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Romance / Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by dbaruwa(m): 11:13am On Aug 11, 2021 |
larryeffizy1: At this stage in a man's life, it's normal to have such fear and this is a good sign that u know what u are really going into. I'm saying this out of experience. I've been married for close to 12yrs now and trust me u are not out of place to have such a feeling, I had it back then. At this point u should be able to identify or highlight ur fears about marriage such infidelity, financial capability (ie economic considerations), family pressure, fear of a broken home etc etc (they are so numerous to count). One big question I asked myself back then in 2008 was whether I was matured enough to take up d responsibilities that marriage will throw at me (maturity in terms of wisdom and economic independence). If the answer is yes, then there is another big question In terms of my character and attitude, will I marry someone that has my kind of attitude/character ( ie if u are cheat, a liar etc) If the answer is yes then u are good to go. Start a relationship that is not premised on marriage and see how it goes. Whoever u wish to spend d rest of ur life must be ur best friend. So d relationship has to be devoid of any secret from both sides no matter how bad d secret is. Nothing blossoms a relationship like good and adequate communication. Remember u must not get 100% of all d qualities u need in ur partner. These are some of the qualities that are very important u should look out for in ur would be wife. 1. Is she honest.... Test her on that (there are still honest girls out there) if she is very good 2. What is her relationship with her dad. If she has no good relationship with her dad, she will never respect u as a man and her husband 3. Is she always after what she can gain in d relationship or what will make both of u grow in d relationship 4. Does she keep too many friends. If she does bro that's a red flag 5. Is she always influenced by her family members or peer pressure. If she is bro u will not only be marryingher but in addition other people 6. Check her birth position in d family and see if u can financially bear taking care of the younger siblings assuming she is the first. Lastly remember, marriage is not for boys and u can't succeed without the owner of the institution who is GOD. Prayer is very very vital Like I said earlier I've been married to my best friend for close to 12yrs and blessed with 4 wonderful kids. We've gone through d good nd d bad times and it only made our relationship stronger. I hope this helps 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by dbaruwa(m): 9:06am On May 07, 2021 |
Chloraseptic: The answer should be yes because when u are scheduled for interview, u will definitely provide the evidence of ur medical report |
Romance / Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by dbaruwa(m): 4:06pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Escabado: From ur reasoning, I don't think u are upto 18 years. Period. 1 Like 1 Share |
Travel / Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by dbaruwa(m): 4:31pm On Feb 15, 2021 |
xcesspower: Sorry point of correction, u left Naija for the best. Congratulations and many more wins. 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Putin Finally Congratulates Biden On US Election Victory by dbaruwa(m): 3:32pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Dedetwo: Ipob miscreant sited.... |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Melania Trump Unveils Christmas Decorations At The White House (photos) by dbaruwa(m): 10:36am On Dec 01, 2020 |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: GSA Tells Biden That Transition Can Formally Begin by dbaruwa(m): 1:20am On Nov 24, 2020 |
Ebenezer2021: Abeg who unlock dis mad man from his chains? 5 Likes |
Politics / Re: Pastor Tunde Bakare: I Will Become President Like Joe Biden In 2023 by dbaruwa(m): 7:40pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
EmekaA125: Trump is a SORE LOSER period! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Pastor Tunde Bakare: I Will Become President Like Joe Biden In 2023 by dbaruwa(m): 7:38pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
BigBabyJesus: Na ur Papa be idiot because if he had bought N30 condom, things like u would have been avoided. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: International Election Experts Invited By Trump Says The Election Was Honest by dbaruwa(m): 7:40am On Nov 11, 2020 |
FarahAideed: Guy go and take ur drugs. 2 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: US Election: Pompeo Promises ‘Smooth Transition To Trump’s Second Term’ by dbaruwa(m): 11:56pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
fourboys: Ipob lazy youth sighted |
Travel / Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by dbaruwa(m): 10:00am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Timiofak: Yes he will b able to do it easily through executive order just as Trump used executive orders to effect changes in immigration |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Trump: When ISIS Attacks Vatican, "You Would Wish I Was Elected President" by dbaruwa(m): 9:15am On Oct 08, 2020 |
emmachukwu99: Give name and evidence or go check in a rehab center |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Trump: When ISIS Attacks Vatican, "You Would Wish I Was Elected President" by dbaruwa(m): 8:57am On Oct 08, 2020 |
Dotng: U forgot the main bone of contention which is that he spearheaded d avoidable deaths of 210,000 Americans and fanned the ember of systemic racism. Let me tell u if Americans don't vote for Biden, we will see another Valdmir Putin in America |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Trump: When ISIS Attacks Vatican, "You Would Wish I Was Elected President" by dbaruwa(m): 8:24am On Oct 08, 2020 |
DexterousOne: Trump is a conman. Someone who thrives politically in creating fear, chaos, division and conspiracies. Under him US has been subjected to ridicule. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Trump: When ISIS Attacks Vatican, "You Would Wish I Was Elected President" by dbaruwa(m): 8:22am On Oct 08, 2020 |
DexterousOne: Trump is a conman. Someone who thrives politically in creating fear and conspiracies 2 Likes 1 Share |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Trump: When ISIS Attacks Vatican, "You Would Wish I Was Elected President" by dbaruwa(m): 8:20am On Oct 08, 2020 |
uniqueboi1: Yes he outperformed Obama by killing over 210,000 Americans. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Nigeria overtakes India as world capital for under-five deaths by dbaruwa(m): 7:16pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
iramure: Religion is our problem simple 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Nigeria overtakes India as world capital for under-five deaths by dbaruwa(m): 7:15pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
athaboi: Shebi Minister of Health had directed hospitals to employ corpers and house officers to replace the striking doctors? Na now mortality rate go wear mask I swear |
Health / Re: Enugu Government Moves To Recruit More Nurses by dbaruwa(m): 5:07pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
How can Enugu state government employ new nurses when they have refused to pay the ones that are working for them. Currently nurses, lab scientists, pharmacists, administration staff, cleaners etc are on strike due to very poor renumeration. Gburugburu no try abeg. Ask questions about people working their for u not to say had I known. 8 Likes |
Health / Enugu State Healthcare Worker Are On Strike by dbaruwa(m): 4:35pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
I went to Enugu State Teaching Hospital Parklane this morning for an appointment with my doctor only to find out that all their healthcare workers under JOHESU are on strike since yesterday 1st September 2020. On inquiry I was made to know that for many years now that they have been begging the state government to pay them their conhess entitlement just like other healthcare institutions within and outside the state have been enjoying for years. Information I got revealed that they planned striking few months ago but were promised by the state government that a committee has been created to look into the problem and get back to them. July salary was paid and it was only the doctors whom having been enjoying 10percent conhess with them were paid 100%. All efforts they made towards understanding why government would decide to pay doctors 100% conhess and leave them with 10% proved futile instead the government has threatened to sack them and employ new people. Well this is a one-sided story but if by any chance it is true, it is very bad. Doctors can't even work without cleaners let alone nurses, lab scientists, pharmacists etc. The state government should avoid getting Parklane to a state where patients will start avoiding the hospital because of high number of deaths as was in the past. I pray that the Governor of Enugu state should look into there case and do the needful because what is good for the geese is also good for the gander. |
Travel / Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by dbaruwa(m): 4:29pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
Vixlot: It so unfortunate that even uptill now, we youths are yet to realize how badly damaged our image is among comity of nations. We are being avoided more than covid-19 around the world. The earlier we wake up and stand for what is right the better for us. Let's not heap all the blame on the leaders. The question should be "what have I done as an individual in my own little to better the image of Nigeria" 5 Likes |
Properties / Re: Can 2 Million Naira Build Me A 3 Bedroom Bungalow? by dbaruwa(m): 4:02pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nezero: Less than 1500 blocks for a 3 bedroom flats? Guy na lie |
Politics / Re: Gabe Okoye Runs For US Senate (Photos) by dbaruwa(m): 5:21pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Psalmistproject: They already have an upper hand towards November election. Otherwise Trump wouldn't be suggesting delay in the election. If US election is to hold btw today and November 3rd, Donald Trump will receive a resounding defeat. I mean a credible election. Trump is a disaster to Americans. Where do I start? Is it in the handling of the pandemic or BLM. Is it the way he has been handling America's allies, his bullying form of foreign policies. He is a racist to the core. That America is what it is today is because of immigrants. To summarize all these, Donald Trump is an American experiment gone wrong, a spoilt brat who was handed a business empire by his dad and a puppet installed in the White House by Putin |
Politics / Re: Gabe Okoye Runs For US Senate (Photos) by dbaruwa(m): 4:11pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
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Sports / Re: Nneka Ede Buys Lusitano Ginasio Football Clube For An Undisclosed Fee by dbaruwa(m): 5:27pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Sports / Re: Nneka Ede Buys Lusitano Ginasio Football Clube For An Undisclosed Fee by dbaruwa(m): 5:25pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Programming / Re: At 40, Can I Still Learn Programming And Be Good At It? by dbaruwa(m): 2:01pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
romeo411: Absolutely yes u can. I started at 40 and 1'm doing well amazingly 4 Likes |
Education / Re: Ikechukwu Nwachukwu Dikko Wins US President's Award, Gets Letter From Trump by dbaruwa(m): 1:56pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SmartProf: IGBO AMAKA hooooo haaa 2 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by dbaruwa(m): 10:13am On Jul 11, 2020 |
listowell: Must u showcase ur stupidity where ever u go? This thing spewing this rubbish would have being avoided by buying N30 condom. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by dbaruwa(m): 10:26am On Jul 09, 2020 |
Compu001: The ban is really frustrating everyone. My wife passed her NCLEX this February but her agency refused to file for her because of the ban. Though they told her from the information they are getting that Nigerian might be taken off the list in October which is the next time the Department of Homeland security will review their security situation. So my advise is for her to keep up and pray. It"s only a matter of time 5 Likes |
Health / Re: Coronavirus: Body Of Nigerian Nurse In US Removed From Her Home (Video) by dbaruwa(m): 11:49am On May 06, 2020 |
Adonispco: This thing spewing this rubbish would have been avoided if ur father had spent just N30 for condom.... 2 Likes |
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