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Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by descarado: 8:11am On Feb 27, 2021 |
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Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by awulio(f): 8:12am On Feb 27, 2021 |
That’s for uneducated or poor people... my mom always told my brother and I she is saving for her retirement because she doesn’t want to be a burden to us in old age. She has money saved up but my brother and I will still send her Small money.... this mentality that ppl should kill themselves to help their family needs to stop OrdinaryNigeria: 8 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by sammirano: 8:18am On Feb 27, 2021 |
That bank charge part funny lol try kuda and enjoy peace. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Ay92(m): 8:32am On Feb 27, 2021 |
This is the dilemma I'm in now, my parents don't seem to understand at all. I'm a very stingy person to them meanwhile I earn around 12-20k per month 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Sterope(f): 8:34am On Feb 27, 2021 |
You are rich o. DStv bills and weekly airtime If you like don't plan for yourself, you will soon come and tell us how Femi or his wife treated you despite all you did for Femi. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Sterope(f): 8:35am On Feb 27, 2021 |
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Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:38am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Jelzin2412: Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Sterope(f): 8:44am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Some of you are very extreme sha yusufu16: |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:48am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Antoeni:May God help us my brother wlh it's not easy may God help us, All I care now is for my parents to be comfortable, I can't marry a Nigerian woman now to come and stress me, may God help our hustling men. 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:56am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Akpuobi1:It's not easy wlh especially if you are the first born in the family so many pressure couple with woman wahala on top |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by CzarChris(m): 8:57am On Feb 27, 2021 |
HappyNigerian:Guy, I thought I was the only one passing through this. Honestly, I'm sinking and dying gradually. I need God's intervention. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:58am On Feb 27, 2021 |
klickstar:God help us, that's why women live long I can't kill myself wlh |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:00am On Feb 27, 2021 |
GeneralPula:Good idea that's what I do, I switched off my phones. I disconnected all entitled girls from my list, until I was stable 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:01am On Feb 27, 2021 |
yusufu16:Honestly only our parents owe us |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Ontopall: 9:01am On Feb 27, 2021 |
justosee:Why Palmpay? |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:02am On Feb 27, 2021 |
yusufu16:Lol God help us |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:04am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Kokaine:I will search for you, you think being a man is beans 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:07am On Feb 27, 2021 |
mmsen:But sir what can we do. Do we leave our parents alone " |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:09am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Sheriman:God help us in this country |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:10am On Feb 27, 2021 |
alexola20:I don't agree with this assertion honestly 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:16am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Psoul:This is the best advice I swear 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:17am On Feb 27, 2021 |
emmanuelewumi:I swear |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by cooltola(m): 9:19am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Easy to handle. 1, 10% or your first fruit to God and see how God works. 2. Pay your bills- this is very important and seperate a reasonable amount of money for mum and dad.Honor your parents so your days may be long. If you cannot give them money, you give them food items or neccessary house items like soap etc 3. Save at least 15% of your salary, do ajo. Ajo forces you to save and discipline you with money. Join a trusted pool of individuals who are doing so. Trust me on this , 4. Pay yourself e.g buying something for yourself , it could be as little as buying a tshirt you like. Why? You need to do so for sanity. You must enjoy the fruit of your labor. 5. Then take care of siblings , friends and so on if you can and you cannot. Then sorry, you are only human , you are not their parents or their savior. 7. Do not loan an amount that you cannot give freely in the 1st place. Always work with the mindset that they may not pay u back. If you give every friends and family who are always asking for money. You will not have any money saved at all. And when you go broke, they will be same people saying that when you have money , how come you did not save. 7 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by dangotesmummy: 9:19am On Feb 27, 2021 |
HappyNigerian:you owe your parents care,that's basic BUT YOU DON'T OWE YOUR SIBLINGS ANYTHING. If you are supposed to give them ₦2k give them ₦500 as a test to see their reaction.what you are doing is the genesis of ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY. the day you say you don't have money to give or you have some personal expenses to sort out you will start to hear Broda you were never like this before,you have changed If you don't have a girlfriend , finance or wife, you are already creating ready made problems for her because when you are married your own personal bills will increase such that you will not be able to take care of your siblings like before and not because you don't want to do it so guess what? Your wife will be the one to bear the brunt of the missiles your family throw at her because they'll think she is the reason why you don't take care of them again hence the statement SINCE YOU CAME INTO OUR BROTHER'S LIFE HE HAS CHANGED TOWARDS US.moreover you're not the one that gave birth to your siblings, there's a time when they need to carry their Cross.YOU ARE NOT A FAMILY DONKEY EVERYONE WILL PUT THEIR PROBLEMS ON YOUR BACK REMEMBER TAKERS DON'T HAVE LIMITS moreover how will you save for the rainy day when everyone has dumped their financial problems on your back? If you're carrying all your familys problems who will BE THERE FOR YOU TO SORT OUT YOUR OWN ISSUES TOO WHEN YOU NEED HELP? I had a friend like you.lets call her Becky and she was her family donkey just like you She didn't have any money to even take care of herself.anytime she collects salary,90 percent will go to her younger brothers.she didn't even wear good clothes on her body.it was so bad that I couldn't take it anymore,I had to tell her to come to my house to take Rice,garri,palmoil,semo,yam and other foodstuffs. the annoying part is that if I give her all these things,she will carry everything and send to her younger brother in school.she was always doing JAMA JAMA work here and there.even Saturday she's supposed to rest she will go and hustle.all throughout I knew her she never had any moment of rest all for her brother. So one Saturday she was rushing to go to a party where they said she will do usher work and get small change.it was on her way she had an accident and died meanwhile before she died I remember I told her to at least Live for herself for 1 day.enjoy your sweat.take yourself out and spoil yourself,buy clothes for yourself.for where,all the things I told him fell on deaf ears Now she has died her brothers she was slaving her life for have all found their ways.it was her office people that eventually gave her her remaining entitlement.it was her ENTITLEMENTs at work they used to bury her Now you remind me of her.if you aren't careful,you will be like my friend.your family will use you till you die so much that you won't have a life for yourself 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:21am On Feb 27, 2021 |
ProphetofOdin:It's not easy if you are with a ungrateful woman it will worse |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by cayorday89(m): 9:22am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx:I can feel your pains even though I haven't found myself in such situations, but take it this way, those people calling you back try one day to ask them for a certain sum of money and see their response, do this continuously and any dat they fail to deliver, take your final decision to leave the house and use their response to your call for help to also blackmail them and not beg you out of your decision. And when you finally leave, don't forget to help your parents the little way you can and as for your siblings whatever you will do should be from your mind.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:23am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Bouz:I swear |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by cayorday89(m): 9:23am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Slimfeez:Boss can you please share some of those legit investment companies.. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:27am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Offpoint1:God help us bro |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:28am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx:. Eyya |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by omojesu202(m): 9:30am On Feb 27, 2021 |
donbachi: so if I need 40k I'll simply ask for 200k. simple arithmetic |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:30am On Feb 27, 2021 |
descarado:) We will not make the same mistake by GOD grace |
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