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^^ You should know most women thrive on drama. If they dont have any major issues they come up with the most ridiculous things just to get attention

- "The way you look at me, I think you dont like me enough", "Something tells me you prefer other type of women", "You seem so perfect, I have never caught you with anything wrong, That must mean you are cheating and covering your tracks", "You dont use Versace cologne" etc

This woman doesnt have any major issue in her wedding and she wants to create one out of a birthday when she herself said for the past 20yrs no one has ever cared about her birthday, Not father, not mother, not siblings, not friends. But if the husband does the same heaven must fall.

Even though the guy said happy birthday, he didnt say it in a sonorous voice and invite Spice girls to perform at the event

And even when he said he was sorry, he didnt jump from Eiffel tower to show how sorry he was.

Someone already says she can equate it to forgetting food and sex, Well she can as well divorce the guy because he forgot the birthday

coogar: send the statues of the couple---

Statues are still not flesh and bone, maybe they should travel at all cost for the wedding and jeopardize the rest of their lives

Some places in Nigeria give very high regards to traditional wedding, In a case where both ppl cant travel to Nigeria due to Immigration issue which no one knows when it might be resolved, what do you suggest they do in such instance

The guy said Happy birthday when he remembered.

The guy said he was sorry later when she said she didnt like it

What more does she want? A human sacrifice?

If your wife has changed and you dont like the change, Has he talked to the wife? And does the wife thinks its better for her to marry her own mom?

^^ Her friends and family didnt remember to buy her gifts for 20yrs. Has she killed them? Since birthdays matter to her sooo much

Arsenal maybe matters to the Husband So should the husband hold her to task that she cant throw a party for him because Arsenal won a trophy.

This is a clear case of no trouble but strive to find one where none exist.

Some women are usually disturbed when they dont have any wahala in their relationship. This isnt the first time we would be hearing such. Most women thrive on drama. Maybe when she sits with her fellow women who are discussing their marital problem she feels awkward that she has nothing bad to say about her husband

What a Govt.

So retardeen jonathan just realised that he needs to go after their sponsors?

I am certain any 3yr old girl would have thought of that a yr ago

But since we have a perpetually drunk and retardeed president. We are just thinking about that now.

onatisi: becos if he does she will go and tell her mother all that the man has said, the op must have said something about the mother to the daughter and the daughter has told her mother

I mean talk to the wife and if that doesnt work talk Mother in Law himself

^^ Washere. Oshi o da nile pako.

All these mood on top birthday? when there would be another next yr. Maybe she should have killed those friends and families who didnt give her gifts on her birthday for the past 20yrs. So the frustration of 20yrs you wan put am on one man

Seriously, Oshi ko da nile pako gann ni

Bawss1: Then they should get married wherever they are. Picture marriages look pathetic however you try to cut it.

What of the traditional part in Nigeria between both families? Different people have different peculiar circumstance in their lives and I wont go berate them for doing whatever they think its best given their circumstance

[quote author=sasi_malia]Hello everybody, I havent been on NL in a while... Hope all of you are doing just well.

Well, my birthday was 2 days ago and my husband forgot completely, which is not even that big of a deal, I know we both have plenty of things in our minds and we are both a little stressed right now for various reasons, but my aunt called him to have him bring me to her place as her and my sisters had planned a little surprise, [size=18pt]so he then remembered, came down, said happy birthday [/size]then went back upstairs and that was it. We went to my aunt's place, he stayed until it was time for him to get ready for work, then picked me up after work, we got home, he went to his office, and I kind of waited for him but then I heard him doing his computer things so I went to bed. In case you ask, we were fine, our marriage is at its best, and we do not have any major issues in our relationship.

[size=18pt]To be honest, birthdays are usually not a big deal to me, never have. Last time I had a gift or party was over 20 years ago [/size] but we are newlyweds (our first anniversary is in a few days) and I really thought that he would get me even just a birthday card, nothing expensive. His birthday is in a month and a half and I have a been planning a surprise party with family and friends, just to show him in a special way that day that we appreciate him.
I brought it up to him that I was a little hurt that he didn't even put any thought in making me feel at least a little special, [size=18pt]he told me he was sorry [/size]and that was it; I thought to myself that maybe now that he knows how I feel maybe he will try and make it up for it but nothing and that upset me even more but I just kept it to myself since I didn't want keep talking about it. But he kept asking me what was wrong, why I was so quiet, so I told him how even after I mentioned to him that I was kind of hurt, he still didn't seem to care and just moved on and he got upset that I was exaggerating and walked away.[/quote]OP,

When was the last time you had sex, i mean good sex? Do you get laid often? Do you cuu-mm? Cos lack of sexx can cause all these kain crankiness and putting emphasis on meaningless things

From you post you said the below, He said a belated birthday, Later he said he was sorry and you are still sulking

So what more do you expect? For him to jump into River Thames because he forgot your birthday

Women when they don't have major issues in their relationship they try to look for minor ones just to cause some wahala

The guy doesnt cheat, he provides for his family, he isnt a drunk wifebeater, He respects you and your family, and many good things

But the tantrums now is because he forgot your birthday, He didnt close the door properly, He turned the TV too loud?? Niqqaaa pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Maybe the man too should be upset that you didnt celebrate when Arsenal won the game with him, You dont see whats exciting in the Harley Davidson Bike he saw on TV, You are not fanatical about Usain Bolt, You dont like going to gun range etc

The guy is even wondering why you are moody and angry maybe because he didnt understand you are being Juvenile.

You can divorce him for this cardinal crime he committed If that would make you happier

Oshi o da.

[quote author=A-40]http://www.goal.com/en-gb/news/2896/premier-league/2012/08/20/3319274/barcelona-beware-why-alex-song-is-one-of-the-most-overrated

Dr Kit would love this. Personally I think this analyst has a beef with Song! Some parts of his analysis bordered on the asinine. Try pairing Busquets with Aaron Ramsey and let's see how far he would go[/quote]A40, You see what i told you about Song when you were comparing him to Gustavo?

Song is one of the most indisciplined DM in Europe, One or two fancy passes would make you forget all his defensive failings. This article was exactly what I told you about Song 2 weeks ago . Maybe Carlo Garganese comes to NL Bayern thread to read my post

Why you no call the woman and try talk to her

Ask the girls in my area

queensmith: is mayd the tungba gba singer? Aww- the guy is very promising I hope this story isnt true.

but jesu kristi the guy is worwor, kilode! can we not have at least one fine yoruba artist, just one is all i ask one! one! oneeeeeee! ah ah!

You have DBanj, Wizkid, BankyW, Dare, Davido etc

jennykadry: Then they are not ready to be married. If they cannot make things happen, then they are not ready to get married. Is the man in prison? Are they dead?can't they do it in whichever country where they are based? is it by force to do it in Nigeria? If it will take 10 years to make that convenient time then honestly i propose they just move on with their lives and with someone else.

You mean you havent heard of people stuck in Obodo oyinbo and cant travel for 10-15yrs?

I know some guys that havent been able to visit Nigeria since 1997. So you would say both parties shouldnt get married till then?

He has introduced casava bread to solve hunger problems

jennykadry: When I was in Germany, my Edo friend could not travel down to Nigeria for her traditional marriage because the Nigerian embassy in Germany(for a very silly reason )refused to grant her visa. She had to postpone it. People suggested this picture thing and she asked for my opinion then, I told her no one was allowed to represent me on the day of my marriage,same way my picture though relevant is not to be used instead of my physical self as a representative.

For reasons I know we have no control over, the couple might not be able to travel down for the marriage proper , so why not postpone it to a more convenient day when both are present

In cases where the convenient day is 10yrs time or 15yrs time do you still postpone it till then?

Shaqiri got a goal off a free kick and 2 assists in 45mins of play

At this point I think we need to make Shaqiri our only FK taker instead of robben, RIbery and kroos wasting those chances

OP,

Why should the guy whip someone because she didnt drop pussy? Why him sef no sample the thing before saying I do?

The guy Bleep up