Iam in a delimma nown. I have always follow my intuition, i have been for all my adult life, a man who take his time to take a decision. Not just any decision but well thought and calculated decision that is lasting and stand the taste of time . Friends and close collegues and family members always run to me for concrete advice as they believe that i have the wisdom of king Solomon, the calmness and dexterity of an old man.
I grew up as the favourite of my uncles, aunt and other elders around the family and neigborhood. I was exremely close to my grand Father who taught me alot about life. He made understand that there is no need to be a hurry in life. I may go on and on to tell you about myself. But that is not what is bodering nown.
I am afraid to fall in love. Am in love with a lady that is very close to me. I have taught about it for over 3 months nown, but my head is blank and block. I seem not to have any decision or action to take. am confused. for the first time in my life am comfronted with a problem i cant solve. Pls help me. what do i do? am afraid of what i want, or should i go for what am afraid of. I dont need to go into any relationship as am already married. But this gal, I cant take her off my mind.

See how important we are to each other? i pray this come to an end sha.

@ D Blank.

You shouldnt feel ashamed to be an hausa man. you should rada regret being among a religion that helps its gods out in wars. is your god so helpless that you fight his battles for him? wonda why islam is all about brutal killings and unholy blood sheds. wonda why u just cant let the INFIDEL Christians Lord it over u for once having piloted this country's course downhill for more that 30years; does the north have no shame? your abilities lies with SHANU, Fura de Nono, recitals of your rubbish SURAH and not in the corridors of power.

ISLAM GOATS!

Pls see ur submission above. Can a sane, reasonable, understanding, responsible and organise man make such a statement? This is the height of madness. Ur likes will be good to be confided in a zoo.
I pray that u get ur self educated a little about others. What a blind man u are. I pray that u will find reason to be civilised in ur life time. Wish u Good Luck

ILLITRATE: (encarta Dictioneries)

adjective
1.  offensive term: an offensive term meaning not able to read or write
2.  uneducated: having or showing little or no knowledge of a particular subject
artistically illiterate

3.  making many language mistakes: full of or making many basic errors in the use of language
illiterate prose


noun (plural il·lit·er·ates)
offensive term: an offensive term for somebody who lacks education and knowledge, especially somebody who cannot read or write


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Pls see the above defination. Pulse and reflect if it fits the majority of us u so refered to as illitrate. It amase me  to hear u refer to us down north as illitrates.

Mind u, it only affirm to me ur state of mind and shows clearly the  writers incompetence, low level mindness, political naivety and above all social immaturity. Going by the above defination,  will it be fair  to refere to every one up North as illitrate?

If u are well informed, u would have understood that it not time now to plant the seed of hatred and disunity, rather it is time to preach for understanding, maturity and unity amongst all tribe and religion.

I am a Fulani man, i leave and work in Kaduna were is one of the most vulnerable and volatile state of the North. I have not seen any xtian killed. Only fellow muslems suffered the inferno. Religious and traditional leaders(Muslems only) whoare  perceived to be partisans and political leaders who were perceived to be greedy only suffered the pains that were visited for the past 2 days.

However, it is imcumbent on us all to ensure stability, decent leadrship and followership. Pls join in the history of purposeful leadership that have been kick started by INEC. Let all facet of endevour follow suits.          

Let us pls stop using inciting words and langiages capable od derailing our praeceful coexitence.

Precisely 10 yrs ago, i had all arrangement put in place for my wedding. All family members and friends were all informed ang getting prepared. While i was in my best planning, my fiancee called and asked me to cancel the wedding. All she cud give as her reason(s) is that she is not prepare for it. It took me pains to come to terms with her decision, but life must go on. I accept my faith n put the wedding to hold. All effort to make her see reasons failed. she later lost interest and keep her distance for about a yr. She reappeared and asked for forgiveness, i did 4give her and life continued. But she later abandoned me again. I had to make up my mind as a man.
I later met n fall in love with my present wife. My wife was a perfect replacement from God. She made me discover a total different life. My family and friends were happier for me. Iam happy with her with 2 beautiful children. I must confess to you that i have always have a soft spot for my former fiancee, so we keep in touch always.
The truth is that she regretted everything after i got married. She is today unmarried and unhappy. She is getting at me. I am falling for her. Pls tell me, do i go ahead and marry her. I still love her. Do u think she loves me? WHAT DO I DO

Here ia mnie




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see mine

DO U KNOW THAT

1. U not just wonderful but amazing person

2. Allah will lift u beyond ur imaginations

3. Ur growth in life will be unprecedented

4. all u touch shall turn to diamond

5. Ur wish will become a reality

6. Arsenal will be d champion this season

7. Ur love will know no bound

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY GAL

This is going to be the most difficult match to predict. We are both Africans full with strength. I love the ivorians sense of patrotism.

I want to employ Siasia to introduce an attacking football the way he did to America. lets see Anichebe along side Osaze starting up the game. Let him rest Osifor and our captain( Promise). This is because Anichebe play agresively then the duo.

Another factor that will come to play here is PRIDE. The Ivorians have tortured the super eagles severely, the olympic team would want to redeem our image and place us ahead of the Ivorians.

This is going to be very difficult for both side. We have equally sharp attachers like dem. All we need is the ability to score at every oppoturnity. The players must never be selfish. Some of them will launch their career with a good performance.

Another fear am entertaining is that of our defence. The goal keeper is beginning to loose cordination with his defence. The no5 man is always to ambitious. He sometimes want to over impress and play to the gallary. All things been equal, the best team will certainly carry d day.

Nigeria 2 Codevoir 1

By your question,Do you  mean that these 3 university are the best in the country?I beg to disagree with you please. What about Nsuka, Maiduguri, BUK, Sokotto ect?
The 3 university u mentioned might be the oldest and one of the best, but certainly not the best. I can bet u with my dignity that other schools like the ones i mentioned are doing well and up to standard. Danfodio university, Sokoto is one of the best unuiversity in Nigeria. In terms of culture, academic discipline, learning environment etc, they posses these in abundance.
If u doubt me, please take a trip and see for yourself. You may want to say i schooled there. No, never, and far from that.

Yes i do. I had told of one today when suddenly i went out, behold she was in a cab stopping me.
i just cant take my head off this particular ONE

she will quitely ask you with a sweet voice, how much it cost you to buy your perfume, shoe or wrist watch. She will complain that you are quite and shy. she will want to know your likes and dislikes even though you are just meeting. She will always stare into your eyes and pass inviting smiles.
If she happen to be a pretender, she will distant herself. She wil complain that you are t
oo arrogant and pround.

I sincerely believed that it not how much ur salary goes up that matter but your purchasing power. You may have observed that due to the annouced increament, the price of food and othet items have sky- rocketed in the market.
Iam of the firm opinion that price monitoring and product valuation should be  pursued paripasu, increament. In today Nigeria, we care more for the increament than the resultant consequent it might Visit on them.
My firm position is that; a mechanism for price control should be put in place to checkmate the resultant- arbitrary inreament.

For d past 4 yrs dat iam married to my wife, she never knew dat i smoke. Iam not prepare to tell her. iam planning to quit smoking.

my mum p

bigjoe, thanks a million. I have benefited immensely from your contributions on free to air sat TV.
I havea friend who has one, but he also subscribe. The subscriotion is though, optional. He waches live football maches n other important programmes you canot get free. I will info u when i get to know the brand name.
thanks

idekeson,
If i may ask you, were in this country will you not find zealous and over ambitiuos people? You see, this is an open forum, i beg of you reach me on my mail which i earlier gave you so i can disabuse your mind. You are so preoccupied with some myopic believe about north. Your stiff stance will take you no where. as a true nigerian who mean well for his country,fairness, fearness, courtesy and understanding will only forge us ahead.
My reply to you is base on my total judgement of your discourse patterning the north. you have develope disgust for North. Have you ever been to the northern Nigeria.
May i correct you of the impression that iam joining issues with you. I HAVE SEEN, TOUCHED, HEARD,BELIEVE AND PRACTICALLY demostrated ( if u understand me) that i have respect for every individual. I will never in my widest dream display arrogance to any person, group or association.

what ever your views are, how ever the North has wrong you, it deserves an iota of courtesy from you. As far as i remain in this forum i will not see you feed us with myopic and uncourteous ideas.

The man in my future is the birth owner of my yogos.

meaning:

The man over there is the father of my friend.

Idekeson, I love to hate joining issues, but with the arrogant display of your total lack of knowledge about the happenings around the North, i make bold to please asked you to make an observatory research on the North. find out the history of our predominant religion and seek knowledge about our culrtue.
The sonner you appreciate the irreconcilable difference between Your belive for the North and the realityy on ground, the grater for u.
agreed, the north has been rock by series of crisis termed to be "religioss". Did you from the pigment of your candid imagination ever seek to study the life pattern of an average Northener? I stand firmly on my integrity to be corrected, the most simplest of person in this part of the country is your brother up north.
Pls if you dont mind, lets discuss indepth through our mail addrerss. However, if you require my phone no so we can talk, . I will send you the no on request

Iam february 22nd

THE FISH ROLE. EVERY BODY STAND UP IN OVATION FOR THE FISH PLS.

idekeson, i will employ you to please seek for proper knowledge about others, i.e religion, language and culture. i have read through most of your contributions in Nl. i have honestly and candidly come to conclusion that you have very little knowlege of the north. your perceptions are based on hear say and no technical observation about your subject. Pls find a place in your objective mind to do a research  work on North and islam.
we are not people who are prone to riot or crisis. we are not complete illitrates, we are not uncivilised and we are not guided by arabic influence. Please for further information, fill free to ask me. my mail address is: admajzee@yahoo.com.

The onlyway forward is to put country first before self. every other thing will follow after and in sequence.

@idekeson.

It ia a pity that at this age you are so myopic and childish to think that illitracy in the north is the problem with your country.
I wish you good luck AJAYI CROWTHER SON.

We all must be mature in addressing issues of grate importance such as this. only cowards and unpatriotic chicken hearted will make such an observations. with due respect to your personality, you have shown and displayed your level of illitracy. Permit me my dear friend to appologise to you if u fill bad about this reply. but this is the candid truth. stay bless

To all the guys here, i say thank u for saying the truth. Iam not a chauvinist so pls all the ladies dont even begin to fight me. I just ask you to be plain.

MERCY: It was all childish thing. no sex, only kisses and some, play. we parted because she wanted me 4 my popularity in sch way back then.

AMINA: She taught me sex. she was older n a spoilt gal. i quit because she might kill me with sex. she actually love me but needed 2 much sex. i didnt understand love then. i remain grateful 2 this one.

HAUWA: I saw love, understanding, maturity, compassion and trust. I was too young 2 marry. some one took her from me. She is married with 3 kids now.

VIC: i learnt to play games with babes. she love money. but reserved respect for me. tribal issue sent us apart. she is nown a model i heard.

ANNE: I felt in love n the religion with tribal thing came 2 play. we seperated but still maitain a very good and cordial r/ship.

? she is an angel. am hooked. no one is taking away this one from me. I have her already for keep. is some one complaining?

Just do it my friends way. tell her: BABY GAL U LOOK FERTILE AND FELT LIKE CULTIVATING U (Agric terms eh?).

The driving force about approaching a lady is the inner fellings you had before getting to her. it might be strong or just a mere infatuation. the bottom line is that we all have grown of age, gone are the days were you read and gram the lexicon before approaching a lady. tell her words she never had before, sweep her with a little of confidence etc. now you got to have the courage and skills to sweep a lady. You must lok natural to get REAL woman. forget the issue of money, if you are natural and be yourself you can even get some in nairaland. I no go mention name. but you can hear them say it themselves.

Life has taught me to be humble, simple, respect one another, accept peoples view, believe in them and above all be grateful to Allah for who i am.
Life has taught me that courage and tenacity will take me there.

see happy

they make me,

snazzydawn, WILL YOU BE MY VAL?

mosylabic YES