hottest111:


" only INSECURE LAME GUYS,ASK GIRLS OUT"
like i said, dat's big trash. You re advising dis guys not 2 ask girls out.
so what shld they do instead ?.. He shld beat about bush right ?? guy u'r big learner.
dis is y most guys get friend zoned. or after beating about d bush n playing GAMES , he still didn't get d girl.
Guys, here is my advice....If u meet a new girl n after interacting with her u feel she d ONE. please ask her out in a confident and self assured manner. Let her know what u want 4rm her.

Many girls, Don't want to be asked out.. They want the title: Dating to be attached to their interaction wit you.
They just want to enjoy interacting with you and going with the flow.

The moment you ask them out, ,it puts pressure on the relationship.
It makes it seem as if you need something from they that they are doing you a favour providing. Or it makes them feel like they have to be boxed into a structure with restrictions, losing the freedom that they cherish.

Not asking a girl out does not automatically translate into being put in the Friendzone. It depends on how you play your game and How exactly to play that Game is what HARDDON is teaching here.

Anyone using this phone?

Any Issues experienced?

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djlaqua91:
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Sometimes it's good to listen to your Guts when betting, I remember how many times i hovered over that match looking at it, Wanting to bet it X/Benfica and over 1.5 but my mind kept saying "Bros leave that Benfica Match, Bros leave that Benfica Match"

As for Venlo
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chiefkpokp:


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lankykid:


even if I try to make tinz up, that chats just pop in my head... did he lay her? did he not? at times she clearly say stuffs that she misses me. I got a call from her few mins after posting this msg... she did told me this eve she had a good day, only that she missed me... probably because I gave her a treat yesterday... tanx for ur advice sir

yea it will haunt you,

He probably did and if he hasn't yet then one small quarel between you two and she will fall into his arms.

You need to clear your head from that girl and that involves cutting off communication. She misses you because you both had something, doesn't mean she won't sleep with the guy when the chance comes.

Keep away, talk to other girls, get your independence back

lankykid:


I posted this hours ago, and I was asked by someone to post her too. pls guys, what ya say

The girl clearly wants to be free. She is no longer satisfied or happy in the relationship.

Now first thing first, As difficult as it might be to actually do; Don't blame yourself.

Secondly, it might be difficult at first, very difficult and very painful but you have to cut yourself off from the girl. Reduce the calls you make to her (You might also notice that she won't even notice and won't call you for a while if you stop calling), make sure you don't see her, infact stop picking her calls.
Don't believe that doing all this would bring her back, no, You're doing it to set yourself free.

The girl has already started falling for the other guy and when next they meet, something is going to happen between them. Don't doubt.

Read books, engage yourself in other things and even when you feel your mind is drifting towards her never fall to the temptation of calling her, thinking that all you have to do it try harder. It won't work.

alexjohnson4945:
sometimes i just ask myself, why me?

I see you're still down, it's expected, the wound is still fresh.

What's the update? Have you spoken to her since then?

Sometimes you don't talk too much.

"I would like to talk to you again sometime"
Bring out your phone, open the keypad and give it to her. She is not a dunce, she will understand.

However keep thinking of her (with a strong desire to see her) and you will meet her again.
Try going to the bank again in 2 weeks.

LasoulMacuby:

Aite! But like I said I have not asked her to be my girlfriend yet. The messages I saw in my sisters phone just left me in the dark. So advice me now that my sister have told her am dying because of her, when I did not even open my mouth so say anything to her. . . I want to set a date with her, how do I go about it. I don't want her to have an idea am clearly heads over her

You haven't said anything and you don't need to,

You never ask a girl out, that's something that has been repeated on this thread, just act as if you already have her. Since you haven't met her i believe that you should try and make sure you guys see, don't let up on the teasing and the killer curve balls. Keep the attraction game to a maximum even when you're with her.

Even with your actions, you can clearly convey the message of "I like you, but i'm not dying for you and i can do without you if need be"

Bros, I don't understand. You like this girl and she likes you too. You have already won her over from what you are describing there?

What do you want again?


Advice:
Try and see her

HazzanTazzan:
fifth tip in the month of November...
its good to be professional in your field..

What do you do bro..

OP.

Have you dated another guy since that time?

Have you gone on dates with many other guys since then?

Have you slept with another guy since then?

Am

Right now in Enugu state.. MTN network is down. No calls, no texts, no browsing...
I've got three friends that have confirmed this.

Another friend just texted me all the way from Lagos state saying the same thing.

What's going on with MTN?

If you're experiencing the same thing drop your comments..

Chelseafan1:


Lol, just like u know ow it is with me
I saw her missed calls, chatted her on WhatsApp, next thing, I am just missing you ni.....


The other day she was complaining about not being happy nd dt she just wanted me to know.
The evil spirit in me wanted to tell her that whats my own na, she shud be telling her bf ds not me, but I just tot it wouldn't be nice.


How would you leave me for a yahoo guy that scams people to be happy.

Did she know he was a yahoo guy?

Chelseafan1:


The day i discovered that my lovely Ada has been cheating on me with a yahoo guy was when I called it quits.....i wont open my eyes and let one yeye girl ruin my life.

Lately shes been chatting me up, saying Hello dear, I miss you bla bla bla, me sef dey talk my own back but God forbid we get back together.

Olumaeme:

You don't even need to tell her it's over, just stop calling, delete her number, you can even leave her on BBM, after like a week or two she will be wondering why you have stopped caring and she will try to contact you back, you won't pick for The first 3 days and won't call back.
When u finally pick, tell her you busy with some jobs and all.. Go out and socialize, there are more women than men in this world, why would you let an ugly girl treat you like rag?
Since you have broken up with her, break up for good, but if she comes back bang her very well and don't give a shit.

But why do ladies do this? They will be the one to mess up and then want to come back again later?

They will start trying to contact you. Saying they miss you. They didn't miss you after they messed up, it's week a later.
And they still won't show any remorse for what they did o

alexjohnson4945:
i am very grateful to you all for your concern and advice, but those thinking its a madeup story it's not, really it isnt....

What made them issue me a query at work was because i planted myself at home for 3days, without going to work and even without any prior notice to my employees about my unforseen absence..

She was still in the compound all along for 4days,"Sunday evening till Wednesday" she left Wednesday evening, under my watchfull eyes, without her noticing.

she has been calling me all along till now, but i cant pick her calls or reply her messages..

Till now i feel my whole world has crashed...

And all through that time, you didn't even think of going to make sure that she sees you?

What? You didn't want to go because you didn't want it to be real?

I hope you gathered a lot of evidence in those three days! Type of Car, Address, Flat number, name of the person.

The Girl is heartless, but with time it will heal, it will take a lot of time and you may not see the silver lining in what happened but eventually you will.

What you're going to do is send her a text or whatsapp her with proof that you know she was not in Delta state.
And never pick her calls again since you were not courageous enough to go and make sure that she saw you while she was there.

Don't lose your Job.

Action begat Love. Do things as if you're in love and then the feelings will flow.

By the way, It's most likely that you're dissatisfied and you want more. What do you feel you're lacking in the relationship and what are the things that are catching your eyes out there?

BeautyBaebee:
.
hmmm. den wat do u tink I call it if not love @1st sight? I mean we never knew each other b4 o, our paths just crossed n he approached me, talked for a while, collected my number. a month later, we started dating.
well, maybe it was lust @1st sight. lol. buh it later turned to love. I can remember he told me he just wanted to play games with me wen d relationship was 4 months but he fell in love helplessly

no, I won't b okay seeing him with other ladies if we r still together

Love is grown over time, by seeing each other in both the good and the really bad times. Love is shown in endurance, shown in the commitment, which is a decision to be with the other person even when the feelings are not there.

What you probably feel for him is infatuation.

Here is a quote about Love to give you perspective.
Love is an action based on the Conviction of commitment not on the ebb and flow of emotion.

The emotion of feeling overwhelmingly drawn to someone, sexually turned on to them or fuzzy all over when they walk into the room or the thought of then comes to mind, is intermittent, fragile and too easily pushed aside by other competing emotions such as boredom, depression, health issues, financial circumstances, familiarity, annoyances and so forth.

It is the sense of obligation due to the seriousness of the commitment that provides the impetus for appropriate behavior in spite of momentary glitches in "that loving feeling"

And most importantly, it is the behaviors of loving that help stimulate and perpetuate those "loving feelings

BeautyBaebee:

I think I know him 1month plus b4 we started dating. it was love @1st sight. we were never frnds b4.

He doesn't cajole or persuade me into having sex with him, my NO is his NO n I can bet my life he's not cheating on me.

tho our relationship has its ups and downs lyk every other relationship buh now i just feel he's tired of d no-sex relationship, none of his actions really show it except for d statement he made which he later said it was a joke..

Since i dnt even understand my sexual life cos of this circumcision ish, i broke up to let him have his way with other ladies if dat will make him happy

Love at first sight doesn't exist..

If you see him with other ladies, you will be okay with that?

BeautyBaebee:


tnx dear
now lemme ansa ur questions
1. av been dating him 4 more dan a year. we met last year August.
2. yes I have told him. I told him sometime early dis year buh he thought it doesn't really affect me (guess cos of my faked moans or something)
3. yes, I love him with my life.

How long did you know him before you began dating him?

You do not want to have sex with him but you want to be with him. He should be able to understand and appreciate that if he truly loves you. If he is trying to pressure you into sex then he is trying to control you in one form, trying to bend you to his own personal wishes.

If you have carefully and clearly explained to him why you do not want to have sex and he still insisted came back to try to cajole you into giving it up then it means that your values do not align. And this leads to another absolute truth, if you two do not share core values in a relationship then it will come crashing down eventually.
You may get back together with him and he will be satisfying his urges somewhere and when you eventually find out, he will say it was an accident or any other lie.

Sex is not beans, sex brings lust, a powerful force that changes people.

Love is not about sex.

I saw a quote on twitter the other day,
A relationship is either heading for Marriage or Heartbreak, don't enter if you're not matured enough for either.

What is the point here? Ask yourself why you truly want this relationship. What is your reason for being in it? Is it fun, fun, ,companionship? Or can it stand the test of tough times eg. This one.

My Dear,

Maturity is a complex thing and in this life, one must know where he or she wants to be else he will end up being swayed by the tide of the society.

In this world, there are certain absolute truths that always prove themselves time and time again. Even if people's opinions disagree with them.

1. If you do no give him your virginity he will cheat on you.
Why is this true? because he has said it, and even though he said it is a joke, he only joked about it because it has crossed his mind before. He is a guy that has tasted sex and he has urges and lusts that he seeks to quench after all he is a guy.

2. There is love and there is mere infatuation, Love is seen in commitment and the decision to be loyal to someone after fully understanding them. Choosing to be with them in their good and bad times, even when the butterfly feelings are not there. Go to number 3 question below.

Now let me ask you a few questions.
1. How long have you been dating him?
2. Have you told him about being circumcised? If you haven't Why? Examine the reason as you are typing it for me.
3. Are you sure you really love this guy? or you're just loving the fact that you have a boyfriend?

Estharfabian:

eh, drunkFück, you mean?

you better be good at that
Else the drink would be a waste

Estharfabian:
lol. ouch!

you mean, we dated in the past? Must've been drunk Af

You drunk date?

isn't that what they call a one night stand?

Sometimes guys look at irrelevant things in a relationship.

You have an understanding girlfriend from what you have posted up there
So why is dis-virgining her suddenly important to you?
Why is it an issue?

Are you afraid that someone else will do it?
Are you afraid she is lying to you?
Is Konji that much for you that you cannot hold yourself?

Beamborla:

Yes, sir.

Good girl