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IceColdVeins:
Which ever it is, she can now clearly experience what most men go through. But it’s fine, we are naturally generous to whom we love

May you experience labour and period cramps , may you carry a child in your belly for 9 months while still moving around on swollen feets , may you breastfeed a child till you faint from exhaustion , may your breast swell up in pain as your child has no appetite , may you be up at night with no hope for rest during the day , may you carry a baby to work
May you cook , clean , bath the babies , and still go to work and come back and proceed to repeat the same process
You will experience pain in all parts of your body for 5 days a month
You shall feel your manhood contract painfully every month and when you walk you'll think your intestines want to fall out
When you use the toilet you'll think your intestines want to fall out
When you pee you'll feel pain but you're not sick so no medicine for you
You'll purge 3 days every month and you'll feel pain
In the end of everything noone will console you , rather they'll prey on you and tell you that you're not the first so endure
Even if it's just a nightmare , I pray you experience what it really feels like to be a WOMAN , if you knew you'd go and look for your mother but the sad and brutal truth is that YOU WILL NEVER KNOW

sisisioge:


Your dude must be a yoruba guy! Once they see a woman capable of handling things, they let you do it. Hian! Didnt you know that "sense of responsibility" is a thing that must be checked in a guy before marrying him? Why in the world would you marry a guy comfortable with you wearing the trousers? Those guys that would not buy stuff for you while dating, pick some of your bills or simply give you money to sort things turn out to be terrible husbands when it comes to holding the material angle of the home. Money is important! Whew! It will only get worse o and by the time the kids are grown,you would have out grown your youthful years embittered with a terrible husband. Poor you.

Life is tough though, you choose your battles. It is well.

Ah you know them oh
Yoruba men will show you pepper
Even Yoruba women don't want Yoruba men unless he's Muslim , the Muslims are the nice ones but if you're a Christian it will hang because it can't lead to marriage
Yoruba men are irresponsibly and arrogantly selfish , always hunting for an independent woman , even at 19 they expect you to be independent and they still want your love , loyalty and respect

dalass:
Exactly!

The problem in this country and others like us is that even maritally, there are laws that men can break at will while the wife must understand and be patient but she can't even think of adultery not to talk of doing same. Till he brings her diseases and heartaches that will make her have stroke/ heart attack.

And they're the first to blame Buhari for his nepotism.. we're not yet ready or serious as a people to remove double standards in all areas, then this imbalance will clear off and we'll have a healthy nation once more

Men can be so disappointing

Magnoliaa:
Why do they say women are "special?" It certainly isn't because they are just women and have vaginas. Bring such posts, let's see them. It is still all the same vein of thoughts!

We say you should respect women because:

1.) The default is to disrespect women
2.) Women do things, so much, raising kids, managing the homefront, bringing money, expelling lots of energies in relationships, experiencing labour, at the end of the day, they experience no. 1.

That statement is driven MOSTLY by the reality of guys disrespecting women. When I say nobody says women should be respected because they are women, I'm not saying you cannot find people saying that, I'm saying more often than not, there are reasons behind it that has nothing to do with being special or thinking women are special.



Men are respected by default, and that respect drives some of them into wanting to provide. The respect comes before the the responsibility. Really? In the streets, your hometowns, villages, classrooms, family meetings and so on, men aren't respected by virtue of them being men? If you conducted a research and put two unknown man and a woman in a place or amongst people, who are people likely to defer to? I did not say the woman will not get attention, nor be liked, but who is going to automatically be seen as the superior gender and therefore deserving of respect and adulation?



Oh, wow, so you know me down to my relationships and what I do in them? You even know I've been in relationships? Are you a punter and a pìmp/john then if you give money to the women you are in a relationship with and have sex with? Is your room/house a brothel? We also know a prostitute in a woman who sells sex as a work, as a single person. So you know I hawk sex? You don patronise me before? You know I give sex to guys in exchange for favours from them? Or you know the company I went to in search of a job and I tried seducing the interviewer?



And you think women calling men broke and frustrated isn't in retaliation as well? Can you pinpoint the initial erring party? What is MY offense against YOU that you went on a mission of slutshaming me? How many times have you seen me broke-shaming and insulting guys here? And without reason, on the most neutral threads? No, you're not dumb and I know you can try not to be dishonest. Women insult men as much as guys do here? Oya, let's even go and start with the CONVICTED RAPE cases that made front-page. All the DOMESTIC VICTIMS that are women, and the males' comments on such threads vs. when a man is the victim. You cannot even give me equivalent misandristic monickers like all the ones I listed.

So wait, "some of YOU are prostitutes, while some of THE GUYS here are broke?" Why you no fit personalise the brokeness to your own self but you set me up as a paragon of female prostitutes? Now, that is one of your devaluation attempts.



And I have explained the context of that statement to you, so I am very certain you've gotten it or have gotten it.

I don't know you but I like you

Dorwadora:
24-30k I earn weekly

How?

Bluntdude:
Hello guys so I moved into a new apartment late last year which cost 300k - a mini one bedroom flat in Abuja. I knew I had to become more serious about saving or else me and landlord go get problem at the end of the year ....

Just like always, I do my calculations before taking any step and then I start saving. My former place cost 140k (a self contain) I needed more space so I had to move into my current place. Although it's not too big but since na only me, e dey ok.

However before moving in I calculated how much I'd have to save to meet up because I don't like the idea of having to run around like a headless chicken when my rent is due so I always start saving the very day I renew my rent anywhere. It has really helped me.

My calculation was that if I could save 1k per day I'll definitely meet up by God's grace before the year runs out. Some days I put in 10k or 5k or even 1k depending on how much cash I have at hand while the money transferred to my bank account remains untouched except for important spendings. I still have a month plus before my rent expires but I just started having this strong feeling to break the box open and I did tonight. What I got when I counted...... N343,500

I spread the money for people wey wan count. Although there was no space enough to properly spread so some are ontop others in twos and threes. I couldn't capture the whole money well because space no too dey and I'm not a professional photographer

I'll be sealing the box to begin saving from today again if I get cash. It's fun but very stressful and draining. Not for people without self control. Lol

Lots of people don't know the power of consistently saving in bits for a long period of time. If you're in that category, I hope this helps.

So motivating

I can't wait to break mine by March 2nd next year , I'm on a 365 days saving goals , what am I saving for ? I know but I also don't know , might be for a skill? Might be for emergencies ? I just feel safer knowing I have some money somewhere and it's not been easy keeping my hands off it , I stay off the internet so I don't buy data and when I have airtime I sub at night to download movies so i don't get bored from not chatting or not scrolling through tiktok all-day

I have to manage how often I eat and I had to let go of my addiction for junk food ( especially chocolate and shawarma etc ) , I had to cut out soft drinks too , which was very hard and i just eat real food and support it with cereals and provision

I rewrite my goals so that I'm motivated to save towards them , and I keep one copy of my goals inside the box so when I open it I'll see it , it's like a promise to myself that I'll get there , it's easy to fight the urge to break it because it's so adorable, it's like an art decor , I should've gotten it in pink to really get that look , I guard it with my life but it's really scary coz some people know I have it and that there's money inside

We4all:
He should enjoy his 3 days trend. The guy is even an immature motherfucker.

This one is pained

OlawaleBammie:
wait pls, koyemi

What is the guy saying??

He no marry that judy??

Judy is already married and that son belongs to her husband not Yul edochie , she said it herself on IG but everybody no wan hear , someone even posted a fake Pete edochie response on nairaland with no source or proof that he said it , everybody just dey download the nonsense

I knew it was fake but nairaland witches don't like good news

Some even exposed themselves

OlawaleBammie
MadamVanessa

oya come and see

VandalSavage:
bro thats actually Western culture and alot of Nigerians are slowly buying into it ,it's all over music , female musicians telling ladies to never date a broke guy and to always go for the money

If you listen to cardi B,magen thee stallion, sweetie and city girls ,that's basically what all their songs are about

Promoting prostitution

Prostitution?

Lol the guy before me grew up with Pete edochie he knows the man in and out , I came here to read comments

SurvivorM:
Dude is falling in love with a girl his cousin have had sex with.
Dude dont want to love her as he didn't like the fact his cousin have had sex with her.
Dude now in a dilemma of what to do

Bless you

Dreadlock69:
I visited my father's hometown with my distance cousin or best friend from secondary school, though his mum is from my father's side just two neighborhood village along the road ,my aunt got married to this my cousin or I'll say best friend side and this my aunty husband have a younger brother who I'll talk about his daughter . So I stayed in my cousin or I'll say best friend side for two weeks.
I and my cousin been bored to hell for two days before the fun begin ,one sunny afternoon I went to return the bottle of drink my aunt husband gave my cousin and I ,I met this dark beautiful girl we made eye contact and I left , unfortunately she came with my aunt husband 'younger brother who is her dad'.
I told my best friend about it he said "I dun Bleep am before but nah quickie her papa dey over protective and nah last year before we enter school sha " and it's true the girl dad gave us a headache. So I told my best friend I'll like to have my own share too mind normal guys parole nah .
"I dun bleep my best friend sister b4 but he didn't know about it till date cause nigga gon kill me"
On a blissful evening this girl sounding rude or will say acting disrespectful to my cousin and I was there with them “so I just cap am straight up say she know dey look face before she follow person talk say him resemble him mate or we resemble her mate "I just gave her a warning and later calm her down say no be so Dem dey follow person talk ,my cousin was saying “ leave am nah so Dem dey do if Dem dey follow Dem talk ".she was laundering at that time I told her should I bring mine but she replied no she's done , later that evening I told her to come sit near me which she reply "why should I ".I close the conversation with her immediately.
The next morning after having brunch because we ate late and woke up late the next morning I saw her in my cousin grandma quarters I walk through and hold her on the waist telling her wassup and left not know the step grandma saw everything and called me " mad man ashawo " in Ibo dialect she was talking to my cousin at that time, he told bout it himself .
she started behaving girly and touchy around me and sometimes hold my hand on frequent occasion but I didn't have sex with her only the normal romance and stuff like that , but the fact here is I can't date her because my cousin have slept with her and I myself will want to “chop and clean mouth to" like the saying goes “ if you want to cheat on him don't cheat on him with his fellas", like I will say if it was with other guys I won't be bothered but it was with my cousin , I'll say this girl liked or will I say loved me dearly but I'm kind of feeling the same for her but I'm really sure the relationship will not work cause I can't lived with the fact my cousin quickie her and I'll want to have my share and move on.Cousin told me she's a better girl for me and this doesn't comes from my cousin mouth easily.

My head is paining me , your cousin married your sisters aunt

Hugo55:
You kinda like the guy already to have even noted all that. He's just not expressive or maybe not serious.

Nope I don't

OlawaleBammie:
send the pics to who??

And besides, who no dey snap wen she marries?? Even regina Daniel wey marry one of our ancestors sef snap pics.
Will i know if ur husband is married to four wives in ur pics??

Lo joko joo, tie marry na kari

Ma worry , I go send am, calm down

Nonexisting:
See this ulaga crying here because I extolled thick vaginarians in the other thread. Don't worry, you will be alright. Drink yoghurts and also tell the blind mumus that chase you about including the one that shows you off to cum in your mouth to see if their sperms will improve your weight. I call them blind mumus because the day you pull off your clothes before them, they will realize how much your clothes have been covering up since. A little free secret I want to share with is this. The mumu that shows you off will dump you the sooner his low self esteem improves and he is able to get something better for himself so he is just managing you for now.

You will faint if you were the one that was there when I undressed

Nonexisting:
See this ulaga crying here because I extolled thick vaginarians in the other thread. Don't worry, you will be alright. Drink yoghurts and also tell the blind mumus that chase you about including the one that shows you off to cum in your mouth to see if their sperms will improve your weight. I call them blind mumus because the day you pull off your clothes before them, they will realize how much your clothes have been covering up since. A little free secret I want to share with is this. The mumu that shows you off will dump you the sooner his low self esteem improves and he is able to get something better for himself so he is just managing you for now.

Oya sorry
Let's hookup
Leave these slim girls they don't know anything

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MadamVanessa:




Nobody can preach that to me. All that matters to me is my dildoos.

We already know

MadamVanessa:





You just finish taking Mkpurummiri

I kuku know you
Crazy madamvanessa , might even be an oga Vanessa

OlawaleBammie:
u wil just kee ursef ontop another person sicknes
U dont even know if u re going to be the fourth wife to a middle age man

When I marry I will send the pics , ma worry

Prettygirl200:
Lol sweetie don't mind the guy jareh, it's either he wants to use his head for rituals or want to chop u ND clean mouth. On no account should u embark on such journeys shey u have been seeing things going on on social media my dear it's real. Life don too big nd every lazy young idoult wants to cash out with someone's head. Always be careful!!!

Thank you

Kobojunkie:
The bible never said any such. In fact the only reference made to such was of the daughter of Israel, during a time of captivity when most all of the men had been taken away to be prisoners in foreign lands, leaving but a few of the mostly previously undesirable men.


Please try not to quote bible without understanding abeg!

Please marry me
I will cook my own food and eat it

pocohantas:
The solution is not to stay away from marriage. Is English so hard for you to understand that you INTENTIONALLY missed the point?

Let me break it down for you, DO NOT TRUST THE LOYALTY OF A BROKE MAN. If a financially stable man is what a woman desires and she finds one that desires her, she should go for him! Men have proven over and over that building with them guarantees nothing! Not exclusivity, not faithfulness, nothing!

Marry them, but use your head!

I hope you get it now?

He doesn't understand English

Yul edochie is not married to Judy Austin nor did he father her child , it was just a rumour , don't know how it started but Judy just posted on IG that her son is for her real husband , the father of her other children , go and watch

Why am I so happy?
Some wicked people were wishing pain on someone's daughter for no reason at all
May Edochie is still the madam in her house and the one and only Mrs apart from her mother in law and sisters in law , and this might make some people sad but unfortunately May is truly THE ONLY WIFE

At least this thing brought out some people's true colors , female nl when you're talking to anyone check his past responses abeg
Don't go and crush on redpills and misogynists
I wish I could post the video but nl does not permit that and I saw it on my friends phone

They've used you people to catch cruise because they know you people like nonsense

Nonexisting I'm talking to you , your crush has sense after all

tunjilana:
It is both ways...you have also not done anything to catch his attention...u simply don't like him and that is not a big deal...if u did, his approach wont matter as long as it gives an opportunity to get to know each other vetter

So a person approaches me and I'm supposed to be trying to catch his attention ? Like what? put on a show ?
Hold on, let me just sing for you real quick , how's that ? Pick me pick me pick me pleeeeeeeeeeease

For me to respond to ordinary hi for a month , what other proof do you need that I'm listening to you? Okay hold on here's my bvn , and my ATM pin
If I did not want anything to do with him , I'd ignore his ass till he gets tired and moves on

I don't know what alpha male you've subscribed to on YouTube or are tuned to on podcasts but you need to stop
Telling me to try and catch his attention is like , a job seeker going to a company and asking the company to tell them why he should work for them ?
You came here , but I should compromise so that you can stay when I did not call you , nor am I begging you , close the door on your way out

Please go and unlearn what you learnt before you ruin your relationship with women around you

You men do the bare minimum and expect the full package , you'll see a girl that is catching your eye and you lose her because you're an alpha male and she should be chasing you , that is what they taught you in redpill crash course
It's like going to a restaurant buying food and expecting them to beg you to eat , if you don't eat it , someone will

Lamanii22:
Egbami ke… I don’t know why I have been seeing my first boyfriend from my teenage years in my dream… it’s not as if we had anything together, it wasn’t even a serious relationship sef as he was in a private uni… we only get to see during their holidays…. He started appearing in my dreams, smiling happily like when we first met, his eyes, his voice, innocence…. Has happened like 5 nights in a row and I am always feeling funny whenever I wake up… I don’t know what this is ooo….

God forbid
Onward ever backward never
I reject it for you
Better pray over it
Ex is ex , no go dey repeat cloth

Kriss216:
No be this kind virgin I dey find, abeg

Human wants are insatiable , virgin is virgin

macho44:
A Perfect Gentleman Is One Of A Kind. Rare & Beyond Compare

I'm fine sir
I don't want

macho44:
In The Arms Of A "PERFECT GENTLEMAN" Like Myself, You Ain't Got No Worries

Again " lol okay"
You want to come and finish me kpatakpata , abeg oh
I'm fine