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It's only high risk if you are committing to her. If she knows upfront or subliminally that she's not having you exclusively then less risk.

Kobojunkie:
Una too dey like to rewrite dictionary when attempting to sound reasonable, even small.

1. A prostitute/lovepeddler is either a businessman or woman who officially receives money as payment for sex. That has nothing to do with this here discussion.

Preying in this case involves taking advantage of those damaged. There is no such thing as love in those cases since love involves sacrifice while those who prey on the weak do the opposite.

2. You can argue all you pretend but the fact is society has always stigmatized women for choosing to have more than one lover at a time. Nothing biological about such stigma.

I wrote something banal and I was automatically corrected to lovepeddler. Maybe that's why it's misunderstood.

Well

Nobody stopped women from having multiple lovers both now and then. Especially now. It just wasn't reasonable. Biologically? A woman would want protection and security from the man she conceives for. If you were that man, that provides this, would you feel comfortable if she shares you with another man?

Let's say it's stigmatization, isn't it designed to favor women nonetheless?

If she had had a man in her life, this wouldn't have happened

The struggle is real

Bluezy13:
At the same time, Yes.
With equal degree, No.

But another case, don't you think there is 'one person' a woman falls in love with... and even if the person dies she won't move on. What's that thing?

Kobojunkie:
Women love opportunistically yet you will find women married to rich men, having for themselves side-dicks who are poor as shit? And you also find rich unmarried women "preying" on poor vulnerable men. This your so-called general rule of thumb no make sense at all when reality is considered.

As to your question, I believe women are indeed quite able to love more than one man at a time and you find this mostly in those women who have been able to overcome the stigma attached to such ideas mainly by society. Otherwise, many love and pine for more than one man in secret.

A woman having side dicks is a LovePeddler woman. Not love. And 'preying' is not also love. Anyways I think your point is that women have been stigmatized not to love more than one man. However I could I argue that it is biological, you can't call something that has been happening since more than a century ago stigmatized.

I think it's a sort of poverty mentality. And lack of direction.

Someone that has not touched a 100k before, when finally makes a million in one night, alot of inner workings start unfolding.

That's why it's good to have already made plans for a 100k and 10m as well. No matter how little or high the money is. Even miscellaneous money (money wey you no budget for) needs planning. Unless breeze will blow it away

rabankonchas:
Poor decisions and over-calculation.

Why do they make those poor decisions. That's the question

They don't mind at all. So long as he is an Alpha. The guy might necessarily be well to do.

So I've been thinking about this for a while now and I'd like the opinion of the females here or anyone that's keen on this topic.

As a general rule of thumb - women love opportunistically. That is hypergamy. Same reason why they usually keep alot of options when it comes to dating. However I know a woman can be confused on a better option to satisfy her selection but can she possibly be attracted to maybe two men at the same time. And not be perceived as being greedy or whoring?

Let's talk

Correct description of the man. Though it is in all the participant, a higher percentage ranks him

Women like people to be deceiving them

VenumX:
You know that's not true.

How now?

VenumX:
Especially for both men and women. The requirement is for both gender.

Why I say so is because normally a woman body counts, counts more than a man's body count counts

DavidHarry:
Okay. Virginity should still be preached as the Bible is a big advocate against pre-marital sex - fornication. Especially for women because whom a faithful woman decides to give her body to, must be someone she utmostly respects and is ready to be devoted to. You can now imagine if she had given herself to 1 or 2 other men before she met "the right man". It questions her faithfulness and loyalty in the union. Nowadays women see 10 body counts as nothing. The baby mama trends. It's quite disheartening.

For the guys, stay away from premital sex. Why? Because the Bible says so. Final. However don't dull yourself- because you're not getting sex doesn't mean you shouldn't look responsible or attractive enough to women. Women like men that are attractive to other women. But Set boundaries and still maintain your shape and dignity. If you're tempted much and you do commit- Never cede a child you're not prepared to provide a family for. So you must be ready to marry the woman whom you impregnate. That's why you must be very careful in that aspect. But avoid fornication, I've found out that it's possible to live without sex. Semen retention etc. Makes you sharper sef

Okay. Virginity should still be preached as the Bible is a big advocate against pre-marital sex - fornication. Especially for women because whom a faithful woman decides to give her body to, must be someone she utmostly respects and is ready to be devoted to. You can now imagine if she had given herself to 1 or 2 other men before she met "the right man". It questions her faithfulness and loyalty in the union. Nowadays women see 10 body counts as nothing. The baby mama trends. It's quite disheartening.

Kelly500:
Please elaborate, I no understand.

Getting attached to woman or put simply enslaving yourself to a woman especially when you make her feel like she owns your sex life. And without it, you will die or be tormented. It's bad. No matter what, whether married or single, never make a woman have control over you in this or any other way

majamajic:
Ants are very sweet

Try , termites

Ah you no fit compare termites

Small talk die off... Muslim Muslim never made him invalid to run. Nothing like bad promo

CyberHustle:
Good thinking there. That means majority of the original 450b will be looted and relooted.

Omo the hustle is real

BenzEne1:
So does being on social media signify literacy? It's a matter of choice man. Lot's of the folks on Social media are educated illiterates

At least dem sabi use smart phone

maasoap:
Any explanator in the house?

One woman too many problems

Man see whips, see tech, see doings. Chai

Before! Why they no go support am. No be party member him be

This is good. Come be like say na only Lagos dey function for this country

Chai pray for him. Because na prayer go bring food for your table. Sorry.

Let me kind...
When things are not turning out good, ask yourself? What am I doing wrong... write it down. Then ask again what should I be doing... write it down. Then ask again... what's the one thing I should be doing majorly, out of this list... circle it. What is holding me back? Write it down and circle the main thing you feel is holding you back. Spend at least 30mins on this exercise. Then after focus on the one thing you should be doing aggressively. Everyday. If nothing common within a few months or less... call me bastard. As for the wrong lists... squeeze it and burn it in the fire

Continue pressing phone

The cameraman needs to be fired. Something he should be fascinated by

I stand with Nick. This is what equal living means

FG don bag new whip