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summary

op and his wife were virgins
they live in US
the wife is shy
op loves her dearly

jaxxy:
Form what I can Understand the only variable that has changed is ur/her location. I think she trying bt finding it hard living alone with just u and not having her family around and close.

Find ways for both of u to do fun things together, I will suggest a few and it doesn’t have to be outdoor.

Watch particlar/selected fun movies like comedy, action, adventure etc

Find out what she really likes, start a convo, ask what she likes specifically and have a good idea by interactive questions. I’m sure u must have done all this while dating Bt if not exactly So. This cud vary from games, hubbys, books, downtime activities etc


Do video calls with her fam and urs together especially hers.

I don’t think she like being with strangers or new people as u think cos she chose to be a stay home wife or she’s trying to avoid unnecessary interaction. Maybe she’s an introvert sometimes.

This isn’t really a problem beside the sex part and initiating convos. Probably she’s been told to act a certain way by her family when in her husbands house, u know how Nigerians give advice they don’t even follow themselves. The video calls will shed more light here.

Try doing random and spontaneous things with her and for now try mostly indoor activities. She just needs to get out of her shell. Hope when she gets all active and hyper u don’t complain again. Lol

summary

op and his wife were virgins
they live in US
the wife is shy
op loves her dearly



Op doesn't have any problem .

shior


we are prepared ! we are prepared !

I can now see how prepared we are .


government : quarantine yourself


me: yes sir

we dont need all the details . the headline is ok

so many incompetent people in our health sector ,vky friend almost died ,when one doctor declared her HIV +, after various test that showed she was negative , we went back to the hospital with the result and requested that they repeat the test , the result came out negative , instead of the stupid hospital to apologise for their error, the doctor was like ... which church do u attend ? bla bla bla, . when they change am for am , he started to apologise

Amya:
Too overbearing and full of himself. I can't deal abeg.

imagine somebody that is not even fine .
whenever I see both of them I remember beauty and and the beast .

Amya:
Arnold Is a cool guy and Bolanle a nice girl. But for some reason I don't think this relationship will survive outside. Arnold is the typical Nigerian man that wants to be in charge.

Bola on her part has been so used to her independence and calling the shot that it'll be so hard for her to be fully submissive. The fact Bolanle is almost 36 and Arnold 32 is also huge minus. Laslas he'll go far an under 25 he can control.

GBAM!

NOC1:
My mum is educated and exposed but her views on child spacing is different after some cases when some women could not take in again after child spacing.

Sh will say “once you’ve started making babies do it at once and rest”.

I think I go with my mom ideology.

your mum is so right .

I still regret spacing my third child with 5 years .

my elder broth year er had avn appendicitis surgery , after the surgery he kept complaining of stomach pains , the doctors said he was OK
, a year later he travelled out of the country , the stomach pains became severe ,unbearable , u was rushed to the hospital , it was discovered that a rotten lump of cotton wool was removed from his stomach

oya sorry

Ojiofor:
Committing suicide because you were justly or unjustly suspended from school is not a wise decision.He could have appealed the decision through the intervention of his parents example.

who is saying he made a wise decision ? can u for once be objective when it comes to issues like this ?

[quote author=Ojiofor post=86856412][/quote]what if he was unjustly suspended ?

Emotionss:
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When a woman screams Rape society is quick to believe her even without evidence.

Too Bad .

the school suspended him for two weeks , are they certain that he actually committed the crime . the family should sue the school if they cannot provide a concrete evidence to show that he actually did It. a CCTV coverage will do

Munzy14:
One man's meat, another man's poison...
No be all guys like fair ladies.

or bleached ladies

my name is EFE, EEF, FEE , all na the same abi?

crawler

NwaAmaikpe:

oya bomb her .

she is pregnant . dont ask me how I knew .

2pretty4u:
I thought I was the only one, she is always complaining and looking for pity from the others.

she is too emotional people like that are manipulative and they have PhD in blackmailing people emotionally , she is always unnecessarily moody and she expect her man to pet her for no reason .


this Lady needs to see a therapist , she will make a horrible wife

Omalichabby:
I just don't like Ebi
It would sha pain me if Obi picks Ebi and not Chris

obi already told Ebi. he would never have anything to do with Chris that she acts like she is an American that she's not , using the F word, he said he is not even attracted to Chris... Ebi seems happy about his revelation .
.but the friendship won't last , Ebi has issues seriously

happy penetration day

isthatso:
children give all the glory to their mothers because women are manipulative and children are brainwashed by their mothers

this mentality is the main reason children love their mothers more , women make a lot of sacrifices , so through pains to raise a child and they will never mention it to the child , but the child sees it clearly ,unlike men that will mention every thing they have done for the child .
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Reichel99:
Look at someone that wants to school somebody, madam "God can't be mocked". Your own Christianity teaches you how to feel happy when others are faced with predicaments.
School indeed.

you see why i asked u to pass?

Reichel99:
So when you fall sick, people can also make fun of you and say God can't be mocked. So God gave China the disease.

I'm sorry I can't school u.

just pass

9jatriot:
The sacrifices fathers have to make and yet often go unsung is alarming. Many fathers loose the love of their children because they dare to ensure the kids follow the right path and are not overindulged.

It is a tough call being a father with an unquantifiable love for your kids even at the risk of your wellbeing yet somehow the glory goes to...

abeg make we hear word, all that cannot be compared to labour pain . women go through alot ,the fact that u can't see it is the reason the children are giving all glory to their mom

na so

Reichel99:
Sorry madam "You can't mock God".

"God cannot be mocked'

einsteine:
Na was for this troglodyte. Will you keep quiet?

So your god is a god of diseases.

As if, it's only atheists that are affected by the virus.

People with this type of mentality should be quarantined and neutered to avoid passing on DNA.

What an asinine comment.

I guess u are responding from a quarantined centre , as an atheist that u are u should not associate with humans

DonroxyII:
A female with this level of Brain scares the sh.it outa me ....

na so we see am o

joey150:
You may be a decent person and be oblivious to the fact.

However, it's just so you're aware and don't go on making uncouth statements in the future.

you are quite mature! thanks

Reichel99:
Nonsense statement, instead of feeling bad for them you are here rejoicing over one nonsense "You can't mock God" bullshit. Hope you are now fulfilled.

as nonsense as the statement is , u took your nonsense time to respond to this nonsense statement . na was for u o

joey150:
You realise what you just typed makes no sense.
This isn't Christianity. You're just another religious Zealot!

I'm surprised you are responding to a senseless post