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essentialone:
This lady in my house, a neighbour. She lives alone and should be in her late 20s. I'm staying alone too but my girlfriend comes around.
This lady and I never speak. We just greet. One day, she came to me to ask for a loan of Ghc 400 to handle an emergency, promising to pay the following week. She also added that I give her my number, so she sends it via mobile money when she gets it.
That same evening she came for the money and my number, she started texting me on WhatsApp. Her first message was "Thanks for coming through for me Hun". The next day, she sent me a nak€d picture of herself, after she saw that I had viewed it, she quickly deleted it and said it was a mistake. She continued texting, just normal texts, but she always used words like; dear, hun, boo etc". The week passed and she didn't mention my money. Instead she sent her n¿de again and quickly deleted after viewing it, that was the second time.
I didn't say anything. In the fourth week, I asked her about my money and she said the following week.
A day after that she brought me good, saying she prepared something and wanted to shade with me. I didn't even eat it. Next evening, she came knocking on my door around 11pm. No one was outside, she said she wanted me to do something on her phone. As I took her phone to find out what, she said mosquitoes were biting her so she wanted to come inside and I let her. She quickly grabbed my manh00d when she entered, I got pissed and sent her away.
She has since then been flooding my dm with her n¿des. Always begging that she wants me to give her chance. Till now she hasn't paid my money too.
Could it be she likes me for real, or she just wants s€×× or she doesn't want to pay my money?
I'm not interested in her, so I won't touch her but I'm just curious. Finally, what do i do about her cuz I really want my money back.

It is a set up, as soon as you sleep with her she won't pay, and I am sure she might want to accuse you of rape. Collect your money first

enemyofprogress:
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One thing I know is that na everybody Papa and Mama be best in the world, it doesn't matter how they act or behave in the society.

Bros confront am but in a matured way sha, there is a possibility that he is not aware and na those him guys spoil am without his knowledge. Just let him know and don't expect he will admit sha based on his kind of person. If you confront him now, him go know him boundary and incase you refuse am next time him go know say na him Bleep up. And your own mind too go free instead of just keeping it to yourself and dying in silence.

Just calm down, so far they allow you enter, just lock up and incase them ask tell them the reason but just focus since you don reach already

In the nearest future the useless lady go dey stress her husband and spiritual people upandan say she no see pikin born abi. God dey sha and will reward her accordingly.

What i will just advise is you find someone who has a skill for a kinda of business you have some ideas on but the person is not financially buoyant, you sponsor the business and come to an agreement including a lawyer and surety, and be inspecting when you have the chance and always follow up on both daily and weekly basis to ensure the business is moving as expected...

Kaiiiiiii, nawa ooo. Bros you need space. This your wife needs deliverance. I will say you should not give up on her and continue pray and fast so she can break free from the yoke she found herself. For now avoid their family if possible and send money for your children's upkeep making your children understand that you're going out to hustle and give them a better life, though don't allow them to stay too long around there. Its well ooo

Never saw it from this angle, this is very true also...
Bravo...

Enjoy ooo

When you tell us the full gist we will advise accordingly.

i see no reason why your boss and colleagues will hate you at the same time except if you are lazy or complains or give excuses too much and dont meet up as expected if not why will your boss hate you and love others. Bros there is something you are not telling us ooo.....You better brace up and face reality

Haba bros, can you just listen to yourself, am sure they use jazz join but the jazz don dey fade that's why you are complaining, if not you would brace up and stop this rubbish. I take God beg you stop this stupid gesture right away if you want your peace and happiness back. Its well with you oooo

Oga, Photography and ring is very important o. If you wan cut cost tell the photographer to snap 20-50 correct picx based on your budget then get a nice ring too....Cheers

Na you cross oo, so carry am oo. At the end of the day if things no work as plan you go say na we give u such advise and u go wan hold us responsible. Cheers

Ningen:
So we still have scientists in this country?

E shock me too ooo

This people funny, vote of confidence on SECURITY MATTERS? Una no kuku dey Nigeria nah....Awon ode gbogbo

As an IT officer too, i will advise you keep your current job. Govt jobs go make your brain under utilized, na to dey print letter headed payer and prepare power point upandan you go dey do. Think am wella sha ooo

Una never see anything. Shebi na una vote am to power.

You guys where packing both humans and spirit just to hype the vote and you now complaining.

Please enjoy it, while it last.

No be today them begin disgrace themselves so its not a new thing ooo

Stand your ground oo, a failed relationship is better than a marriage filled with regrets. If you get married, know that you will carry the cross for the rest of your life

mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.

I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.

If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).

You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.

You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*

Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened.

Matured minds only.....Well done

Akinsoladwayne:
Hi everyone! So I was at my brother's house yesterday and could you believe his wife cooked rice for me and served me with a meat I mean just a meat.

This is the person that knows how choosy I could be when it comes to eating.

I'd recall vividly before my brother married her, then when I visit my brother at his place I do the cooking and the least meat/fish I'd always dish my food with could be two or three.
But I have been wondering how on earth would she serve me her in-law with just a meat.
This is an insult of the highest order, like I'm gonna need to call my brother's attention to it.

Well at the end of the day I had no choice than to eat the food like that with the one meat she served me. The food self no sweet.

If you like bant me, it's none of my fuvking business.

Olodo, you go visit them empty handed for this pandemic and still get mouth to complain of one meat. May God have mercy on you