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APGA and Biancar who Killed Ezeyibo Wuruwuru ooo

Looks like some PDP do or die have infiltrated APC

The tribe that cant stay in the region would suffer most since they would be forced to return home

^^ You saw the part I put in bold. And I put it in bold intentionally

Its wrong for any partner to leech on another. Anyone who does it is a lazy bone as its common with a lot of naija women and some men are starting to follow that trend

Its a marriage both parties are expected to do their part, not Monkey dey work Baboon dey chop

The same thing I would tell the man if it was his issue. Give the Spouse just what is needed to survive and nothing more, any luxury you only do at your discretion you are not mandated to.

And if it gets too much separate. No one is another ones slave

bukatyne: Lol!

Dayo and Naija ladies!

What kind of relationship operate these days?

Don't the couple know each others' pocket and capability?

The woman has more than the man, is it not automatic she foots more of the bill and vice versa?

If the man must foot more of the bills, the woman should not complain if he doesn't see the necessity in helping her in the chores in future

You see what i am always talking about

If you want to be traditional then be traditional and never expect your man to wash plates or clean

How can you say you want to visit your boyfriend and ask him to foot the bill like you are doing him a favour?

Its the same bring bring bring leech mentality that has always held down naija girls from time. They would say other races men help their wifes but you dont see women from other races waiting for the man to pick their bills.

dontgivafuck: My dear get this which u have failed to get: It is d responsibility/Duty//obligation of the Husband to take care of his wife n kids Intoto no exceptions be u muslim/xtian/trad worshipper/jewish/Atheist

D only person being hypocritical on this thread is YoU for equating d financial obligations of a man in marriage to that of a Woman. A man must do his Duty by his wife n kids n woman has no such Obligations. Based on this particular premise wch is as true n infallible as night n day according to all man made laws n religious/traditional ones all these Rubbish u re spewing here abt if d roles were reversd are balberdash.

If u are so pained by the natural benefits women get by the virtue of their sex then go for a sex change or much easier migrate to india where a woman will marry u n u rear kids for her n she will take care of U

This is exactly what I am talking about. You also forget that no religion said men and women are equal. The Bible expressly called men the head of women and requires women to submit 100% without reservation. So if you choose to follow the bible follow it 100%

Its the women who would claim they are not equal to men in responsibilities In the same vein still claim women are equal to men in benefit. What hypocrisy

Im not surprised anyway Its the same adabeke looking for a man that would take care of her

Katsumoto: Boredom. I was just going thru and caught the battle between coogar and Dayo. I am not a fan of manure.

I told you its the Friday special. Fear not

So its possible to have Germany Holand on the same group

CFCfan: That guy deserved the goals. He's been a beast all season.

Belgium will definitely be seeded for the world cup.

Not Surprised at the bolded shebi na Chelsea/EPL fan

Phema: Yes! I've zero tolerance for leeches with wasteful attitude ontop of it all.

I, A woman, won't sit at home, do nothing to help the family financially and then lavish my husband's money. Its a very bad attitude.

For every man that do this, we have 60 women who do exactly the same

StateOfMind: Paid house rent for 2years, lent him 2.5 mill for business that went down the drain? Sought different job applications for him? Encouraged him to continue his education and retake his failed exams? Even offered to pay? Paid no dime for her post natal? Yet she's still giving him access to her account, he withdraws anyhow from her account with her atm cards, transfers money online as he pleases. N now a working class woman is broke just because of a leech she calls husband. Yet, she has remained 'submissive' by not withdrawing all these privileges.


Tell me how many husbands would do all of these to their housewives? Tell me if you can allow your own sister or daughter working her fingers to the bone make ends meet to be drained this much by a man.


Come on, be real!

WHich of the above dont Nigerian men do to their wifes regularly?

is it sponsoring their education totally from secondary school till masters?

Paying rents for all their life? Opening shops for their wifes yet still have access to every money in the house?

If it were a housewife you all would come up with excuses . Now the shoe is on the other foot see vexing

The bottom line is its bad for any partner to leech on another permanently whether man or woman

I would see the next housewife thread and responses from the same posters on this thread who are threatening fire and brimstone

coogar: how come big clubs are never silly & desperate to sign african players with such transfer fees? that's the window you guys are not looking at it from.

Mamadou Diarra was bought for how much?

it's not anyone's fault okocha was never discovered but that should not mean his natural talents should be rubbished just because he never made it to a top team?

aren't there geniuses that are unemployed or working low-skilled jobs? so because one doesn't work for any FTSE company means one isn't intelligent? some arguments are not even worth debating....

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And genuises working low paying jobs is because of their skin colour

Katsumoto: No one is apportioning blame here. Only explaining that the rule for European players is not the same as the rule for African players. There are two many reasons for this. The best ice hockey players in Canada are known. The best BBallers in the USA are known, the best European footballers are known - because development and talent searching are well developed for those sports in those countries. If you have an interest and you are good, you will get noticed. Talent is noticed from junior leagues and school competitions in those places for those who are interested. But in Africa, no one knows the best players or sprinters etc because its takes luck to get discovered in those places. Lua Lua and Okocha were discovered playing street football; Ilombe Mboyo was discovered playing in a Belgian jail. If he had opportunities in the first place, he wouldn't have gone to jail.

Its the same all over the world. In Nigeria football is played on every street. If you excel your local club picks you then the state then federal then you go international

Taiye taiwo started from street football he excelled and went to Pako Stadium in Iyana Ipaja from there to jeun jeun to local league (Lobi, Gabros etc) from there to Europe

Its possible his parents would have discouraged him just like many Caucasian parents might have or something derailed him like many other parents would

dademola: dts we shud focus on d knwn ones instead of d obscure "would-have-beens"!! It isnt anybody's fault dt okocha's skills neva caught d interest of any big club! Dts just d truth

I watched a program on ESPN when they said in the mid 80's a Basketballer who could have been better than Jordan was shot dead.

So we can also say some Ballers who could have put Jordan and Lebron to shame are probably in jail, In warfront or crippled by bullets

Everyone knows one footballer in his neighbourhood who "plays better than Messi"

Katsumoto: My point is that its not in all situations where everyone gets an equal chance. The best players in Europe and South America get maximum exposure but thats not the case with Africa. How many European players have been discovered playing football as illegal immigrants such as Okocha and Lua Lua? Football development is still very poor in Africa and as such you can't say the best players make their way to the best leagues.

And that is the same for everyone in the whole world.

Would a boy born in a Detroit project have the same opportunity as one born in a Rich suburbs?

Among the british there are some rich kids who might be better than Rooney but whose parents would only steer him towards academics or to be a Doctor

So to what end is this argument. Everywhere in the world this same scenario holds for everyone.

With slightly different upbringing Usain Bolt could have been a Doctor, Rooney a pharmacist, Obama a rapper and Jonathan a kidnapper

Katsumoto: So your point is that the best African players are the ones that get selected to play in Europe? Ok

So your point is the smartest kids are in Ife, Cambridge, Harvard Yale etc?

Couldnt there have been a smarter kid whose parents didnt pay attention to, or was made paralysed by gangs

Were Awolowo, Obama Clinton etc the best administrator of their country? COuldnt there have been a better man somewhere farming instead of being interested in politics?

coogar: your examples keep making you look like a fool. if henry was white british like gareth bale, you mean he wouldn't have won the ballon d'or? compare henry to michael owen that won it in 2001.

You are very senseless. Awards are given for performances within a yr. It doesnt matter if henry is a better player What matters is who was the better player in the yr under consideration. Ribery won the UEFA best player, Is he better than Ronaldo or Xavi No the fact is that during the yr under consideration Ribery was better nothing to do with the players skin or aesthetic appeal.

In 2001 Owen was better than henry. Owen won the UEFA cup, put up a heros performance in the FA cup when Henry was woeful

of course, denilson is from cameroon & ivory coast. how come no african player has broken the record signing? we have not produced anyone as good as denilson? a douchebag of your size should clean the vülva of a pregnant elephant.

Because Africa does not have any player that good. if a player like Weah is available now he would be commanding high fees.

Essien and Drogba were commanding 25-30m almost a decade ago

they worked thrice as hard to get to those awards. owen is not even 1/3 as good as these african players and yet won the award. can you not see the stupidity in your argument?

The tripe you posted deserves no response. Show any year an African was outstanding and got overlooked for awards

you are a typical autistic kid...
stop looking at it from the bottom. look at it from the top. who's the better player between etoo & owen? how did owen win it & drogba, etoo or even henry never did?

Because owen didnt contend with Messi and Ronaldo that Drogba had to deal with

The best student in my UNILAG in 2003 might be inferior to the 5th best in 2009. Still doesnt change he was the best in his year.

so there was no point in europe when etoo was easily the best striker? were you born stüpid? who did better in europe than etoo as a striker between 2004 & 2006?

You keep displaying the stupidity poster with pride. Is the award for strikers alone? Between 2004 and 2006 regardless of what Etoo did, Ronaldinho was always the better player. I have surely seen smarter gorrilas than this tool

your IQ is in the pits....
who argues this way for fück's sake? when caroll became the record signing for an english player, lambert wasn't even in the premier league then. i'm starting to think you are a human-mutt.

Was carroll the best English player when he commanded the highest British transfer fee or were others not whiter than him? Morron

worked their way where?
how much lower would this morön sink talking about working their way? so bebe worked his way to man utd? it's not sometimes about opportunities but purely hardwork?

you should hang yourself for polluting the webspace with your stüpidity. i am quite sure you think djemba djemba was better than okocha in 2003 circa.....djemba also worked his way to united, didn't he??




of course - bebe got there via his world class performance. then you have boulahrouz, oshea, buttner, badstuber, karbayisoon, dong fangzhou, etc. they have both won the player of their continent award before they were all signed by their respective top clubs.

ronaldo = opportunity + hardwork
okocha = hardwork + no opportunity.
bebe = opportunity + no hardwork.

how you managed to graduate from a citadel of learning without deductive & cognitive reasoning is a travesty. you are a fool of epic proportions.

there are millions of top players than all the top clubs can take. it then means some excellent players would be left out. the top clubs will not sign everyone. was okocha not better than mikel? how come united/chelsea entered a transfer war on mikel & no one did for okocha?

there is opportunity & there's hardwork....if you now think bebe became a united player via hardwork then i pray fervently you leave this planet without procreating. your idiotic genes should die with you.

Top clubs look for players who fit their profiles. They are not there for charity or to balance ethnicity

Mikel from the same ethnic group as Okocha attracted top clubs why didnt the ethnic card work for him.

Okocha was simply not talented enough to play for a top club

You cant tell us no top club knew about Okocha, Yet none was interested in signing him

State of mind

Did you read the NB at the bottom of my post? That's my official position about the issue. The first statementin the NB.

also we have million of men who sponsor their wifes education 100% from university.

How many men have turned paupers because of their lazy wife who refused to get a job and still want expensive clothes and jewelries

Katsumoto:

Okocha dey play ball. Do you think the most talented African or South American players are the ones playing in Europe?

I know the most talented ones are playing monkey post in Aba or doing omo onile in Ajah

That argument you're pursuing is a futile one. Just like saying John is smarter than Einstein only that he was not lucky or witches deyy Chase am

^^^Would you be in support of a man who does exactly the same to a non working wife?

Katsumoto: Na wa for Dayokanu -

Okocha is a baller.

Awards you win and teams you play for are also dependent on externalities that are beyond your influence. Luck, destiny, exposure, etc. all come into play.

Destiny and luck are issues for TB Joshua and MFM to resolve ; d

@stillwater who told you housewives don't spend anyhow. Is it because men don't come to complain? Infact it's these housewives that spend more because they don't know what it takes to make money they would be quick to tell you that how much is 100k.

I'm sure for one woman carrying the whole financial burden there are 50 men doing the same

The moment a woman does it then the whole world would hear.

coogar: that assertion is the most idiötic ever. so you want to tell me there are no good players tied to their mid-table clubs better than some of the players in bayern & dortmund in bundesliga?

big clubs won't sign every good player in any league. if you are dumb enough to think richard dunne wasn't better than john o'shea just because oshea was signed by man utd, then you have plumbed more depths of idiocy than any autistic kid in the world could ever manage in 10 lifetimes.

man utd isnt the only top club, there are at least 20 top clubs in Europe. if Okocha over the span of 15yrs didnt get any top club to sign him yet they are queing for Drogba, Toure and weah then blame him

coogar: what has gareth bale ever achieved in his career? league? champions league? world cup? you are pissing in the wind.



bale - white british
young - black british
valencia - black foreigner.

Thierry henry Black foreigner - 6 times PFA team of the year 2 PFA player of the year award. Maybe he was white british when he was winning all these awards in England


check the hierarchy yourself and stop pissing in the wind.

bale is british, you idiöt!
you think bale would have been worth £20m if he was born in kosovo?

Denilson was a world record signing and Black non European you tool

and they have won 2nd best footballers in the world like beckham did or they won ballon d'or like michael owen? they are working thrice as hard to be where they are - if falcao/cavani are english, they would be valued more than ronaldo/messi are - gareth bale has proven that already.

George Weah WPOTY, Samuel Etoo 3rd FIFA WPOTY. None of these are white nor British

bale = almost twice of ozil in value. are their abilities proportionate to their value?

As at last season Etoo was the highest paid footballer in Europe Is he not as Black as Okocha?

you are a tool for making this statement...
if okocha was born in manchester, he would have been top 3 in his peak years.

Etoo was born in Yaounde he made top 3, Kanu was born in Owerri he made Top 9 Same with Drogba, Weah was born in Moronvia he was Number 1.

Its only failures who throw the race card

of course, he won 4 ballon d'ors and his value in europe at a time was €100m.

Stupidity runs in your platelets. How many human have won 4 Ballon D or? if Etoo was the best they would give him the same way they gave Weah who is even blacker than all of them

of course, drogba & toure won 6 ballon d'ors each and are both valued at £250m each. you are even shooting yourself with these idiotic examples. with the amount of skills toure & drogba possess, they should be worth thrice as much as gareth bale!!!

You must be a morron to bring up that excuse. What does transfer fee have to do with anything? Denilson had a higher transfer fee than fellow Brazilians like Ronadinho or Ronaldo Lima. Andy Carroll transfer fee is higher than Rickie Lambert Maybe because carrol is whiter than lambert

you are a fool - which of the africans you mentioned here never played for a big club? weah(almighty milan), etoo(barca), drogba(chelsea), toure(barca & city) whilst okocha plied his trade at low level clubs like (frankfurt & bolton)

You must be a consumate leprechaun. Were Toure, Etoo, Weah etc born in those clubs? Didnt they work their way there? Why cant Okocha do the same? I guess Ppl born in Ugwashi Uku are more black than those born in Yaounde, Moronvia and Abidjan

you are a consummate rëtard!
i don't need to say anything more to this. if you do not believe nationality & club play a huge role in these awards then you are more idiotic than i thought. considering the fact i didn't give you much originally, you must be in the sewers in the punditry of hygienic environment.

You are a morron!!!! How do players get to play for top clubs? Were they born there? isnt it a result of their performances?

WHy is Ronaldo not in Lisbon why is he in madrid? it must be because he is white thats why Madrid bought him.

Top clubs buy top players regardless of their colour. A Liberian played for AC Milan the top club of the time. that has eroded any conspiracy racist theory

If Okocha was any good top clubs would buy him the same way they queued up to buy Etoo, Drogba Yaya, and Weah

Okocha cant play shiit. he is only good for commercials

I have read this thread and can just laugh. The same women who would argue for a housewife that the husband should do everything

They argue cleaning and cooking is a job on his own

Now they have a man cooking and cleaning for the woman to bring in the bacon solely has now become wahala.

Abi where are all those people?

Now a man with no job has to be denied his conjugal rights. Maybe you should just divorce him to make things easier. I hope jobless women too would have no right to demand for sex from their husband. A job is your ticket to sex with your spouse Nowadays, As Greatgid would say, May God help us
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NB: I am never in support of any partner in a marriage being lazy or playing househusband/housewife Just that its funny seeing people who usually condone that act from women now vexing when the shoe is on the other foot

Isnt marriage for better for worse?

coogar: david beckham is simply a hype generated by the english media. if he's nigerian, he wouldn't even make the super eagles team. how come finidi george(who's supremely more talented than beckham) never made it to the top 300 of footballers in europe?

if berbatov was english, he would be valued @ £200m because there would be a massive hype from the media about him. that's the way football works in europe. the british hype gassed gareth bale up & he suddenly became £86m in value. is bale better than nani or even nasri? you either come from a big footballing country or play for a big club to reach those top 10 heights.

Berbatov? What has he ever achieved in his career or done? Whether at Neverkusen, Spurs Manure or Fulham aside playing like a premature child

When in the same EPL Bale won PFA player of the year twice and was in PFA team of the year 3 times, How many times did Valencia or Young make it.

Bale came from neither a top country nor a top club, Valencia has been playing at a top club for over 4yrs yet no one ranks him higher than Manga Mohammed.

Cavani, Falcao two of the top 5 most expensive footballers are neither from great clubs nor from great footballing countries

okocha is 50,000 times better than beckham but he won't get near becks on the player ranking cos he's nigerian & his best shot was playing for bolton fc. tony valencia of 09/10 that destroyed bayern munich at old trafford was head & shoulders better than beckham of 98/99 season - all the wingers we have had in the senior team since beckham left are all better as well including ashley young.

Its only those playing Monkey post football that would say Okocha was worth anything in football.

Etoo is camerounian is he not one of the top strikers of his generation ?

Same with Yaya Toure, Drogba are these not Africans? Didnt Weah win WPOTY as a Freaking Liberian?

Its when some people are incompetent that they usually play the dumb race card. Is Okocha more African than Etoo, Weah, Toure, Drogba that get worldwide acclaim

Soon we would hear if Ahmed Musa was Caucasian he would bench Hazard

♛AndrERush♛:
It's a bit harsh to say they won't make the reserve bench. but one thing I know for sure is that they won't start at most European teams.

By Top teams lets look at it In Barca. Iniesta, Neymar Pedro and Sanchez are on the bench and better than valencia

At Bayern Robben, Ribery, Shaqiri, Muller, Gotze are options on the wing, tell me where valencia/Ashley Young would rank

At Madrid Ronaldo, Di maria, Bale, Isco are wing options, Where would Valencia/Young rank

At Chelsea Hazard, Mata, De bruyne, Willian, Schurrle are options on the wings, where would Valencia/Ashley Young rank

If it was the girl who said she wanted to see him, Does she also pay the fares?

All these I never chop mentality among naija babes sha.

He would shout that the Niger Delta is abandoned,

When he too gets some largesse from the govt he also abandons the Niger Delta