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Matt.10.37 - "Anyone who loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; Matt.10.38 - and anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Matt.10.39 - Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. |
"You must be born again..." (See John 3:3-20...) Going to church; praying regularly; being a pastor or becoming a church founder or worker and the likes cannot possibly replace that before God (cos He is not like men or many pastors). All of such is just like wasting away time on a rocking chair. That was why Jesus mentioned that to Nicodemus, one who could be likened to be a Great pastor, bishop, pope or a General overseer of today. We've got to at least stop fooling ourselves around with some dead religions we have made up, or of those our pastors and church leaders have cooked up through the years. Matt.18.3 - and said, "Assuredly, I say to you, unless you are converted and become as little children, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven. John.3.7 - You should not be surprised at my saying, 'You must be born again.' God bless... |
hopefulLandlord:Hmmm... You were actually teaching some great thoughts without you even knowing. Thanks for that... Back to what you have misunderstood: have you wondered why many people—black or white—keep smoking even though it's clearly written on the package that smokers are likely to die young? Or people who keep drinking like fish despite seeing people suffering from chronic diabetes after being taken to it in the past. Samson was addicted to women (including even prostitutes) the same way many men are today. Just like Samson, many (even pastors and religious ones) are addicted to prostitution, pornography and others, knowing fully well the consequences. It's a shame that such people even use such animalistic styles they learnt from those perverted videos with their own wives as well, apparently. Solution is Repentance in the fear of God. If there's no fear of God, there's all kinds of Evil, and sexual immorality is just a part. I myself was stuck with some of them. But thank God for helping me to overcome: since over 11 years now. We can all overcome, if we have faith and fear God. The wages of sin is death. God bless. |
Kobojunkie:Fellow, I thought I would just ignore your reply, and I already did, but while checking something on this thread I thought again I should tell you something you might like to consider: if you think I've got a bit of sense at least. I doubt you remember the other time we chatted—I don't know how many months or years ago—I mentioned something about you checking your Salvation (maybe with this or another moniker of mine). Yes, you seem to know the Bible a lot, and might be very religious, but unfortunately, it seems your Bible knowledge is doing Much Harm than Good for you: Remember the Devil knows much more. Please have a think, and consider your ways. I hope you get light on it. That said, what you said or quoted is good and correct, but as usual, you sounded argumentative, not edifying. The bible even says we should avoid people who do such. However, mine was also correct, especially in the context of overcoming addictions like porn and it's blood brother: masturbation. I have overcome the two brothers and many other sins since 2010 by God's help. And what I said helped me. Also God used the massive life-threatening trouble I got in to make me hate Sins in general. And the battle is on against the flesh, sin, satan and the world. Nonetheless, please, this is not to argue with you, but maybe God will give grace to have light on some things. Just ignore it if still doesn't make sense to you. I'm sure those of us who need to learn will humble ourselves and learn. Take care... |
Kobojunkie:Bro/Sis... Are you here to argue or learn? Check the spirit and context of what I wrote according to God's word. If you still don't get it, then please ignore it then. Thanks. |
AdetoyeAyomikun:What I think works much better and faster in reality is the Love and the Fear of God. To Love God is to think deeply about what Jesus did on the Cross... To Fear God is to think deeply about the horrible place call Hellfire, where punishment for sins is served forever with no possiblity for escape... Jesus said their fire is not quenched and their worms do not die. Let's not forget that porn and other sexual sins are not the only sins. In fact, according to the Bible, pride and hypocrisy are worse than sexual sins put together. Remember the story of the woman caught in adultery: think of what Jesus told the hypocrites who accused and wanted to stone her to death. May Jesus help us to Overcome in all things. |
Matshallacademy:Hello, how about English, please? |
Wonder1844:I don't think it's ideal to ignore the government job because of mere home lessons that's subject to disappear anytime sooner or later. Hence, I don't think the concern is that necessary. That's common sense, but I would seek God for guidance if were you, though. God bless. |
Ajakaiye83:Friend, are you sure this question is not for cruise? If it's real, few years ago, I had a dream from God: I know it's from God because the devil and my flesh couldn't have cooked up such. In the dream I was warned against Two things: Greed and Not taking God's word seriously. I hope I fight, and keep fighting to keep that till the end. In your case, you've got something quite over the the double of your former pay, and you still want to escape to the UK to upgrade your papers? Well, in your shoes, if I think I'm not sure, I would rather seek and pray to Jesus well about it. Maybe you even need to go; but please don't forget to Beware of Greed in making your final decision. God bless. |
Kennedyli:Let me quote a sound preacher of truth I know from India... It goes like, "when a man and a woman who are not married, nor seeking to be engaged are getting closer and closer, then there must be some sort of "Idolatry" between them." Right, that's also my opinion. They might try to use a euphemism "friends" to fool themselves and others. But the reality is they are already rooted in Adultery of some sort. God bless. |
Hello there! I'm David, a sound and committed English expert and proofreader with a certain zest for quality work. You can be absolutely sure to have your work thoroughly vetted, edited and proofread by me. Gig expectations are focused on zeroing errors on: Grammar Sentence structure Punctuation marks Spelling Readability and more... If it's appropriate, you can surely contact me on WhatsApp: 07033476343; or email: saltedsuccess15@gmail.com God bless |
Hello there! I'm David, a sound and committed English expert and proofreader with a certain zest for quality work. You can be absolutely sure to have your work thoroughly vetted, edited and proofread by me. Gig expectations are focused on zeroing errors on: Grammar Sentence structure Punctuation marks Spelling Readability and more... If it's appropriate, you can surely contact me on WhatsApp: 07033476343; or email: saltedsuccess15@gmail.com God bless |
Hello there! I'm David, a sound and committed English expert and proofreader with a certain zest for quality work. You can be absolutely sure to have your work thoroughly vetted, edited and proofread by me. Gig expectations are focused on zeroing errors on: Grammar Sentence structure Punctuation marks Spelling Readability and more... If it's appropriate, you can surely contact me on WhatsApp: 07033476343; or email: saltedsuccess15@gmail.com God bless |
Ctony1:You may use Alison. You can install it on your phone. |
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Osama2478:Friend, please permit me to speak firmly. This idea of oversea relationships—I'm in China, my wife and children are in Finland—thing is not very ideal: in fact, I think it's bad. Cos I think it defeats the purpose of marriage altogether. I take the point that there's need to travel, hustle and earn a living, but it's better not to marry before going, or go and marry over there, or possibly take your wife and family along with you. As much I hate cheating, and won't support the two of them, can you really convince me that you've never cheated since you travelled? I mean in terms of physical or emotional cheating? When I was doing private tutoring. I almost fell for the trap of a woman whose husband was away. I knew I might not be going there for long, cos I noticed she wanted us to be getting quite close as friends (nothing sexual, though). But I knew it would just take step by step journey before I got cornered by temptations later: as I was already getting offered to sleep over in their house. And I could tell she started getting offended for not accepting to get too close. Please, if possible, get your family to come be with you. Children growing up without physical support of the dad is not very great. God bless. |
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futuremoma34:Friend, please forget it and move on. Something similar happened to me today. If it's not yours it's not. Let's focus on getting what's truly ours. Jesus is able... |
Hello house! Trust you're doing great. Apparently, I'll be needing a school administrative/managerial job position anytime soon, or possibly against next term—preferably a primary school. I studied educational management, but I've focused more on teaching/tutoring and some sort of educational freelance work through the years. If it's appropriate, feel free to DM me, or give me a shout here. God bless. |
ogbenifamouz:Pls, avoid such as much as possible. Be nicer to boys... |
FutureIsFemale:No, movies have only made it terribly worse. In a case like this, I think the girl must have been giving sure green lights before the man could even imagine doing such. Note, I'm not trying to justify the teacher; nor the girl either. No matter what the adult should have set the boundary. When I was teaching part-time in a private sec. school, I'm always careful not to get too familiar with the girls without partiality—cos some might wish to be your favourite. Especially when I find myself physically attracted to any of them, I made sure I didn't dwell on it. There was this Ss1 girl, not sure if there was any girl better looking than her in the entire school. I didn't even notice her very much till she started seeking my attention indirectly: I was very sure. I knew I would be establishing trouble if I gave in, cos she's truly pretty. I don't mean she's immoral, but one could easily take advantage of her naivety. Well, I'm really thankful I noticed she took my subject more seriously and her test scores improved in my subject significantly—without any partiality or undue friendship. Time won't permit me to talk of the one I flogged strictly in class, but later became like friends in the class. The point is some men are really missing it as much as girls or females too. No one, a boy or girl, young or old will watch Pornography and be normal sexually. You see how the eyes of some school girls are looking dutifully to maybe gauge the size of the male organ of the teacher in class: is that normal? May God help us. God bless |
When there's a problem, it would be an excellent idea to trace it to its root first. Like a good doctor would check if an headache is from malaria or high blood pressure. See, a lot of sexual abuse are going on and even Worse that are not reported or even noticed... From experience, I honestly don't like the way some male teachers relate with their female students in general. The Main Problem—which is the Root cause—is the sources of Temptations which is always available for even children these days. I'm talking of Molly, Golly, Folly, Jolly, Holly or Nollywood and other wood industries, in collaboration with the Real Danger: adult sites (aka porn sites) which are readily available to All today. I was deeply hurt—being an helpless ex-victim of porn myself—when I got to know that a girl (8 or 9 years) I was teaching at some point was already exposed to porn. Her brother (jss2 boy) got some films from their cousin (an 100 level lady), which I guess incidentally included the perverted video(s). I was so hurt I had to tell her mum later. How was I sure? Well, she was jokingly telling me that her bro. had lots of "hidden films" on the laptop—hmmm, hidden. Then I too stylishly asked, "hope they don't include people going "completely naked"? Then I knew there was danger... I've worked with boys and girls in primary and secondary schools, and it's sad that seemingly many girls, even Primary school girls are already perverts through these films and bad videos going begging online. I've experienced a bit of seduction from a 12 year old student before. Apparently, some girls of around 8, 12 years and above already have free or regular access to hard porn videos. So, what to expect? Hence, in the case of many stories, it is the case of a perverted adult and a perverted girl. The adult should know better, though. In conclusion, there are male and female perverts: but males tend to resort to raping or abuse, while the females manage the tempting or seducing part. From experience, seduction is even possible from a Female parent to a Male teacher—adult female to a younger male: look at that. The Solution is to deal with the Root, not just the males alone. Are you stuck with any of the sexual vices, seek Jesus and fear God. If the fear of HIV/Aids, sexual disorders and others are not enough, then we must at least fear God who could throw us into Hell after getting Killed by those vices. God bless |
When there's a problem, it would be an excellent idea to trace it to its root first. Like a good doctor would check if an headache is from malaria or high blood pressure. See, a lot of sexual abuse are going on and even Worse that are not reported or even noticed... From experience, I honestly don't like the way some male teachers relate with their female students in general. The Main Problem—which is the Root cause—is the sources of Temptations which is always available for even children these days. I'm talking of Molly, Golly, Folly, Jolly, Holly or Nollywood and other wood industries, in collaboration with the Real Danger: adult sites (aka porn sites) which are readily available to All today. I was deeply hurt—being an helpless ex-victim of porn myself—when I got to know that a girl (8 or 9 years) I was teaching at some point was already exposed to porn. Her brother (jss2 boy) got some films from their cousin (an 100 level lady), which I guess incidentally included the perverted video(s). I was so hurt I had to tell her mum later. How was I sure? Well, she was jokingly telling me that her bro. had lots of "hidden films" on the laptop—hmmm, hidden. Then I too stylishly asked, "hope they don't include people going "completely naked"? Then I knew there was danger... I've worked with boys and girls in primary and secondary schools, and it's sad that seemingly many girls, even Primary school girls are already perverts through these films and bad videos going begging online. I've experienced a bit of seduction from a 12 year old student before. Apparently, some girls of around 8, 12 years and above already have free or regular access to hard porn videos. So, what to expect? Hence, in the case of many stories, it is the case of a perverted adult and a perverted girl. The adult should know better, though. In conclusion, there are male and female perverts: but males tend to resort to raping or abuse, while the females manage the tempting or seducing part. From experience, seduction is even possible from a Female parent to a Male teacher—adult female to a younger male: look at that. The Solution is to deal with the Root, not just the males alone. God bless |
When there's a problem, it would be an excellent idea to trace it to its root first. Like a good doctor would check if an headache is from malaria or high blood pressure. See, a lot of sexual abuse are going on and even Worse that are not reported or even noticed... From experience, I honestly don't like the way some male teachers relate with their female students in general. The Main Problem—which is the Root cause—is the sources of Temptations which is always available for even children these days. I'm talking of Molly, Golly, Folly, Jolly, Holly or Nollywood and other wood industries, in collaboration with the Real Danger: adult sites (aka porn sites) which are readily available to All today. I was deeply hurt—being an helpless ex-victim of porn myself—when I got to know that a girl (8 or 9 years) I was teaching at some point was already exposed to porn. Her brother (jss2 boy) got some films from their cousin (an 100 level lady), which I guess incidentally included the perverted video(s). I was so hurt I had to tell her mum later. How was I sure? Well, she was jokingly telling me that her bro. had lots of "hidden films" on the laptop—hmmm, hidden. Then I too stylishly asked, "hope they don't include people going "completely naked"? Then I knew there was danger... I've worked with boys and girls in primary and secondary schools, and it's sad that seemingly many girls, even Primary school girls are already perverts through these films and bad videos going begging online. I've experienced a bit of seduction from a 12 year old student before. Apparently, some girls of around 8, 12 years and above already have free or regular access to hard porn videos. So, what to expect? Hence, in the case of many stories, it is the case of a perverted adult and a perverted girl. The adult should know better, though. In conclusion, there are male and female perverts: but males tend to resort to raping or abuse, while the females manage the tempting or seducing part. From experience, seduction is even possible from a Female parent to a Male teacher—adult female to a younger male: look at that. The Solution is to deal with the Root, not just the males alone. God bless. |
FutureIsFemale:Sister, sorry to trouble you: but jokes apart. When there's a problem, it would be an excellent idea to trace it to its root first. Like a good doctor would check if an headache is from malaria or high blood pressure. See, a lot of such is going on and even Worse that are not reported or even noticed... From experience, I honestly don't like the way some male teachers relate with their female students. Not to justify the man nor is evil act (I've been in his shoes as an educationist, also an English teacher in a secondary school then with minor to major Temptations without yielding "by God's grace" ). The Main Problem—which is the Root cause—is the sources of Temptations which is always available for even children these days. I'm talking of Molly, Golly, Folly, Jolly, Holly or Nollywood and other wood industries, in collaboration with the Real Danger: adult sites (aka porn sites) which are readily available to All today. I was deeply hurt—being an helpless ex-victim of porn myself—when I got to know that a girl (8 or 9 years) I was teaching at some point was already exposed to porn. Her brother (jss2 boy) got some films from their cousin (an 100 level lady), which I guess incidentally included the perverted video(s). I was so hurt I had to tell her mum later. How was I sure? Well, she was jokingly telling me that her bro. had lots of "hidden films" on the laptop—hmmm, hidden. Then I too stylishly asked, "hope they don't include people going "completely naked"? Then I knew there was danger... I've worked with boys and girls in primary and secondary schools, and it's sad that seemingly many girls, even Primary school girls are already perverts through these films and bad videos going begging online. Did you notice the girl didn't report by herself—her mum suspected... She might have actually enjoyed it, and she might not be a virgin even before the act. I've experienced a bit of seduction from a 12 year old student before. Apparently, some girls of around 8, 12 years and above already have free or regular access to hard porn videos. So, what to expect? Hence, in the case of your story, I perceive it is the case of a perverted adult and a perverted girl. The adult should know better, though. Even as a teacher. In conclusion, there are male and female perverts: but males tend to resort to raping or abuse, while the females manage the tempting or seducing part. From experience, seduction is even possible from a Female parent to a Male teacher—adult female to a younger male: look at that. Solution is to deal with the Root. God bless. |
Luke.16.27 - "He answered, 'Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my father's house, Luke.16.28 - for I have five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this place of torment.' Luke.16.29 - "Abraham replied, 'They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.' Luke.16.30 - "'No, father Abraham,' he said, 'but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will REPENT.' Luke.16.31 - "He said to him, 'If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.'" |
Rhea:Hmmm... Maybe you're right. |
Matt.7.13 - "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. Matt.7.14 - But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. Matt.7.15 - "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. |
AlomoReloaded:Haha... No bro... May we not be close to such snakes as boomslang, black mamba and it's green cousin... |
NaijaCars4sale:Hmmm... Me too |

