₦airaland Forum

Never4getU:
U need medical checkup ASAP...u're becoming irritating!

he's saying the truth

Another agbero fan

I'm surprised you can type English in such a way others can make meaning of

I guess you're one of the agberos luck shined at and was opportuned to go to school hence you see a crude noise maker as a musician

Zane2point4:
Shoot for where, don jazzi wey don marry deh laugh una since, u think say na everyone like exposing there families online?

how do you know that?

Educated riffraf defending illiterate tout

Mshewww


I blame the people giving you and your father relevance.imagine illiterate tout too is asking people to follow him on Instagram.like what will I learn from you when there are other decent people on the gram

Catfishing:
Chioma issa bitch, a money chaser.....serves her right.

She should be used as an warning to young gals, never to abandone their education because of fake "assurance". And she fvcking did it for a frog voice nigga - highest level of stupidity

P.S: Stop with the tribal bigotry be warned!

#OGbeforeIG

funny thing is that even the Davido she sacrificed her education for went back to complete his education.it was just a matter of time before this farcade blows open

Wait, I'm not understanding some things.lets get some things straight


So you were thinking a guy as lousy, immature and promiscuous as Davido will be faithful to you? Serrrriiiiiously?


Before you met him and agreed to get pregnant with him,you very well knew,infact it wasn't a secret that he was a serial baby daddy to several women and you think you can change an over pampered grown baby?

Because you are .....?

Very soon breeze go blow and fowl Yash go open as e blow Tonto dike and the lady married to her ex


The assurance car (we never see you drive)

Or the endless engagement that never led to marriage

It's just like marrying kwam1 and expect fidelity.there are some people that you shouldn't even be expecting fidelity from if you decide to be with them moreso the absence of not having a mother particularly at his formative age affected his character


If he had a mother that raised him and was not snatched by death prematuredly,he will not have had character deficiencies and this gross level of immaturity and irresponsibility.he reminds me of someone like nairamarley.davido smokes weed openly, doesn't even hide it from you,drinks alcohol and womanizes openly and you expect him to magically Change? Abi you are believing those unwise elders that says "marriage will change him" . Sorry,they were deceiving you because they themselves know their son has character problem that cannot be hidden so they lie to you so you can open your eyes and walk into a trap


I'm sure the next girl too will think she would change him and the cycle continues

Mshewww

They don carry their aggressive and violent behaviour go SA


you think say SA Be Naija where anything goes and you can get away with your toxic and chauvenistic behaviours

RRodwave:
Two things is involved here
It's either SARS has returned or They are Robbers wearing Sars Uniform

For nigeria anything can happen

Am if truly Sars has returned omo Na Gunmen go complete the task
If you know you know

or former SARS workers coming back to cause mayhem

Sowore should go and sit down in one place jare we no know whether Na left or right he dey

Smh

Politicians are the ENEMIES of this country.it is glaring now

BruncleZuma:


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even my own hair was done for 20 million naira


Is it because I didn't announce it on nairaland

That's what happens when you are supposed to go to the hospital but go to roadside trado Medical doctors because you want cheap things


You no hear say food wey sweet Na money chop am? Instead of you giving the job to an interior decor designer or professional furniture Makers you go give broda Lukman cafinta

But then he tried.look at the chair he did with the limited resources you gave him

Moreso look at the wall and environment of the place you carry work go? What do you expect?

Yoruba elders say that before you buy clothes from a cloth trader you go first look at the one wey he wear for body.see the environment

Seyi is trying to please his masters and be in their good book so they'll give him chance in 2023 not knowing times and seasons is in God's hands

Zzor:
Burna boy is quite arrogant but I think obafemi whatever should try and get married so as to stop being in the news for the wrong reasons

when did marriage stop disrespect?


No wonder people marry for the wrong reasons.any fool that sees this one now especially the ones with ego problems will think the only to stop disrespect is to marry


Make money 1st and you will not need to beg anybody to respect you

If you like marry,if you no get money,Na the beginning of disrespect you just go buy

Successful entertainers with lack of self control,lack of emotional intelligence and character issues


Every conflict must deteriorate to ego contest and violence.na me strong pass


Smh


See Nigerian youths role models.anyway why should I be surprised.isnt Burna boy and his gang cultist


Cultist and violence be like 5 and 6. No matter the money and exposure they have, that spirit of violence and intoxication to fight even when it's unnecessary or a petty matter will always be pushing them

I don't know the cause of the fight neither do I care.i also don't care who is right or at fault, when you get to a certain age as a man you should choose issues worth fighting over but what do we have this days.grown men fighting over women, alcohol or money

Smh

gaftsoil:
u de mumu o

baba e ni mumu

gaftsoil:
u de mumu o

baba e ni mumu

gaftsoil:
Why u de spoil market nah?

continue.

Hand go soon touch you

Ole oshi

LoudLord:
You sure say this one na Yahoo boy or Hoodlum?


See as he rough

what's the difference between yahoo boy and hoodlum

Logic007:
Even the jobless are now advising the employed.
Wahala dey

no be only for Instagram wey unsolicited advisers with pictures attached go dey dish advice.even for NL unsolicited advisers camouflaging as opinion airers are dishing advise Abi you no see say advisers don pass listeners


E remain advice on how to open Yash when you dey Fok

Advice on how to stay for 2 minutes in the toilet

Advice on how to sleep

Advice on how to brush teeth

Advice on how to wear payint


Advice on how to walk

Logic007:
Numbers 6, 7 and 8 are all nonsense.

Sexist giving women advice lol

Na for nairaland you go see carpenter advising a medical doctor


Na for nairaland you go see pikin wey still dey collect money from daddy and mummy go siddon for him hostel to type on NL

1.12 ways to keep a man
2.40 things to do to get married
3.why single women will never get married


You're really taking people that have character issues seriously

Amugbo,drunkard or serial playboy too will be giving advice


Small time they'll give advice on How to wear sanitary pads or how to wear your bra


Yawns

Ayo2004:
Your brain resemble my own..I have a friend who wasnt invited to his cousin's wedding about two years ago because he was really broke so the family didn't recognize him that much,his cousin is somebody that used most of his life savings to do wedding and sold his land in ikorodu to fund honeymoon to Dubai,now,my friend is doing okay in his crypto and giftcard business,his cousin recently called my friend for financial assistance after becoming a father and using the child as an excuse,u need to say the way my guy comot am ehnn

that your friend is indeed a wise Man and do you know the funny thing.its people that have a stake in your life and done major things for you that won't feel entitled. the ones that have done next to nothing will be the ones behaving as if you owe them

cayorday89:
I can feel your pains even though I haven't found myself in such situations, but take it this way, those people calling you back try one day to ask them for a certain sum of money and see their response, do this continuously and any dat they fail to deliver, take your final decision to leave the house and use their response to your call for help to also blackmail them and not beg you out of your decision. And when you finally leave, don't forget to help your parents the little way you can and as for your siblings whatever you will do should be from your mind..

exactly

Infact with this approach his siblings will on their own avoid you.some will not even talk to you again and thats good riddance to bad rubbish

Ayo2004:
Your brain senior einstein own...I see no reason why an average man will give birth to 5+ children in this country,any sensible person should first try to get financial means to either japa from the country or set up a good environment to make more and more money but no,someone earning 100k will marry at 24 and start gathering children every birthday,nawa for us o

gbamxactly


All the exploitative and overbearing family members that like asking endlessly,I don block all of them from my WhatsApp and other social media accounts.if them send text I no dey answer because temi Tomi leru gbe.my load is enough for me to carry make someone no put him own load for my head.i no dey Available for that

Call me stingy, selfish and Even any adjective worse than that,I don't care.i don't owe anybody my life or how I spend my money but if my parents ask ₦100,I fit give them ₦500.those ones are an exception

I don't mind them living large on my neck, they're entitled to it and they deserve it.infact those are the ones that have the right to be financially entitled

bukatyne:
Move closer to your place of work.

3:30 everyday is not healthy for you except you sleep around 8pm especially as a woman.

Just get a little space and move out: nothing to discuss.

Your physical and mental health is very important. God forbid you break down.

exactly


The way OP is giving his family the impression that he's indebted to them sef dey vex me


Does he need anybody's permission to move out or live anywhere? Shooo

bukatyne:

are you surprised,angry or both?

That's the exploitative nature of nigerians.while you're thinking of ways to help them, they're thinking of ways to exploit you and it happens even in families


Anyway Na the person wey them see their face for ground Na him them go exploit

If anyone says I should help them pay school fees,I will ask them to give me their university bursar's number.if you like give me a number of someone that is fronting as a bursar,I will ask him to send the official school fees of each department to my email with letter headed paper showing the university stamp and bursar's signature

If he is an exploiter Na him go avoid me himself,he won't even have the liver to ask me for ₦5


So this days the mindset of fraud has made it difficult to help and even when helping you have to protect yourself and set limits

If people know this about you they won't bring their financial problems near you and you have your peace and rest

HappyNigerian:
My brother, I don use that strategy but dem call me stingy

don't fall for emotional blackmail

When they see that you are a hard nut to crack, they'll resort to emotional blackmail

HappyNigerian:
It’s the beginning of a new year and that means new bills and more responsibilities and thinking back at last year just gives me some sort of joy at how I have planned this year for my bills.

My family lives in Ibadan and I live in Lagos and I must confess that it is such a struggle to pay their bills while working in Lagos here. I am the first child so I have to send my family money every month, and my siblings every week.

My family DSTV bill is also something I have to do monthly while I also ensure that all my siblings get airtime on their phone every week. It is such a traumatic experience when I remember that as I am planning all this small small money that when you calculate it, it becomes big money, I have to also plan bank charges inside of it as well.
I moved out of the house at a point to make ends meet as the first son of the family especially as my parents are getting old and I’m their only source of livelihood as it is right now, some people say you do not owe your parents anything but well, I do not believe in this and I take care of my parents and see it as my duty and what I owe to them to do.

Schools have resumed, Nishola, my sister needs to go back and would need fees and other miscellaneous expenses. Femi my brother is preparing for his WAEC to enable him get into the university. My parents of course have medical bills to be sorted as well every month.

When I calculate this in total every month including bank charges, it is over 100,000 monthly that I spend last year not until this January when someone mentioned how PalmPay gives people rewards when they do transactions. At first, and as usual, I did not believe it but that is not the point of the thread.

The point of writing this thread is really to ask, how do African Children deal with the numerous bills that they have to pay for the family and friends?

you owe your parents care,that's basic BUT YOU DON'T OWE YOUR SIBLINGS ANYTHING. If you are supposed to give them ₦2k give them ₦500 as a test to see their reaction.what you are doing is the genesis of ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY. the day you say you don't have money to give or you have some personal expenses to sort out you will start to hear

Broda you were never like this before,you have changed

If you don't have a girlfriend , finance or wife, you are already creating ready made problems for her because when you are married your own personal bills will increase such that you will not be able to take care of your siblings like before and not because you don't want to do it so guess what?


Your wife will be the one to bear the brunt of the missiles your family throw at her because they'll think she is the reason why you don't take care of them again hence the statement SINCE YOU CAME INTO OUR BROTHER'S LIFE HE HAS CHANGED TOWARDS US.moreover you're not the one that gave birth to your siblings, there's a time when they need to carry their Cross.YOU ARE NOT A FAMILY DONKEY EVERYONE WILL PUT THEIR PROBLEMS ON YOUR BACK


REMEMBER TAKERS DON'T HAVE LIMITS

moreover how will you save for the rainy day when everyone has dumped their financial problems on your back?


If you're carrying all your familys problems who will BE THERE FOR YOU TO SORT OUT YOUR OWN ISSUES TOO WHEN YOU NEED HELP?

I had a friend like you.lets call her Becky and she was her family donkey just like you


She didn't have any money to even take care of herself.anytime she collects salary,90 percent will go to her younger brothers.she didn't even wear good clothes on her body.it was so bad that I couldn't take it anymore,I had to tell her to come to my house to take Rice,garri,palmoil,semo,yam and other foodstuffs. the annoying part is that if I give her all these things,she will carry everything and send to her younger brother in school.she was always doing JAMA JAMA work here and there.even Saturday she's supposed to rest she will go and hustle.all throughout I knew her she never had any moment of rest all for her brother.


So one Saturday she was rushing to go to a party where they said she will do usher work and get small change.it was on her way she had an accident and died meanwhile before she died I remember I told her to at least Live for herself for 1 day.enjoy your sweat.take yourself out and spoil yourself,buy clothes for yourself.for where,all the things I told him fell on deaf ears


Now she has died her brothers she was slaving her life for have all found their ways.it was her office people that eventually gave her her remaining entitlement.it was her ENTITLEMENTs at work they used to bury her


Now you remind me of her.if you aren't careful,you will be like my friend.your family will use you till you die so much that you won't have a life for yourself

Gyong:
Boss create a thread on that so that nairalanders will give their verdicts. We the comments readers association awaits the entertainment cos nothing give us joy like reading dem funny comments here and spitting on suyaman and his lame ass crew cos these guys clearly don't wish Nigerians well at all.

go check jistlover na.na where all the funny comments dey be that

BadBradley:
stop complaining. You brought this upon yourself.

And yes my heart does a double and my adrenaline surges when I pummel brain-damaged bastards like you.

But....isn't it ironic that a bobrisky digital hireling is prating about job when your Oga is actually jobless?

If I were you I will look for the babalawo when swap your brain with that of mountain goat.

Washed out imbecilic dweeb that quoted me is now complaining I am seeking his attention.

Your mama born you inside hoe house. Demonised purge of nature like you.

Your stupidity still needs professional management.

e be like say you just hear the word dweeb

Trying so hard to blow grammar no fit you


Please continue barking, I'm enjoying your little tirade full of frustrations

Btw them no dey form for food o.you better come and take the house boy work before hunger finish you


He wan cry


Mr dweeb