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Zzor:
But a man with a child or children can go around looking for a virgin lady to marry abi? I just read somewhere on this forum where a baby daddy I know very well was unapologetically condemning baby mamas,who does that?Cruelty at it's peak

Wait fess, you mean I should use my money and go marry a Nigerian lady with children? So, who will now marry the young virgin girls? Your brothers??

I should marry that lady with another person’s children

Thank God I’m not responsible.

Happiness is free

Prophecy abi Permutations

You don't force respect and value, you earn them, rather.

Obviously, she's out of love for you. You shouldn't be disgruntled, that's one of the demerits of dating a Nigerian girl.



My advice;

Try as much as possible to give your heart a sense of belonging by avoiding Nigerian girls. The next girl you'll meet, will be worse than your current girlfriend. They are programmed that way.

The worst is marrying a non virgin Nigerian evening newspaper! That's suicide!

Inconsequential meetings!



I wonder what they discuss... maybe about big nyashed girls.

Ndi ara!

God bless all Men!

He owe you nothing!


You can block him as long as he's not incharge of your oxygen.

Just like my friend always say, Fvck up no dey sour.

It may take years, men go still microwave am for you give you make you chop.

Be wise.

This woman should be arrested!

ThatFairGuy:
No, that's how Sensible human behaves. He realized his mistake and apologize. You and your people lack this.

It's in your genetics to be Hypocrite, to always call Black, white and follow sheepishly. what a trait

Ghetto politician, sensible humans think before they talk/tweet.

pocohantas:
Every Nigerian man has done that. I even read here that about 99% have.

I don’t know if it is wrong, but I particularly find it irritating. Whatever you did while the going was good, I like to think the person earned it or it is what you wanted to do at that time. Let it go...

Heart break ain't a child's play. listing your achievements in a failed relationship might be a way for the person to heal.

pocohantas:
I don’t, but reading his post tells a lot. A typical alfa male would have said something like “this is a girl I feed, clothe, blablabla. Last month I bought her a phone”

Eishhh! Those ones make my brain go skrrrrrr!

You expected him to lie? He’s yet to buy those things for her na. Lol

There’s nothing wrong in listing your achievements in a dead relationship, lol. You know?

Coward!


Not surprised though, it’s in their gene.

pocohantas:
There is no slavery in willingly cooking for a man you claim to love. I will only have a problem with it if he is unappreciative, unsupportive and unproductive. OP doesn’t strike me as all that.

You concluded so fast on the OP, you know him?

pocohantas:
There is no new Poco.

The old poco we know would find ways to blame the guy for trying to enslave the girl.


This November go good sha. Hehehe

pocohantas:
My opinion on relationships/marriage have been constant, they are also quite simple. You are only shocked when it favours males. If I made this same comment to a woman, alfa males would have been crying in my mentions.

If he has sense, he deserves the best. If he is a senseless alfa male...oh well.

I’m beginning to love this new poco. Lol

Only a foolish side chick will message her married lover first.

Wise and intelligent side chicks don’t go that extreme. They allow the man to call or message them first. If you must be a married man’s side chick, have sense, at least.

pocohantas:
If all you said is true, permit me to say, your fiancee is not a smart human. She asked how you have been coping before she came? Well, now she is there, she should make herself useful!!

Sometime ago I was having a chat with my friend. He claims to be a strong defender of the patriarchy, but I still consider him one of the most rational Nigerian men. Anyway, he asked me a question;

Him: Is it bad if I EXPECT my wife to cook for me?

Me: NO, I can’t think of any reason that should be bad. I really do hope this answer isn’t because it is an easy thing for me, but heck NO!

Him: Does it make me chauvinist, misogynistic, wicked, entitled?

Me: Lol, Noooooo

I can’t remember everything we discussed, but he said something that struck. He said, what some people call gender roles is more of ACCOUNTABILITY. Someone has to be RESPONSIBLE for something, anything and everything.

I think it is okay to have REALISTIC expectations and even in offices, we have KPIs (the organization's EXPECTATIONS of us). We try hard to meet these expectations, but when it comes to marriage, we sharpen our mouths like a beak and start whining. Yet we wonder why marriages are failing. Why everyone is single but has so much opinion on relationships/marriages- #selflove generation.

These things spur us to be better and as long as they are done with love, respect and mutual interest/understanding, I would never see any wrong in them.

Marry/date people that have sense. Your fiancee doesn’t seem to be one.

Is this really poco? Unbelievable

majamajic:
Was thinking that the thing lead to a bigger event

Bigger event like smashing or

lefulefu:
it is very neccessary.even the US that we are quick to emulate they have public registers for convicted pedophile offenders and when such pedophiles are moving to a new environment the inhabitants are notified.Drastic crimes sometimes calls for drastic actions.

I understand, but, in this case, the man is already on a Life Sentence. He's not aware what's happening outside. It's only his family that is feeling the punishment.

In Igbo tradition, before a woman's family will accept the suitor, they will first carry out a background check on the suitor's family. This act may hinder an innocent and righteous man from the rapist family from getting married to the love of his heart.

Olè visits Onye Oshi!

The 7 that absconded just don't want to disgrace their lineage hence they japa

Your entire world in a tiny smart 6 year old girl



So, in whose world 2Face and your other kids come dey?


That girl is not tiny, though.

chukel:
in the electoral college system, every state has a number of votes awarded to it based on its population. Any candidate who wins a state, even if by margin of 1 vote takes all the votes of the electoral college awarded that state (except in Nevada where it is shared). Texas has electoral college vote of 38. So Trump winning there gives him electoral college vote of the whole 38

But, this is almost exactly what the OP is saying and you're calling it crass ignorance.

illicit:
If I see d last user around, I will notify him but if not, I will take it and nothing will happen....


I am damn sure I can't give it to police, civil defence, Amotekun or soldier....

How about you give it to IPOB?

If na all these things go make her cheat, make she carry her wahala dey go.

Reference:
She is accountable to those she feeds from. If you can feed her then you can ask her to wear whatever she likes. Why not sponsor her out of her comfort zone. When the problem starts you will not be there.

Nollywood feeds her not Kannywood.

The last I checked, Nollywood doesn't have any issue with her dress.

Moferere:
If you don't understand their election process, keep quiet.

The voters determine the electoral college, the electoral college determines who becomes the president.

Is that too difficult to understand.

Sorry, who are the electoral college?