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Beamborla:
That's callous of you.

It's not a taboo if you quietly left her alone the moment you caught her cheating. You wasted one year of her life screwing her for fun.

She cheated on you, you got someone else and kept screwing her. What makes you different for her? You also cheated on your new found love and let's assume she caught you as well and decided to keep giving you hope while she plans her marriage to another dude, would you still be feeling fly?

Look at your victim mentality.

You didn't even consider the fact that the guy was cheated on and what he might feel. Instead you sided with the girl and even said that he wasted one year of her life??!!!

I don't even know why the guy bothered to reply you.


Wasted one year of her life as if she would have done something better with it.
As if she wasn't screwing other guys while still screwing him.
As if she wasn't the first person that lied and cheated.
As if the guy that took her serious until she decided to cheat on him was a fool.
As if she would have repented and stopped cheating on him for that same year, had he not found out.


Her conscience did not even judge her about what she was doing until she realized she wasn't receiving as much money as she used to from him.
Is that the kind of person that you say has had one year of her life wasted?

You're not being objective in your reply. You're biased.

Beamborla:
It was a mutual agreement with an ulterior motive. Letting her go on the ground of cheating early enough could have taught her a lesson and brought her back to her senses thus, making her a better person.

Your immaturity is showing here. It's clear you don't even understand the psychology and behavioral patterns of cheats.
Letting her go would not bring her back to her senses. Ask all the nairaland guys on this forum.

Beamborla:
Why do we always choose the option of helping people spoil their lives more cos they choose that path?

Once again, the victim mentality.
So the guy spoilt her life now?

My dear, I advise that next time, you think properly and get some wisdom before you post on topics such as this..
Mtcheww

gabinogem:
Some just lack self-control... If u've ever dated a nymphomaniac u certainly will understand what I mean. The love is there but the will to control herself sexually isn't. Same applies to guys.

Yes Bro. You're Correct.

We've got them in threads like this one.

https://www.nairaland.com/3164174/advice-pls-images-should-he

https://www.nairaland.com/2167719/should-confront-shut-up-keep

Abeg share your friends story jor.
Even if na inside one of those threads.

PaulKillerman:
. U no dey follow Me na, I opened a thread on that the following day, I forked the hell out Of her!!!

Your nigga still dey mumu with the girl or im don wise up.

HARDDON:
live rehearsed and ready, lines must from , wisdom must win.....

before i answer u, know this: most times, what guys like me are really after is the excitement the challenge of meeting a new breed brings which vanishes the moment we get them! then we try again!

Noted. Now awaiting answer.

As soon as she said she wanted to leave with a long face, you should have walked to the door and opened it for her with a look of boredom and disinterest.

Show her she's not the only one good at mind games.

Winnelyn:
If you want to report the crime, notify the police immediately, Reporting the crime can help you regain a sense of personal power and control
Or you can aswel Call a friend, a family member, or someone else you trust who can be with you and give you support. Shikina

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Seems. You're not in this country.

First. Rape victims are always scared to report things like this especially when it happened in his house.
They feel like they are opening up themselves for ridicule and stigma.

And the bonded above makes things even more complicated when reporting to the police in this country.

PaulKillerman:
Others were more interested in throwing jibes and casting aspersions towards me instead of offering advice , thus my remark ...

I understand all you wrote...

But then again, I cannot be "sounding" educated ... As we were not verbally communicating, that is rather inappropriate .... The better word should be "your write-up portends you educated ". Or " you seem educated from your write-ups" ..... Nobody sounds from writing ....

Thought I should realign you unto the right path on that grammatical blunder.... Stay blessed @ laribari

Two months don pass. Bruh. You later fork the biatch?

HARDDON:
always live ready.....armed with wits and wisdom!


when u step out , no matter where u heading, have two things at the back of your mind: your aim and the beauties that might greet u along the way.... beauties you might live never to set ur eyes on again!


so i throw back the question to you: is the market place a good place to meet gurls? v

Alright baba.

Let me quiz you a bit.
What are the lines you can use for the following scenarios.

A. You see her standing in an atm queue in a bank at the other side of the road while you're walking past.

B. You're walking on the sidewalk and she's walking towards you and you just happened to spot her just before she passes you.
Do you turn back and go and stop her?

C. Same scenario as B but this time it's inside the hustle and hustle of the market and there is every possibility that everyone around would know what you're doing.

D. You see a pretty female corper in the LG office area. It's her CDS day.

Baba. Is the market a good place to meet girls?

Imagine you're doing your shopping in a busy local market and you see a fine girl that catches your eye.

There are a lot of them actually.

TrapHedges:
Lols it's normal tbh.. When I was in high school my ex wanted to date the entire guys in my clique..


But now.. We laugh and shake hands if we find out our friend bleeped our Bae

So it's normal for most girls?

To have eyes for thier BFs friends?

Guys and ladies.
Let me intro with a Short story.

During the time that I and my ex were having problems due to distance. She was still in school while I was out. My good friend was the link between us, sometimes being the one that went to talk to her during moments when we weren't talking and checking up on her if she's distressed at my asking.
They both me while I was still in school

Recently my friend told me something.
During that period, he was looking for a house, my ex said something to him, that when he gets a house that she will be coming to hang out there and even crashing there. Infact that she will even give him a key.

She never told me that she said something like that to him and he never did too. He told me that he didn't think that it was important (He's like that, because of many thoughts in his head, he forgets some things much later).
Personally I noticed that she flirts with him sometimes but it's just her usual name calling, that even she told me.

Note that he's a guy that isn't interested in females that much, in fact at all. And he told my ex clearly during the initial stages of their interaction that nothing can happen between them.

Though he told me that all he needs to do now is to dedicate one week to calling her seriously and she would fall. With the only reservation on her part being that she dated me which he believed would be removed with more pressure.

So Guys in the house?
Ever dated a girl that you suspected that she was attracted to your friend right there in your front?

Ever had your friend bang your girl?

Have you ever confronted your girl about her flirting with your friends?

Ladies have you ever been attracted to your BFs friend while dating him?

abbeyology88:
Know why?


Cos I always ask myself one question "do you think it's easy to keep yourself in a relationship"


Any young boy and a young girl who are dating have 99.98% assurance of slipping out of it in no time.


Well, it is normal anyway.

And why is it so hard?

Fellow Nairalanders. I'm putting this question out. Have you fallen out of Love with someone? Has someone fallen out of Love with you before?
What are your opinions about what you think are the reasons for such?

The story below as told to me by a friend is the reason that makes me curious. You can skip right to making comments if you are unable to read it.


I dated this girl for 10 months, it was wonderful, great sex, with it's ups and it's downs. I loved her and she loved me too.

I graduated and thus left school(we both schooled in the same place) , had to go for service so I left the state back to my base. One month later after we saw, she claimed that she didn't feel the passion in our relationship like she used to, she said the spark was there as it was before. She said she felt restricted, that she isn't ready for a relationship, that we should just be friends.
She said she felt that there was some things that she wanted to tell me but she couldn't because she didn't want to upset me, that if I was her bestfriend she could tell me.
She is someone that has suffered from depression and is susceptible to it sometimes and she was going through one then.
I told her to give me a week to consider the best friend thing and then after the week, I told her that I couldn't do it and we stopped talking.

12 days later a friend of mine who I had out in place to look after her was with her and when I called, he said she wanted to talk to me and then she said she missed me, missed talking to me, I asked her what she wanted and she said she wanted us to keep being friends and she also wanted a relationship with me.
So on we were for a month during which she always told. Me she loved me.
till I finally saw her, we had sex and after that her mood changed, she said she "Expected more", that when she saw me that she expected her heart to skip a beat since she hadn't seen me in a long while, but it didn't, she was happy to see me but other than that she felt nothing.

I asked her to explore those feelings and ask herself when it started
She said it started back then when she first broke up with me, she said she felt a disconnection, and although she knew she was letting her issues enter the relationship, she still felt it.
She said the feelings responsible for it were dissatisfaction, depression and anxiety.
She deleted my number when we broke up and she never saved it again, she said she knew it off head but she couldn't save it as she once did with "mi Vida" which means "my life" because she wasn't sure and she couldn't bear to save it with just my name.
The bottom line was that she didn't love me anymore.
According to my friend, she was crying on the phone when they spoke. Why she was crying, I don't know she wasn't the one hurt.

That's it, She just fell out of Love, whether it's because of the long distance or something else. A mystery.

Lalasticlala

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Naruto can marry hinata but Ino should definitely be his Hokage personal assistant.

What will make this vision a success is competition.

Set up a competition for software creation and attach a huge prize money to it

Op can you expanciate more on self confidence. How can a guy who doesn't have it get it?
And what does it mean to water the seed to germinate and plant it. What exactly are the guidelines for following up

Tallesty1: I have heard something like that, a guy wanted to call one lady but a friend told him not to. His friend said he slept with the lady many times before handing her over to his friend. About six other guys there said thesame thing. they all had slept with her. It didn't sound good at all.

And the girl just continued doing that and in the end wabts to come out and form clean girl. Don't they bother to check their guy they roll with?

To the guys now she is just cheap trash and she doesn't know that that is how she is seen

lirusehn:
Like seriously!! Thank God u knw it's not all girls.

Urs is a Public Dog i guess, buh God knowz my aint like that.

thank you

Always endeavour to consult your brain whenever you are making a post on nairaland, you post like a retard

We Guys share a lot of Intel among each other (Ladies call it gossiping)
But among our close friends we tend to tell each other about our escapades and exploits especially in the University environment and many a time, there are girls whom we know who and who they have slept with even among guys in our circles especially for the loose ones.

For example you see a girl and you say you like her and your friend suddenly tells you "that girl? She's slept with almost all the bad guys I know" or "that girl is a runs girl"

The question I found myself suddenly asking is, do these girls know that the more they sleep with guys, that even guys they do not know, know who they have been with and it must all find a way back to the person they don't want to know. Yet these girls just carry on like that, hopping from one guy to the next, getting carried away by their beauty yet they still want to appear respectable outside meanwhile they don't realize that the guy they are talking to might just know the guy she gave a Mouth Gig last week.

Don't they take this into consideration or do they not just care?

We re arguing whether Sasuke will beat Hashirama which we know to be true instead of arguing who will win between Sasuke and Naruto.

Now remember kishi has always wanted Sasuke to be the Hokage and the series is named after naruto so we don't know where the plot no jutsu will fall.

Personally I believe Naruto will trash Sasuke why? Because he has the element of surprise. Some people are going to be confused by that statement

Tosyn007: You have the floor, educate me

Bro go and watch the sasuke and itachi vs kabuto fight again and then come.

So you think after seeing the kind of questions that Sasuke asked orochimaru and the first update that what he is looking for is still power? And that everything he is doing ends with just Power?

Sasuke is no longer that boy that was just searching for Power to rule the world. Something profound happened to him when the Itachi he had spent his life pursuing still called himself the Itachi of the village that had caused him so much pain..

Sasuke was given a breakdown of what caused the state of the world and being a different personality from Naruto adding to the fact that he has not been exposed to the same experiences (people wise e. G.jiraiya hinata) he made his conclusion.

Sasuke wants peace but he has always been a all or nothing person, that is why he wants to destroy the people that foster the struggle and the things that represent the struggle. He has found a flaw in the while setup according to him and is not seeking to redeem it or save it but to wipe everything off and start a clean slate with just the people and his leadership

Feraz: So the Madara he fought was what? A byakugan user? Hashirama isn't overhyped here. We all know Sasuke will floor him as at now but you made it sound like he is not going to sweat doing that.

Definitely, I know Sasuke is way past him now but I only replied when he exaggerated about him owing Hashirama in a minute.

Come feraz is this you?

Sasuke won't sweat to do it. The harashima I remember was immobilized by a madara that just had the rinnegan and had not even become the juubi jinchuriki.

Tosyn007: You aint getting it still...Kaguya had good intentions but power demonized her, Madara also believed that if he has the power, he can instill peace, so he went for it by all means. Power and the thirst for it corrupts ones mind. Sasuke went to Orochimaru for Power, joined Akatsuki for more power. The dude's major ish is power and just like Madara, he's using other things to carpet that thirst.

If this is what you can come up with then you yourself don't even understand Sasuke.

See people hyping harashima,

Where was harashima during the time of incomplete Obito and then the complete madara?

Now we have Sasuke that has just raised 9 beasts into the air and will probably hang them there via his power.

Give credit to whom credit is due, harashima has never fought a rinnegan user one on one.

nani667: you said before that Hashirama won't last against the current "Godlike" Sasuke...., that's severely underestimating Hashirama..... If you ask me A Hashirama at his prime would never lose to this Sasuke, remember that this same Hashirama defeated Madara at his prime Irrespective of the fact that Madara had the Eternal Mangekyou Sharingan plus Ultimate Susano plus the Full Kyuubi (no be the half wey dey inside Naruto).... Despite all that firepower Hashirama still defeated Madara...... So if you ask me the current shinobi ranking still remains ➡ Naruto >>>>>>>>> Hashirama >>>> Sasuke ✔

Sasuke will crush Harashima in a minute e

Tosyn007: Someone accused me earlier of being a Naruto fan boy, now someone else is painting me a Sasuke fanboy

You misunderstood, I'm only trying to look at things from his POV. Cos I did that doesn't mean I'm saying he's right morally. But he's got a case.



Did you read this post?

Yes I read that post and that is why I made my comment.
Sasuke had no case, Sasuke was at one point during the thick of the war, the most naive person In the Naruto universe. He was fighting kabuto and all he wanted to know was what happened to itachi and the Uchiha when the world has moved way past that to something bigger. Sasuke is still a child in his reasoning.. Between Naruto and Sasuke who understands more the Pain that each village has gone through from hatred and the many wars and the significance of the Gokages coming together?

Mtcheww Sasuke is just an ignorant brat

Reading all that Tosyn is typing I am very disappointed in him, he is not thinking logically, he is just supporting and rationalizing what Sasuke is doing...
Smh

See the reason he gave for Sasuke wanting to clear the Gokages hahaha.


Everything Sasuke is doing now, he already said he was going to do, he is trying to destroy what he feels is responsible for the current state of the world. What he doesn't know is that he is wrong and he is just going to become another rabbit demoness