₦airaland Forum

"I meet nice guys, good guys that really like me; but I can’t accept them cos they don’t have what all of the above. They could have some, but for me, the ones I listed are basic and non-negotiable"

"Am I being materialistic?"

I'm afraid you really are materialistic, b/cos apparently you would like to be with even a monster just for your 'non-negotiable' ambitions!


"I hate to have to give a guy a loan, give him my car to use, let him move into my house cos my apartment is better and then change the deeds of my property to our name.
I hate to have to buy my clothes cos he's not rich enough to afford the clothes I wear.
I hate to have to split the bills cos my pay check is better or even similar to his.
And above all, I hate to think he wants me for what I have to offer!!"

Eyaaaaa!!!!

Oops! sorry luv
All those dream articles ur sis mentioned up there are just an intro to my resume
Wanna marry?

The chick dey vexxx!
Notin dey happen sha, evrybody want beta tin
But u no need condemn d others
The so called "old money" and politicians wey make the money, how many make am for thier 20s?

And you know how tins dey for naija - d only jobs na dey call since na banker and oil worker, even those ones na few go arrange themselves wit all those tins u mention if their income is based solely on their salary.
In order to get all those goodies you mentioned up there, you have to first think of getting with a focussed and ambitious person and if you must stick around you have to be at least a source of encouragement.

So if Nairalanders told u to let her go u ma for go pursue am ba?
U come show yaself for hia!

But seriously, a girl will skirtrs without underwear & will go about hopping bikes?

United 4 Life!!!
Man U 2 - 0 Chelsea

Darn Sperm-infested Swimming pool!

What do u mean by cheap?
A girl that sleeps with different guys like every other day or a girl wey release straf early in your own view?

Rephrase:  (a)  Can you date someone without having sex with him?"
                 (b)  Can you date a known male virgin and don't bother having sex?
                 (c)  Can you date a male virgin and teach him abi 'No time ye'?
                 (d)  Can you date a male virgin even if you too are a virgin?
                 (e)  Do you prefer to date someone that is yet to find the sweetest puss?

But  Pretend or no pretend
Change or no change
Which kind level sef wey the woman go dey feel at anytime to just dey beat im husband no matter how hot any argument or quarrel be. . .the Man wey suppose dey take care of her!

You have to stop this before one day you ma go follow change b/cos if she just slaps you at will, it will turn soon to an obssessive compulsive condition & she might just get violent at any little mishap. Worsening her condition and even yours!

If truly, the wife that you married beats you (depends on your definition of this "beating" u'r talking about), then it's either one of two:
Spiritual problem or serious Psychological problem and both need Fasting and Prayer and maybe Medical attention.

Pls does she feel sorry and apologises after beating you?

True true na ur picture be dat?

Na wa o! Nobody even try for dis guy. Nothing dey happen

Ma August Peeps Whatz upppp!!! August 21st, Leo Broda C ur l8er.

You are in a relationship wit someone u don't even love, then that's not a true relationship. Then what . . . talk about marriage? Hmmm

@ben
Thanks. I was just about to write my final exams, 2 weeks b/4 the ASUU strike began. Once I finish my Housemanship I'll just have to further outside the country cos I just can't stand this place.

@ al-qaeda
Walahi I no disagree wit u. I just don't know what is happening + I neva see this kind gov't. b/4
sha dey go fit boast se na them bring an extra like 2000W!? and no be local electricity,, Na foreign!!

Sorry una I wan ask one question o! E don dey resemble se for this world, na for naija na im medicine be" humanitarian job", When in the history of human existance wey hungry people start dey carry out humanitarian services? Besides I believe this should be a profession where clear-headed and settled people should offer the best services they can and be happy doing so. I've seen where docs esp. in the gov't settings attend to patients with frustration, as if the patients went there to beg for treatment. It's very bad!
I know it's not the doctors' fault, he too is a human being, but of all issues, inadequate basic salary combined with the hideous and stressful job? Haba!
"Humanitarian Job"- with no improvement, not to talk of making any medical breakthrough or advancement. Someone with the dreams and zeal of making any medical advance in this country will b/4 he knows it, find himself spending more time trying out other fields where he will be getting better returns b/cos what he gets from his primary field (if he is not into private practice & that even entails having your own hospital) can barely take care of his welfare.
I think the main problem we have is that the association of medical practitioners in the country can't even come out and make their demands striaghtforward. In advanced countries if situation like this occurred they would hit the nail on the head - Our salary is rubbish- Period!
But my people, - "Our working condition is not favourable" Various State governments are building even up to 200 bed hospitals- in a country where at least 70 per cent of the graduating students plan on writing USMLE.
Make I dey go abeg. Na God go save this country.

[b][/b]fsb! I dey feel you jare! B/cos person read medicine for Nigeria No mean se e go sign contract wit poverty!!
And the doctors sef no dey open their mouth talk, they just dey vex for inside and on top medical student head!

As for me, That one na confirm!!!!

dont really know much about italian women. But yeah, love the bad naija babes more than the good italian. Me have a soft spot for em and I can forgive them easily.[quote][/quote]Guy, you neva Jam O! I don't think you also know little about the BAD Naija babes. But don't get me wrong please, there are a lot of GOOD and very sweet naija babes- Some, lifesavers infact! Get any one of these as your partner, U'r good 4 life.

A GOOD person as a partner, no matter the race or country or tribe, brings the best out of both parties, but a BAD one, no matter how good the other partner is, only ends up in misery.