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Coolsat:
Nothing like maturity in communicating with an ex it'll always lead to something like this , the best thing is to totally avoid anything that'll lead to such.

I have a married ex that uses different number to contact me and each time I discovered the new number,I immediately block her and she's been doing this for years, never for once have I replied her message.
A fellow guy man can't be hustling to meet his family's need while his wife will be out there frolicking with an ex, I can never be that ex. There are so many beautiful single ladies out there to enjoy and not some indisciplined married ex.

Once married its expected one faces his or her spouse nd not indulge in sexual immorality with both married or single individuals.

It does not equally stop you from communicating with people in your past. They way you do what is what makes the difference.

Of course if you are not mental matured enough then it is better you keep off entirely.

Will not be surprised if Emefiele Godwin still takes the blame even while still incarcerated.

The problem with some of these public officials is that they refuse to think ahead and make projections and likely future scenarios and start working towards it before the time comes.

We know that November/ December periods are a time when cash flows is at its peak and they should have been prepared to forestall what is happening now


They would not do it bit will prefer the blame game.

Coolsat:
What kind of chats were you too having to result into sending you sexy pictures? Hope you weren't indirectly leading her on, good you blocked her which is what you should have done earlier.

You don't keep communication with a married ex.

You are right and it is situations like this that tends to make people frown at communications with ones ex.
But most times there is nothing wrong with that if the two are matured and set their boundaries.

We are all humans first and gender comes second. Memories are hard to forget even as we try to wish them away, they keep coming back Ot happens to both gender not only a woman thing even though women tends more towards that.

Good a thing you eventually blocked her away and hope you advised her for future purposes?
.it always takes two to tango. When you set boundaries then the others would eventually respect it.

Kudos! Na man you be!

After all what Wike did to the ibos no right thinking human or robot will ever believe Ibos will support his shenanigans even now he is out of office as governor of Rivers state.

This your propaganda is dead on arrival.

Ghostagain:
Complete and utter nonesense. In what parallel universe are you living ? I need to stop underestimating how bad Nigerians are in the field of history.

You are a Nigerian too so you are culpable.

As a combatant who has seen actions in the field(not in Nigeria), I tell you for free. Do your research. Current Ukraine dominated the old U.S.S.R in terms of army generals and military expertise QED

Ghostagain:
The fact that the USA "cracked down on Chinese drone and weapons manufacturers" is not proof that China was proving those equipments to Russia.
Your do called deal between north Korea and Russia is based on the word of your American friends and substantiated by nothing but their untrustworthy mouths. Also even some of your American sourced talked only about Russia procuring some shells from north Korea, I don't see any problems with that.

Ukraine has been supplied in weapons for more than 100 billion dollars by 31 countries including the USA, the UK, France, Germany...those countries supplied do much weapons to Ukraine that they now lack weapons.

"Ukraine given equal the weapons available to Russia would have won this war a long time ago.":
I really don't see the point of this hypothetical line here, I can also claim that if I had the same initial investment from my parents as Elon musk had from his parents then I would be 2 times richer than Elon musk. What is the point of this useless and unverifiable statement ? Are we teenagers ?

Point is Russia is winning, and winning very heavily. No need to create an alternate universe where Ukraine is winning, reality is interesting enough as it is.

When you know how those weapons get to Russia despite the ban on weapons supply to them them it becomes clear to you that it was and still done in a way the parties can have deniability.

Russia with all their might is still battling Ukraine going to the third year now and you still want to tell me that they have superior power than Ukraine.

What you failed to realise is that the former USSR which the present Ukraine is part of, was dominated in terms of military personnel's by Ukrainians who are naturally militarily inclined.

They were demilitarized on separating from the Soviet republic by Russia as a condition for there independence and virtually has little supply in terms of weapons and ammunitions prior to the invasion by Russia.America and the free world had to come to their aid to fill this gap even though not all their demand for weaponry was met.

Its no miracle Ukrainians fought off the Russians and with more weapons equal to that of Russia, I bet you for free that Russia would be done and dusted. Putin is just holding on to straws and he knows it.

Ghostagain:
1. China is not supplying Russia.
2. All that Iran supplied Russia were hundreds of drones and the blue print to build the drones. Russia has since modified the blueprint to make the drones much better and Russia produces them now.
3. You don't seem to understand the concept of "war of attrition". Russia gladly gives away land (temporarily) to save manpower and equipment and inflict catastrophic casualties on Ukraine/NATO. Ukrainian generals have openly voiced that "taking back those lands wasn't worth it", and soon enough, Russia will return back to those lands with minimal resistance from Ukraine's depleted and exhausted forces.
4. What north Korea provides to Russia is mostly workers.
5. Russian military has recently been ranked the best in the world by a USA defsec journal.
6. You are falling for the propaganda which you like, the reality is that Ukraine is hopeless and Russia has stuck to the winning strategy of war of attrition right from the beginning rather than act emotionally or for public relations. Russia doesn't care about appearances that is Ukraine and NATO's thing (look like Hulk Hogan while you are actually a poor starving guy from Somalia). When it is all set and done, everybody will be forced to realise that Russia has won.

What brought about the US cracking down on Chinese drone and weapons manufacturers based in China Cos some chips sold to some Chinese' weapons manufacturers were found on weapons used by Russians in Ukraine.

North Korea recently made a deal with Russia on weapons swap with Russia providing them with technicalities on nuclear know how and the lauch of spy satellites to the space. Its an on going thing now. Its no propaganda.

Ukraine given equal the weapons available to Russia would have won this war a long time ago.

Abrahamweb:
You really don't understand how world politics works,do you?
Russia has had gained more allies while USA has lost more allies and position on the world stage.
Russia has gained economically while Ukraine and the collective West has lost, Europe is thinking about removing their support from Ukraine.
USA has removed 90% of their hands from Ukraine.
Ukraine with the support of the collective West cannot stalemate Russia, you think it's when the west left Ukraine,that's when they can stalemate Russia? Are thinking at all?
Russia has successfully annexed parts of Ukraine,in any language that's winning,but the impressive part is, Russia disarmed the West.
The west are struggling for weapon now, don't take my word for it,use search engine.

Fair enough, but Ukraine has started producing some of their weapons by themselves. Russians are being supplied too by china, North Korea, and Iran.

World politics or not, the fact remains that Ukraine has exposed Russians military as weak and over hyped by beating them off and taking back territories they rook from them during the surprise invasion by Russia.

They are fighting now for mostly territories taken before the war.

francotunsco:
Politics at play. They are politicians, they lean where their political interests are protected. Have you seen the exodus of commissioners from the Fubara government.

So I was right after all

francotunsco:
Lawmakers dont serve under any governor, they are an independent arm of government saddled with state functions which include sacking the same governor you suggest they serve under.

That said, why the affinity with an ex governor? Why not work with the new.

Why the impeachment proceedings against him that we all know the instigators?

Rip to him.

Not long ago they buried mbadinuju now Ezeife.

Abrahamweb:
Some people go get 10mb dey come online to talk trash
Who do you think is winning this war?
Russia is acquiring more territory day by day,that is the best form of winning.

Where and where did they aquire the daily territory?

You with your million gigabytes obviously do not know that the battle of Bhakmout even though fierce at the moment is almost at stalemate.

Russians cannot make any leeway and Ukrainians are defending gallantly and with the winter coming, it will remain so with less actions on both side.

The war has exposed bow weak Russian army is an Ukraine has taken everything thrown at them by the Russians and are still fighting back stronger.

While the masses are collapsing from hunger and starvation, they are busy collapsing from heavy stomach infrastructure 😁.

How possible is this? Can you elaborate on this topic pls?

Watching the impunity as it unfolds. How can the 27 law makers be loyal to an ex governor and not the elected governor they are serving under?

It is so gross and undemocratic.

Woke should let Fubara focus on governance as the elected governor of the state. He has had his days and time to let go.

Greed and selfishness is not good.

Putin should already call off this war.

If nothing, it has exposed Russians army as weak and over hyped.

He should just swallow his pride and give peace a chance.

Komu1048:
I find it awkward though. Like playing with your stool, for what. But I don’t condemn those that do, it’s just a thing I believe happen to those that had a bored home

I don't believe that aspect of being bored, not always the case. Lol

My home is a theatre of activities. Children and wifey always jostling for attention.

But the issue of exs reaching out to know how far with you and how things are with you once in a while is healthy.

Take note some relationships crashed out in a very toxic way and some just withered out in a friendly way.

Those ones that ended in a friendly way devoid of hard feelings are worth keeping in touch with.

I totally agree with you that it is only a dog that goes back to it's vomit, but hey you can be friends from afar in a very harmless way.

Komu1048:
I don’t even know how people talk to their exes after marriage abeg. Wetin we wan discuss, I hardly care to hear about them n I still have their number n on social media. But that chapter is close abeg, perhaps it’s cox I married a good woman though

Nothing wrong in keeping in touch with them once in a while especially to jist and joke about old times.

But it has to be done while setting your boundaries.

No night communications, no sexual discussions etc.

Maturity on the part of the man is key as things can go down fast if he doesn't watch it.

Commendable.

That's the spirit in which NYSC was established.

I understand your outrage. Been there before.

You should quietly block her everywhere for your peace of mind.
If you are married and your wife happens across the pics don't you think your marital bliss would be in jeopardy?

She(your wife or girlfriend as th case may be) would never believe your own side of story.

What am I saying? You are culpable too by not cautioning her and blocking her entirely in all social media she uses in contacting you, if she persists.

Ekpa should be held in his place.

Non violent agitation is the way to go.

I believe Biafra could be attained in a very peaceful and organised manner.

CoronaVirusPro:
You are not conversant with US politics

Lolz.

I bet you.

An honourable thing to do.

He should face the law for his despicable actions.

I cant stop laughing.

The monsters you people made has come home to roost.

Tinubu should sha cut Asari small cake make him calm down. All the noisehe has been making shall never be in vain ☺

On point.

Many Nigerians abroad are wiser now.
They come back home, get married and leave the woman in Nigeria and visits often.

Many have been rendered homeless and some committed suicide by callous wives who has taken over there hard earned properties and houses in the form of divorce.

You are very right bro!

CoronaVirusPro:
And what happens to those that oppose him? You did not clarify that part?

What happened to Liz Cheney?

If he chooses to withdraw his support and then what? Its the electorate that gets to decide.

Many has dared him and nothing happened.

Fubara will earn my respect for ever if he came tame that power drunk called Wike.


He has done his eight years and should allow Fubara do his own eight years in peace

Nigerians should shun all form of godfatherism as it remains counter productive to the masses. The common wealth of the people ends up being siphoned by the godfathers and their cronies and the sitting governor will be helpless out of fear of being removed.

I urge Rivers people to stand up against Wike and tell him his tenure is over and gone!

CoronaVirusPro:
His fatherism is part of politics. You can never take it away.

Once you have an in-formidable political structure and base, it will always play out.

Look at the US for example, Trump is a God father in the GOP. Anything that opposes him crashes.

Trump uses his presidency to support candidates in elective offices and that doesn't mean they give him kick backs and appoints people he chooses or dance to his tunes.

That is not godfatherism.

Flush them all out.
Godfatherism should have no place in our country's democracy.

Wike should go and sit down.

Don't sleep walk but related to sleep anyways.

Will some times lash out at my partner during heavy sleep and when maybe disturbed without having a recollection of the action when I awoke.

Happens rarely but its a thing my partner complains whenever it happens.

According to her I was sleeping one night and suddenly gave her a powerful punch at the back while saying things she could not understand.i had no recollection of that but the evidence was there to see.

How sure are they it is corona?