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Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

Bluezy13:
Biased and selfish mods!!


They wouldn't do same if a shrine was raised down

okusebi:
Hello everyone, today is a happy day and i feel like sharing the good news with you guys, some time ago i created a topic https://www.nairaland.com/2247427/advice.....found-out-cgpa-miscalculated-after#up about an issue where i needed advise about discovering that my CGPA was wrongly calculated after collection of transcript.

Well i took your advise and i decided to get a lawyer, first i tried doing it my self but the school was unresponsive. My lawyer wrote several letters to them including action to go to court if the CGPA is not recalculated.

Well, finally it has been recalculated after 4 years of graduation, formally it was 3.4, now it is 3.51 which second class upper division, i am so happy, although i have lost several opportunities because of this great error from Delta State university. i look into the positive light that everything happens for a reason.

Bluezy13:
Coming like brainwashed sheeples

9jayes:
The whites who brought religion to Nigeria have long abandoned it, I watched a program on discovery TV where the presenter were asking people on the street of London if they believe in God, at least 75% of them said they don't believe.

You see white man will name his son Jesus but here in Nigeria it's a taboo to name your child Jesus why?

HoodBillionaire:
God abeg o
u go fear fear
give wohala problem
nawa o
see am men don almost wan pieces d truck
i dey imagine how those car thieves dey pieces car sell am shaps
too much hunger in d land.
btw wtf is 400k
money wey go finish under 2weeks

Bluezy13:
Cleanliness is individualistic; what a man may see as cleanliness, another man may see as uncleanliness. Eg. Some people prefer their their offices scattered because they easily locate their stuff.

Cleanliness is ambiguous; There is no criterion for lineating cleanliness; one may see manual breaking of a fowl's neck before cooking it as being clean (eg. the Religions), while others may see it as unclean and rather prefers slitting a fowl's throat in order to allow the blood drip into the earth (eg. Christians). Some people prefer grooming their hair or beards without trimming while some others prefer shaving it.
Cleanliness varies with circumstances and due to its ambiguity, one cannot with certainty, unequivocally limit cleanliness to a particular situation.


It is your personal criterion for cleanliness but it isn't the man's own. And the woman prefers it that way. Your view of cleanliness cannot directly or indirectly affect him/them.

Deal with the it and
Learn to mind your business!!

zicoraads:
He should at least shave. It's a picture for the ages for FFSs. And then see how that trousers is looking? Yikes!

Amberon11:
Some people are just really stupid bringing up all sorts of nonsense to discredit this. Look at the first picture closely, he wasn't balanced at all. If he was standing on a rope, wouldn't he have fallen.

LuvU2:
If this isn't pure magic then there must be some scientific explanation to this. Hoping no one calls him Jesus of kenya though!

ELKHALIFAISIS:
wow her swollen leg look romantic... Indian mortuary boys go please themselves on this Lady... go boys go boys nah free food... meanwhile rest in peace

BlackPantherxXx:

I won't reply you with insults because i am different.

I would leave people to judge. You created 13 monikers today just for me.

You need this article badly.

I reported you simply because you boasted of raping the kids of your neighbours and getting away with it.

I hope you eventually get the psychiatric help you need badly

BigSarah:
I admire your unbridled stupidity

izzou:


This woman has about 13 years experience in fighting for herself, her family and her pocket

Rubbish politicians

luckygirl02:
People are willing to kill and even die for what they believe in. I am a muslim and I won't even think twice to denounce my religion if the need arise, because religion is nothing but mental slavery. At this point in my life, I have come to realize that the biggest religion is LOVE, for yourself and for others.

kenex4ever:
this is how to know his fans

Iceman2017:
Igbo's are civilise. They don't believe in the dirty politics we play in Nigeria. Reconstruct Nigeria today and see Igbo's fully involve in politics in a sane way.

Iceman2017:
Just give Igbo's mantle of leadership in any field, they would do better.
Nigeria is where we are because they failed to recognise the importance of an Igbo man.

Nathdoug:
WHY APC IS STRONGER THAN PDP 1). It took PDP 16 years to make a dollar = N197, but it took APC just 1 year to make a dollar N350.... 2). It took PDP 16 years to destroy Nigeria, but it took APC just 1 year to massacre, dismantle, kill and bury Nigeria. ... 3). It took PDP 16 years to make fuel price N87 per litre, but it took APC 1yr to make fuel N145 per litre. ... 4). It took PDP 16 years to make Nigeria corrupt, but it took APC just 1 year to make Nigeria fantastically corrupt. 5). It took PDP 16 years to keep the price of rice at N7,000 per bag, but took APC 1 year to project it to N18,000 per bag. 6). It took Jonathan 5yrs to travel to 15 countries, but it took Buhari 1 year to travel to 30 countries. 7). It took PDP 16years to apply resounding economic policies that made banks grow, but took APC 1 year to apply policies which they beg banks not to sack more staff. CONCLUSIVELY: I am beginning to think that while PDP is better in administration, APC is better in opposition, that's why APC is still campaigning, blaming, promising and playing opposition party despite being the ruling party after three years.