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SETTINGZ0000000:
And who is neymar?

Optimus212:
U're a very badt guys!!

Brotherly,....as for me going close to her, I don lock up!!!

I just built a mindset now that am in a cult group & d condition they gave me is not to have sex with my wife for a year lest I die!

I know myself & she knows me too well, if I make up my mind for something, even my papa no fit mk me change my mind. Am as strict & wicked as that. I noticed from yesterday evening she had started getting closer which I believe her Aunt in Texas must have cautioned her strongly but me, I will never adhere to her advances at all. I have done it b4 & can do worse. Her next life she'll be cool. Anyways she's my wife & graciously d mother of my kids bt, I don lock up & I know she'll beg which I know will not work.

Single & Married Brothers in the House, No matter how you love ur wife or girl, never u allow them take charge of d relationship, whether there's money or not, God made u d head. I laugh at some comments here that states am d wife & she d husband, they knoweth me not.

And to the Sensible Ladies in d House, we all know how women strive to get husbands meanwhile some women have 3 to 4 men fighting for their hand in marriage at a go, its not about your beauty neither is it about ur intelligence. It is GRACE, & who's grace is it? Jehovah's of course. In a nutshell, if u don't cherish or value ur man, that means u do not value God's gift upon ur life.

My wife loves me to an extent that she's extremely jealous, sometimes I'd say to her "Why are u scared" jokingly, she'll reply "which scared" abegii. But I know she is. I jst feel they sometimes do all these to test d man's patience. Any which way sha, me I don lockup. Let her keep learning d HARDWAY.

And sincerely, I have been so relieved with the highly sensitive contributions from some intelligent members here, God Bless U more abundantly. I am far way better compared to the way I was 2 days back before I posted this here.

I believe strongly Suicidal rates looming about will reduce if only d victims can share that burning issue flaming them up.

I'll pick a few folks here before this my comment i'll gift something no matter how small. They won't understand d help they rendered to a burning heart. But not today, within Monday to Friday next week.

God Bless!!

Optimus212:
Hi Nairalanders....Please Admin, help me push to Front Page, i'm in dire need of people's opinions.

Pls ignore my writing skills because the way the matter be, my head dey shake like this.

My story is brief.

I am married to my wife & we're blessed with 3 kids,
..My wife starves me of sex over minor issues, even when we've settled by my apologies & me assisting remarkably well in house chores.
There was a period 2 years back she starved me of sex for 4 months because of one little misunderstanding we had back then which was unbearable for me & made me to cheat on her,..And my relationship lasted for more than a year with that lady.

Right now she (my wife) has started again with same attitude, its going to a month now. I am confused because I don't want to cheat on her again. What do i do? Should i keep facing such punishment? For how long? Or, should i file for a divorce? Don't you think such attitude will have reoccurrences in time coming?. It is disturbing me badly because I find it difficult to be sleeping alone at nite without her by my side. I have begged & begged her to let whatever anger towards me that is deposited in her to just die off, yet to no avail. The funny thing is, we'll discuss and play very well before going to bed but, whenever I start making advances towards her, she shows up a different attitude.

I am confused!! It is really really disturbing me. How & where did I go wrong?.

Pls, matured advices only, you can insult me too, of course its Nairaland but, I need serious advice, I am very worried.
Thanks.

kushercain:
Tell her you'll get it elsewhere and if she still doesn't improve, just look for one sidechick to deposit your load. Body no be firewood. Your wife uses sex as a weapon and the only way to defeat her mindset is to let her know the weapon is ineffective. It's better you stop trying to initiate it, stop begging her for sex, let her confuse small.


But wait first, does she have a very low sex drive? Because how can she stay away for 4 months.

comshots:
Wwe is a scripted wrestling match.
How a wrestler go stand dey look his fellow wrestler dey hit am without doing anything is unimaginable.

Niyiboi:
I want to use my----- to shift your womb ,oh permit me. *singing*

Davash222:
No one should blame innocent Depression here.

When we still have over 5Billion women against 1Billion men, you chose to kill yourself because of One girl That's stupidity not Depression.

PETUK:
Which estate is that?

billionman:
He is not a loyal fan. I understand it's a difficult thing to be an arsenal fan though but he should remain loyal, win or loss. One day e go better.

Ekpekus:

After dem dance finish and close eyes to worship, the next thing na to loot...

Delta State I hail