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Jeremani:Asin?? |
Slynation:Maybe you're used to women who love no strings attached sex and when you're done they get up and leave , I know how attached I was to the person that made love to me the first and the last time and I'm not going to contaminate it with bad energy or bad genes I dated people before him who disrespected me and cheated on me and they didn't touch me let alone see me naked , and he's not the first cheater , the other ones weren't caught , in fact one told me face to face " since you can't have sex with me , that's why I'm doing it , I'll stop when you're ready " , gave me his fb password to see his chats and I could only read and pretend that I'm fine with it so that he doesn't start guilt tripping me again about not having sex with him You don't know the different kinds of men that are out there , switch bodies with me so you can see them from here He didn't insult me but he just couldn't keep his dick in his pants , he lied but I always saw right past it coz I'd been with a cheater before but not one as careless as him tueh |
TheSourcerer:I didn't buy her story one bit |
SweetSauce:On corn dish Shona loff ![]() |
TheSourcerer:Well you may be right One thing I won't lie about is that women actually have higher chances of getting away with crime , you know that damsel in distress ish where she just looks too soft and too innocent , like the ice cream killer , the bad women take advantage of this thing Imagine killing two people and people strangers were hiding you from police simply because you just look like you can't harm a fly Another one is Chidinma Ojukwu, the way they are petting the girl , even her interview was different ![]() |
TheSourcerer:Hmmmm good point , didn't notice that You're the crime expert here , I'm only making guesses ![]() But you're right , there should be defensive wounds on her arm or something |
TheSourcerer:Hmmmm good point , didn't notice that |
NohurryInLife:My pleasure ![]() So this man and women were engaged and making preparations for the wedding and this happened The oga lives alone in his apartment I think it's Lagos ( not sure ) and aunty came from another state to pay him a surprise visit and she stayed the night at his place The next morning I think he woke up and found out that she had used the last remaining milk in his fridge and he got upset She said it was the only one , that why would he only have one milk in the fridge He said he wasn't expecting a guest and he had not stocked up yet Aunty still said he doesn't expect her to share this one milk with him blah blah blah Oga ended up going to work on an empty stomach after the argument They still carried on , she went back home and then he cancelled the wedding plans after a while, what was his reasons He doesn't trust her , that little thing she did showed how selfish she was and this was a situation where he wasn't expecting a guest and was not prepared for her visit and she's angry at him for not preparing for a guest If she had him in mind , she'll understand that he needs to go to work and if they needed to share what was available at that time , it shouldn't be a problem He also doesn't believe that he can trust her when he has nothing , he just didn't feel safe anymore Not in these exact words tho ,but I couldn't really dig up the whole story I understand where he was coming from but so many people will be like if he really loved her he would've taught her this , explained this I know that I can do exactly what he did , it can be something so small and insignificant Another thing was after he tried to confront she felt he was at fault because she had no choice but to use it , it was just one , the entitlement trait was overdosedSo she didn't understand what she did wrong The expectation was that she would've shared it with him in the mean time , but her mind did not even cross there , " I'm sure he eats everyday , he won't die if he doesn't eat today , me I'm hungry " ![]() And the guy just felt he got a glimpse of her mindset with that small misunderstanding |
TheSourcerer:And how did you come to this conclusion? Shouldn't she have been in pain after shooting herself first before shooting him?she could have passed out before pulling the trigger on him due to loss of blood , excruciating pain , possible loss of vision , a shot in her face ? Is not a shot in her leg , your face is your headquarters , your brain lives there Could they not detect her fingerprints on the gun ? What about autopsy ? There has to be signs on his body that will lead to something What state were they both in when they were found ? If she really shot herself it'd be somewhere like her stomach , arms or legs Noone likes to hurt their face Yeah they gave us half baked news and we are putting the pieces according to our preference and we're also reflecting ourselves in this story ( rorsarch projective test ) Her mocking him could be because she really doesn't know how to express herself , grateful , shocked , scared and happy but sort of like " in your face , I'm still here " If she really murdered him she'll most likely pretend to be so harmless so sad , noone ever suspects a woman who looks so helpless Murderers often seem more sentimental , you see it in movies , you see it in real life , so that they draw less suspicions than unremorseful people Some people like myself have a hard time feeling extremely sad or remorseful when we don't want to , and if they were calling out witches , they'd probably point me too Grandpa died , I loved him , I wasn't sad Aunt died still not sad , but loved her Baby cousin died , didn't shed a single tear ( until after like 2 years of her death ) Jackie ( my dog ) died I wailed like a baby , couldn't eat couldn't sleep Is that not jewjew ![]() My friends can tell me they got in an accident, lost a huge amount of money , lost something and I have to fake that I'm soooooooooooo sad They can tell me some really good news and I wouldn't know how to be excited, that doesn't mean I'm a bad person, I just don't know how to express myself |
Zubbyangel555:I was waiting for this one Yes oh in the front of my face sef ![]() I was dating this guy for just a week oh , I called him to ask him if we could meet , I called when I was close to his usual hangout so I assumed he was there and I was just calling to inform him so he's not too surprised coz I don't like looking like I'm monitoring someone He picked the call and said he wasn't there and just as he said that I spotted him backing me but I knew him , even with the eyesighg of an albino I can make out a person (his stature , his shirt , his hair , his friend ) I walked closer and asked again, he repeated himself " I'm just coming out of my house now " his house was quite far from where I saw him and then I saw her She was dressed like them girls who do too much , worse part was she was ugly at least respect me and cheat with someone that's fine ( I'm joking )She wore a silver bra under a see through shirt and then I approached him , he nearly choked I was smiling like I didn't what was going on , I'm actually a very happy person and I don't know how to express sadness face to face with a person , I prefer to cry over the phone than in front of you , I always wanna look my best , I hugged him and just looked at her a bit , she just came closer to sit next to him , like she was marking her territory , I Sha dragged him to where I was going and I asked why he liked , was he already tired of me in a week , he said I didn't hear him correctly , I went home and replayed our convo, Truecaller records all my calls , and I heard it correctly, I left him around 9:50pm and I called around 10:30pm coz I wanted to confirm he was at home alone and not out fucking that girl , he didn't pick any of my calls and the next morning he said he slept off Like did you sleep on the road ? At a point his line was busy I stayed up that night , playing detector, calling every hour to just know that he was alone The next week he did the same thing , this time he said he was meeting a friend and he can't hangout with me , he forgot to mention his friend was a woman because I saw him with a lady again,the guy was a sloppy one He was always receiving calls whenever I was with him and my sharp memory, I memorized the numbers , checked them on Truecaller then checked his friend list for the ones I saw on Truecaller , I just wanted to know if they were fine girls , at least to know if I'm with someone that other people wanted , it was barely 3 weeks and I was ready to break up , I was just irritated , broke up before a month Sha , he was the funniest cheat I'd ever encountered, the other ones were smarter , He was going around begging girls , even my close friends and my cousin , shamelessly shameless I ghosted him , he wasn't worth a breakup nor was he worth my explanation , I had hardcore evidence against him , it wasn't assumptions or suspicions He reappeared to confront me , I don't know how dumb he is to not know that I knew what he was doing in the short time we spent together , The worst thing I've ever been attracted to I was just happy that I never had sex with him , I planned to because it was a really long time since I had sex with anyone but I still held my rule on unnecessarily wasting my bodycount on any and anyhow people He brought it up 3 days after I said yes , I knew that was a big red flag � I was just avoiding it stylishly |
chatinent:I'm not married but Ive heard some advices from other people 1) have one account for personal things then a joint bank account for the bills and house maintenance and both of you decide how much should be contributed from both of you , it can be 30 -70 or 40 - 60 2) if possible have an emergency fund for you know emergencies , we know that we're supposed to hope for the best and just be completely optimistic and prepare for the best but you also have to prepare for the worst and most unexpected situations ( e.g your spouse or child is diagnosed with big man sickness and you have nothing to hold onto , you can't even take a break to nurse them , it'seven worse when it's the breadwinner ( the man ) , there's also divorce , you don't want to be caught unawares by anything 3) don't ever forget why your spouse is your spouse , always make out time to dress up and go out together and have fun as boyfriend and girlfriend , even though you're husband and wife , it's easier said than done but it makes things a lot more colorful , when kids enter the picture over maturity kills that love that makes you feel like a teenager 4) you'll be hurt and angry and they will test your limits sometimes , just prepare your mind to forgive and forgive , till you become a professional forgiver you need to learn to overlook somethings 5) when something happens address it immediately and let it go , don't burry it, it'll grow into a resentment, then later become disgust and hatred , na small thing dey turn to big thing , you won't even believe it , someone cancelled wedding because of peak milk , he wasn't being petty , if you hear the full story you might be in support of the cancellation , even though it sounds funny at first ![]() |
Jmichael1:Yes na , why won't I understand ![]() Ops daughter will have the qualities of the woman he's looking for , she go dey thief from her papa dey give her bf The guy is so nice to pray for op , I'm touched ![]() |
Thank God |
Biglittlelois:Everything you're trying to tell him , he already knows , but you made it worse suggesting he should be checked into a psychiatric hospital , he can simply see a therapist , there's nothing wrong with him, maybe it's his coping mechanism and it's not healthy but you seem to think it's a really big problem And another thing is this is nairaland , are you going to look for every broken person and try to heal them ? It's nice to try and help people but it can come off as offensive sometimes , so you just have to overlook some things and focus on your own problems |
Vecera:They've been doing that for awhile now |
fikayormi:Post your address so that they can Rob you since you have too much |
Ramisis:Op listen to this guy |
Princewillalex:Whatever you do ,don't invest online and don't do business transactions with people you don't know |
Unzerious:AMEN!!!! |
Skyfornia:How did you relate this to plate? |
Sonnobax15:So are all the ladies who die everyday , some people for hear am if the dead could talk , but thank God she lived to tell her story , she's never going to wanna settle down again This one is not widow , she's a survivor Bravo!!!!!! |
VladimirPutiin:It's not murder if it's a cheating woman They don't even know she cheated but that's the only reason why he'd kill her right ? ( According to nairaland misogynistic law for criminal justice , section 419 on page 666) I'm sure the Police would feel happy that we now have the motive of every male murderer Me as cop : sights a dead woman hmmmm must have cheated Case closed!!!!
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CheedyJ:Are you minding them |
Kriss216:You seem to have lost your glasses Hear I'll read it to you HE SHOT HER, not her shot he HE IS MURDERER , HE STILL A SUICIDER , he bad bad and she survive Did you catch that ? STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR MURDERERS STOP GLAMORIZING MURDER IT COULD BE YOU ONE DAY GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST , it's not everything you read that should be turning you on , you saw a corpse and you're talking about gbola , aren't you disgusted at yourself? If she had died you would've been so happy because here on NL a cheating woman is worse than a murderer and should be burned at the stake ( then again you don't know she cheated ) Oh no he's a man , a man can only kill when a woman cheats on him Yeah that really explains all the ritualist and murderers , I'm sure everyone they killed cheated on them , so it's okay , case closed But a cheating man is an African man , polygamous in nature , she probably sex starved him , the poor guy , oya come and take this side chick , don't cry iyaaaaa |
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lenghtinny:That's the thing , she doesn't even care |
OluwoR:8 years that's not normal oh If she loved you I'm sure she would've at least made an effort , especially with the doctors appointment , Literally everyone I know would've loved to meet up with a gynacologist Maybe she had past traumas in the past that you don't know about( e.g rape , pedophile , sexual molestation , abortion , miscarriage , past pregnancy ) it could be anything ( it can also be fear , we've been told alot of times " why buy a cow when you can get the milk free ? ) No woman wants to be USED and then dumped after a long relationship every lady fantasizes about making love with the man that they love , especially with a person you've been committed to for so long You should probably see a therapist , tell her it's either this or you go separate ways , if she respects you ,even just a little ,she'll cooperate for it to work Marriage is a teamwork , you can't be the only trying to fix this problem, her blocking you is manipulative, she knows you won't leave her so she's trying to scare you If you just form vex small , do small hard guy She will melt and then you proceed to make changes Omo ehn me I can't imagine marrying a man who thinks sex is just sex , God forbid , sex is an art We need to match each other's energy , I suspect that I have really high libido and I want to marry me but the male version of me ![]() |
Tonero5200:Female narcissist on the lose ![]() This relationship no go reach December She dey manage you , no rate , no respect It's the audacity for me I feel like you're one of those over quiet guys |
KrystalKitty:My dear it's even the poor men that you should fear , they are the ones that are hungry and hungry people can do anything , hunger diminishes conscience and sense But they don't know , I'd rather make my own money , have my own child and live alone than to entrust my life in the hands of a poor man Let me be my own husband If they don't kill you , they can take all that you have , very risky set of people to love No poor man is happy , even if you like ,love him with all your heart , in his soul he feels incomplete and your love can't do anything for him , he will abuse you like this Transfer his flaws on you , some of them even say they think it's their girlfriends that is giving them badluck That's even true I've never heard of a lady saying that she feels her bf is bad luck it's always the men And the broke ones are always the proudest and the most arrogant ones , always trying to sound better than people they feel intimidated by There was one fine tenant in my dad's house , he married this beautiful working class lady , very handsome Igbo man , this man was broke , unemployed , jobless and he spent days smoking but if you see how he packages himself ( he was entering my eye , but I rebuke it )Aunty will give him rent to give my dad , he will eat it and clean mouth , then come and be begging , meanwhile my dad knew that his wife was hiding that she was the breadwinner but she later opened up and left Her only luck was that she didn't have a baby for him , she for still dey with am After they type they will be the ones to go and clear their sisters and their daughters to bring home a reasonable man so that people will respect them It's okay for them to want it for their daughters and sisters but it's wrong for us to want good things for ourselves ? Such big hypocrites |
Creamypie:Numerous of women are kidnapped and killed by strangers e.g BRT , the girl kidnapped in Kano ( 4 years old ) , and the lady that was kidnapped in imo state and released while she witnessed other women slaughtered and their organs harvested because they couldn't provide ransom STOP SUPPORTING MURDER STOP GIVING CONDITIONS TO JUSTIFY MURDER it could be you or someone you care about tomorrow This is not about vagina or greed, this is predators attacking preys , because they can A single mom was slaughtered along with her 4 year old after falling for a ritualist , he had a whole relationship with her just to kill her and use her , so because of the fact that he's a man he can be excused for his desperation to make money , selling a human being for 600k and So she deserves to be killed because she accepted his money ![]() Who knows how lonely she would've been , she was even a widow , and then he came and took advantage of her vunerability , and took space in her life but it's fine she's a woman, she's greedy , you're free to go What about the driver that killed his female boss and shared her properties , she worked with airforce did she run after him for money ? What about the corper that was killed by her gateman weeks to her wedding over salary increase ? Did she also want the gatemans money Even my own friend that was kidnapped to another state , entered a cab at ph and found herself in owerri , the scariest thing I heard in 2020 Then my cousin that was rescued during endsars protest on her way from school , two thieves just started beating her to collect her bag and run , broad day light , early afternoon , on her way from school , not midnight hour oh before you ask me what she was doing by that time Men are more obsessed with money and they do all sorts but people only notice the victims Even when you are raped, they'll ask you "what were you doing there ?" , "What were you wearing ?" "What did you do ?" Women and children are easy targets because it is easy to cover up a case of a woman assaulted and murdered ,especially when some of them don't have stubborn people to fight for them , they put up less fight , their body parts are the more in demand too , so far as she died in a hotel , Or was found on the roadside she died a shameful death , if not for Bamise's alibi people were so sure that she was killed because she was greedy and she deserved it but the poor girl was on her way to see her brother STOP GLAMORIZING MURDER STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR MURDERERS MURDER IS MURDER GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST |
Olowomi11:Food oh I will always find a way , I fit broke for night still wakeup see breakfast chop , it is shocking |
Yampotatocarrot:And are you married now? Or are you just not ready yet I'm not a psychic , but something's telling me you're single ( just like me ) , am I wrong??If you was really getting that quality relationship you wouldn't even be here typing about don't give em nothing , look for a happily married men and tell him what you typed here and see what they have to say , I don't mean broken down husbands , I mean HAPPILY married men if it was working out fine I expect that you should've settled down by now , or at least be in a serious relationship , but if you were married or had a girlfriend RIGHT NOW you would've been informed None of the ladies you dated in the past were happy with you, go and ask them , I dare you Maybe it's time you face your fears and askyour exes how they really feel about you ? It'll hurt but that's good pain , I think you're not trying to be bad , you just didn't know you were doing anything wrong ,they probably just broke up and didn't say a word to you or they gave you an epistle of rant with no head and tail ( I did that alot sadly) But honestly ask your exes what they really think of you and how they felt being in a relationship with you and if you have a girl right now ask her too You'll be fine don't worry |




