Health › Re: #DNA Saga: Let Hospitals Conduct Compulsory DNA Test After Child Birth - Orji by dam4sam: 11:01pm On Jan 05, 2021 |
Ifybwoy7: she kill person? Yes She did, though l dont recommend Death sentence but a minimum of 30yrs in prison will be fair. many men's life have been turned upside-down, some slipping into Depression and Suicide, some getting violent in an effort to avenge the Injury caused by the fraud. Dont forget that we all have a terminal age after which we cant have our own biological children, so deceiving anyone with paternity fraud can even end their lineage forever. It is an awful and most evil type of Fraud, even God frowns at it. In the days of Moses of the Bible, such Women are stoned to death. |
Health › Re: #DNA Saga: Let Hospitals Conduct Compulsory DNA Test After Child Birth - Orji by dam4sam: 3:20pm On Jan 05, 2021 |
orjisblog: I think with the increase in infidelity in marriages lately, it will be very much better is the Senate passes a bill that would warrant all hospitals to conduct compulsory DNA test after child birth.
- Orjisblog I dont trust the Nigerian Hospital Staff, before yo know it, they would start collecting Bribe from Women, to give the Husband a CONFIRM Result. In a Country where people trusted with the responsibility can be collecting bribe to give Travellers FAKE COVID-19, NEGATIVE test Result, l am certain they can do anything for money. If any Man needs a DNA test on his Child, for whatever reason, he should do it quietly without raising any attention (especially to the WIFE), only then can he be certain of the result.Collect 'your' Son's hair, tooth brush, Saliva using a Sample Stick/tube (ensure anything to do with another form of contaminant does no touch it), take it to the Lab, dont even give your correct address less they go and give your Wife a Heads-Up, in exchange for Money, get the result and be happy. I have seen where the Lab colluded with the Wife, behind the Husband's back, swapped samples and produced a result which says the bastard Child is his. And this was not even in Nigeria o. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by dam4sam: 5:34am On Jan 05, 2021 |
Nero2424: Who owns the site? I did a WHOIS domain search though. n3xt: Yes. There's even a "first post approval' for new signups on the forum.
Founded by 3 friends. Ownership is open to more investors who are willing to join. OOOooh, just saw this! I thought the Kobocity was the same Platform we wanted to form on this thread, l did not know that this is owned/ formed privately by just THREE FRIENDS.
Now l understand/The more, the merrier |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by dam4sam: 4:15am On Jan 05, 2021 |
kobocity: In the last 24 hours, my 2 IDs on nairaland were banned and there was really no reason for this 
I was given SARS treatment! No prosecution. No trial. Just got banned 
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The unique thing about kobocity.com is we issue warnings to spammers and every member can see the reason why they’re banned.
Kobocity - there’s always a solution for every problem. Good job Brabus/Nx3t. I am just worried, do you have to use the name of the website (kobocity) as your username, bearing in mind that this was supposed to be a PUBLIC, joint effort of all of us here and not a PERSONAL idea or Project? I am also worried that the thing has moved from being a joint, mutual effort to a private effort, for example, l was expecting a lot of thing will be thrown open and a consensus reached, things like the name of the project, selection of the 'Site Admins', who has 'propriety ownership' of the site and can shut down the site if he or she so wishes, what is the MOU between members and so many other issues that should be resolved in a PARTNERSHIP before it swings into action, were either overlooked or done 'behind the scenes'. Looking at the way you have been posting about it, one may be misled into thinking it personally belongs to you (maybe you paid for the Hosting fees but anyone here could have paid that small fee) and not be too comfortable with that arrangement since it negates the whole idea of what we have been discussing and planning for, on this thread. A lot of Clarifications.. Who is the WE in KoboCity? Not withstanding, l commend the effort.
BTW: Why are they banning your user i.d's? And who is doing so? Spambot or the Admins or the Site Owner? |
Crime › Re: Adesola Melojuekun, Barakat's Father Withdraws Case Against Abudu-Balogun by dam4sam: 2:16am On Jan 05, 2021 |
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Crime › Re: Adesola Melojuekun, Barakat's Father Withdraws Case Against Abudu-Balogun by dam4sam: 2:15am On Jan 05, 2021 |
oluDharay: Either a threat or cash is going around on this matter Small time now, the fool will be shouting End Sexual Assault, but see them wasting the opportunity to End Sexual Assault now, they are Compromised! What a Shame. |
Politics › Re: Attack On Herdsmen In Ebonyi: Umahi Orders Arrest Of People Circulating Video by dam4sam: 2:13am On Jan 05, 2021 |
Jaazz: Herdsmen can not carry their hundreds of cows to stay in your face me and face you apartment in the east.
They mount temporary camp in the bush to herd their cows and not to disturb locals with the movement of their cows.
Why are you people chasing them??
Why stereotyping and attacking them??
Imagine using the sin of few criminals to criminalize a whole tribe.
We have few Hausafulanis in the east compare to millions of Igbos in the north.
If anything is not done... Then we'll surely Reciprocate! Dont let FEAR ENSLAVE YOU.They feed their Cows on People's Farm. In one Night, they can destroy a whole Years plant on the farm When the Owners of the farm challenge them, they kill them with AK47 They Rape and Kidnap indigenes for ransom. If they want to transport their Cows, they should use vehicles. If they want to practise Nomadic Cattle Rearing, they should remain in their Northern domain, Southern Nigeria does not practice such barbaric sort of farming, it is Ranching all the way, in Southern Nigeria
Igbo leaders are always playing to the gallery, putting their people at risk, juts to please their Fulani Slave owners. Very Sad |
Politics › Re: Amotekun Member Detained For Allegedly Shooting Police Officer In Oyo by dam4sam: 2:04am On Jan 05, 2021 |
Tradernaija: Amotekun are terrorists.
I keep saying it that those terrorists should be proscribed Sharrap dea! At least, unlike the Police, he only shot him in the THIGH, not in the Head. And if you believe the story of the Police that they were going to disperse a Carnival when he was shot, YOU CAN BELIEVE ANYTHING. |
Education › Re: Don Davis' Mum: If Anything Happens To My Children, I'll Hold Kumuyi Responsible by dam4sam: 1:59am On Jan 05, 2021 |
lefulefu: from the way u post I assume u probably attended secondary sch as a day student so u won't understand what it means being in a boarding house as an 11 or 12 yr old kid.when u get bullied by seniors and u dare to report ur punishment could be times ten.that he was Even able to to speak out at all is brave of him.i won't be harsh in my opinion on the mom cos any parent who loves his child would get mad and act on emotion if such a parent found out his or her child has been sodomised . nobody would wish this on the child of his worst enemy.even if a teacher flogged ur child like a mad dog with all his skin peeling off his body it would piss of a nomal parent..not to mention ur son being sodomised for months in a boarding sch.Anyway I know d matter will be swept under the carpet because the Govt wouldn't want to get entangled with the christian body. Dont mind these people who cant think for themselves, once Religion/Church is involved These Children were UNDER THE CARE of the School, its teachers and the BOT, which the Kumuyis are members/Chairman. I would codedly shoot anyone who sodomises my infant Child. Period. |
Education › Re: Don Davis' Mum: If Anything Happens To My Children, I'll Hold Kumuyi Responsible by dam4sam: 1:54am On Jan 05, 2021 |
slimghost: FB can disable your account if repeated complaints are made on certain issues. Leant that today. All assumptions. Why is it taking the church so long to investigate and make public their findings on same issue? Why please?. Have you read the boy’s hospital test report?. The doctors just stated that there was no infection but conveniently left out the sodomy part. When you support evil, evil will visit your doorstep! The Church has been BIASED from day-one! The moment they started to hide the health-state of the Boy by giving him Vitamins tablet when his Mother came to pick him and held on to him for like 3hrs before releasing him and then flatly deny that anything happened to him, they have lost all Credibility!But we are in Nigeria where the Rich and Powerful in Society, use their influence to COVER-UP CRIMINALITY for themselves or their Friends. Pastor Kumuyi and his School are using their influence to suppress Justice. In 'sane' countries, all those involved would have been charged to Court and admitted on bail. |
Education › Re: Don Davis' Mum: If Anything Happens To My Children, I'll Hold Kumuyi Responsible by dam4sam: 1:50am On Jan 05, 2021 |
Poloyanabo2: It is official, this woman dey ment! Why not start accusing kumuyi of molesting you too? Forget the fact that respected pastor Kumuyi is an MOG, he is the G.O of the Church that owns the School were the Woman's Son (Don Davis) was SODOMISED. The Ultimate Responsibility rests with Pastor Kumuyi.Why are the People and School Authority of Kumuyi's School Stalking the Family of the Woman? Why is Pastor Kumuyi, as their G.O, not calling them to order? Why is he not ensuring that such things dont happen in a so-called Religious School and if it happens, why is he not taking the right actions to ensure Justice is served? Why are they trying to silence the Woman afteral, Facebook just doesn't disable Accounts, it does so based on complaints from someone or some people. It is obvious who the people are. Do they want to kidnap the Woman's little Child or why are they going to her School? That in itself is a criminal Act but in Nigeria, anything goes. Why are they trying to identify her house address, do they want to send Hired Killers to her house? These are all possibilities. She should keep crying out, if anything happens to her other children all those people in that School, the BOT of that School, that useless man bragging that he works with the Governor and Pastor Kumuyi himself (as the G.O of the criminal Enterprise), will have a lot to explain. |
Romance › Re: "I Can't Settle For Less. If You Don't Have Money Back Off" - Nigerian Woman by dam4sam: 1:35am On Jan 05, 2021 |
She should get a job, make a lot of money and l would agree with her not to sell for a poor man. But an Ugly, broke-azz girl with fallen Breeast who cant even make up properly, deserves an equally brokeazz man. Except she wants to be the house girl of the rich man sha.  |
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Politics › Re: Amotekun, Hunters Dislodge Herdsmen From Oyo Forest Reserves by dam4sam: 8:44am On Jan 03, 2021 |
Tobichimezie: The actual problems are our so called traditional leaders, its the same problem we face in the East as well... one stupid Chief or Igwe will get money from Fulani and then he will approve the sale of lands to them... before you know they bring in more and more or their brothers to occupy the land without the consent and mandate of the community... then you wake up one morning and your next door neighbors are Fulani herdsmen brandishing dangerous weapons. Since the establishment of this ESN, the thiefs who call themselves traditional rulers have gone into hiding for their own good. Natives should start giving such Traditional Ruler, the" Oba of Lagos Treatment" or even worse one sef. If they want to be acting against the interest of their subjects, then they have lost the moral and traditional authority to preside over that kingdom. The natives should drive such Oba or Chief out of the Community, even if it means setting his palace ablaze. The 'Charity' will begin from Home. |
Politics › Re: Amotekun, Hunters Dislodge Herdsmen From Oyo Forest Reserves by dam4sam: 8:36am On Jan 03, 2021 |
Basically, it seems it is these Obas and Chiefs in Yorubaland that are collecting money from these terrorists and inviting them to decimate their people! Henceforth, any TRAITOR Oba or Chief that invites these terrorist Fulani herdsmen into the land of Odua, should be removed from the stool, hi palace set on fire and he himself should be made to fall on his Sword.
Yorubaland will no longer tolerate Traitors as Obas or Chiefs. This behaviour seems to be common among the Obas and Chiefs from osun and Oyo State.
Alaafin of Oyo, Soun of Ogbomosho, Olubadan of Ibadan and other Obas in that area, what are you doing about this or do you want your Youths to declare #EndOba in your domain? A Civilisation cannot be conquered from OUTSIDE, except it first destroys itself from the INSIDE. |
Family › Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by dam4sam: 8:09am On Jan 03, 2021 |
Oracleforce: With all these response I'm seeing from ladies here, I definitely know that there is a lot of man fathering another man's children.... I will advise all men to conduct a DNA test on their children... Women are wicked...why would you deceive men to rear children that the real owner will come and claim in the future... Your head dey dea! This was posted before and l caught it
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Family › Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by dam4sam: 5:14am On Jan 03, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by dam4sam: 5:11am On Jan 03, 2021 |
Kposkila: its quite different, this one is " you are married, and goes to fuvk outside, after 9 months you deliver a baby to a man and wont tell the man you are a cheap slot, after 10/ 15 years theres need to do some medical evaluation on the child and boom the child's DNA does not match the fathers own. you self think am na, e no go well. Even in the bible sarah brought her maid for Abraham, so at least He could have a child in his Name. Imagine if Sarah had gone to sleep with one of the boys, get pregnant and dupe Abraham into believing it was his Child while claiming she was trying to help him have a heir, would God not have struck her down with leprosy for ten years, before using Thunder made in Oshogbo to finish her off?  But some Donkeys here are telling us it is permissible and it should be overlooked. |
Family › Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by dam4sam: 4:25am On Jan 03, 2021 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: EndSARS: Pastor Sam Adeyemi Reacts To Suit Filed Against Him And Others. by dam4sam: 11:15pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
SpartanKing: But, he never partook in the protest! Well, the litigation is dead on arrival! This Govt is just lashing out at every Southerner because they feel insecure, with their "Southern Collaborators" I am sure they will sue the Dog in my neighbourhood, for barking during the Protest, because that energised the Protesters.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: EndSARS: Pastor Sam Adeyemi Reacts To Suit Filed Against Him And Others. by dam4sam: 11:12pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
prodigiousman: Ridiculous, where is Buhari and osibanjo's daughter? So d lawsuit did not affect them? This one don pass witchhunting This Govt is going to destroy to self, deliberately or otherwise and Nigeria will likely breakup, if this continues. All these Intimidation has a limit No Govt ever fought its own people and won, though l am not unaware that it appears that all these tyrannical intimidation and harassment is directed at Southerners. "Every Age, has its own Fascism" - Italian Philosopher |
Politics › Re: Endsars: Ogun Sets Up Complaints Portal by dam4sam: 7:21pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by dam4sam: 1:43am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Dijita: I am not a plumber but I am going to suggest you engage the service of a plumber. The Picture one did not give room for one to bypass the filter if you decided for whatever reason e.g. lack of fund or filter availability or change of mind picture B is what I have and it allow me to bypass the filter when my madam decided she preferred bottle water to the filtration . it is just a matter off pulling up A and closing up B and C Chief, please where did you buy this White Filter and for how much? |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by dam4sam: 1:36am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Chekitaut: Please be informed no imported Iron Rod in Nigeria. All are produced here, we hv some bad steel call Local-Local pls take note. Don't be decived. Can you please tell us how a customer can identify a local-local Steel in the market? |
Politics › Re: Darah: Threat To Withdraw Northern Food Supplies To Rivers, A Welcome Challenge by dam4sam: 1:30am On Nov 10, 2020 |
BraniacX: point of correction! You give diddley squat or Nada! You sell you don't give! Fun fact if we don't buy from you, we will buy from someone else and you'd be the loser! We give you the proceeds of our crude oil resources, now that is giving because you give absofuckinglutely nothing back in return and that is why you are parasites we won't miss if Nigeria breaks up! Every thing we buy from you we can grow if we cared to, we leave the subsistence to you! Don't grow wings! You need your people in government to institute and enforce policies mandating us to patronise your substandard agricultural products or we will be importing better quality agricultural products we can't produce, there's no way your farmers will survive without us, you can't export your products because of the low quality and there's no bigger market for them than southern Nigeria so show some respect boy  The above is why the North needs and use Force of Military and Herdsmen, to keep Nigeria a Single Country! This is why regionalism or any form of restructuring, in a taboo with Northerners, they prefer to continue their parasitic lifestyle while gloating that the South depends on them. The North will become like Niger Republic, within one year, if Southern Nigeria breaks away, they know it and they will wage war to maintain the status-quo. Buhari is trying by diverting all the resources of Southern Nigeria and all National Loans to the North only.
But are Southerners ready for what is coming or their Leaders are just selfishly enriching themselves? See the above, nothing more to add, I rest my case. |
Politics › Re: Darah: Threat To Withdraw Northern Food Supplies To Rivers, A Welcome Challenge by dam4sam: 11:45pm On Nov 09, 2020*. Modified: 1:16am On Nov 10, 2020 |
One4me: May God hear your prayer for the quick dissolution of this country, as soon as possible though l know that it is the same Northerners that are using Fulani-dominated security Agencies to hold Nigeria together, speaking of Hypocrisy.
What you say, as bad as it is, is not far from the truth but l will tell you what is happening, things you fail to mention. It is true that Southern Nigeria (SE, SS and SW) are almost exclusively reliant on the North for its food supply, especially since Buhari came to Power. This is not by accident, it is PLANNED
It is also true that it has not always been like this, Southern Nigeria has always been able to feed itself, in various degrees between the Regions because each Region has commodities it is specialised in producing. There is YAM from the SE and SW, traded to the SS, there is Fish and Plantain from the SS, traded to SE and SW, there is Vegetables, Tomatoes, Okra, etc from the SW and SE, traded to the SS but all the above Products are available in EVERY REGION of Southern Nigeria, in varying quantities, Protein farming (Chickens, Piggery, Snail, Fish, Goats, Ram, etc) is also extensive in the South West, South South and South East so Southern Nigeria can sustain itself, without a dime of Product from the North and it has always done that in the past, before something happened and they started depending on food Supplies from the North.
The majority of the Cows coming from the North, are products of Niger Republic, Sudan, Chad and other Nomadic Countries in the Sahel areas of West Africa, not necessarily indigenous to Northern Nigeria. The Majority of the Food that we assume come from the North, especially staples like Yam and Grains, come from the Middle Belt Region which "the North" likes to claim is part of Northern Nigeria but if you ask the people of Taraba, Plateau, Kogi, etc will tell you they are not Northerners.
Now, since Buhari came to Power, ln my opinion, some Jihadist Northerners having hijacked his Govt and being an Ethnic Bigot himself, a plan was hatched to prepare the North for a possible breakup of Nigeria. Buhari bought into this plan whole-heartedly and even a blind man can see that close to 90% of infrastructural developments, be it in Roads, Rail, Military, Agriculture, Education, Health, Foreign NGO participation, Power, etc, have gone to the North. Even appointments are not spared, because Buhari and his Northern Cabals are working to a "Scheme and Plan".
This Scheme and Plan has a target conclusion of 2023, the life span of the Buhari administration but it is not fully concluded due to the global fall in price of Crude Oil (which funds over 80% of Nigeria's development and by so, the exclusive developments ongoing in the North but the Oil comes from the neglected Southern Nigeria!), the Northern Cabal will try to extend the Northern rule and completion of this Scheme, through Atiku! (That is why l weep for Southerners, most Igbos who are rooting for Atiku, you will be helping the Northerner to further enslave/destroy you, (whether you agree or not), this is not a matter of political affiliation but about Ethnic Genocide.
Someone has pointed out before that If the North wants to finish-off the South, it does not need to fire a bullet but will use Starvation to accomplish that goal and this post by @Arewa is a reflection of their thoughts. It is commonsense that Starvation is a tool of warfare, though banned and illegal but you cant fight someone whose food you depend on or who controls the source of your food. So, you are already subdued before the fight even starts. Southerners are not stewpid and many Southerners know they are in a precarious position right now but the bigger Question is HOW DID WE GET HERE? The truth is that there is a deliberate and consistent effort to ensure that Southern Nigeria depends on food from the North, under this Buhari administration. It is common knowledge that people hardly farm in Southern Nigeria, as of today, not because they dont love farming, not because they dont want to farm but because of FEAR OF BEING SLAUGHTERED BY FULANI HERDSMEN SENT TO ACHIEVE THIS SINISTER PURPOSE OF MAKING SOUTHERNERS DEPEND ON NORTHERNERS FOR FOOD.
It started when Buhari came to power and the Fulani Herdsmen suddenly started invading farms in Southern Nigeria, destroying their crops by feeding their Cows on the crops and then proceed to slaughter the Southern farmers! This is obviously a total eradication of the farming Culture and community in Southern Nigeria and the fact that these terrorists Fulani Herdsmen have gone on largely unchecked by the Fulani dominated Security Agencies, it is obvious that they must be working together to achieve their sinister scheme or forcing Southerners to depend on Northerners for food, so that when the times comes, the Northerners can squeeze the life out of Southerners, through Starvation. Even if the South decides to start farming after that time (assuming they are able to protect their farms and farmers), it will still take at least one farming cycle, one year, to get the benefit of sucg, from basic farm products that are annuals.
The shame of this LOOMING TRAGEDY, especially now that Northerners are beginning to say it loudly, is that Leaders, Governors, Political Chairmen, Kings and Chiefs in Southern Nigeria are pretending that all is well and are not doing anything observable, except to try to selfishly fester their own financial empire, to reverse this strategy.
What the Northerners are doing is condemnable and completely evil, unbecoming of people that can share the same space with others in an amalgamated country, it is not strange, Northerners have always been about Power-Grab and Domination, nothing else but what the Southern Leaders are doing is even worse! Selfish and Greedy Leaders in the South dont care about their people, all they care about is their own pockets and political growth through servitude to Northerners! Take Tinubu, take Ameachi, take Ngige, take the Governors of Southern States, the Chairmen of LGA's, take the Obas and Ezes, what has any of these people done to ensure food safety and self-sufficiency in their states and kingdoms? Which Governor in Southern Nigeria can actually feed its people, assuming that state was completely barricaded and no food enters? It is even more true that the S/South are actually in a more precarious position, due to the destructive exploration of Crude Oil from their territory, money receipts from which Buhari concentrated exclusively on using to develop agriculture in the North!
When was the last time anyone heard that the CBN, under the titular leadership of a Southerner (Godwin Emefiele) approved $50Million, or #2Billion or some other amount, into investments in Animal Husbandry, Chicken farms, Crop Farming or any other form of Agricultural development in the South? That would be before Buhari became President but every week or the other, you will hear that the Federal Govt of Nigeria has taken a certain amount of LOAN from China, World Bank, Brazil, IMF, AFDB, etc, to finance projects exclusively in the North, like Rice farms, Power Projects, irrigation Projects, farming Inputs like fertilizer, Tractors, Seeds, etc. Why must Crude money be taken from the South and used to exclusively develop the North, while threatening the South with Starvation, and our Leaders are all smiling to Abuja, stashing loot in foreign banks and prostrating for their Northern paymasters? Is that how to be De-tribalised? Can you be claiming "De-tribalised" at the expense of your own people? Your people are being lined-up for "starvation and slaughter" and you are playing "Mr. Northern Pleaser", just for selfish Political and Financial gains!
The shame is on leaders of Southern Nigeria, the North can do this without their connivance. But if the Leaders of Southern Nigeria would not act in the interest of Southerners (I know most of them have looted enough to have houses abroad, have Private jets and their family, if still in Nigeria, will jet put as soon as they hear pim), the Southerners, the ordinary people must take their fate in their own hands because what is coming will be mass genocide, on a scale that has not been seen in Nigeria before, the Civil war will be child's play, it wont spare any region in Southern Nigeria so no one should start feeling immune.... IF SOUTHERNERS DONT START ACTING STRATEGICALLY NOW BY FORCING THEIR LEADERS TO START MECHANISED AGRIC PROGRAMS AND PROTECT SUCH FARMS WITH NATIVE SECURITY TO REPEL THESE RAMPAGING, TERRORIST FULANI HERDSMEN.
Long Life Southern Nigeria, we shall not be enslaved or dominated, because we are a free people.
This is the unblemished truth, my OPINION and you dont have to agree with it, it changes nothing. Everybody should grow their own food, Simples. |
Family › Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by dam4sam: 1:33am On Jun 09, 2020 |
seborrhic: On what basis would any serious organisation grant that request? So a "stranger" comes and orders them not to tamper with the corpse and they would obey.They should then be ready to close for business. The only party the mortuary has any business with is the people that brought the corpse,unless there is a valid court order to the contrary. The mortuary have no business with him,sad as it may sound. For them to ignore an obviously grown up first son shows they have an authority from some other party,maybe even related to d family or that by their own tradition the father's own immediate family are usually the ones that make burial arrangements. You are right to some extent, he cannot just walk into the mortuary and leave an order, when he is not the one who brought the body. But as to who has "burial rights" over the body, the Wife and the eldest son has the most authority, all other authorities are derived (Uncles, Brothers, Sisters, etc) and subjecto to the primary authority. But he is a young Man, with no financial means and no clout, so these secondary, derived authorities are USURPING his authority because of that. He cant do much but he MUST go to the Burial (since they did not threaten or ban him from coming). He must give a Speech (suprisingly without letting them know before hand) at the burial site, he must say it openly there that he is not happy with the way his Uncles treated him and usurped his role (There should be at least, a Camera Phone Video recording of this, for psoterity) and he must reoterate in front of everybody that : I am the first Son of the deceased we are burying today and l am his heir apparent, irrespective of what anybody thinks or says, l just want that to be on record. God bless you all for taking our time to attend my father's burial. He should throw Sand on his father's burial and leave immediately with his Parents for his base. No sharing of food with them because they will posion him, no hugging because of CoronaVirus or they will use juju on him, it is "precaustion", not fear. Some of these b@st@rd family members are not in agreement with his father when he was alive but once he is dead, they gather like vultures, shed small Crocodile tears and start dragging property with the children of the deceased! I wish the dead can rise and strike them dead as well. They have been waiting in the wings for his father to die. If it is a property and they wont let me have what belongs to me, l can even secretly set fire to the House and let it burn, than let them have it but that will be an extreme, last option. Lazy, greedy and Evil UNCLES everywhere, may God save us. |
Family › Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by dam4sam: 1:16am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Olarewaju89: If you need your life, pls run ooo or else, they will kill you. I'm taking from experience here. Thanks What if he falls into a ditch and die, while running? A Man will die when it is his time to die and just drinking water will kill him, when his time has come!
Look at Abba Kyari, with all the Power he commands in this country, as the De Facto President, who would beleivev that it is just a tiny, microscopic virus that will choke him to death? Dont die before your death, do what is right and go forward without fear, if it is not yet your time, no one can kill you. |
Family › Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by dam4sam: 1:11am On Jun 09, 2020 |
obonujoker: My advice for you.
If you act or you don't act, they'd still kill you if they want....
Meet a pastor. Meet the elders. Infact you need a pastor if possible to go with you to the village.
Probably they want to do some ritualistic rites to bury along with you dad, so that when they start dealing with you, his spirit won't come and fight them.... Then they will subdue you and make you a slave, and what you are running for, will finally come for you.
Go with a deliverance pastor. Ask for the culture of burial rites in your village...being the first son, you are the one who has the legal rite to bury your dad, not one foolish theiving uncle.
It happened to me. I went with great men of God. I buried my Dad amongst all these. Secured 4 plots of land, and the rites belonging to a first son, when an uncle even told me I should bury my Dad in a room. I was taken to elders, and I asked what was the culture, and it was if the first son of the man...and I was able to speak up and choose where I wanted. Meanwhile the night, was vigil all through....
God be with you bro. Talk to other uncles. Explain this situation to a pastor You people that keep saying 'Meet Pastor, Meet Pastor', WHAT CAN PASTOR DO? It is only when trouble is not big enough that Pastor will be forming Chairman of Occassion, if someone brought out Pump-Action and pointed it at his head during the burial, WHAT WILL THAT PASTOR DO TO SAVE HIS LIFE? Or did you people not notice that once CoronaVirus show face, all Pastors, including the ones that claim to heal the Sick, wake the Dead and give women babies, all of them begin to observe Social distancing and use hand Sanitiser!  Why did any of them not go to Isolation Center and heal the Sick  he is better-off going with three armed Soldiers or Mopol, than going with a Pastor. PS: I respect Pastors o, l just dont want us to give this young man a false sense of security |
Politics › Re: Adamu Fagengawo Slump, Dies In Dubai (photo) by dam4sam: 11:07am On Jan 01, 2020 |
DonFreshmoney: See them dying in good medical facilities abroad.. they steal our money and go spend it abroad.. I should be saying RIP but i dont give 2 bleeps about politicians in Nigeria.. Maybe the useless haggard died ontop of Olosho he exported to Dubai, before being taken to hospital... they won tell us that part of the story  |
Nairaland General › Re: Mob Sets Two Dangote Trucks Ablaze After Crushing Two To Death In Ogun by dam4sam: 11:01am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Sunnymatey: Chai, by burning these trucks, theyve deprived the victim's families from becoming N10m richer. Can't lost a love one at same time miss N10m. Look at this shameless tard! So your life is only worth #10M? Its people like you that kidnap their brothers son, to get #5M ransome  |
Nairaland General › Re: Mob Sets Two Dangote Trucks Ablaze After Crushing Two To Death In Ogun by dam4sam: 10:58am On Jan 01, 2020 |
surgical: It is becoming too much of these dangote trucks,it is time the people take action by themselves because the government will never do anything and if the people too refuse to do anything,then this aren't gonna stop There are rumours that he needs fresh blood, which he gets by using hsi Trucks to crush innocent citizens, especially in Southern parts of Nigeria, toget his business refreshed.People have asked: Why is it always Dangotte trucks, all the time? Is it that he can repair and put his Trucks in good working condition? Is it that he cant properly train his drivers to handle his Trucks? Is it that he does not have enough money to buy good Trucks? You will agree with me that the answer to each of the above question is "No". Then, the rumours might just be the only logical explanation. Its not about money, the things the DEVIL ASKS of all these rich men, you wont believe it.And yes, the people needs to do something not just about the Trucks, but their drivers as well and even extend the anger to the nearest Dangotte factory. They must respect the lives of Nigerians |