water it will die instantly..

Human right abuse and Buhari are two sides of the same coin..

Nigeria is not only irredeemable, it's a very useless country as well

Lovethaa:
Guys my current babe is giving me headache , whenever we sleep together on the bed I'll wake up to find myself on the floor, she kicks and slaps me until I fall off..

Once I fall off , she will then spread her legs and hands all over the bed to occupy it.. at first I thought she was doing it intentionally but I just found out that is how she sleeps .. what can I do to save my soul ?... my friend told me to go and learn kungfu too but this is not a laughing matter ..

Jmw2kblogposts:
That idiot who said "No Woman Cheats For A Reason" should be hanged right on top of a slow burning blue flame so she can die a very slow and painful death!

GENES11S:
Foreign girls worse. Expecially those in Developed country.
Na them go fornicate..na them go still sue you to court and collect half your properties and share it with their new lover.