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adaweezy:
In Line with his acclaimed mode of setting the pace for others to follow, Mr akinwunmi Ambode released His plans for Lagos state On New years's day.
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Read The manifesto below

StevinMorgan:
Read this guy's insane reply after the cut. lmao

Kazrem:
As for me, as long as my data is on, I visit Nairaland every now and then. Is becoming increasingly hard for me not to visit Nairaland whenever I use internet. How often do you visit Nairaland especially the romance section?
Onekazrem

chester47:
THESE ain't for some nobody..This topic ain't for kids yo!!sex or money which can actually sustain a relationship..this is a serious and confusing topic so answer with "good adequate and intelligent-mind changing comments
HAPPY NEW YEAR

chester47:
THESE ain't for some nobody..This topic ain't for kids yo!!sex or money which can actually sustain a relationship..this is a serious and confusing topic so answer with "good adequate and intelligent-mind changing comments
HAPPY NEW YEAR

luigiajah:
I've Got One On My Mind Though....

Natasha2

seyi360:
1. If you miss it at the point of marriage, half of your life is gone
2. Marriage is a union between 2 forgivers
3. The choice of a life partner can make or break you
4. Don't marry for where you are, marry for where you are going
5. The most important factor in a relationship is " trust"
6. Do not marry for what you stand to get but what you stand to give
7 Someone who failed in marriage lacks the credentials to advice you on marriage
8. Making a blood covenant or oath with your lover is suicidal. Don't do it.
9. If u can avoid marrying a daddy's girl or mummy's boy, please do.
10 If you develop any doubt on anything, suspend the marriage till you get clarity.
11 Don't marry a stranger,know him or her well,investigate before investing your life in that marriage.

Add yours, happy new year.

Ochofreeocho:
The Person Is Also Shy: Like you, the person
you meet for the first time is also shy
meeting that strange face you possess for
the first time. Considering the fact that you
both just met, only one thing can break that
shyness, talk!
Yes, talk, not any other talk but talk about
what you both like. You know what you
like, but how can you know what the
person like? Ask! The bible says, ask and it
shall be given unto you. Ask questions, and
get it from there. One sure way to avoid
shyness is to act funny, if the person's face
is not friendly, cause some people has that
kind face of ''Bance'' that Burkina Faso
player, and the smile of a Juju priest, not
encouraging. To break shyness in front of
this people, ask questions in a funny way.
Like I have learnt to do. You really want to
break the shyness that very moment with
the person? What you need to do is, ask the
person about his/her likes. Not their dislikes
o. If you ask them about their dislikes you
will be making a regrettable mistake. Ask
them about their likes, not just any likes o.
The like must be about what you see them
having or putting on. Okay, maybe the
person is a girl and she's wearing brazilian
hair, tell her you like her hair and ask what
brand it is. She will say, brazilian hair.
Jokingly ask, Where is it from? She'll laugh
and say Brazil! Tell her you like it and it
looks so good on her, girls like flattering so
much, from there, praise her make up even
when it looks like that of ''Jezebel'' she will
be flattered. If she's the type that is free
she'll go ahead to compliment you too
saying, she likes your hair cut and will ask
you where you got it from. Jokingly ask her
does she want one? That you could help
with a razor blade but she'll look like Baba
Suwe after the barbing. She will laugh and
the talk continues, from there you will
noticed that the shyness has suddenly been
broken as you both laugh at each others
jokes. To say the truth girls love it when you
act funny in front of them and it's a sure
way to break shyness when with them and
even with guys and adults. Don't tell me you
are not funny that you can't be funny cause
everyone can act funny. Presenting yourself
as funny in front of people is just like acting
a movie script. After this, you will see, the
next time you both meet you two will be
free with each other, that's why you have to
be cheerful and playful when meeting
someone for the first time especially girls,
being cheerful and playful breaks shyness.
So go out there, meet people with
cheerfulness and playfulness and see
shyness turns to your worst enemy not
wanting to be with you in the midst of
someone you meet for the first time
anymore.
www.njuwo.com/2015/01/a-reason-why-you-should-not-be-shy.html?m=1

post=29450832:
Does she love you? There are some behaviors that exhibit how she feels. Keep in mind that these are in general, and this information assumes that your girl is not: addicted, abusive, married, living with someone else, or an outrageous flirt. Once you are clear about those facts, here are the nine signs that speak louder than words:

1. Communication
She calls you often, wants to know what you’re doing, and shares her day’s activities. When you ask about her plans for the evening, or the weekend, or even the whole summer, she doesn’t hedge or put you off. She is open and forthcoming.

2. Exclusivity
When she only wants to see you, and does not give you the “space” talk, as in, “I need my space,” and is not craning her neck to watch other men walk by, you have her attention. She makes it known to you and to everyone else that she does not want to date other people.

3. No Conflicting Messages
She makes you her one and only love interest and does not send you conflicting messages. She does not say things like, “I’m in love with you, you are my soul mate, I can’t live without you…AND…I saw my ex yesterday and I think I still have feelings for him.” This kind of message will drive you crazy. You will feel like the rubber ball attached to the paddle by a slim rubber string, batted back and forth.

4. Family and Friends
She makes plans to introduce you to her family and friends. When you meet them, you realize they already know a lot about you because she has obviously talked about you. Most of them (except the few jealous ones) are warm and friendly and genuinely excited for her that she has found happiness.

5. The Future
When she talks about her plans for the future, she automatically includes you in them. She has places she wants to take you and sights she wants to show you. She follows through on her suggestions. She might also mention marriage and children, if only in an abstract way, to evaluate your reaction.

6. Affirming
She speaks often of how proud she is of you. She does this privately and publicly. She thinks the work you do is the most important thing in the world and loves for you to tell her about what you accomplished during the day. She is happy to help you with your work in any way she can.

7. Gifts
She has noticed what you like, admire, and read, and brings you gifts that reflect what she has observed. The quality of her gift shows the level of her perception about what you like. If she is rich, she may buy you expensive presents. If she is not, she may send cards, books, or poems. If she is not rich and she sends a Porsche or a pricey suit, she’s got some problems. Have the grownup conversation with her about how you don’t like gifts she can’t afford. That would be a very loving thing to do.

8. Touchy
your girl may be the touchy type, which is not the hyper-thin-skinned poor sport, but the warm, snuggly sort. She may show her love and affection by holding your hand when you’re together, giving big long hugs, frequent kisses, and putting her arm through yours. Her favorite date may be a movie at home so she can cuddle up with you.

9. Helpful
Another overt sign of love is how helpful she is. When she does the garbage detail, helps in the yard, helps you prepare a speech, or cooks your favorite meal, she wants to be in your life!
To move these feelings along, and to better understand where she is, ask her what she wants her future to look like. If she has you in it, and a time-line for certain events that bind you together, the ball is in your court. What do you want?

Source http:///74c

drehdinho:
This is a must read.

http://watzdating..com/2015/01/still-dont-know-how-to-get-your-future.html?m=1

Godshand:
Over the recent experiences, it's not far fetched that ladies tend to hunt for guys online now than in the real world. A case study is a situation where you play the role of a humble gentle man online, and before you know, a lady says nice things to you and asks if you have a girlfriend, and from your reply, further questions would follow and at the end, she'll ask if meeting you would be a bad idea. And a smart dude would know where exactly she's driving at with just this.

Guys, what do you say about this? Have you had similar experience? Ladies, is meeting guys for friendship now easy and rewarding than the old method?

Prixus:
Do u realise that of all the relationships u hv had on will ever have only one will be successful? n that's d one that leads to marriage. so my questions r these;
1. y allow someone who is but a person-in-passing make u go thru so much grief in d name of bf/gf
2. y should u becos of one boo or bae or whatever deny u d opportunity of getting to know others beta when they ask u out all in d name of "I'm sorry I have a boo".
3. y should u carry this relationship thingy on ur head so much that it affects every other situation or relationship around u? I've seen young ones who hv fights with their bae n it's like their world has crashed.
4. how can u not realise that true love (like that of ur mum n ur God) never die? u ask a girl at 25 n she has had more than 3 or 4 guys. yet at each time she's dating them she'll tell u "I think I've finally found love". y did it then end?
soon I'll drop a thread telling u how to solve these issues but first lemme hear ur views n opinions.

onila:


she hates the girl, she took her boyfriend from
I don't just understand girls and their ways


I remember one b1tch snatched my friends boyfriend
that the only snatcher I respect and forgave a little
because I don't have sympathy for snatchers

she fell in-love with my girls boyfriend
pple cld see her struggling with her emotions
she cried everyday during the snatching process

when he dumped my close friend for her
she was always nice to my friend
she always gave my friend gifts on her birthday

but other girls
will start being wicked to you, feel so threatened, treat u like trash
after committing the sin, they cant even act right

Gagame:
Women has this desperate acts withing them that they talk to their man almost rudely,imagine she's older than you then seriously you are on your own cos she will want to dictate hw you live.take decisions for u,dis respect ur family members even d senior members of your family cos she will think after all we are all age mates. POINT 1:She must have actually met wit older guys than you are,she might really not respect them cos that's the woman thing,if they can't respect those guys older than you then I'm sorry u r nt exempeted. POINT 2:She probably might have younger onces that their age matches yours,if she can challenge those onces(God help you marry the angry onces)or even raises hands on them and nothing happens then you are sure not exempted. POINT 3:She must have been bleeped so well, wen u two eventually get married she dictates d moods she wants to make love,even when you the man feels wow like I want to make love tonight,I'm sorry she tells you she's tired,do u know why,cos making love means nothing to her,she must have seen bigger D''ks than yours and smaller onces.......folks u can add yours.its my opinion and research.