Romance › Re: Girls What Do U Really Want? by darkskingoddess(f): 9:01pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
Davidsylva: Me I have cash,I have handsomeness,I have education,what exactly do u need before u appreciate a guy? Hmm... Sense of humor Open-minded Ambition Decent looks Respectful Educated, or at least intelligent LOYALTY LOYALTY LOYALTY! There are more preferences, but if a man is lacking these, it's probably a no-go. |
Romance › Re: Nigerians And African Americans Dating-- Can It Work? by darkskingoddess(op): 3:21pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
"Terrible set of people" "Bad" "Big problem" "Low esteem" "Trouble" "Suspicious"
I posted this originally with open mind and heart, but I must say, many of these comments about AAs are disheartening. |
Culture › Re: Nigerian (igbo) & African American by darkskingoddess(f): 2:28am On Oct 23, 2015 |
So did it work out with him?  |
Romance › Re: This South-African Lady Says All Nigerian Women Are Ugly by darkskingoddess(f): 12:48am On Oct 23, 2015 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Do I Look Indian? by darkskingoddess(f): 12:26am On Oct 23, 2015 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Meek Mill VS Wale Folarin: ‘you Are A Jealous, Broke Rapper!’ by darkskingoddess(f): 12:44pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Meek loves talking about himself. |
Fashion › Re: Ladies Can You Rock This ? by darkskingoddess(f): 3:28am On Oct 22, 2015 |
Elijah348: Hello Found this on fb and decided to ask you Nl ladies ..... Hell yes! The last few times I had braids, they took up to 12 hours! Why go through that when I can secure a cap on in seconds  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Black Women Hate Kissing?? by darkskingoddess(f): 11:06pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: She Refused To Date Me Because I'm Short.. by darkskingoddess(f): 6:44pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Everyone has a preference-- find a girl that is your height or shorter! You might have a better chance. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Female Celebrities Accused Of Bleaching (photos) by darkskingoddess(f): 10:51am On Oct 21, 2015 |
This bleaching trend has got to go. What's really attractive is learning to love your NATURAL self!
This is beyond the use of makeup and weave... this might be the ultimate self-hatred. |
Romance › Re: Ladies Who Would You Rather Go For,a Visionary Entrepreneur Or An Employee by darkskingoddess(f): 1:56am On Oct 21, 2015 |
fexyrich: Where are the ladies in the house..please let's discuss this..Who would you go for? An entrepreneur with great vision and prospects or an employee..Let's be sincere and open minded. If I had do choose between either, definitely the entrepreneur with great vision. That would be a dream come true! |
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by darkskingoddess(f): 12:44am On Oct 21, 2015*. Modified: 1:35am On Oct 21, 2015 |
tosyne2much: On a normal day, I don't comment on a dumb thread like this
That aside
Personally I think only a very dumb, myopic and silly person (just like the OP) will be walking on the street with such a ridiculous mentality. The truth of the matter is that any lady with this mentality have nothing to offer you even if you date them
There are thousands of graduates out there who have made the sacrifices of success yet no job. Does their inability to secure jobs make them worthless?
This thread would have made a little sense if you were actually referring to LAZY guys https://33.media.tumblr.com/62700f856f8a35a089caea02326aa068/tumblr_nkabjeCrqF1rfduvxo1_250.gifWonderful response! Puts things into perspective. |
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by darkskingoddess(f): 11:55pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
raayah: Missing out on what exactly. Money?? My God! We have gone full circle. People break up with good men all the time for their own personal reasons. This mentality that you are missing out is wrong. You are indirectly telling women to stick it out with their partner because "He might get rich" instead of love. No, I am certainly not saying that. Lol I'm aware that there are legitimate reasons to end it with a man other than financial status. To clarify, that particular comment was directed towards MATERIALISTIC women only; they are the ones "missing out" on the money that they shouldn't have been concerned about to begin with. |
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys Who Chase You? by darkskingoddess(f): 11:44pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
A jobless man is a red flag, but it wouldn't stop me from dating him in the right circumstances. I am entrepreneur-minded and would prefer to help him out.  If the reason for not having the job is due to LAZINESS-- that is another story. But there are plenty of millionaires who started from the bottom, and the women who once rejected them are left missing out! I am not shallow nor am I absorbed with a man's wealth. Who cares? |
Nairaland General › Re: Why Have Nigerians Replaced The Word "I'm" With "Am" !!!! by darkskingoddess(f): 3:11pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
I noticed that too, however internet vernacular isn't supposed to be perfect. |
Fashion › Which Of These Is Your Favorite Natural Hair Style? (pics) by darkskingoddess(op): 3:46am On Oct 20, 2015 |
1, 2, 3, or 4? (from top to bottom)
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Nairaland General › Re: I Need Advice On How To Control My Emotions by darkskingoddess(f): 11:52pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
Aw  I am sorry this is bothering you. This may sound funny, but meditate!! Sit down for a few minutes in the day and close your eyes while being quiet and still. Allow whatever thoughts that come to mind come and go. You will feel more positive and refreshed afterwards, and this will help balance your emotions. Trust me!!  Oh and my brotha, PLEASE don't physically harm yourself in any way. Good luck! |
Nairaland General › Re: More Photos From Popular Nairalanders, Silverdam And Mrvocalprowess Hang Out by darkskingoddess(f): 11:44pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
No need to address nor respond to those making negative comments about these pictures. I am glad the meet and greet went well for you guys!  |
Romance › Re: African American Women Who Is Attracted To African Men by darkskingoddess(f): 7:44pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
traware: Uh la la...darling,are you related to Agbani Darego?Methinks you should change your on/offline name to stunning *blushes* Thank you kind sir, lol!  |
Romance › Re: African American Women Who Is Attracted To African Men by darkskingoddess(f): 3:16am On Oct 19, 2015*. Modified: 3:40am On Oct 19, 2015 |
I can't lie-- I am African American and I love them too!! Not because I am desperate for a man or have hatred for our own men... but for well-rounded reasons. 1. They have such wonderful cultural values and beliefs. 2. They are devoted to education (as am I), and providing for their families. 3. They are so sweet to their mothers!  4. Not to mention they are indeed very attractive and masculine. Lol I truly admire African brothers. Oh, I almost forgot about the advice. They are all around the DMV; I have many African friends, especially Nigerian and Ghanaian, who live there. Try to go to the African Festival of the Arts in Chicago in 2016; I attend every year. If you REALLY are interested in settling down with an African man... go to Africa! Good luck sis |
Romance › Re: Nigerians And African Americans Dating-- Can It Work? by darkskingoddess(op): 2:03am On Oct 19, 2015 |
IGLE25: Run for your life o.... Akata na big problem o... They don't reason the way the real blacks reason...  All African Americans have the same mentality? |
Fashion › Re: Why Do Females Wear "Makeup" And Yet Complain Of Guys Who "Sag"? by darkskingoddess(f): 2:00am On Oct 19, 2015 |
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Fashion › Re: Which Of This Is The Dopest? & Where Can I Get It Done In Nigeria!(photos) by darkskingoddess(f): 1:54am On Oct 19, 2015 |
First one! |
Fashion › Re: Ladies Do You Respect These Kind Of Men?(pics) by darkskingoddess(f): 1:50am On Oct 19, 2015 |
I personally don't like the second style. But the first one is nice!! |
Fashion › Re: Why Do Females Wear "Makeup" And Yet Complain Of Guys Who "Sag"? by darkskingoddess(f): 1:45am On Oct 19, 2015 |
Eintelekt: I just hate it when 'masquerades' talk bad about guys who 'sag'. Sagging ain't my thing though and I dont support it, but I believe we've all got to remove the log in our eyes before we pick on someone with a relatively tiny spec in his!
...and some presenter just said they dont need to 'blow their cover' cos they need to always look good. Does that tell us something?! Plus I dont understand why someone will comfortably or uncomfortably (with the spontaneous itches and scratching) wear a head warmer for straight 3 weeks without removing it...no air, no water...and still open their mouths to say some niggas are dirty!!!! hian!
Keep disguising sha, it's allowed but please keep your handkerchief away from me, I'd thought that was the color of your face before this weather got hot, or is this a painting class?! But wait o, I had the impression that 'make up' means to raise an existing quality or quantity to a required amount. Could it be that some ladies are having some form of generally accepted inferiority complex or aint proud of their 'real' selves?! LOL you silly oo I disagree with some of that though. I think there is little correlation between sagging and makeup. Sagging is derived from the prison lifestyle... it is a signal that a man is "available". Many men who sag aren't aware of this and think it's fashionable-- because they don't know the history of it! I can only speak for myself, sagging doesn't bother me too much. But I LOVE a man in suit and tie! 
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Romance › Nigerians And African Americans Dating-- Can It Work? by darkskingoddess(op): 1:14am On Oct 19, 2015 |
Is the cultural barrier too problematic in such a relationship? Should each stick to their own? Have you/would you consider dating or marrying an African American (akata)? I'd like to hear thoughts on this topic. 
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Politics › Re: Yoruba Nation...whats Your Problem With Igbos by darkskingoddess(f): 12:42am On Oct 19, 2015 |
(Reads comments above) 
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Romance › Re: Nairaland Post-your-best-pics-of-you Season3 (independence Version15.0) by darkskingoddess(f): 10:31pm On Oct 18, 2015 |
Random pics of me
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Culture › Re: Pictorial Tour Of Ibo Land (check Out This Lovely Places ) by darkskingoddess(f): 10:17pm On Oct 18, 2015 |
Very beautiful and scenic! |
Romance › Re: Another Nigerian Guy Proposes To His Woman At Warri Mall (photo) by darkskingoddess(f): 10:09pm On Oct 18, 2015 |
So sweet!  |