I swear it gbege dey ooo

preference toyota hiace

IamD18:
Nobody also talked about how you HOEzuud to get the money you used in sponsoring yourself in the university.

No matter how you see it, no matter how people try to hide the truth from you, no matter how they try to sugarcoat the truth.

The bitter reality and truth remains that at 33, you are INCOMPLETE without a husband.

Let the truth burn!

Trash talk from a typical African man.

MightySparrow:
Lie no pastor in RCCG is poorly paid.

Actually this is possible.. but i think.. 10k is not possible presently.. it should be the minimum wage (18k).. but before the implementation of minimum wage.. i know one pastor in rccg who earned 10k as at 2006-2007. Why this is possible is this.. there are different hierarchy of church administration.. so depending on which employed you.. that determined you stipend.. if its the national.. you are a big man.. and it goes lower in the following order.. NATIONAL STAFF.... REGIONAL STAFF ... PROVINCIAL STAFF... ZONAL STAFF... MAYBE AREA AND PARISH TOO.. i can bet my 5kobo f there be any changes it wont be much from the 10k than the minimum wages which i know is in full implementation at RCCG

Originakalokalo:




Someone should pls tell the mod to put this on the front page.

Just as he put that lie on it.


Lies.....Traffic..... Profit.

What about The Truth.... Values.... Humanity ?

OP SERIOUSLY.. IF THUS GET TO THE FRONT PAGE THE WAY YOU PRESENTED YOUR WEAK REBUTTAL.. YOU WILL DEFINITELY BE ROASTED. THIS IS MORE OF DAMAGE CONTROL.. ITS NOT EVEN ENOUGH TO BE CALLED DAMAGE CONTROL. THOSE WHO KNOW WHAT THE CHURCH IS CAPABLE OF..KNOWS.. THOSE WHO WANT TO BELIEVE IN LIES KNOWS.. AND THE WAY YOU ARE REPLYING HEHE... YOU WILL DEFINITELY BE ROASTED.. I SWEAR.. MOD.. PLS LEAVE THIS POST WHERE IT IS OOOO

APCsupporter:


Oh I now understand where you are heading to. So tell me, why did your god allow adam and eve to eat the forbidden fruit when he knew that thry were not perfect?

Find a location where we will meet and come along with your pastor. I will give you my own poison to eat and then we shall see what will happen

savage.. abeg.. can i tag along as the WITNESS pls

Abdulgaffar22:
Atheists are fond of mocking and laughing at the ordinary people for the
belief they exercise in the existence of God. They proclaim that there is
no any sufficient and concluding evidence for believing in any supernatural
creator. They also assert that the major reason why many people believe in
God is fear and the gaps that exist in our scientific knowledge. But before
citing any evidence at all for the existence of God, there is one thing I
wanted to point out. There is no any rational person living on earth except
that he or she must believe in something that supersedes his or her
knowledge. This is totally unavoidable. It is only an ignorant atheist
would say "I don't believe in anything" pertaining to the existence of
living and non living things found in our universe. There is no way; you
must believe in something. Especially, you must have a particular frame of
mind on how ‘you’ as a rational person and all other living things
surrounding you came into existence. We can see that all living things
including human being reproduce and give birth to their younger ones. We
have never come across a situation whereby a dog would give birth to a goat
or vice versa. Every living species reproduces after their own kinds. This
process of reproducing one another could not have been in existence for
eternity. In other word, there must be a particular time when the first
generation of every living species came to appear on the earth. If the
number of past generations of each living species is infinite; without
having a beginning, then there is no way we can have the present
generations being exist on earth because the "past" must have come to an
end before the "present" can be in existence. Therefore, there are actual
and specific times when the first generations of every living species
appeared on the earth. But, given that the first generations of every
living species gave birth to subsequent generations, where did the first
generations for each living species come from? There are only four options
for the answer to this question. The first option is when we assume that
the first generations for each living species on earth just pop into
existence spontaneously from nothing. The second option is when we assume
that the first generation of each living species suddenly evolved from
completely different preexisting species. The third option is when we
assume that the first generation of each living species gradually evolved
from preexisting species at a rate too slow to be perceived by our senses.
This third option is known as Darwinian evolution. The last option is when
we assume that the first generations of each living species on earth were
specially created by one supernatural being in the time past. It is obvious
that the first option can never be the answer because we have never
observed any plant or animal popping into existence spontaneously from
nothing. Again, we have never observed an event where one living species
suddenly give birth to a completely different species. Therefore, after
eliminating the first two options, we are left with the third and the last
option. Consequently, any serious and devoted atheist who disbelieve in
supernatural creation must compulsorily believe in Darwinian evolution.
However, if this gradual evolution of one species into another is true,
there must be a first living species at the beginning, probably the first
living cell, before the entire evolutionary process can be started. But
what could have been the origin of such mysterious living cell that would
later give rise to all other living species on earth including human being
as believed by the atheists and the evolutionists. It is either this
mysterious living cell suddenly popped into existence with all its parts
known as cell organelles in their complete form in the midst of non living
entities or this mysterious living cell evolved gradually from these non
living entities. But the first alternative looks magical and it has never
been observed or reported. Yet the second alternative is impossible due to
natural law of entropy which tends to cause the decay and disintegration of
complex substances into more simpler substances. When a living cell become
dead, it would undergo decay and quickly disintegrate into lifeless
particles. Hence, the natural law which causes the irreversible decay and
disintegration of the dead cells into lifeless particles can never be the
same law that would gradually build the first functional and
self-replicating living cell from such lifeless particles in the first
instance. In other word, a partially evolved cell cannot just wait to
become a complete living cell in a gradual manner. This is because a
partially evolved cell is dead already since one part of a living cell
cannot just live and survive without the other parts being put in place.
Therefore, the natural law which causes the decay and disintegration of the
normal dead cell into lifeless particles must also have caused similar
decay and disintegration of the partially evolved cell into lifeless
particles since there is no any difference between the two: both are dead
cells. Therefore, the first mysterious living cell required to start the
entire process of evolution could not have gradually and naturally emerged
from nonliving things. In fact, according to Wikipedia: "no one has yet
synthesized a proto cell using basic components which would have the
necessary properties of life". Now, if an intelligent and conscious human
being cannot even create a functional living cell in the most well equipped
laboratory, then how could non-intelligent and unconscious nature have
created such a mysterious cell in the most badly equipped laboratory 3.5
billion years ago? See how the theory of Darwinian evolution, the only
backbone for atheism, collapse right from its foundation! Even if
scientists were able to create a living cell in the distant future in the
laboratory, this will only support the thesis that intelligence and
consciousness is required for the creation of life. It would never support
the theory of unguided Darwinian evolution. Again, see how the hope of the
atheists would continue to be shattered even till end of time! But instead
of busy with the thinking over the emergence of the first mysterious cell
that would even start the evolutionary process and then make the entire
theory to be worthy of consideration, our evolutionary biologists now set
this foundational problem aside and call it a mystery . They now move on to
proclaim how this mysterious cell change gradually, gradually and gradually
for billions of years to become great and wonderful human being who would
later become professors, philosophers, scientists and mathematicians. They
are completely ignorant on how this mysterious living cell would evolve
from non-living things. They are completely ignorant on how this mysterious
cell would later transform itself into first functional male and female.
Yet they are completely sure that human being consisting of male and female
evolved ultimately from this mysterious cell. See the beautiful mansion our
evolutionary scientists erected on a very weak foundation. Since offspring
always resemble their parents, there must be some kind of specific
information (known as DNA) guiding the development of a fertilized egg to
form an offspring of a particular species. This is the reason why offspring
of one species is quite different from the offspring of another species.
Therefore, if one species actually evolve into another species as proclaim
by the evolutionists, then a drastic change must have taken place in the
DNA of the preceding species. But what factor or mechanism can bring about
a change in the information carried by the DNA? Since the atheists and
evolutionists have ruled out the possible existence of any external
intelligence outside the natural world, the only feasible mechanism they
can lay their hands on is genetic mutation- a random error generated during
DNA replication. According to the evolutionists, when these random errors
accumulated enough, then new genetic information can be created from the
old ones. In this way, new species with new DNA can be evolved from the
preexisting species. Therefore, the entire story of human evolution as
believed by the evolutionists can be summarized as follows; human being,
the most intelligent creature on the earth, appeared on the scene as a
result of random errors (genetic mutations) accumulated gradually over
billions of years in the DNA of one mysterious cell. All these wonderful
and amazing features - 1.the ability to see 2.the ability to hear 3.the
ability to know about yourself and other things 4.the ability to talk and
communicate with languages 5.the ability to think logically and formulate a
rational argument 6.the ability to move controllably and voluntarily 7.the
ability to experience emotional feelings like love, happiness and sorrow,
8.the ability to learn, teach and search for knowledge 9.the ability to
make scientific research and use this scientific discovery to design and
construct extra ordinary technologies like robots, space rocket and
computer 10.the ability to establish civilization like education, marriage,
religion, sports, politics and entertainments- possessed by human being
just evolved as a result of accumulated random errors generated during DNA
replication. See what the evolutionists and the atheists must believe and
accepted wholeheartedly. They must believed that; nature is blind, yet as a
result of this random error, a creature that can see evolved from the same
very nature; nature is deaf, yet as a result of this random error, a
creature that can hear evolved from the same very nature; nature is dumb,
yet due to this random error, a creature that can talk and speak different
languages evolved from the same very nature; nature is not a knowledgeable
entity, yet as a result of this random error, a creature that can know and
search for knowledge evolved from the same very nature; nature is not
intelligent, yet due to this random error, an intelligent creature evolved
from the same very nature; nature is not self-aware, yet as a result of
this random error, a creature with full self-awareness evolved from the
same very nature; nature cannot think, yet as a result of this random
error, a creature that can think logically and formulate a rational
argument evolved from the same very nature; nature cannot propound any
theory, yet due to this random error, a creature that can propound a theory
like theory of evolution evolved from the same very nature. See what the
atheists must embrace without any iota of doubt- A chain of amazing and
wonderful features which are nowhere be found in any part of the nature
were later evolved from the same very nature as a result of accumulated
random errors - an illogical and contradictory belief. Yet the same people
will be blaming and laughing at the religious people for believing in God.
Which one is more reasonable and logical: to believe that those amazing and
wonderful features possessed by human being were deliberately created by
God or to believe that these features just evolved due to random errors
accumulated over billions of years in the DNA of one hypothetical
mysterious cell- a cell that unintelligent and unconscious nature was able
to create 3.5 billion years ago but which the same nature is unable to
create now even with the assistance of the most intelligent, knowledgeable
and fully conscious scientists. The most important fact overlook by
evolutionary biologists is that the natural law of entropy which causes the
decay and disintegration of the complex dead cell into simple lifeless
particles must also have caused similar decay and disintegration of the
partially evolved cell into lifeless particles since there is no any
difference between the two: both are dead cells. Therefore, the first
mysterious living cell required to start the entire process of evolution
could not have gradually and naturally emerged from nonliving things. This
is how the theory of evolution collapses right from its foundation. At this
juncture, it must have been clear to any serious seeker of truth that the
only reasonable option left to account for our existence on earth and all
other living things is supernatural creation. The only candidate capable of
performing this miracle of supernatural creation is God. Therefore, God
must exist

you want me to read this and you could not use ordinary paragraph.. man.. pls can someone summarize please.. lets see what evidence the op has...

bnovative:
I have resisted the urge to comment but I just have few things to say.
1. for those abusing the op. , I expected you to state your position or level of involvement in Rccg before you can say if the op is telling lies. Are you a worker, deacon, ast. pastor, pastor etc. This is necessary because it determines the level of privilege info you can access.

2. I have been in Rccg, long enough and had once worked in the admin. office, serve as head of protocol in an entire province and served as a P. A to a pastor in charge of province.
What the op said is nothing but the truth. It's left for the church to look critically at these issues, with a view to addressing same
3. As on the issues of posting, Rccg doesn't fare better than the circular world.

sometimes I wish it was better, but the reality is that it's not.
I don't want to write things about Rccg.

exactly sir. They dont understand.. Its so pathetic. They take things at face value. What i have seen in rccg is enough to last me a life time of abstinence from church politics.

Do I look surprised ..Nada.. Never. I don't need to go to any pastor school to see the stench of hypocrisy in rccg. I saw it long time ago. Many people will not understand that man.. The picture he painted is what is applicable in an average church. Church politics is worse than the normal one out there.

TOPCRUISE:

He is going to fail. And his failure will be so grand and remarkable in the history of the federal republic of Nigeria in general and Osun State in particular. If those with PHD and MSC are failing in government, what do you expect from a dancer who has a f9 in english and a ran away from other subjects in WASCE.

Prophet of doom noted. Let him fail first. Then we will do the needful. But I do really hope he proves you wrong.

TOPCRUISE:

Buhari is a charismatic leader right from the 70's till date, distinguished himself in the military, attained a General status because of his brilliance in warfare and governance, held many official positions and found trustworthy on many occasions.
As for Adeleke, he is only known for dancing and as i may recall in WASCE had F9 in English and fled from the remaining subjects.
If Such a coward who chose to flee from core subjects that might include goverment in secondary school eventually becomes a Governor do you think good result will come out from osun state

And the last time I remember.. You don't need a PhD to contest or win any election in Nigeria.. Same sympathy buhari got when he contested with NEPA bill.. Is what adeleke is enjoying. It is so pathetic the way we carry this A4 paper on our head.. Even with the so called education.. What has actually changed in Nigeria.. More than 50% of NASS members have no less than MSC some PhD holders.. Pls what have they done to prove their educational worth.. In as much as it is important.. There are more important things in life than your A4 paper you posted on the wall of your room claiming you are a graduate or whatever. Like respecting people's wish.. If someone with NEPA bill can rule Nigeria.. Pls leave our F9 gov for us.. Thank you very seriously.

Bar1941:
Hmmmmmm, the inconclusiveness of the election was not what baffled me, what baffle me is how can a candidate with ordinary WASC certificate pull such crowd of voters, I never knew he could go that much in a state that was reported to have the highest number of tertiary institutions.

Education is truly overrated.

This a very naughty assertion .. That they have number of tertiary institutions does not correlate to those educated will perform in office. What is the point of having a slave MSC holder whose remote control is in Lagos. Leave the wassce guy who at least have his decisions with him and can be persuaded by the people and listen to the people who voted him in.. It is obvious osun state has risen to the occasion to end tyranny.. It may work for them in Lagos.. No more in osun state.. Osun state is not an extension of Lagos.. Not Anymore.. That nonsense has stopped.. Let inec declare rerun one million times.. APC will lose except they decide to rig. And if they do..its not gona be easy..

Dorcas212:
lol 50k job and you want to get married?? Combination of 110k are you kidding me?


As a single i spend more than that in a month. How will you raise children? Depend on relatives? My brother think very well

you be savage.. I shock too ooo.. It depends on what you want. Why do you want to get master's.. Is it relevant to your career? If its not.. Shut down.. There are several masters holders who are beggingvto do security work.. So hold tight unto your work . for the marriage.. That's up to you... But in my own eyes.. 50k no be money for married man.

KanwuliaExtra:
Poverty!
The worst of all fears!

Lol indeed the fear of any one who rose through the rank and file of the hierarchy of poverty to poor to manageable to comfortable to very comfortable to rich to very rich to stupendously rich to wealthy to damn wealthy to unquantifiable wealth... Depending on which level anyway

aishlove:
Hmmmn, my greatest fear is been dead because nothing is permanent in this world death is the only certainty
Always praying to God to forgive me of my shortcomings before death take me away

Lol.. The last thing I can be scared of is death for what.. We all shall die sooner or latter. Pls don't be scared of death but be rather prepared for it.

Eberechi24:

Despite the system, don't be discouraged. keep doing what you know best. one day posterity will smile on you. I understand your fears very well, there are experiences you had, you won't want to kids have a taste of.
Like myself I don't want my kids depends on anybody for essential needs of life (clothes, shelter, feeding, luxury). I know how it feels to lack these benefits and dangers it exposes one to if you are not contented

Thanks dear for your understanding. They only way that decision might change is if I leave this country which am daily losing interest in doing. I can thrive here but can't raise a family here.. Except I can find a woman who agrees with me .. Which is a tall dream..lol.. Which lady in this Nigeria don't wantbto have her own kids?.. Except for that.. I love myself and I alone.

Eberechi24:

@ meritocracy, this is Nigeria bro but it shouldn't stop/discouraged you from pushing. the Lord will see you through and you won't fail as a father. your desires shall be perfected

Unfortunately, meritocracy matters to me. Because I know what it has deprived me till date. Not even given the opportunity to even prove yourself..lol.. Not give the environment to thrive in your own niche.. I can bear it for myself.. I can't survive it for my children.

Eberechi24:
Some of us are afraid to raise a family. When we remember that marriage is one of the necessary box
we are going tick in life we become afraid/ discouraged.
Share your fears/thoughts on marriage, someone may have one/two words for you.
Married folks come in for encouragement.
Here is mine;
am afraid of failing as a mother
am afraid of failing as a wife.

I want to give my kids the best in life; empower them in/from their early lives
I want a happy home but what if
there is no resources to empower them (kids)? this is one question that eats me up.

Op.. I would have hugged you if I saw you now. Exactly my fears.. But mine is even bigger as I factor in the moral decadence of our society where meritocracy is in extinction, the unfair and unequal system we find ourselves in Nigeria where good opportunities are for the rich and connected. I can't bear to have kids in this kind of society where the chances of the. Being raped, abused mentally, physically, psychologically is very high and absolute nothing can be done about it. And for me.. That's failure as a Father.

I have thought over it several times myself. For me its complicated. But I blame the society at large especially the rigidity in the way we hold on to certain irrelevant values.

If the above story is true. Trust me.. I am not surprised. Am sure its just of the minute few stories that blows of the management's face. So the question is.. At the end of the day.. What positive influence is a private global and well respected university like cu is having on the society? The answer is relative cos there are achievements and failures too.. But for a school like this to be this hypocritical on a moral compass.. Its shows so much for we being Nigerians. And much less for what religion can actually do for us.

okwabayi:
God provided me two hands and Vaseline for a reason. If person wan suffer himself by choosing a wife when there is a 1,000,000:1 chance of her turning bad in future than na him sabi.

ROFL.. YOU ARE SAVAGE

DaddyNimo:

it's the plain true, only IMO girls high bride price is justified, but akwaibom whatdafaq

It is your own truth.. and you have every right to believe in such.. But its bad when you generalize issues. Fallacy of generalization.. Even evident in your truth.

DaddyNimo:

your tribe girls are free givers so paying high bribe price on them is a waste, simple take it or leave. I wouldn't marry ur tribe for free.

This is gross. Where you heartbroken by an Ibibio or efik girl? You don't have to roll in the mud nah.. This is very low.. Seriously.

rock003:


Abeg, wetin be Plan B?

Alternative nah. I can't work my ass out to give myself and potential family a good life and some in-laws want to run me dry as if am buying a wife. Leave plan B to the planner.

DaddyNimo:
wooed her in a public bus and she gave me a wrong number. so a week later while driving I saw her by the road waiting for a bus I think during the evening rush hour, so I parked beside her, motioned her to come, she smiled and thank God for bringing to her route, den she said "I didn't know u drive"....i laffed. when we got to her destination as I was about driving off, she was like "have my other line" I'm like "no one number is good enuf for me" and voomed off. stupid biitch

you made my day

MariaLavina:
Because they were raised by people with reverse logic.

To a Typical Nigerian Man, A lady is expected to be less knowledgeable, quiet, more of a listener and most importantly be a follower. Even in conversations you tend to dominate, you talk about what you want and not what interest the lady. Most times you bore us out. . Worst is if a lady flows too much , she's a flirt, talk active, desperate etc you judge her.


Another point is manner of approach. I cannot count the numbers of messages I've ignored on my social media accounts because of this. Can you imagine who wants to chat you up for the first time starting a convo with "Sup" . Like seriously? A quick check on my profile will should show you the type of person I am. But no, they won't do that, they just want to sup!

And another is most guys these days are looking for who to date Not just friendly conversations. It's like everyone is looking for love.I can't imagine enjoying a good conversation with a guy only for it to go all mushy all of a sudden. Like shooting your shoot? Hell no! Don't blame me if I go cold with the same alacrity.


Accept it or Not, Most guys who claim to have conversations with Whites compose themselves better than when they do with the blacks. They pay more attention, construct the languages better and present themselves well. So Sir, It isn't really our fault.

What a matured reply. Sensible reply seen so far

TOPCRUISE:
Mine was that she told me that unless God speak to me that she was the right one for me she will not give me attention.
She consulted that we should go on some days fast and 70 days vigil. I bolted immediately even though she was really getting closė and attached to me

ROFL . guy why not do the fasting nah make baba loke speak to you

93Miles:


The guy did not even do more of the comparison and you are this pained.

If I start the comparison, you'll curse your God for making you an African woman.


Y'all African women are what I can't even put in words.


I can never advise even my worst enemy to date an African woman not to talk of marrying one.

Bros take it easy nah.. Are you not African, born if an African woman.. For me.. Different strokes work for different folks. Am sure you have sisters nieces and other female relatives. We should be concerned about how they should break away from the archaic mentality not banish them.

lol.. op.. na u dey find trouble ooo.. dont come and complain later oooo

Op.. You can't eat your cake and have it.. You fully know you are in Africa with 99.99999 percent of the people thinking the African way. Though personally, I agree with your decision not to have kids in such situation. But this came up because you and your hubby did not discuss it in details before jumping into the hot soup of marriage. Also were you not told when you marry a man, you marry every member of his family? And its only your hubby that can actually fight for you successfully against his family.. But if you take on the fight.. You can never win.. Its the African way.. Anyway.. The way I see it.. Get ready to leave that house for good.. Because if your hubby is against you.. Its a matter of time.. He will boot you out.. But like you said.. Pls don't be pregnant cos it will complicate things for you.. If there is a next time.. Before you jump into marriage.. Both if you should sit down and discuss your future.. And come to a compromise about it.. Talk and discuss every thing talkable.. Ciao

hopefulLandlord:


You'd regret it when you die

LOL, YOU SOUND SO SURE. ON WHAT BASIS IS THAT STRONG CONVICTION? FATE? FAITH? OR FACT?

NairaMaster1:


Move Africa ahead of America. The only way Africa grow on NL is sex and immorality.

They can't keep a man simple.

Is it sex and promiscuity that made the west great? Poor man and sex are like 5 and 6.

Let baby mamma groom Africa let's see. Myopic fellow.

Your mates are talking about world class business and technology you are here glorifying mediocrity.

If you and her like naked on the street it's your miserable, lack of home training business.

see them gallivanting in their pooishness. Go and stop wizkid, davido from having more baby mamas nah.. MR. HOME-TRAINING