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TravelRe: The Growing Beauty Of Lagos (pics) by DANILSA(m): 2:45pm On Nov 27, 2012
@ ROSSIC MAY YOUR DAYS BE LONG, UR ONE OF THE FEW NIGERIAN STILL PROUD TO BE A NIGERIAN, WALK AND NEVER STUMBLE. BUT BY THE WAY WHO BE THAT IYA BASIRA WEY U SNAP? NA UR WIFE? grin grin
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Believe In The Holy Trinity ? by DANILSA(m): 5:00pm On Nov 25, 2012
frosbel: There is nothing holy about the trinity, it a pagan concept !!
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EventsRe: Gorgeous Rita Dominic, Dakore, Nse, Kate Henshaw @the 'journey To Self' Premiere by DANILSA(m): 3:08pm On Nov 25, 2012
THE LADY LAST MIDDLE IS NOT WELL DRESSED, SAMPLING A FALLEN TREE IS NOT GOOD. huh undecided
PoliticsRe: Funke Akindele And Gov Okorocha In School Uniform (PHOTOS) by DANILSA(m): 9:57am On Nov 23, 2012
almajiri101: How does this reduce 5.2billion my shoeless broda just released for d renovation of UN building...shiooooooooo
HE MIGHT BE SHOELESS BUT NOT AN ALMAJIRI, HE THEREFORE IS NOT YOUR BROTHER. wink
Jobs/VacanciesRe: When Your Boss Is Younger Than You by DANILSA(m): 4:30pm On Nov 22, 2012
Nezan: I personally solved this problem when I querried all of them and gave them 24hrs ultimatum to respond or face further sanctions. That day it became obvious to them who was the boss.
grin grin grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: When Your Boss Is Younger Than You by DANILSA(m): 4:20pm On Nov 22, 2012
I HAD THAT CHALLENGE BUT MINE WAS OPPOSITE, I WAS THE SUPERVISOR WORKING WITH OLD MEN AND WOMEN, THEY WILL ALWAYS LOOK AT YOU TWICE BEFORE ACTION,THEIR FACE WILL ALWAYS SHOW LIKE "SEE THIS SMALL BOY DE TALK ANYHOW BECAUSE IM MANAGE BE MY OGA"
EducationRe: NANS Threatens To Join UniAbuja Protest by DANILSA(m): 1:54pm On Nov 22, 2012
I THINK NEGOTIATION REMAINS THE BEST OPTION
Christianity EtcRe: Demonic Convenant Associate With Attachment And Weavon by DANILSA(m): 1:52pm On Nov 22, 2012
SOME TOPIC ARE JUST..................................DAM..............................................
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Should Beg Jonathan To Seek Second Term – Lawmaker by DANILSA(m): 1:43pm On Nov 22, 2012
THIS MAN IS A JOKER, DID I SEE BEG OR VOTE, WELL HE MUST HAVE TAKEN KAIKAI WITH FRESH FISH
PoliticsRe: 9 Industrial Cities To Enjoy Uninterrupted Power Supply From 2013 - FG by DANILSA(m): 1:40pm On Nov 22, 2012
WHICH NNAJI? THE ONE WEY DON RESIGN ABI THE ONE WEY DE? DIS NA OLD NEWS JARE huh undecided
HealthRe: HIV Infections Fall, U.N. Says Ending AIDS “feasible” by DANILSA(m): 1:00pm On Nov 22, 2012
MAKE THEM SHOW FOR BENUE ABEG
Nairaland General5 Guys Take Same Photo For 30 Years by DANILSA(op): 12:55pm On Nov 22, 2012
When five teenagers sat down and posed for a picture at Copco Lake in 1982, they didn't plan on making it a tradition. But that's what it became.

Every five years for the past three decades, John Wardlaw, John Dickson, Mark Rumer, Dallas Burney and John Molony have been meeting at the California lake and taking the same photo.

The first photograph of the high school friends was just happenstance. Wardlaw, known as Wedge in the group, had a family cabin at the lake where the friends gathered in July 1982.

While hanging out on the deck of the cabin, Dickson, or J.D., set his 35-millimeter camera on self-timer to take a group photo.
5 guys vacation pic a huge hit online

"For some reason, we all chose to have dark and mysterious expressions on our faces," said Wardlaw. "I'm sure we all thought we were being really cool."

Is the photo better than the vacation?

Though they tried a couple of poses, the one that would eventually win as the official vacation photo depicts the five teens, three of them shirtless, with shaggy hair typical of the time. They were about 19 years old.

Molony, known in the group as Belves, is pictured holding a Folgers Instant Coffee jar, which contained a cockroach the guys had decided to keep as a pet. They fed their new friend with a piece of butterscotch candy and kept it company with a photograph of Robert Young.

"Priorities were so different back then. All I was really thinking about was summer and girls," said Wardlaw.

As the men went into their college years, they continued to return to the lake every summer. They spent their time fishing and reading and playing roles in homemade movies shot by Wardlaw, who is now a filmmaker.

"We're all very creative people, so we would take all of our creative energy and focus it into a certain direction," said Molony. "It wasn't, 'Let's all get together and get drunk.' It was, 'Let's get together and see who can make the funniest joke or pull off the sneakiest prank.'"

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The men never drank on the trip. It has always been good, clean fun.

At least fairly clean: One year Wardlaw turned on the water to take a shower, and it was running brown. He removed the shower head to find a beef bullion cube.

"When I went back to the living room, the guys were all chuckling and I said something like 'beefy goodness' and they all exploded with laughter," he said.

But it wasn't until five summers later when Wardlaw, a photography enthusiast, decided it would be fun to recreate the photograph they'd taken in '82.

In 1987, the now college-educated men sat in the same position on the same bench, again with a self-timed camera. The jar, a different one this time, contained no cockroach, and the hat held by Wardlaw was different as well. The expressions however, were unchanged.

"I think I had a feeling this might become some cool tradition, but I had no idea we would still be doing it for 30 years," said Wardlaw.

In 1997, 15 years after the original photo, the men, then in their mid-30s, decided to solidify the photo as a tradition they would continue every five years for the rest of their lives.

Five guys, fun facts, through the decades

As the ritual became more concrete and when digital cameras were introduced, the group became more picky over the details of the photo, going as far as to wear the same clothes, and designate an official jar and hat as props. Hairstyles have changed over the years and with the march of time they abandoned the bare-chested motif.

"Watch us lose hair and gain forehead, gain and lose and gain and lose weight," Dickson posted on a website he maintains devoted to the tradition. "There are reasons we all decided it was better to take the photo with our shirts on."

Now, the friends also take the time to film the ordeal, and interview each other concerning the last five years' events.

The guys all agree that this trip has been the glue that has allowed them to maintain their friendships.

"It's kind of an organic relationship that's evolved not just from being high school buddies but from having common passions for life," Molony said.

Over the years, the friends have played parts in the milestones of each others' lives, including being in each others' weddings.

"I look at the photos and think of the relationships I went through," said Dickson. "Wedding rings come and go, if you look closely."

Dickson, who now works as a restaurant columnist, got married in mid-July and had some of the guys in his wedding. In June, all five friends celebrated Dickson's bachelor party at the 30-year anniversary of their Copco Lake tradition.

Molony, who has since relocated to New Orleans and works for UPS, is married, as is Wardlaw, who made a career of his love for photography and film. Burney is a fourth-grade teacher. Rumer, known as "Kram," now resides in Oregon and has retired after owning his own electronics company. None of the men have children yet.

"We plan on doing this for the rest of our lives, no matter what," said Dickson. "Up until there's one guy just sitting in the same pose! Even then, maybe someone will take a picture of an empty bench for us."

The seven pictures to date are framed and hang on the wall of the cabin. The men still listen to the same '80s music they were listening to when they were 19 years old.

"I'm not in the same place I thought I'd be, but I'm in the right place," said Dickson. "Without this photo, there's no way we'd be together.http://i2.cdn.turner.com/cnn/dam/assets/120723044125-five-years-1982-horizontal-gallery.jpg
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Did You Spend Your First Salary? by DANILSA(m): 12:39pm On Nov 22, 2012
I WILL GIVE MINE TO SEUN SO HE CAN IMPROVE NAIRALAND grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: What Matters Most In Dating, Money Or Love? by DANILSA(m): 9:59am On Nov 22, 2012
IF UR IN ABA OR UMUAHIA NA LUV BE THE PARROL BUT IF UR IN ABUJA OR PORT THEN NA MONEY BE THE KOKO. BABY IF YOU LUV ME BUY IPHONE 5 FOR ME. grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Pakistan Offers To Train Nigerian Soldiers by DANILSA(m): 9:52am On Nov 22, 2012
Maxymilliano: Pakistan Military intelligence is more organized and resourceful than their Nigerian counterpart, nothing to be ashamed of here.
SOURCE PLS. UPON ALL THEIR INTELLIGENCE THEY COULD NOT NOTICE AN OPERATION THAT TOOK MORE THAN 2HOURS TO EXECUTE. AMERICA AND ISRAEL ARE THEY DEAD.
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Was Born Years Earlier Than Thought. - Pope by DANILSA(m): 9:37am On Nov 22, 2012
JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES HAS BEEN VINDICATED, JESUS WAS NEVER BORN ON 25TH DECEMBER THEY ALWAYS SEE BEFORE OTHERS, I MEAN THE FAITHFUL CLASS. smiley
SportsRe: Players Bribed Their Way Into Super Eagles - Clemens Westerhof by DANILSA(m): 9:10am On Nov 22, 2012
yuzedo: I wish this guy was still our coach mehn! cry
THEN BRIBE HIS WAY THROUGH, GIVE ME TWO MILLION DOLLARS TO PUT IN MY CAP, MAGANA YA KARE, HIS BACK. wink
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Ranked Worst Place To Be Born In 2013 by DANILSA(m): 7:04am On Nov 22, 2012
solomon111: Go to hell with your useless post.
Why not pray to be born in pakistan,or afghanistan.
Moronn
thanks for taking the words off my mind.
RomanceRe: Her Husband Is Addicted To Nairaland Romance Section. Pls Advise Her!!! by DANILSA(m): 10:12pm On Nov 21, 2012
Idowuogbo: Lmfaooo!!! If I catch u hen!
grin grin grin GUYS THEY DO BAD BELLE FOR YOU
CareerRe: Nigeria Civil Defense Corps Application Forms On Sale For The 2012/13 Intake by DANILSA(m): 9:12pm On Nov 21, 2012
WETIN DE WORRY SEF? NA NIGHT YOU DE USE DO SCAM? NOBI SITE ADDRESS OTHERS POST? WHY UR OWN COME BE NO? U BE OLE NI? COMOT FOR ROAD JOO, OLE
RomanceRe: Her Husband Is Addicted To Nairaland Romance Section. Pls Advise Her!!! by DANILSA(m): 8:28pm On Nov 21, 2012
cyril83: idowuogbo again? Why is it dat some dumbass mentiond diz chik name wen it comes to romance, is she a really a cute babe?
WHY IS IT DAT SOME DUMTREMBLE MUST COMMENT ON EVERY TOPIC THEY SEE IDOWUGBO'S NAME, ABI NA YOUR ROMPIUS NI? NAIRALAND NA FUND JOO, NO CARRY AM FOR HEAD, SEUN NOBI YOUR FATHER BRODA.FREE ME, IDOWU ATTACK DOG
CrimeRe: Woman Accused Of Being Intimate With Skeletons by DANILSA(m): 8:23pm On Nov 21, 2012
JUST PASSING BY AND MET THE USELESS TOPIC, NO COMMENT PLEASE.
RomanceRe: Her Husband Is Addicted To Nairaland Romance Section. Pls Advise Her!!! by DANILSA(m): 8:07pm On Nov 21, 2012
THE GUY DON SEE ONE CHAIKING OTEPU, MAY BE IDOWUGBO DON CAGE THE GUY. SEE WHAT YOU DO, STEAL HIS PASS WORD ENTER URSELF, GO TO ISLAMIC SECTION ABUSE THE MOD AND HE WILL BE BANNED TILL 2095.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Most Popular Club Team On Nairaland by DANILSA(m): 9:59pm On Nov 19, 2012
NOT A MATTER OF YOU PROMOTING BARCA, BARCA REMAINS THE BEST CLUB ON EARTH AND IN THE UNIVERSE WITH INTELLIGENT COACH AND INVISIBLE PLAYERS. wink
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Normal To See The Spirit Of A Dead Relative? by DANILSA(m): 9:41pm On Nov 19, 2012
frosbel: once a person dies, that's it, they are dead !!
SECONDED
LiteratureRe: TAMISHO - My Story. My Life by DANILSA(m): 7:06pm On Nov 19, 2012
ARE YOU COPYING THIS OR JUST WRITING OFF HAND, IF YOU ARE WRITING THIS FROM HEART THEN KEEP IT UP BECAUSE I SEE YOU REPLACING ACHEBE,SOYINKA AND EKWENSI IN YEARS TO COME, I CANT LOVE YOU MORE THAN THIS, KEEP IT UP DEAR, U TOO MUCH.
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HealthRe: I'm Too Skinny And It Makes Me Sad by DANILSA(m): 6:16pm On Nov 19, 2012
AM PROUD OF MYSELF THE WAY I AM, IF YOU NO LIKE THE WAY GOD CREATE YOU FIGHT GOD OR HUG TRANSFORMER. FAT PEOPLE COMPLAIN OF BEING TOO FAT WHILE SLIM PEOPLE COMPLAIN OF BEING TOO SLIM. BE PROUD OF URSELF JOO. BACK TO TOPIC EAT FATTY AND JUNK FOOD YOU WILL IMPROVE.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Inec Recruitment Site. by DANILSA(op): 3:00pm On Nov 19, 2012
Listener10: i registered on the site but they have not sent the sms code to my phone till now for me to continue the registration.pls how long did it take for u to get d sms after the initial registratn?
5 SECONDS, CHECK IF U MADE A MISTAKE
Jobs/VacanciesInec Recruitment Site. by DANILSA(op): 2:08pm On Nov 19, 2012
A FRIEND JUST CALLED TO INFORM ME THAT INEC IS RECRUITING, AND I HAVE BEEN ABLE TO CONFIRM AND HELP MY FRIEND APPLY FOR REGISTRATION AREA OFFICER II AND III(GL 08,07). NIGERIA IS MAN KNOW MAN BUT YOU CAN STILL TRY UR LUCK, ENDING NOVEMBER 30 2012.http://recruitment.incnigeria.org
Foreign AffairsRe: First Gaza Missiles Hit Israel - Is This The Prelude To WW3? by DANILSA(m): 9:29pm On Nov 15, 2012
50calibre: Soonest hezbolla will wade in. Well isreali anti-missile defense is pretty effective, it's taking out most incoming missiles whereas Hamas got non.

WW3 Scenario

- Isreal pounds gaza so hard, Egypt opens up it's border and jihadist fighters troop into gaza.

- The whole Arab world unites in condemnation of Isreal
- Iran, Lebanon, syria and even hezbolla begin sending missiles into Isreal
- Isreal fly sorties to destroy targets in Iran
- The US base in the Persian gulf begin preparations for a massive assault, the UK and NATO joins too
- Vladimir Putin calls for calm but is ignored.
- Russian forieign secretary meeting his Chinese counterparts in Beijing. UR A GUD ANALIST

The rest is then history
PoliticsRe: Will You Support The Return Of Barth Nnaji As Power Minister... by DANILSA(m): 9:09pm On Nov 15, 2012
1000 TIMES OVER

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