₦airaland Forum

Lovelink1991:
There was a show of shame among lovers that made people gathered because of the way a lady took over the riding seat of her boyfriend's keke insisting they must continue with the relationship but the man say he nor do again


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oVop5bPRLwA

Thr part where she left with a someone's phone is the breaking point for me...

You took a loaf of bread all the way to Oshodi... #Interesting

Tunzdomains:
Dear Nairalanders and well-meaning Nigerians on this great platform,I am writing this to cry out for assistance and to create a public record regarding a transaction with a well-known moniker on this platform, Bigkoko, who also runs Calm Travels. In June 2024, I contacted him based on a thread he posted here advertising services for a German Sponsorship Letter (Verpflichtungserklärung). After our discussions, I paid him the sum of €1,000 (One Thousand Euros) in July 2024 to execute the service.Unfortunately, he failed to secure the sponsorship letter. After he confirmed he could not deliver, I requested a full refund.
The Issue:Since March 2025, he has given me a continuous series of broken promises, shifting dates, and unfulfilled deadlines to return my money.
At one point, he completely changed his WhatsApp number, leaving me unable to contact him for months until I managed to source his new number back on this platform.
To date, he is still holding onto my €1,000 and giving endless excuses.I have complete records of our WhatsApp conversations spanning from 2024 to present, bank proofs of payment, and all relevant transaction details. [b]My Request:[/b]I am appealing to the Nairaland community, the moderators, and anyone who knows Bigkoko (Calm Travels) to prevail upon him to return my hard-earned money. If you have successfully recovered funds from him before or have advice on the best legal/administrative steps to take against his business entity, please share it with me.


cc: @Justwise @DisGuy @muffins
cc: @Seun @Mynd44 @OAM4J

We will be here waiting for @Bigkoko to coman explain what went south before we make other conclusion.

emmy4real94:
Hello Nairalanders.

So i got my first car however, the former owner told me he was using Total Quartz 20-50
Which is the oil i have just changed to.
But then i just decided to google it and every Ai is saying thats the wrong oil. That it should be 5-20

Im just confused

I use 5w20 and it's been cool all the way...

Zyxsc:
You are going through a phase. Don't fight it.

Soon, you would know when to be this man you're becoming or be the kind-hearted man you used to be (depending on who you're dealing with at a given moment). That, my friend, is where the real strength lies.

Apt!!
I agree with you 100%


#Precise

Many will not be as lucky as Haifa to have people to appeal for them... Never allow stupidity in search of virality

Mallam Gumi vs Megida Idris unfoldimg...

Rubbish such as this should not make it's way to the mass media!!!

This is disgraceful to modern civilization

And we say Gen Zs do not respect elders... A traditional rulers repect is that of honour for the seat/throne and should never be disrespected!!!

May his soul rest in peace...

Let's leave the issue of he bn a yahoo boy aside for now sef... As a human being, he is a very foolish fella!!!

That was one hell of an argument!!!

The matter must have been a very serious one

Rrchrd:
Please someone should recommend a good earpod with bass & lasting battery for me

Get annum version of QCY and also download the QCY app on Playstore for better tuning.

This doctor should be arrested... So, monetary inducement/coercion is termed voluntary donation.

I really see no reason why pallbearers have to dance around with casket of the dead... Bury the dead fella and let everyone move on!!!

I am Just wondering why being with him at his house is a special feat that we should know without giving an inkling to the purpose of the meeting.

bigpicture001:
Mine is about 1.2 million..and people I woe range from friends banks and online platform..

Read about the Asaba guy who poisoned himself because she owes creditors 1.8 million..they are pressurizing and he can't pay..he left a widow..

I once owed about 45m naira... That was the highest for me this far.

Naija prison don tire am...He wants to try that if UK

barackosuco1:
Dear nairalanders,

I am creating this thread with a heavy heart after losing millions of Naira to crypto and I'm completely at my lowest that on several occasions, I've thought of committing suicide but remembering my aged mother who this would greatly affect is why I'm still holding up.

After this loss, I gather the little funds available to get a container which I intend to use for charging and POS but it was not to completely set it up. I have 5acres of land in ilaro which I have registered with the bureau of lands and fenced round. I have tried selling even 1acre from the land to kickstart this business but all to no avail

I have tried to get loans from microfinance bank like lapo and grooming center, all of them are not willing to give loan because it's a new startup and not and existing business

I am humbling calling on anyone interested in buying the land. I just want to sell 1acre

Or if I can see anyone to lend me the sum of #500,000 just for 4months with interest and I'll use the land documents as collateral. I've also built a 3-bedroom flat on the land though still at lintel level, all documents are intact. Please help a brother who is fighting so hard to start life afresh after falling. Thanks so much

Where is your location and would you be willing to use the land as a collateral for the loan provided it is in the city and you have the right/valid land documents?

This is every shade of wrong!!!

All I can I say is; be it a man/woman, flee from every form of abusive relationship before it leads to marriage.... Never ever entangle your heart with an abusive man/woman!!!

I wonder why aunty Phyna is judt speaking out about it!!!

If possible, ensure you sign a mutual consent agreement before embarking in a few mins sexual pleasure that will lamd you in jail abroad!!!

Even though it is not the right thing to do, I love how the brothers treated d matter and came to deal with him... I would have also wozz him plenty slaps before thinking of right/wtong

babatee1985:
Hello house, I am a father of three children and I mistakenly got my wife pregnant again which I don't want and I've told her to let get rid of it because the pregnancy is just two weeks old and it is yet to form but she insisted that she's going to born it.

I told her to reason with me because my salary is just 150k monthly while she teaches in a school. I told her the financial burden will be too much on us but she said no. She said God will provide for us to take care of our children but I'm working with the reality of things and not something that is not certain.

I've been sleeping in my place of work for days now because I'm not happy at all. I'm just confused and I don't know what to do.

Any advice pls?

I was once I'm your shoes... Keep your baby!!!

Sirchiboy:
Be sincere If you could go back to your single age, would you still choose your current partner?

Yes! YEs!! YES!!!

Again and again and over again!!!

Before you choose to go through that phone... Be sure you are mentally ready for whatsoever gets unveiled!!!

Na only God dey protect person for this country laidis... Are we to start packing out cut hair after having a haircut?

MosakuAW:
Who should stand up for Lamine Yamal to sit?


MESSI

MBAPPE

C. RONALDO

NEYMAR

D. RONALDO.

Or is he not ripe yet to be in the picture.

Halland should get a start first while Yamal should keep standing for a while longer before taking a seat.

euniquea:
GRATEFUL HEART 💙🏆
Today marks another remarkable milestone in my journey.

I was privileged to be recognized and officially inducted as one of the Associate Members of one of Nigeria's top real estate companies.

This recognition is a testament to God's grace, consistency, hard work, resilience, and the trust my amazing clients have placed in me.
I am deeply honored and grateful for this opportunity.

Thank you to everyone who has supported, believed in, and encouraged me throughout this journey. This achievement is not the end—it's another motivation to keep growing, learning, and delivering excellence.

Here's to greater heights, bigger accomplishments, and many more milestones ahead! 🥂✨

Congratulations to me! 🎉🏅

#GratefulHeart #Recognition #Induction #AssociateMember #RealEstate #AwardWinningRealtor #Growth #Consistency #NigeriaRealEstate

Congratulations to you on this impressive feat!!!

Reasonable advise at the end... But, ayam not here to judge all the same!!! I will reserve my comments.