Silentgroper:
you sound pained

The real problem now is why are you pained

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

Silentgroper:


Who says female commit these days.. they just pretend until they're tired of pretending and boom, they disappear.. na you go come they nurse a broken heart ...


Naso my cousin enter toilet locked himself up there and was crying after one girl show am shege .. Since then, guyman no dey do commitment oo .. my guy just dey pack dem upandan until it feels right with one of them...

PesinPikin84:
Apologies for the long post. I need advice, please.

I am asking for advice on a family situation I am having now. I am a resident physician in the U.S. and currently in training. My husband is also a physician and is applying for training in the country I am at. He is unlikely to get a position in the same state I am in because my hospital's program is very competitive. He has worked very hard to come to be in the U.S. but his journey has not been smooth. Not too long ago, I made an agreement with him that if the U.S. does not work for him, I will finish my residency training then follow him to whatever country he decides to relocate to. I have always wanted to subspecialize, and I mentioned that I will do the subspecialty training in whatever country he is. By God's grace he will get a residency training position soon, but it will not be in the same state where my training is now.

We were having a conversation today and I mentioned that I will do everything in my power to get subspecialty training in the state he gets placement, but if I don't then I will do my one year subspecialty training anywhere I get in the U.S., then come back to wherever he is to work. He is now saying that I am going against our agreement of following him wherever he goes and bringing in the technicality that my subspecialty training is just one year. Throughout our relationship even before marriage, I have always felt like I had to prove that my family will be above my career. He brought up a fight we had when we were engaged and he was having challenges coming into the U.S. I mentioned that I really want to train in the U.S., and that I will not marry him if I don't fulfill this dream. I took his continuing with the marriage as him understanding my position about the direction I wanted my life to go, but it was after the marriage that I learned that he took it to mean that I love my career more than him or raising a family. As God will have it, he is now finally in the U.S. with me and pursuing his own dream to train here too, even thought things have not been easy.

I love my job and I want to be good at it. I don't believe that choosing to finish my training is putting my career above my family. I even told him that if I was thinking about career, then I will be thinking of the reputation of where I will do my subspecialty training over first working towards wherever he is. He said that my insisting on subspecialty training against our earlier agreement shows why he does not trust me that my family is first. The funny thing is that it is unlikely for me not to get a subspecialty position wherever he ends up in his training. My subspecialty is not something a lot of people pursue, so there are always more positions than applicants, but that is the field I love. I feel like I always have to prove myself that I am trustworthy whenever any issue comes up about my job. He is insisting that if family was truly first, then I would never even consider applying to anywhere that will not be close to him. I sincerely want people's opinions because I feel that he does not trust my loyalty to building a family. We don't yet have children but I fear that this talk about my career vs family will always be an issue when we do. We have been married for a year and half now. I see it as just one year of training for something I really want to do, and that it is not against the initial agreement of following him to whatever country or place he is. He says I am adding something we did not talk about and changing the agreement. Am I overthinking things and am I being selfish? Please, what are people's thoughts on this matter?

Topshow2010:
The over pampered postgraduate medical students have started again ,they are just the tools their supervisor (consultants and association (NMA) used to blackmailed d govt in doing their bidding).....Even with their fat salaries ,their greed are never ending...

imam07:
But ibo people dey tell us they don't do adultery. Ibos sha they like to be different in all things. They told us once an ibo woman is warried, she put an end to all these nonsense. What news are we hearing from them now. Internet don dey expose their lies.

oldienavie:


You are funny, a 35 year old woman, who spent the last 5 years from mountain to mountain looking for husband, finds a 45 year old man who is willing to marry her, you think that kind of lady will care wether the man has zero sperm ?

Teeexquisite:
Please I need help and suggestions!


Hormones profile test shows that he has low testosterone, high LH and FSH.

Please has anyone dealt with this and what steps did you take?

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town, she wouldn't quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or at least every other day.

I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday I summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house. Before she could reply, I told her, 'learn to stay where you belong! I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.

This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

Isabi4lov:
Rehesus factor is another angle to look out , if a lady is negative and meets with a positive man , I learnt that there is an injection for her to take after birthing her first child, failure to do so she won't be able to conceive again except for miracle or she meets with a man that has the same rehesus factor with her.

Medical personnels in the house can as well enlighten us in that aspect.

DLuciano:


Sterling Bank should shut-up their dirty ass! Damage control to their criminality? Let the bank be penalized!

MrMcJay:
ICPC said they discovered 250M of new notes in the bank HQ vault. If not for poverty mentality, how much is 250M for God's sake?
Money that is not up to what ATMS on Admiralty Way or Allen dispense in 2 hours.

Reminds me of a story of some Policemen sent to protect defaced Naira notes meant to be destroyed. They got there and one of them fainted when he saw Naira notes being destroyed.

UnfairLife7:
My pregnant neighbour has been so restless and sick having discovered she's carry twin


This neighbour of mine is pregnant with 6 other kids. She has been finding it difficult to feed her family including her 6 children. Her husband is an electrician and plumber but he hasn't been getting job inorder to take care of his family. The children had been out of school for several years

as been thinking so much and she doesn't eat well. This has affected her health conditions.



Please what's your advice for this woman and her family

baroun04:
House
- can I get a deposit account details for fbn quest Money market fund
can I get a deposit account details for arm Money market fund

Akwaokukuo:
I was just going through my Facebook around 4am and noticed that someone tagged my so called girlfriend and her husband and congratulated them on their wedding which happened on 7th January.
She wasn't the one that posted, she was tagged to the post.
This is the highest shock of my life this year.
As in, is this happening? or am I dreaming?
How could she be in a serious relationship and still kept on acting along and toying with my emotion?
She was recommended to me last month around 15th December, what is the big deal in telling me that she is not single so that I move on with my life as fast as possible?
She was chatting romantically with me all these while and giving me all the green light and even sending hug and kiss emojis and my head was swelling.
Thank you all for your wonderful responses

emmasoft:


I'm not sure if they have any app. Everything can be done on their website (Gtfundmanagers). Sign in using your details from ione, you will be fine.

emmasoft:


Underlying assets of MMF are valued on business days not weekends/holidays hence interest only changes during weekdays, but be rest assured your investment earns interest everyday weekends and public holidays inclusive.

However, interests earned on weekends and public holidays will reflect on your accrued account the next business day.

nwaimoroseyaho:
A friend I met online sent items from Dubai. He sent me pictures and videos and equally the receipt of purchase. He sent through Emirate.
I got a text I should come and pick the item up at the Abuja international airport while I stay in the east.
I asked them to make a home delivery and the sent a personal account number to me.
I am confused here. Is this how Emirate delivery is done. I don't want to be scammed.

Osidoshit:
Well, who no know this man will be saying weytin the wife or women dey do no good...with the little i know of him during my time working as a supervisor in one of a 3 star hotel in lagos...this man na regularly customer, always cheating like 3 times a week with different babes. Telme which wife with the right sense go stay with a cheats like him, make she come die from unknown disease abi ....taaaa sharrap julius

dimeji1:
This CBN guy should just answer this question. He keeps saying 80% of the currency is outside the bank's vault. How did this happened? You have a policy in place that charges 2% on customer that wants to deposit more than 500k in a day and yet CBN is wondering why 80% of the currency is outside the bank's vault

People can't deposit there money in bank because of that policy. I can't pay 2% on deposit over 500k. This guy should have been sacked a long time ago.

ModCaller:


Is Inflation not real to you? Nigeria's currency is not like other country's currencies. Inflation is the cause. A kilo of chicken is over 3000 naira. That is over 15% of that 20k you call big money. Gallon of red oil nko? Our highest denomination is 1000 Naira. Bag of rice don swallow the 20k sef.

Guy e be like say you be foreigner. Out of touch with reality just like those CBN mofos

Dee60:


Apt.
In those villages and small towns you hardly have anyone with 20k cash. They dont have ATMs anyway, so how does small ATM cash withdrawal affect them? For those who are educated and capable, use e-channels and for their relatives, use the cash limit to take care of loved ones in the village. Cash is going out in some countries.

olaeffect:
You cannot pay local daily transport fare with transfer.
Transport unions do cash collections daily in excess of N....m in Lagos alone.
So for some people presumed to be the target of this policy to raise cash is actually very possible.

And CBN never said you could not withdraw above the threshold, they only said you will be charged or you will be required to fill some forms.

sisisioge:
How about you too sleeping out sometimes, that way you guys can address the issue or non issue together. Too much werey spouses lately. Give him a doze of his medicine or blank out like you have no care in the world

olaadi:
good evening everyone, everyone please i need your advice on how to deal with my family issues, my husband most time pass the night away from home, he will leave me and two kids home and sleep outside without any good reason. have tried to talk to him and even speak with his parents but his not changing his ways. how can i deal with this guys