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Dande55:
I am commenting based on the usual comment I always see from your gender.

Homies over ladies. You can't deny that you don't see those comments too.
So, I'm referring to those group of people.

victorian:
Trust me, you will calm down, love and trust her, she's for real.

You are not the first to experience such experiences from the opposite sex. I had my own fair share too. Likewise my boo as well.
But at the end, we ended up falling in love with each other.

The bond we knew is there, we can't help but place the past behind us and plan our life together.


It's just part of life jare.

When the right time comes to meet your destined wife, both of u will meet and God will handle the rest.

So relax, it's part of life process.

This life ehn? Is bigger than us and our decisions. And mind you, we are both successful in our careers.

If I have my way I won't even marry. Likewise if he has his way, he won't marry as well. Eyes Don see! Ears Don hear! But God is great, we fell helplessly inlove. Shey u see life?

Dande55:
Most Nigerian men have a brain of a tadpole.
They are confused set of human beings.
He doesn't realise that life isn't balanced. He might suffer till he dies and might still not find love. Lol. If his fellow men likes him despite his broke state, why are they not helping him financially? You see these men, what they can't do for their fellow men, they expect ladies to do it for them. But they'd always be shouting homies over ladies. But when they are down, those homies will disappear and won't look back. But yet, it's their second class option they expect to stick with them in their broke state.
What happened to telling your "homie" to stick with You?

Anuoluwa1234:
What shocked u

Anuoluwa1234:
Abi hoo, help me ask him... This type of thinking, I count is as a poor man's thinking.. you are rich, you are poor etc... No condition is permanent..
And becuz u are suffering now, doesn't mean one will be successful later in life.. that is just one of the irony of life. And all on grace
He said he won't love his wife etc.. he is a fool, didn't he choose her, or dem go choose her for him.. they will be the one to say, make money first , find love later.
They are still the one saying, I can't love anyone who didn't struggle with me, etc.. some ppl are really really confused about their life self

Anuoluwa1234:
Even, if u HV cars, is not everytime u enter.. there will be a situation where by u will HV to enter cab, unless u HV more than enough. Like stinkly rich etc sha . And for those who never give ppl ride, they HV reasons best known to them... So I can't judge anyone sha..���

Anuoluwa1234:
I can't explain more than that hoo... I guess ppl around IB area, shud understand sha... ☹️☹️☹️

Anuoluwa1234:
That shit annoys me.... Well I guess the reason is that the cab is from hand to hand, ( shifting stuffs).
So one will not on to fuel for another driver to use etc .. so the present driver driving, will only but the fuel needed for his own To and fro.

So they will need to stay with the cab, so that next turn doesn't snatch their passengers..
But to me, na rubbish, can't they buy it in keg and pour etc .. well what do I know, na them sabi

DuBLINGreenb:
You will hardly see Emeka Kayode marry Aisha Muhammad,

northern Nigerian Muslim women are prohibited from marrying Non Muslims esp. southerners, even if you are a southern Muslim you still can't marry from there if you doubt me go try am and live to tell the tale, you have to marry without parents permission and run for your life.

Before Islamic ummyad entered Nigeria through the desert, we all lived not exactly as one, but we didn't hate each other, inter marriage wasn't really a big deal, but after Islam entered a line was drawn.

The agenda to dip the Koran in the Atlantic became a thing. To be achieved by fire by force and as such Yorubas we're forced to convert at knife point and dagger point in the war of Ogbomosho in 1840.

To keep Islam growing worldwide bars were set against non Islam men marrying, Islamic women and Islamic men were encouraged to marry not just 4 wives but also marry non Islamic women to procreate for Islam and kill out the infidels/Kafirs.

A woman can only produce one baby every 9months, a man can impregnate a new woman every week, this is part of the reason Islam places value on men, let me add that almost all religions were invented by men and as such more value is placed on men but as a man in Islam the incentives and privileges you get are too much so you won't even dream of leaving.

Some examples are 1. your wife can not stop you from getting a new wife, it is a sin on her part if she does
2. you are allowed to beat your wife to correct her, it's in the koran and various haddiths.

you can see that the Muslim populace will grow exponentially as opposed to the non Muslim populace so that was the plan and it seems to be working look at the growth of Islam no new converts compared to other religions, it's mostly hereditary in Nigeria people are prevented from leaving Islam through Disinheritance and disownment from family, if you leave the religion you are disowned and you cannot inherit any property from any of your family members and you are made an outcast so people don't leave even when they want to.

If you don't believe me because you suspect every Nigerian has a tribal agenda fine and good look beyond Nigeria, look at Turkey, only 2 years ago was the ban on Muslim women marrying non Muslims lifted, a whole turkey.

This goes to show us that much of organised religion as we know it, is an instrument of social control and not a race to heaven. A particular group trying to control the rest that's all.q

One Nigeria

Congrats to the couple regardless

Anuoluwa1234:
Am not iyanuoluwa.. am Anuoluwa

Anuoluwa1234:
Odunlade is my surname , that is why I like him.

Anuoluwa1234:
[s]Did u see me write it is an achievement .btw my mouth like Ur mouth [/s]

Anuoluwa1234:
I am a fan of only Odunlade, but the chatter guy henn .. I no like him one bit, I no know why

Anuoluwa1234:
Not only is time self, he is wasting his life away.. at least, he shud HV had like 2 kids at that age, etc.. despite hvn money etc.. oga hoo

franchasng:
Now you are talking.


That a lady is attractive to you does not mean u love her okay


If you can be honest to yourself, you would agree with me that you have come across nothing less than 50 ladies you found attractive this year alone, does it mean you love all 50 of those ladies just because they were attractive to you



Next time put it this way:


I cannot fvck a lady I don't find attractive!!



And that's how most men are wired. Men fvck based on sexual appeal not emotional connection which love dwells on

franchasng:
men are not women.


Men are visual beings while women are emotional beings.


Take money out of it, most ladies will only fvck a man they are emotionally attached to.


But a man will fvck a lady he doesn't even know her first name so long as the lady have a body that arouses him. Men don't need to love a lady to fvck her, all they need is for her to have the physical attractiveness they desire, that's all.

Any man that tells u otherwise is lying to get u to spread your legs for him to fvck, run from such guys

franchasng:
chemistry is not love.


You can have your chemistry with a lady you don't have a romantic love for.


All you need to fvck any lady is for her body to appeal to your eyes and tickle your nerves and get your adrenaline rushing, you don't need love to fvck a lady, quit lying boi

franchasng:
keep lying to yourself to gain like u hear


As if u know what love is, mstwwwww

Anuoluwa1234:
, Danny u hennn .. its okay.
Btw why will u marry someone u don't love, oh ok some do it cuz of money sha.

Anuoluwa1234:
What I know, if u know it in the next 20yrs then u must be a real person. Must I view in you perspectives . I wrote my opinions, u wrote Urs did u see me against it..as if that never do, u still dey talk prison whatever..
E thick for Ur body hoo

Anuoluwa1234:
Read what u typed, does it make any sense to you . If it does, then something is wrong. Don't quote pls, let my mention rest