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Kobojunkie: It is 2012 and the situation is still terrible.

Tgirl4real: Ok. I get that point. My question is: do they have to do the traditional marriage ceremony at the time? Why can't they do the exchange of engagement materials without the photos?


Someone just posted the same pix I saw. I didn't post it cos I wouldn't like to infringe on other people's privacy.

Kobojunkie: In Africa, Domestic violence remains majorly from the males. Women are still considered PROPERTY in much of Africa and so divorce remains an option that should be avoided in many cases.

There is so much taboo attached with divorce and divorced women(unlike men) are still seen demonized in most African societies, even abroad, that many women are essentially forced to remain in abusive relationships. Pressure from the same society, leads women to marry even the most disgusting of beings called men like the example in this story.

Even when women move to the developed world, the mentality that they are subhumans/property does not leave them in many cases. That is why even here in the US domestic violence still happens in African homes, and many of the cases go unreported in the African communities here.

4llerbuntu: Btw who noticed santi was not looking very impressed by the quality aroud him.? I just hope diaby wont force the guy to ask for a move by january, i dunno how anyone can stay sane playing footie with that wretch called diaby

dayokanu: With the quality I saw in Cazorla, I expect him to demand a transfer by December or latest next summer else he would end up like Arshavin and sue Wenger for false advertising


Definitely Wenger didnt tell him Arsenal was filled with these kind of sankwa players like walcott, Podolski, Giroud,Gibbs, Jenkinson Diaby etc.

A Player joined last week, travelled all the way from Puerto Rico on Thursday, I bet he only trained this morning and he already looked like Maradona was playing with St Finbarrs boys.

What a shame Arsenal has become. In the next 3months Cazorla might even become an Arsenal legend

Pataki: This is preposterous!

bournvita: LMAO@ the word downlow. Is that what you have been doing on sagamite, dayo? whilst at the same time prophesing your undying live for armyofone on this forum?

Kobojunkie: what is down-low? Many a times people are well aware of the se_xual orientation of their partner BEFORE the marriage. That is what I meant.

Kobojunkie: The problem with many cases where people try to use silly things like religion,weight, height,sexual-orientation etc as reason for divorce,

coogar: both of them were at fault - the passes were lethargic, wigan had more possession than chelsea to start with - how many passes did torres receive throughout the 90?
how many passes did he receive in wigan's box? just one pass according to opta!!

coogar: it's baffling he didn't have this problem at the euros with pass masters behind him!

coogar: he won a golden boot having played the least minutes of all the strikers in the tournament.
torres also managed to score in 2 euro finals back to back to help spain defend their title!
i guess that answers your thoughtless question!

coogar: put the ball forward for torres - chelsea's problem is the snail speed they play. chelsea are the slowest team in the league in getting the ball to their lead striker. the lethargic pace is worrying - its like a curse and i don't see that problem going away anytime soon!

coogar: it's not his poor positioning that is the problem but the poor reaction time of the midfielders to thread a pass to torres. he was caught offside like 5 times today when the pass could have been released much earlier. when a striker strays offside as much as torres does, the man in possession must have had instantaneous brain farts before releasing the ball..

coogar: if it was xavi/iniesta behind him today, i have no doubt he would have scored. he had to feed on scraps this afternoon bar the chance that got cleared off the line - and that should have been a penalty as he was sandwiched by 2 wigan defenders before he kicked the ball into an open net! chelsea must find a way to get the best out of him this season!

mithel: Torres style of play is so so annoying .everyone kept saying we should put the ball forward but the question is put the ball forward for who?No player wants to dribble four players only to look up to find torres poorly positioned between 2or defenders instead of preparing for a pass.Its almost like he scared of being passed to.


cant believe we agreed to be playing him for 90 mins just to see him play this nonsense.

his poor positioning puts a lot of pressure on the other players.because we have to think of working the ball for a ivanovic or ramires to become emergency strikers while torres is doing his tete a tete with the opposition players.....his problem is not confidence its poor positioning....

armyofone: Sigh!

I hope the father took his child with him after the dirty slaps that made madam to see passing stars. I think he has no right to slap the wifey. Just take your daughter away in peace.
one thing i pray is not to have family members coming to stay with us (mine or his). Too much hassle and i love my peace of mind.

dayo take note

ileobatojo: I completely concur. Sisikill is absolutely on the money. That was an epic post!

I smack my child sometimes but I can categorically confirm that it is the least effective form on 'discipline' I have ever employed. Growing up, the relative that lived with us who we all dreaded and obeyed the most never once laid a hand on us. We need to rethink what we know as discipline and see where we can make it better. Most times, you beat people to defuse your own anger when you can get away with it. If this girl in question was a tall, muscular, rough, 14yr old boy, how would she address the problems with him? Bullies indeed.

Smacking can be used when appropriate with your own children (even is allowed in the US legally) but to be going around smacking other people's children unnecessarily is another thing.

coogar: they are the best football team of all times - the brazil 1970 team don't have the quality of players this current barca squad has got! messi, xavi, iniesta, busquets, villa, etc
the gap between barca and arsenal is like tottenham and ashanti kotoko!

coogar: going there to replace seydou keita! busquets would still be preferred but song has more talents in his locker as he can be an effective centre back to replace an ageing puyol and a shakira pussywhipped piqué!

good signing for barcelona - but it shytes on duduface's youth philosophy! arsenal is now a youth development factory. wenger grooms the chickens for the wolves to snap!!!
next season, fergie would come for jack wilshere or koscielny!