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EfemenaXY:
^^ Sensible talk.

They should also get birth control.

very important because na all those people wey no get money na im their sperm dey always extra ordinarily potent.one touch another bele and na them go born triplets

Madam op birth control as efemena has recommended is very important o and if you know you cannot afford that one,let your thighs be tighter than a misers hand,keep it under lock and key till things become better financially

EfemenaXY:


Aunty K, how you go suggest no. 6 give married woman?

Abeg wetin be "arugbo"?

hehehehehe that's why I said I don't encourage it but if options fail that is the extreme of the extreme last resort

Long time efe I don miss you scarra.we no see your break light for nl again.

Then as for arugbo ,the full meaning or interpretation is there are no more old women in Ghana,married or unmarried once they get the right wig,make up and push up bra.the man for don carry them reach hotel room before he see say na bad market e buy by the time she removes her wig, make up and bra but he won't have a choice than to pay

babythug:
While your suggestions seem good you didn't consider some aspects!

Firstly they BOTH earn 58,000 thereabouts so it's not one income as you put it up there!

Then these businesses that you've suggested they save for how exactly do they maintain the family while saving towards these businesses on thier current income?

I feel a less capital intensive business that can run concurrently with thier jobs may be what they need. For eg Mrs may decide to
Start selling snacks in school or at home.

This is my addition anyway

my dear I know but nothing good comes easy.

Their foundation first of all is faulty.thanks to those that encourage people who aren't financially stable to marry and God will take care of the rest as if God is a magician

My dear there's no business in Nigeria as of today that is not capital intensive even to those selling pants and bra

Shebi husband is earning 40k.henn he should squeeze himself temporarily till the business becomes reality.this means that every month he will be saving 5k while the wife will be saving 5k.meaning 10k from now till the end of the year is something

As for the kids let them be at home doing home schooling. This is where the wife comes in.it means she has to be a teacher to her children just so school fees money will be off the burden, then when the restaurant materializes they can go back to school

Then no more ijekuje.all the one that the husband will be asking for goat meat,bokoto,fresh fish, laced with pomo and shrimps inside vegetable soup should be out of it.they should just squeeze themselves and cook stew of 300 naira that will last for at most 2weeks.if they want to supplement their stew with whatever they eat they should buy 50naira egg.kojubelo

For both of you depending on one source of income is stewpeed of you both

Solution: both of you should save up,combine the money together and set up a family business of your choice that will be bringing money for both you and your husband

I can give you family business ideas that's profitable. Thank God you're kuku a teacher you'll have time to monitor and supervise the business

1.restaurant or buka or mama put.just hire sales girls that you can be paying 5k monthly
Hire alase that will be doing the cooking. Your own is to supervise that they don't steal your Palm oil,maggi or salt

2.laundry business. Just buy washing machine and the Washing machine will do the needful,dry it and package it for the respective owners maybe on weekends or your off days

3.lesson teacher job.going from house to house to teach people's children

4 selling of clothes from office to office

5.beer parlor/pepper soup joint. Hope your husband is not the jealous type

6.I don't encourage the last option but if all the 5 points raised cannot help try runz.after all there's no more arugbo in Ghana.repackage yourself, wear wig and look for customers in allen

Who is the wife who is the baby mama among the 2 skanks?

Haba this is too much na.why are Nigerian police this animalistic. I sure say e no go pass 20naira matter.

AlvanT:
Shut up!!! You speak with confidence as if you've seen the devil before,what if he's not as evil as Christianity portrays him,devil have suffer.If Buhari mess na devil,mtcheew.

get thee behind me devil and his agents. In the name of Jesus I command you child of darkness to get thee behind me

Every one with his/her own baggage that he/she is carrying

Sprumbaba:
haha, you wan start what you can not finish.

It is the exact number of times I went to treat your parent.

I'm sure your father bit you that's why you're no longer rational. You better tell your mom to take you back to yaba left

MamaTej:
They wanted an innocent looking bride. Those ladies you mentioned do not look one bit innocent.

bidemi,olaitan or mide doesn't look innocent?

Smellymouth:
Fela once said , "..Sex is a gift of nature. Why do men make laws to check it? A law telling you where to fv.ck and another telling you when to fv.ck...”

sex is a beautiful gift by God. Promiscuity and sexual recklessness is a sexual deviation originated from the pit of hell

Any time God creates something beautiful, the devil must create a counterfeit or abuse it

One of the minute legends of the Yoruba race who dared to say the truth as it is to government face and dared the consequences.its very rare for Yoruba's not to be compromised if they threaten them with death or flash money on them. I liked his political activism through music but I hate his sexual lifestyle

Too me she's not all that fine fine.she's just a regular girl who is overhyped.I think the person who will have killed that bride role perfectly is mercy aigbe,rita dominic or mide martins

elmagnifo:
$5.4million = that's about #2,000,000,000?? Never had any idea that 'I go die' was this rich. But I believe he is into some big business aside from comedy.

Chai!! When will I buy a mansion for my own mama?

God don pick im mama call but who go follow mama live for this big house? Shey boredom and loneliness no go kill mama because I'm sure everything will be provided for mama.no need to cook no need to clean.just for mama to sleep wake up eat and watch TV

I'm happy for mama though because no amount of money is too much to spend on your mother. However in. All of this where's his father because it's just his mother he's celebrating?

Anyway I follow mama rejoice because she didn't labor in vain.she didn't die when he succeeded,she was alive to see her son succeed and her grandchildren. Nothing sweet pass that for mothers

Azam101:
childish act ode!

as he big reach as he old for age.

His case is a clear case of age doesn't always reflect maturity

mamatayour:
He's doing it to spite Mercy

it means he was obviously cheating during Mercy's tenure

What's the surprise about this

Origin:
Actually they do. Just come to that section and you'll see. Both atheists and Christians alike and they tend to be quite savage too.


Giving does not have to be money. Acts of worship are dedicated to God and God only. Calling people out to bring their tithes, keeping tithes record, praying specifically for those that brought tithes, elevating some prominent givers as elders in church.

You can't tell me that God knows my heart and knows everything about me and I don't have to physically show that i worship God. But I have to physically show my tithe

if you feel a strong push in your spirit to give give,if not don't give

Jaynom:
The thing is there are Just too many issues with modern day Christianity. How many alfas or mallams do you see on social media flaunting their wealth? You see our so called pastors with private jets, Rolls Royces, designer clothes e.t.c with little or no humility at all. Mind you Widows and orphans attend all these churches where salvation is not preached, every day topic na give give give and it Will come back to you.

then don't go to a particular church if you don't feel comfortable about their ways than going to church with the purpose of looking for faults and criticizing. There's no place you won't find faults

Arsenalholic1:
You wantu kill them?

as in henn.I just taya.it's becoming a trend and it's getting boring and annoying. If you don't like church don't go,it's that simple

Sunday a day committed or set aside for church bashing or Christianity criticism

How come the atheists don't criticize alphas and mosques every Fridays?

bamidelee:
one man one wife but you're allowed to have concubines or furnicate

the point is if you cannot stick to one woman don't marry at all and be fucking up and down like a dog on heat,but once you choose to marry you're sexually responsible to one woman and you owe her loyalty

If you're single no one will expect sexual loyalty from you

That's just the moral of the story

huntax:
Fear women, fear women - but he went ahead and married two.

don't mind it.they know when to use quotes

All the wild beasts cursing their mother up and down and cannot disagree without being base and civil

You will all get a taste of your medicine.

Nasty things

Sprumbaba:
You see, there is a difference between lady and Old lady. How many times did you fail Jamb?

how many times did you go to yaba left?

stuffs4me:
I pray you die a painful and gruesome death for supporting such an evil thing.


Your heart is so dark, wicked and evil, I pity the unfortunate man that will marry this evil daughter of the devil.

back to sender.you will die a shameful death,every evil tongue rising against me in judgement shall be condemned ijn

Yoruba's say anybody that does whatever will attract curse to himself, that curse will work but if he didn't do anything to attract curse the curse will go back to its sender

escapefromusa:
Your value system is warped.

same as yours

Reference:
Well, she has a house now. Cell Block C, Prison Estate. Rent free for 15 years....and it comes with free meals.

hahaha with the way the economy and many marriages are.such places are better, at least free meals will come everyday and no more responsibilities

eyinjuege:
To be honest, there's really nothing funny about this your post.
I understand you're trying to pass a message across, that under no circumstance should violence be encouraged, there's simply no excuse nor justification for any form of spousal violence.. I quite understand you, but a man has just lost his life due to the callousness of his wife. He probably has living children, parents, brothers, sisters that have all been cast into mourning due to the monster of a wife.
This isn't a war of the sexes as some people here have come to make it.
We all need to condemn evil when we see it, with one voice. At least we all have relatives, children, of both sexes.



Iya Aliko, that's so wrong. Why couldn't she pack out?
He broke his vows, but did he commit a crime? She just did by physically assaulting him causing grievous bodily harm and killing him in the process.
You should condemn the perpetrator of such a crime and not the victim.
Anyone can justify evil. Rapists always justify theirs by the clothes the women wear, men who beat their wives justify theirs because the woman was verbally and emotionally abusive, theives will justify theirs too blaming it on the economy, prostitutes also give their reasons.

she should have packed out. Talk is easy,very easy to cast blames and criticize. After how many years of marriage, after how many years of emotional financial investment. Like she expected it or planned such things will befall her?

After now if woman build house without the husbands knowledge na una go dey abuse am say she's already planning divorce. Where will she move to at her age if she decides to leave?

akdam:
Dangotesmummy, are you saying the only exemption for a man to beat his wife is if he catches her cheating? I'm I correct? Thanks.

what I'm saying or my point is if you don't love a woman again or you don't feel anything in your heart for her or you're not sexually attracted to her then LET HER GO instead OF PUTTING HER THROUGH EMOTIONAL TRAUMA AND TORTURE AS IF SHE DOESN'T HAVE FEELINGS OF HURT AND BETRAYAL AGAIN. IT IS emotionally TRAUMATIC WHEN A PERSON YOU LOVE OR WHO IS CLOSEST TO YOU BETRAYS YOU.IT WILL HAVE BEEN LESS PAINFUL AND BEARABLE IF BETRAYAL WAS COMING FROM A STRANGER

codedpee:
Now girls, women and silly men won't say it's wrong. But if a man beats, everyone will go wailing... Useme nte mbufo

the man deserves it.

Reason; how will you feel if your own wife is cheating on you to your face.I'm sure he won't be able to stand it

What he can't take, why is he dishing it.he should have divorced her or sent her away instead of breaking the vows