| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by KLINMANN(m): 2:27pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
KingZaddy:
you got good points...
your ex is pained when she doesnt see signs of you missing her.
stop being constant online (whatsapp facebook)
dont chat her up
when you make posts let them be business related (life progress)
celebrate birthday of other friends and make sure your captions dont smell of emotional hurts spot on bro and if you got them on whatsapp, read there status if you have been doing that before the breakup, ignoring it after breakup shows you are pained. 8 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Chirowman(m): 2:28pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
thats good |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by 12345baba(m): 2:28pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
U for just bullet point these and save us d stress |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by alaira(m): 2:28pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
My boots! Don't give a hoot!! |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by baysan(m): 2:29pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Tonalphs:
why keep their number in the first place? all those won't be needed if u cut all ties in the first place. mind you, no enmity. but I'm not just keeping ur number or fb details We are on the same page |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Gabflex: 2:30pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Blackmoran:
Me and one of my ex girl are still friend on facebook, I was on line this particular day saw her timeline boldly written "I DONT NEED A MAN, Am INDEPENDENT".. I my mind just shake my head, cause its been years I heard from her last... Between 15min of reading her post, she inbox me privately, starting with casual greetings, for my mind I know this is not normal.... To cut the story short , she was begging me to assist her With her school fees, that exam was approaching... I didn't even reply her I just logout.... see wickedness 1 Like |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Dayonsky(m): 2:30pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.
I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.
If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).
You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.
You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*
Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened. Matured minds only.....Well done 1 Like |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Gabflex: 2:32pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
yyba:
may coronavirus and dangerous thunder locate my ex and her parents immediately .   dem collect bride price without giving u the girl? why u dey hot? |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by COOL10(m): 2:32pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
omoiyamayor:
lol sexism is another problem in Nigeria, some people believe only men are wise or can make sense. #NoToSexism What brought about this your statement now? Some people just like to create something out of nothing. What concerns his mistake with sexism? Do you even know the meaning of sexism? 13 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by boyjo: 2:34pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.
I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.
If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).
You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.
You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*
Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened. Lies! If e no dey pain you, how come you dey notice am? |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Wolgrace:
Hey miss! Did you actually compose it? I doubt. |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Beedude(m): 2:36pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Wizywiz:
Same thing i always, ignore and overlook..no calls no chats infact i delete everything about my ex ....i was surprise to see her call earlier this year..after 5 years telling me she wish me unfruitful marriage with my wife..that i wil never enjoy any woman except her that she loved me so much that i will come back to her that she is d only one made for me...imagine after 5 years...i taught she would hav been married by now..because of the way she carries herself then...i never altered a word while she was ranting..i only allowed her finish .then i replied thank you..takia...put off the call and blocked d number again...why hasnt she gotten over me? I believe she hasn't gotten over u cos u accepted enough shits from her and probably she pushed u beyond limit. Now she has tested other guys and seen the difference. Will like to hear about ur story. U mind sharing? modified : story seen 14 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Bahddo(m): 2:36pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
If you want your ex to know you have moved on, then you haven't moved on.
When you truly move on, it would no longer matter what they think. 58 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Dayonsky:
Matured Mature minds only.....Well done
1 Like |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Brushstrokes20: 2:38pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
When I'm done, I'm done!
# EX don't EXist in my dictionary! 3 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by BizBayo: 2:38pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Dayonsky:
Matured minds only.....Well done
'Mature minds only', has another meaning in Nigeria o  2 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Futurejoy(f): 2:38pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Wizywiz:
Same thing i always, ignore and overlook..no calls no chats infact i delete everything about my ex ....i was surprise to see her call earlier this year..after 5 years telling me she wish me unfruitful marriage with my wife..that i wil never enjoy any woman except her that she loved me so much that i will come back to her that she is d only one made for me...imagine after 5 years...i taught she would hav been married by now..because of the way she carries herself then...i never altered a word while she was ranting..i only allowed her finish .then i replied thank you..takia...put off the call and blocked d number again...why hasnt she gotten over me? You don’t need to bother about why she hasn’t gotten over you, you should be grateful that you didn’t marry a bitter person 11 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by murtalaa(m): 2:42pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Wizywiz:
Same thing i always, ignore and overlook..no calls no chats infact i delete everything about my ex ....i was surprise to see her call earlier this year..after 5 years telling me she wish me unfruitful marriage with my wife..that i wil never enjoy any woman except her that she loved me so much that i will come back to her that she is d only one made for me...imagine after 5 years...i taught she would hav been married by now..because of the way she carries herself then...i never altered a word while she was ranting..i only allowed her finish .then i replied thank you..takia...put off the call and blocked d number again...why hasnt she gotten over me? she probably just had another break-up and was shopping from old exes to see if she can rekindle old flame. 18 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Dreyton36: 2:43pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
5 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by TripA(m): 2:43pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
i wish my ex can see this I broke up mutually with a girl last year ....we were crazy about each other but shit started going bad at home I was in a financial mess ..I couldn't balance school Hussle and the babe one had to go I was explaining all this at that was when she was bringing marriage after school I was like hold up babe I'm young and I told her we could be friends ...she no hear I just went off .it hurt me a lot but when I pulled the trigger omo na epistile everyday on top WhatsApp I can't block her that her way of getting over it at one point I was considering asking her back my guys advised against it ....till she stopped and boom matter enter status ...till she hit me up on my birthday was cool till she satrted again last Las na block she block me....an tempted to call just to ask how far cause I see her as a good friend 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by tydi(m): 2:44pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
In summary : Don't hate nobody! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by JasperVII(m): 2:46pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Exactly. I agree |
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| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Expresswriter: 2:49pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Whaaat! This post is super dope!
Wisdom at work, here...
God bless you, Mhizgracie |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Megaflex(m): 2:49pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Me and my ex broke up last year April, i married this year April and she has been broken ever since. She calls me once in a while and we talk normally. She thought I was cheating on her with my present wife but I told her it's not like that. I met my wife September 1 and we're now married. She has a guy now and wish she didn't broke up with me because her guy no be am.
LESSON: Try to be patient in a relationship 21 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by GodPunishBiafra: 2:51pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
[s] mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.
I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.
If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).
You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.
You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*
Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened. [/s][s][/s] This is your own opinion but honestly, IT DOES NOT MAKE SENSE TO ME. 2 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Salako01(m): 2:53pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Otii4god:
You nko? You don marry bros? If you like dey dia b deceiving yourself, no marry d babe Lol, we don't read association of Nairaland 4 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by TGON(m): 2:54pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Blackmoran:
Me and one of my ex girl are still friend on facebook, I was on line this particular day saw her timeline boldly written "I DONT NEED A MAN, Am INDEPENDENT".. I my mind just shake my head, cause its been years I heard from her last... Between 15min of reading her post, she inbox me privately, starting with casual greetings, for my mind I know this is not normal.... To cut the story short , she was begging me to assist her With her school fees, that exam was approaching... I didn't even reply her I just logout.... kikikiki....badt guy...na d way b dah |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Ola17: 2:57pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
1 Like |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by diziki: 2:58pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.
I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.
If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).
You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.
You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*
Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened. That's right. |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by akaahs(m): 3:01pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Wizywiz:
Same thing i always, ignore and overlook..no calls no chats infact i delete everything about my ex ....i was surprise to see her call earlier this year..after 5 years telling me she wish me unfruitful marriage with my wife..that i wil never enjoy any woman except her that she loved me so much that i will come back to her that she is d only one made for me...imagine after 5 years...i taught she would hav been married by now..because of the way she carries herself then...i never altered a word while she was ranting..i only allowed her finish .then i replied thank you..takia...put off the call and blocked d number again...why hasnt she gotten over me? Almost in d same shoes as U. Mine is now 5 years and still counting. She broke up with then because I wouldn't allow her manipulative tendency to marry her on the pretense of so many suitors who are more handsome and eager to give her what she wants. This is 5 years now, she has not marry and each time she meets my friend, she's always making them know am d one that broke up with her and never cares to check on her. 7 Likes |
| Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Brodello: 3:02pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.
I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.
If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).
You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.
You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*
Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened. This wonderful piece took about 2 months to get to the front page. 3 Likes 1 Share |
